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- Question: Grandparents: who do you love more? Your daughter's kids or your son's kids?
- Question: My mom just caught me watching midget porn?
- Question: Am I a bad person for being jealous over this?
- Question: Is King Friday XIII and Lady Elaine Fairchilde From Mister Rogers Neighborhood Related? They share close personalities.?
- Question: Help? I'm being locked in my room by my parents for eating all the chocolate cake?
- Question: I'm a college student and I don't want to stay with my dysfunctional family during break, but feel guilty because mom is lonely...advice?
- Question: My aunt passed away on February of this year, and my dad is still sad over it?
- Question: What is wrong with my cousin?
- Question: How to deal with family members asking for money from my fiance?
- Question: How do you handle jealous, gossipy family, who only seem to want to hurt you?
- Question: Brother broke my toilet???? Help?
- Question: What should I do if my family and my husband's family doesnt like each other?
- Question: How do i tell my father nicely to stop calling my by weird pet names??
- Question: If I asked a Lyft driver to be picked up or dropped off at the West Tower of a hospital. How difficult would that be for them to find?
- Question: Was my mom in the wrong with my dad?
- Question: Worst birthday ever?
- Question: Would you buy a christmas present for a parent that always treats you bad?
- Question: Should I be mad a somebody about this?
- Question: My parents have sex, around me in the dark, and on vacay.?
- Question: Is it disrespectful to masturbate in the bedroom of your family’s house who you’re visiting?
- Question: I need serious help. Any advice or suggestions will be kindly appreciated. My sister has a son that has been missing for 4 years.?
- Question: My uncle and his wife are both alcoholics. Why do they blame each other for it?
- Question: I have an uncle who was mean to kids. Should he be barred from being around his grandchildren cause he was mean and grumpy?
- Question: Should parents be careful of how loud they are in bed, or should it not matter since they pay the bills?
- Question: I did a DNA test and learned my Dad father was not my father. I am 71 so no one is left I can ask about it. How do I find out the details?
- Question: How do I get people to stop hating me cause of who my Mom was?
- Question: My sister assaulted our Dad years ago as a teen and was arrested. Is this normal in teen years?
- Question: My mother has friends that are trying to destroy my clan. How do I protect myself against these villains?
- Question: My narcissistic aunt and my Mom don't talk unless they have to for their mother. Does this make them estranged?
- Question: I have to see my Dad today who does not know how to love us. How do I act around this selfish man?
- Question: My mother is making me have suicidal thoughts.?
- Question: My great uncle dies while his niece (my aunt) is in labor.?
- Question: 14 year old step sister and moms 18 year old cousin kissed. What should I do??
- Question: I accidentally sent a nude to my dad because my cousin & my dad are both named daddy in my contacts?
- Question: Watching Discovery ID?
- Question: Is it gay if I have S*x with my son if he is trans?
- Question: What is wrong with my mother. Is she mentally unstable?
- Question: Can my guardian get in trouble for attempting to make me fail a class?
- Question: How do you dodge a military draft?
- Question: How can I get a package without it being delivered to my house?
- Question: What drug is this?
- Question: Help? My mom is upset at me because she I told her that I have been eating once a day.?
- Question: How do I get my parents to stop smelling my feet when they tuck me in at night?
- Question: What to do if my mother’s really sad and depressed?
- Question: Are there any adult children who have parents still annoying you?
- Question: My aunt passed away on February of this year, and my dad is still sad over it?
- Question: I am 15 turning 16 in a month my mom drinks everynight and yells atmefor no reasonwhatagedoIhave to be to chooseif I canlivewithgrandparents?
- Question: Dad was drunk all through Thanksgiving. He wrecked it and made me depressed which I remain today. How do I not let this happen on Christmas?
- Question: Based on his actions, does it look like my husband is trying to get his sons' to favor him more than me? Does he want to feel important?
- Question: My mother dislikes both her daughters-in-law and complains over non-issues. Why would she do this and not love them?
- Question: My brother's wife constantly interrupts when he is talking to me or others. Even he said "hold on". How do we manage this?
- Question: My aunt is a narcissist. Does this mean she is not worthy of getting a Christmas card from us again this year?
- Question: My Dad had so much compassion on my siblings and I as kids and now that we are adults he has none. Why is this?
- Question: My uncle used corporal punishment when his kids were kids in the 1990's and early 2000's. Was this child abuse, could he have been arrested?
- Question: Why is the eldest child the favorite in family's?
- Question: My parents wont let me eat dinner?
Question: Grandparents: who do you love more? Your daughter's kids or your son's kids? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 02:25 PM PST |
Question: My mom just caught me watching midget porn? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 01:24 PM PST |
Question: Am I a bad person for being jealous over this? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 01:22 PM PST I am 27, female. My dad passed away when I was a kid and my mom passed away a month ago. I was extremely close with the both of them before they passed away. I was a total daddy's girl and after he passed away, my mom and I became almost inseparable. A few weeks before my mom passed away (she wasn't sick or anything that we knew of, so we weren't expecting this at all), I had this feeling that I needed to spend a ton more time with her, so I did. I even told her she'd get sick of me being around all the time lol. She passed away so suddenly that it's still hard to convince myself she's never coming back. Recently, my friend came back from college. A mutual friend took photos of her hugging both her mom and dad at the airport. I was happy for her and them, but a wave of jealousy came over me. I've been noticing that a lot lately, how jealous I am over people who have one or both parents while I have none. I don't even have grandparents. Am I a bad person for being jealous over people having a parent or parents? Even if they don't particularly get along with their parent or parents. I AM happy for those who have a good bond with their existing parent or parents, but I'm still jealous. Speed, that has actually happened recently. My friend is off in college about an hour-2 hours away and her parents have been really involved with me lately. I kind of feel bad because I don't want their daughter thinking they're replacing her lol. |
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Question: Help? I'm being locked in my room by my parents for eating all the chocolate cake? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 12:34 PM PST Is there something I can do about this? It's been two days, and they're still not letting me out. They said because I ate all their cake they are gonna starve me. That's not fair. I said I was sorry but they aren't letting me out. What do I do? |
Posted: 24 Nov 2018 12:28 PM PST Every winter break, I've visited home for the holidays but it always takes a huge toll on my mental health and makes it really difficult to be focused when I come back to school. My mom is depressed and lonely. She doesn't have any friends and just lies down on the couch playing on her phone. She never cleans and rarely cooks. My younger siblings are the same way. One of them is failing out of school and just spends all day in bed watching youtube. Being home is so stressful because I care a lot about my family and hate to see them do this to themselves. I also live in a small unsafe town with no car so I'm stuck at home. When I visit, my mom never leaves me alone. I try to give myself space by doing work in her/my room (we share with my little brother), she goes in with me and asks why I'm not in the living room with her. It gets so suffocating. Furthermore, nobody in the house cleans and it's super messy. Before I went off to Uni, I was the only person who ever cleaned so it was okay, but now it's gross (they've resorted to using paper dishes because they're too lazy to wash), the bathroom is disgusting, I actually feel dirtier after showering, and the kitchen is too gross to cook in that I end up always ordering food. I'm thinking about staying in an airbnb somewhat nearby during break but I have no idea if this would just make her feel worse? I have no idea whether or not I should do this and if I do, how do I explain this to her? I would feel so guilty... I also offered to pay for counseling for her but she strongly denies that she needs it and refuses any help We also used to have pets but nobody took care of them and we live in an apartment which made it even more difficult to keep them so we gave them away. |
Question: My aunt passed away on February of this year, and my dad is still sad over it? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 11:31 AM PST My dad had a really close relationeship with my aunt(his sister) and after she died, I could feel that the happiness that he once had is gone, he doesn't really enjoyed when we go out as a family much anymore, My dad gets sad when there is a certain holiday since my aunt always went all out and celebrated with the whole family. She always helped those in need, and she went from a poor environemt to a better one, do to always studying and working hard. She passed away from terminal cancer, It was her second time having cancer, my aunt survived the first one, then after 10 years it came back. It was her older sister, and only one. My dad has a brother, but my aunt was her favorite one. I want to help my dad, even thought I don't know the right wods, that will make the pain to go away. I mean I know I can't stop his sadness completely, but I want him to be happy. What can I do, what can I say, what are the right words that I could say to make him feel better? Thank you! |
Question: What is wrong with my cousin? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 11:03 AM PST My cousin is 36 years old and still lives with his parents. He is really lazy. He doesn't have any friends and can't get a girlfriend. The only reason why he isn't a virgin is because he had sex with a prostitute. He can't fit in with the family because he is jealous about everyone having success. He is mad because he isn't married with kids and doesn't have a job. His dream is to be a track and field runner but he is to lazy to run. All he does is watch NASCAR every Sunday. |
Question: How to deal with family members asking for money from my fiance? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 10:55 AM PST My fiance comes from money. He is "set for life" and along with a good career. My family knows all of this about him. I absolutely detest when they ask me to tell him to let them burrow money. I always lie to them and tell them that he doesn't have money available. They think just because we'll get married his money is mine. Which it isn't! I've never asked him for money unless he offers to buy me something . This is a problem with my family that happens at least 1x per week. |
Question: How do you handle jealous, gossipy family, who only seem to want to hurt you? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 10:47 AM PST |
Question: Brother broke my toilet???? Help? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 10:28 AM PST Back in June my brother used my bathroom and every since then it hasn't been the same. It's been clogged I can't flush it, I have to keep using the plunger.. I can't poop in it at all so I never do..it just sucks..over all what to do about my broken toilet..and I'm not allowed to use the other bathrooms?? I'm so mad.. |
Question: What should I do if my family and my husband's family doesnt like each other? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 09:21 AM PST So for this Christmas I was planning to have a party because I want to have all my family together and ofcourse my husband family too. But the problem is that my brother in law and my uncle had a little problem and they don't talk each other so I'm confused about what should I do. My Dad already tell my uncle about the party but I think two weeks ago my uncle and my dad's godmother had a fight and this makes everything worse. The only thing that I want is my family together and that's include my husbands family this problem is affecting my son too because his uncle didn't show up to his first birthday. What should I do? |
Question: How do i tell my father nicely to stop calling my by weird pet names?? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 09:16 AM PST my father came into my life last year and i'm 18 years old and a girl, he calls me "babygirl, princess, baby, sweetie and beautiful" and it makes me super uncomfortable, he's really nice and i don't want to be mean but how do i tell him nicely to stop ? |
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Question: Was my mom in the wrong with my dad? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 08:02 AM PST They got into an argument last night and my mom told my dad that she has a gun in her bag and he asked if she was going to kill him and she replied and then myself. He stood up, grabbed the bag and pushed her against the wall and hit her in the chest then said why would you say something like that . I was scared but I blame my dad for hitting her |
Question: Worst birthday ever? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 08:00 AM PST Okay so my 14th birthday was last week and so was my sister's 22nd (we share a birthday) So that's great but my mum is like "we have money problems cant do anything for you like presents and parties this year." So I was like thats fine. Originally me my sister and mum were gonna go to a restaurant but my mum was like "oh we can't afford it." Still fine. So then i hear my sister wants indian food at the home dinner and my mum said we could order pizza (I am allergic to quite a lot of the dishes). Then suddenly my mum screams at me for being ungrateful and says no pizza. She then proceeds to invite my sister's friends over and make my sister a big cake and get her presents Then the day of the bday comes. when i come home my sister comes in with her boyfriend. My cousin comes around as well. I don't like her because she ignores me and makes fun of me for no reason. That day was no different. She sat on her phone the whole time and when I tried to something else my mum snapped at me for being a rude little missy and to talk to my cousin. I sat in my bedroom with my cousin ignoring me. Then she decides to talk to me and she shows me what she wants for HER birthday which is in July. Keep in mind she got me nothing. So they are all expensive stuff and she just sulked and ignored me. my sister got a cake and had friends and her boyfriend over and I was stuck in my room forced to talk to my cousin as if I was a guest at that house attending my sisters party. |
Question: Would you buy a christmas present for a parent that always treats you bad? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 07:13 AM PST My father is very mentally abusing against me, and often shouts/says that he is looking forward to I move out with all of his heart (I m 17...). He never pays anything for me, not even food if I ve forgotten to bring my own for school. And I m not even allowed to use his duct tape, when I need it. Our family is going to spend this Christmas together, but I just don t really think that he deserves a present? Especially when I m pretty broke, he s not on the top of my list... Would you buy your father a present, if you were in this situation? |
Question: Should I be mad a somebody about this? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 07:12 AM PST I usually stand by our front door and my husband gives me a kiss as he leaves for work. This morning my mom was standing there with me as my husband was going to work. He gave me a kiss and mom said laughingly "My turn next" so my husband gave her a kiss on the cheek also. I was slightly embarrassed, Mom was surprised and though it was the funniest thing ever. Should I be mad at Mom, my husband, both of them or nobody? Wives, please give me your opinion. |
Question: My parents have sex, around me in the dark, and on vacay.? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 06:21 AM PST I am a 9 year old, im pretty young, my parents seem disrespectful to other people, me, and her parents. I've talked about a million times! I know, I know "be grateful " "mind ur own business" and stuff. But that just doesnt work out, my dad doesnt live with us anymore, and people say "be grateful, that means they still love each other!" Im over here like, boy do you hear them doing it every time my dad comes back?" I hate it, i cant move out cause i dont have any money. I just hate it!!! There so disgusting, they even do the dirty WHEN MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE HERE! I am disgusted and sad. I just wanna know if theres anybody out there experiencing the same? |
Posted: 24 Nov 2018 05:57 AM PST I'm staying with family until Monday, and I haven't touched myself since last Tuesday before I arrived here. I prefer doing it in my own house where I don't have to worry about anyone hearing me when I climax. Plus, i don't want to risk my semen landing on the bedsheets, since I know it will be a LOT of semen, as I hadn't done it in a week. Should I wait till I get home? I just can't take it anymore! |
Posted: 24 Nov 2018 05:51 AM PST She has done everything in her power to find him and no results. From contacting family and friends to even getting private help from outside sources. The dad went missing in action with his girlfriend and took off with her son and hasn't seen her child since. And she is entitled to see her son and they still did it by force so what their doing isn't fair and unjustified. The father of her child has not let her see kid for many years now and knows nothing of her child. I could imagine how she feels and she's trying her best to stay positive and not lose hope. So many missed birthdays, celebrations, and love towards her son is long over due. Everyday i keep my sister in bright spirits because she's on the edge. And i feel very horrible for her. No mother should even be in that situation. Ever. |
Question: My uncle and his wife are both alcoholics. Why do they blame each other for it? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 05:36 AM PST |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2018 05:23 AM PST My mom and dad are still very sexually active, and I always hear them through the wall, as my room is next door. And when I accidentally walked in on them (the door was open), they didn't stop. Am I in the wrong here, since parents have seen their children naked, and vice versa, as well as the fact that immediate family is different from extended family, friends and co-workers, i.e. people pee with the door open only when immediate family is around. Am I overreacting, since my mom and dad are not just friends/co-workers? |
Posted: 24 Nov 2018 04:47 AM PST It shows matches I can narrow down to his family but do I admit "I don't know who my Dad is now"? Does this happen a lot? I am still trying to wrap my brain around it and I found out back in July. geessewereabove · His genes are in me, so it has my Dad and Mom's genes but not the person I knew as Dad's genes and it was a cousin on the side of my family I called Dad's thinking he was my Dad, the Dad who turned out not to be. He is still "my Dad" but biologically I learn there was deception and some other man. |
Question: How do I get people to stop hating me cause of who my Mom was? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 04:45 AM PST I am never welcome at family holidays because my mother was hostile to her family. I am not her and I want to have extended family. It makes these family holidays suck. If you've already answered questions about this no need to but if not please reply with ideas of how I might get them to like me. Sincerely, 2nd Rate in Mom's Side of the Family Person |
Posted: 24 Nov 2018 04:17 AM PST The arrest may have been for the false police report she filed. This was eleven years ago. My Dad referred to it when he was trying to get my aunt, my step-Mom's sister, to see her daughter's issues are nothing in comparison to the two rotten kids my Dad had in his 2nd marriage. The aunt's daughter does normal stuff but her mother struggles with perfectionism. |
Posted: 24 Nov 2018 04:09 AM PST Shirley · No it is not, by clan I mean my close friends and family. The family part these toxic friends my mother likes for some sick reason are trying to destroy. One of the friends on purpose, the other indirectly by doing something immoral. A 3rd friend tried to with gossip but that friend has moved thankfully. |
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Question: My mother is making me have suicidal thoughts.? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 12:32 AM PST I live in a nice household, with a family of 6 others. I am a freshman male. My mother and I have always had a chill, calm relationship up until a few months ago. We treated each other like friends. However, a few months ago, my mother has began to yell at me for nearly every mistake I make, and I make hundreds of mistakes per day. Immediately after yelling, she seems happy, as if all rage she had is gone. I am the only one of her 5 children in the house she treats this way. I do not believe there has been one day within these past few months in which my mother has not yelled at me for something. This whole situation has been leaving me with sadness, anger toward her, and suicidal thoughts. I just want that calm relationship with her to return. What can i do to mend the situation? |
Question: My great uncle dies while his niece (my aunt) is in labor.? Posted: 24 Nov 2018 12:23 AM PST my aunt is poa over my uncle along with my gpa. he is mentally Ill we have taken care of him for 14 years until recently. we visited him today he seemed strong and in no way were we expecting him to die tonight.we left the nursing home and she went into labor and 2 hours later he died. we decided not to tell her until the baby is born so shes not stressed out during labor. I want to help my grandpa until shes aware and out of the hospital so I was wondering if anyone can give me an idea on what it's like to plan a funeral? |
Question: 14 year old step sister and moms 18 year old cousin kissed. What should I do?? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 11:17 PM PST Today I found out that my 14 year old step-sister and my moms 18 year old cousin kissed. I was snooping around. I really shouldn t have done so and now i regret it. However, its too late for that and now I need advice. Apparenty this happened yesterday when my mom, her boyfriend and her went over a relatives house for thanksgiving. When she asked if he would like to do it again next time they have a party he said he would. She keeps telling him that they should date and that he doesnt have to worry about being caught. He said maybe in the future when she turns 18 because he cant right now because it will get him in trouble. I don t know what to do??? Should I keep this a secret or tell my mom? |
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Question: Watching Discovery ID? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 10:09 PM PST My sister and I were watching Discovery ID, deadly women.. And my sister asked me if I would have a problem with my wife being a stripper and if I would have gotten a divorce from her if I found out that she was a stripper, or cheating on me. I told her that this is how I would run things... This is my house, and I am entitled to know what is going on in it. I would demand to know what she does for a living and where she works and what her schedule is and who she works around. First of all.. Secondly, I would never marry a stripper, and I would tell her that she has 10 minutes to quit being a stripper, or I'll have her served by a divorce attorney. She said... So don't want anything to do with them ? I said... Absolutely nothing. I don't want them around me. I don't want them around my house. I don't want them around my kids. I don't want them around my family. I don't want them associated with anybody that is associated with my family. Remember all that sh!t that I said about you in anger because you said some stuff ? That's what they're like for real, and worse. :P |
Question: Is it gay if I have S*x with my son if he is trans? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 09:56 PM PST |
Question: What is wrong with my mother. Is she mentally unstable? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 09:35 PM PST I'm 26, my brother is 22, and I have an even younger one who is 18. My 22 year brother recently bought a house and had been having his girlfriend spend the night a lot and my mom doesn't approve of it because she sees it as shacking up and she's a Christian. I have depression and anxiety issues and my mom sees me as a mental nut case, my 18 year brother bought the newest iPhone and my mom went off on him saying how he had no business buying a new phone when he doesn't even have a car. The difference between me and my brother is that my brother won't tolerate her going off on her, he was like " do you work my hours, is it your money. It's my money and none of your business . I work doubles all the time and I needed a phone my old one broke". I don't bother arguing with her cquse I don't need the extra stress, I already got enough health problems. The other day my mom was telling My 22 year old brother that she did not raise us to be this way. She was like " you shacking up, your brother buying a thousand dollar phone, and your sister is crazy". My 22 year old brother was like " I'm not even shacking up but I'll talk to you later mom" and he drove back to his house. My mom will make slick comments about me and my brother's significant others, especially my brother's girlfriend. She will be like " oh your girlfriend is cheating on you" and she will get upset if my brother doesn't want her coming over his house all the time cause he wants privacy. |
Question: Can my guardian get in trouble for attempting to make me fail a class? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 09:00 PM PST One time last year I got in trouble with my grandmother, who is my guardian, she grounded me and I told her I had a choir final I had to go to the next day, or I'd fail the class. She said nothing. I stayed after school for the performance and she called me and told me to get home, or she'd pick me up and I'd be in a lot of trouble, I cried and begged, finally I put my teacher on the phone to explain what would happen if I missed my final, and my grandma backed off, probably only cause she knew the teacher might have done something. She grounded me for a month extra. I am currently trying to get emancipated because of the emotional abuse of this home, could I use this as evidence to get emancipated? |
Question: How do you dodge a military draft? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 07:12 PM PST |
Question: How can I get a package without it being delivered to my house? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 05:53 PM PST I live with my dad and ive worked hard and saved up for a long time to finally build a PC. Problem is that my dad thinks its a waste of money and wouldnt approve if I purchased the parts. I live in the middle of nowhere and I dont want to send it to the post office because its the local gossip hotspot here ( all we have is one bank, one store, and one post office around here lol). Im willing to drive a reasonable ways away to get the packages but I live in southwest va. Thanks for the advice! |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 05:46 PM PST I found it in my kids car. It's tan slightly crushed. It feels mushy and soft. Also has a strong smell in a small container. It's not hard feeling but like soft graham cracks more tan. Help! |
Question: Help? My mom is upset at me because she I told her that I have been eating once a day.? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 05:42 PM PST I am 23 years old and I have been stessed out. Working 12 hours a day and don't have time to eat 3 times a time . Yesterday my mom noticed that I lost weight. She started asking me about my weight, I told her the truth that only eat once a day. I really don't be have time to eat through the day. When I get off from work I only want to take bath and go to bed. Now she is worried and I don't want her to worry. |
Question: How do I get my parents to stop smelling my feet when they tuck me in at night? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 05:32 PM PST I am 31 and male. |
Question: What to do if my mother’s really sad and depressed? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 05:25 PM PST My half-siblings and I don't know what to do or don't know what happened. The man my mom's with doesn't love her anymore and my mom is really sad and my little brother told me that my mom was crying in their room and is currently in hers. :( What should I do? She's still married but .... she's really confused and the man she loved doesn't love her. I still have my dad but my siblings... |
Question: Are there any adult children who have parents still annoying you? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 05:21 PM PST Any adult children from 18 and up who still lives with their parents and tends to still annoy you? Do they play around too much when calling you names like a bum, a gooch, or telling you to bite him or her, but your mom or dad is just playing with you? How about them telling you to hush or its all your fault for no reason? |
Question: My aunt passed away on February of this year, and my dad is still sad over it? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 04:20 PM PST My dad had a really close relationeship with my aunt(his sister) and after she died, I could feel that the happiness that he once had is gone, he doesn't really enjoyed when we go out as a family much anymore, My dad gets sad when there is a certain holiday since my aunt always went all out and celebrated with the whole family. She always helped those in need, and she went from a poor environemt to a better one, do to always studying and working hard. She passed away from terminal cancer, It was her second time having cancer, my aunt survived the first one, then after 10 years it came back. It was her older sister, and only one. My dad has a brother, but my aunt was her favorite one. I want to help my dad, even thought I don't know the right wods, that will make the pain to go away. I mean I know I can't stop his sadness completely, but I want him to be happy. What can I do, what can I say, what are the right words that I could say to make him feel better? Thank you! |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2018 04:13 PM PST I have to see him as I'd be alone otherwise and my Mom and the rest of the family just go about like things are normal. I get so embarrassed when he is drunk and feel it reflects poorly on me. I am 22, not in college as I have learning disabilities, and live in an apartment about 20 miles from parents and two of three sibs. I work for my Mom's families plumbing company. My Dad when drunk will say things about me I don't want others to know. He insists he does not drink much and that we over-react. We did an intervention back when I was in high school but my mother did not fall through on any of the ultimatums. |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 04:01 PM PST There have been several instances where I noticed my husband is accommodating when it comes to our sons' likes and dislikes. It can be anything to do with restaurant choices, values, discipline, etc. He will support my children's choices first instead of of me his spouse. He sees himself first as a leader and supporter of his sons' versus me and him as partners and leaders to our two sons. Our older son is 21 and our second one is 11 years old. We are both in our 50s. By now, we should know better to stick together as a team but the way he looks at things is different and it is creating a gap between us. Recently, we made this sausage from scratch. I said we can have them for breakfast when our older son was at home for the holiday. For 2 weeks it was in the freezer until last night I moved to the fridge. I reminded him last night that the sausages were to be our breakfast. The next day morning I saw that they were barely touched. Instead, the ham and egg was what was eaten. Once again, he veered away from what we already talked about. My point is, why did he still serve ham when it was planned to serve the sausage and eggs. Its so disappointing that a simple plan can not be achieved. Its always like this. He does not want what I want even if we've discussed it. When I say, let's do something tomorrow, let's go to this place he'll say "no" let's just go here. Why does he suddenly have an opinion when we'd be otherwise stuck at home if I never said anything. |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 03:56 PM PST She says "I love them but...." and I know but means forget what I just said I was being polite, now I am really going to tell you what I mean. She did this all through Thanksgiving last night when calling them as it was just me of her kids and my Dad's son (my step-brother). She likes her step-son a lot, but not the two daughters-in-law. I am scared she thinks bad of me behind my back as I am learning disabled so socially studded for a 26 year old. |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 03:55 PM PST They just married in September. His first wife didn't speak two words. Now this one won't shut up. |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 03:46 PM PST She is the enemy to the family My Mom and her good siblings don't speak to this aunt anymore. |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 03:45 PM PST He has no life changes other then his marriage has gotten better and that is a good thing. |
Posted: 23 Nov 2018 03:41 PM PST His kids are grown up now and he had the most dysfunctional marriage in human history, and is still married. Was what he did child abuse and could he have been arrested if my mother had called the police (she chewed him out for using a belt). He also yelled at them and the wife all the time. I don't see much of him but he seems to have softened now that is kids are out. |
Question: Why is the eldest child the favorite in family's? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 02:45 PM PST |
Question: My parents wont let me eat dinner? Posted: 23 Nov 2018 02:42 PM PST So my brother kept asking me to play football with him. I finally gave in. When we started playing, i "cheated." When really, if I were to score; my brother wasn't being a fair player and kept saying I cheated. My parents actually believed him, and they thought i was being mean to him. They said no dinner. And im hungry. I understand if they said no desert, but you have to have 3 meals a day, or 2. I can't step foot out of my room and I havent eaten since 11 am, its 5 pm now. What do i do? |
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