Family: Question: Nobody appreciates my help. What to do?

Question: Nobody appreciates my help. What to do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 02:40 PM PST

Every since I moved in with my boyfriend and his family I've been babysitting, Changing diapers , Checking homework and putting the kids to sleep when my boyfriends mom goes to work and sometimes she goes to work all day while I'm here feeding and changing diapers which is fine I try to help out anyway I can , Im Unemployed because I'm currently receiving social security which his mom knows about so she gives me things to do around the house... I do get paid but in the end everybody talks about me and says "All I do is sit around and eat and watch tv" I'm not the only one who watches the kids either but I do ask does anyone need help with anything and they all say no so I shrug it off and gone about my business, Just yesterday my boyfriend was saying I'm lazy because he goes out and work his *** off while I sit at home and collect my monthly check (It hurt my feelings when he said this).. Idk what else I can do to help out I'm trying the best way that I know how without being annoying and in the way and I still get judged and talked about. What am I doing wrong? I stay to myself in the room my boyfriend and I share , I read a book , watch tv or just draw and if anyone needs help with the kids they can let me know and I will help. Idk what else they want from me and I'm irritated.

Question: My parents still think of me as a child?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 02:26 PM PST

So I'm 18 and I had just been presented with a really good opportunity to do coaching in America and get paid £500 a week for 3 months. It's in the summer but my parents instantly shut that idea down. They then keep pressuring me to marry my first cousin. They even sorted out my living arrangements for me and her. They do not want to move out or ever gain independence. I understand that their parents and that's just how they act but they use emotional blackmail just to try and trick me into marrying her. Oh and they want it done after I'm done with uni(currently in my first year). I have 3 older brothers. The oldest two are complete losers stuck in dead end jobs and happy with their medicore lives. They are dead set on religion and stuff. Their all Muslims btw. I personally believe there's a God but I don't agree with islam. My parents would also disown me or just do the same thing over and over again just to convince me to be something I'm not. I don't get it with Asian parents. I even asked my mum "why come to this country in the first place" like whats the point if your just gonna treat it like Pakistan and force us all into a ******* shitty life. Sorry for cursing but they frustrate me so much. Especially my mum when she twisted the whole idea of me suggesting my 25 YEAR OLD BROTHER move out. She then told my dad I said we should kick him out and my dad just shouts at me.i just ugh

Question: Am I too sinstive?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 02:08 PM PST

My father in law did not talk to me at my wedding. We had it at his beach house, spent the night before weeding there. The morning of the wedding day every one was busy with the bride. I was left alone. He did not tell me I look nice or asked if I need a taie or polish for my shoes or try to stand by me consider I'm alone, have no family or friends in the country. Then at the dinner, my wife brother made a joke about my background (not rasiset but embarrassing). Few minutes later my wife friend made another nasty rasiset comment about my culture. Two days after wedding is over told my wife I did not like thia treatment from them. She said all is normal and I'm too sinstive. Is it normal ur father in law don't talk to u or stand by u kind of and encourage u at ur wedding? Please no rasiset stupid response. Hate brings hate.

Question: How to make up with brother?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 01:23 PM PST

I know it sounds really petty, but I don't know what to do. I recently got this really nice exclusive item, and the very next day my brother broke it. It was accidental, and he's only 10, but I have been ignoring him and yelling at him for days now. We have a very close relationship, and being this mean to him really hurts me too. I think the reason I am this mean is because my mom wouldn't do anything to punish him, so I still have an unfinished grudge. How do I get back at him to feel better? Don't tell me to just forgive, because I've tried and it's just not working.

Question: Bullied by a brother?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 12:23 PM PST

My brother and I, sleep in the same room. yesterday, he was playing Pubg at night meanwhile i was trying to sleep. I told him to shut his phone down, but he told me to shut up. Obviously, he has to respect me, because he is the one who is causing the noise. He is 2 years younger than me. It is degrading to not have him respect me. What shall i do?

Question: I babysit my next door neighbor's kid's practically everyday, the mother is a alcoholic, what shall I do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 12:17 PM PST

I'm a single father and for the last few months, my next door neighbor's kids have been coming over practically every day, because their mother works all the time, they have no father, figure in their life and they have become attached to me. Especially the little girl, I listen to her whenever she is going through issues, I'll take her out on little father and daughter dates, and bring her on other outings and her mother is fine with it! Because I'm not friends with her mother too much should I back off on helping out with her children? I'll bring them to church and other things and even help feed them sometimes...

Question: How do you cope with missing an extended family member’s funeral?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 10:42 AM PST

I feel overcome with guilt but it's not immediate family and I'd be unable to take off work as I just returned from vacation. It's my mom's cousin that died.

Question: Should I get another piercing in my ear?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 10:16 AM PST

I am 20 years old, still living at home with my parents. I am a full-time college student and have my own money. My parents are extremely traditional people and have a very strong hatred for piercings, tattoos, all that and consider it taboo. I have been wanting a second lobe piercing for almost a year now, and I have been dreading even asking my mom about it. Lately I have tried hinting at it and she's been getting stressed out, telling me I'll look like trash, like a punk, and she would be embarrassed to be seen with me. She says it is vulgar and not sophisticated, dad agrees I know what youll say. I'm 20 years old. I can do whatever I want, I don't need my parents to approve. My mom said if I really wanted to she'd let me do it since I have my own money, but she added that she would be devastated and very disappointed in me. I don't want to ruin my relationship with her just because of an earring, which I can literally take out whenever I want. That is the thing stopping me from doing it. I don't want to hurt her. What do you think?

Question: Should I support my mom?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 10:08 AM PST

My mom is 60 years old and she pretty much doesn't have anything. She has always depended on my father or boyfriends to support her and take care of her. She recently left her boyfriend so now she has nowhere to go. I am 31 and I am living with my aunt and I am looking into buying a condo. My mom is bouncing around to different family members houses but no one wants to take her full-time. She is extremely difficult and asks everyone for money and wants everyone to pay her bills for her and refuses to get a job. I know once I get a condo everyone is going to try to pin her and me full-time. I have never lived on my own And I want to experience living alone and being independent. I work and I want to create my own life and have my own space. My mom gets really nasty when people don't give her money and has even threatened to come to my job and embarrass me and cause a scene. She continually curses at me and threatens me, demanding money from me. She has called me an as*hole and an idiot when she's not getting her way financially, if I tell her I won't give her money. I can't live my life like this. When her mother was around, my grandmother, she drained every penny she had from her. What should I do, am I a terrible daughter for feeling this way? **She won't try to do anything to help herself, she won't apply for state aid or welfare

Question: My uncle built a capital of a prominent country and my father is a prominent judge. So why does my paralegal cousin thinks she has the?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 09:59 AM PST

Right to bombard me with questions when she knew I was moving into that uncles country (the same she lives in) because she does not want me to apply to where she works and as if she owns the place there?

Question: My toxic parents have a sick and evil friend who convinced him to buy a new house. How do I stop them?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 09:45 AM PST

Another friend is like Hitler and she lives nearby.

Question: Dad is an alcoholic how do I fix him?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 09:43 AM PST

I want him sober for Christmas and beyond.

Question: Should I buy my Neice Gifts anymore?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 09:38 AM PST

My brother and sister-in law have fairly good jobs, but my sister-in law''s family gives them pretty much anything they want. I've discovered that every gift I've ever given my Neice (she's 10) sits in their basement unopened. On her 10th we gave her an expensive bracelet that we found out by fluke from another family member that it didn't fit. I contacted my brother and told him I could mail the receipt to him (he lives an hour away) or when he is in my town (which he works in) stop by and pick it up. That way they can exchange for the right size. He said he'd pick it up.... which he never did. I asked my Neice if her parents exchanged the bracelet for the right size and she said no and they don't really care. I know it will cause a problem, but should I just tell my brother that we aren't going to buy gifts anymore?

Question: How can I stop hurting and hating?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 09:22 AM PST

Several years ago at a family get-together I had a verbal altercation with my brother, who had made a mean joke at a head injury my child sustained. The altercation lasted about 20 seconds, and was verbal only. However, the next summer I was not invited to the reunion (although my brother was). Additionally, my step-mother (father's wife), who has never liked me, started making a claim that I had "scared children" because I used an expletive (i.e., "GD") in my response to my brother. I haven't been invited to any family event since this event seven years ago. To make matters worse, my father began showing up out of town every couple of years along with his step-wife to visit my son at my ex's house. Without any communication to me. As a side note, my father does this knowing that my ex was physically abusive to me and I divorced her as a result; I also successfully filed a Dom Violence charge against her. My father knows all of this, but they still court friendship with her. All of this seems extreme to me. Finally, it has been hard to build a friendship with the rest of the family; on Facebook, on the phone, and in person they are distanced from me. My ex recently told me that she and my son have been invited to next summer's family reunion. I can't stop hurting and hating. I want to be free of the pain. Advice welcome.

Question: Is your daughter a radical feminist?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 09:01 AM PST

Question: Since my dad is in evil and arrogant man can I be assured that he will not be in heaven with me at the end of time.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 08:43 AM PST

Question: I have this uncle who is cruel to people and savagely screams at his wife, kids, and employees I’m told. I am terrified of him. What do I do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 08:43 AM PST

Sometimes my mom makes me see this mad brother of hers. He is terrifying and his employees quit out of fear. This man's wife is a child abuse victim so she won't leave him as her self-esteem is lower than the bottom of the sea.

Question: I’m sick at how unloving my Dad is to me. How do I accept and move on instead of holding hate towards him?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 08:09 AM PST

He loved me when little and then stopped. He neglected his elders when I was growing up.

Question: Is he making the correct choice?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 06:31 AM PST

My little brother who is in Kindergarten has stated many times that he hates school. From the time he wakes up until midnight all he does is play video games or on my mom's phone. My dad decided to not take him to school anymore because he doesn't care about school. If no one is going to teach him anything than is it really a wise decision?

Question: Mommy said I got the big stupid how convince her that I don’t have the bid stupid.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 06:27 AM PST

Question: Should I support my mom?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 06:23 AM PST

My mom is 60 years old and she pretty much doesn't have anything. She has always depended on my father or boyfriends to support her and take care of her. She recently left her boyfriend so now she has nowhere to go. I am 31 and I am living with my aunt and I am looking into buying a condo. My mom is bouncing around to different family members houses but no one wants to take her full-time. She is extremely difficult and asks everyone for money and wants everyone to pay her bills for her and refuses to get a job. I know once I get a condo everyone is going to try to pin her and me full-time. I have never lived on my own And I want to experience living alone and being independent. I work and I want to create my own life and have my own space. My mom gets really nasty when people don't give her money and has even threatened to come to my job and embarrass me and cause a scene. She continually curses at me and threatens me, demanding money from me. She has called me an as*hole and an idiot when she's not getting her way financially, if I tell her I won't give her money. I can't live my life like this. When her mother was around, my grandmother, she drained every penny she had from her. What should I do, am I a terrible daughter for feeling this way?

Question: My Dad is an evil man. How do I make sure I am not associated with this evil bastard?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 06:18 AM PST

He makes Charles Manson look kind.

Question: How come my family thinks 18 is nothing and not an adult? Is it usually normal to think that?That once you turn 21,you ve reached adulthood?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 05:56 AM PST

Question: My aunt is a narcissist and she is coming to the extended family Christmas this year. How do I make it humorous instead of terrifying?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 04:37 AM PST

I am an Asperger's nutjob with raging OCD & a narcissistic person persecution complex. This is the first time since 2009 that this person has come.

Question: Since I am not a priority of my Dad's do I need to love him anymore?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 04:32 AM PST

Question: If a woman who has kids never once talks about her kids to her friends, does that mean she doesn't care about them?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 03:01 AM PST

Question: Why is my boyfriend always trying to pick fights with me?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 01:44 AM PST

I am 20 years old. Last night he called me I could tell he was in bad mood. He told me not to speak until he was done talking because he had something a important to tell then yelled at me for not talking and when I spoke he yelled you interpreted me. He hang up on me, then called me back and accused me of hanging up on him. He has been mad at for days because I went to bed too early and didn't feel like talking on phone. He said I disrespected his authority. He is also mad at me because I wouldn't quit job and move with him.He also tried to make give him half of my pay check. Saturday night I didn't want to go out with him because I was sick and wanted to sleep so he called me non-stop so I turned off my phone. he came to my house. I he was screaming and beating on the door. My dad and Stepmom was at my house because they came for the holidays. My dad told him to stay away from me. My stepmom went through my phone and saw all the all the crazy messages.My parents asked me if my boyfriend has ever hit me I told the truth he has never hit. My Stepmom is afraid that he will physical hurt me. My parents want me to to break up him and move back home. My parents are also worried because I lost a lot weight. I know that I don't love him anymore and I want to end things. I'm going to leave with my parents later today and I'm going change my number and deleted my Facebook page.

Question: Would you still love your older brother if he lived off minimum wage and unemployment at 32?

Posted: 26 Nov 2018 01:06 AM PST

My oldest brother is 32 and he doesn't have a decent paying job or career. He works minimum wage and gets High and can't really keep a job. He asks my mom for money sometimes too. I've given him money too even though I only make a dollar more than minimum wage. My other brother says he doesn't care for him and would not ever give him a dime. I just feel sorry for him, i mean he has a daughter and. barely sees her. It's not like he's a bad person. He's cool with me the few times I've seen him and I still care about him even if he's a loser I guess.

Question: Exaggerating?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 11:02 PM PST

Wen I was 8-9 years old my uncle who was about 22-23 that time used to squeeze my cheeks whenever he saw me. When I was about 13, he rubbed his full bearded cheek to my cheek one day when he came to visit us. This happened only one time and nothing more than these ever happened. My mother loves his brother very much, but I always feel funny when I am around him due to those incidents. I dont want to make anything more than what it is but I am over 40 now and I still remember those incidents. I have never told these to anyone. Am I exaggerating?

Question: Me and my husband want to move out into the country, but my son can’t drive and can’t afford to get his own place, advice please?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 10:40 PM PST

He's 23 and never got a license, and when I took him driving he drove very recklessly, and soon after, just gave up on trying anymore, now he says he doesn't even WANT to learn how to drive. Me or my husband usually drive him to work, or his grandfather (who lives right next door to us) and when we can't he takes Uber. It's expensive to use a lot, and with how far out we want to move, rides will cost $30+, EACH WAY. We used to live out in the country, my son spent all those years locked in bedroom, 24/7, even tried to walk into town out of desperation, but after 3 hours passed out on the side of the road. Since we moved away into a bigger city area, he's actually started working, and walks places himself. He actually functions somewhat here. But me and my husband are miserable here now, we hate how so many people live here, and it's too expensive, too noisy, too much crime, and we have HORRIBLE neighbors RIGHT NEXT DOOR, WAY TOO CLOSE, and another neighbors keeps reporting our barking dogs to the subdivision. We never had any of these problems living out in the country. The main problem was my son being unable to drive. The ironic thing about us moving here, is my son didn't even live with us when we moved here, he was staying with his aunt and uncle on the west coast. The reason we moved here was to live closer to my parents, that's why we snatched the house for rent right behind them, we even put a gate in the fence. My son admitted to being about to kill himself, after sitting out in the middle of nowhere so long, but opted to reaching out to other family to move to.... He didn't do very good in their small town, despite being able to walk everywhere. He's done a lot better here, and really likes it, but me and my husband miss the rural life now.

Question: My mom found my weed ahdbsjdbjsndbd?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 10:27 PM PST

She went into my room when I was at work and snooped around. She texted me saying we needed to talk, but when I got home she was too tired and said that we would talk tomorrow. I went into my room (I had a feeling it was weed) and found it was gone. How do I approach this situation? I know I'm stupid for having this stuff so please don't scold me, please give me actual advice because I'm panicking right now and I want to Kermit sewerslide.

Question: Help? My stepmom is driving me crazy she thinks I am mad her but I am not mad her?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 09:51 PM PST

I am 17 years old Last Friday My Dad and brother went on a trip for the weekend. So all weekend it has been just me and my Stepmom anyway Friday my stepmom wouldn't let me go with my boyfriend because refused to come inside to meet her. He just kept blowing the horn. Which annoyed me just as much as it annoyed her. My Stepmom went outside and told him leave. He started yelling and cussing at her. After he left he called me and told me to sneak out and meet him up the road. But I broke up with for being disrespectful to my stepmom. Because of my past actions my stepmom doesn't trust me that much she is watching me like hawk.she didn't believe that I blocked him and deleted his number so I gave her my phone so could see for herself. I also blocked and deleted him on Facebook. She was so worried about sneaking to meet him. She slept in my room Friday and Saturday night. I am trying heard to earn my parents trust back. She thought I was mad at her but I was mad at my ex boyfriend for disrespecting my stepmom.It was like was waiting for me to blame her. She kept explaining to why she wouldn't let me go with him. Friday night she thought I was sleep while she talking to my dad. She said was surprised her that I didn't give her a hard time the situation.

Question: Was my ex step-dad a pedophile?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 09:17 PM PST

OK, so I'm about 13 years old. My mom met my former step-dad when I was 9. I was very naive at the time, and didn't think anything of his shenanigans. He would often be wearing just underwear and he would ask me to snuggle with him, and I would. We would also have "tickle parties" and he would touch me places I didn't like. I always told him to stop, he said he would but he would still continue. Anyways, the reason I'm asking is because I don't know if what he did to me is severe enough to press charges? I wanna report him because he made me very uncomfortable. Eventually I stopped joining the tickle parties, but then he would keep on saying I was beautiful all the time. I told him it made me uncomfortable and he said "Why? It's a compliment." he would suggest I start modeling and he would always be telling me how beautiful I was and even just thinking about it now makes me uncomfortable. Now he has a new girlfriend who has kids and I don't want them to go through what I went through. Should I press charges?

Question: I Need Help And Opinions?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 09:14 PM PST

-What Do you call a person who constantly has unprotected sex on Grindr. 200+ Men and catches Syphilis and continues to have Unprotected sex? -What do you call some who belittles you, mimics you, talks **** to you, and takes their entire hatred on you? -What do you call a person who doesn't clean after themselves? -What do you call someone who brags about how much money they make and they make more than you? -I am describing my brother who I don;t want to consider my brother anymore. He's just so cringe to have in my life and I don't want his toxic existence here anymore. Somebody who doesn't appreciate life and is delusional. Smokes weed everyday, tries to act like he's all that. Verbally abuses me, mimics me when I correct him and makes it seem like I',m the problem. He disrespects and threatens people in public. For instance he bumps into a lady's cart at the grocery store and she says excuse me then he replies with "excuse you, talk to me like that one more time and you dont wanna see what will happen" She didn't even do anything wow. Who seems to be the problem here? Me- The clean, organized brother who has morals and odes the right things in life and wants things for the better? OR The Brother- Really rude, ugly attitude, overweight, no morals; has sex with sooo many men, smokes weed constantly, hangs out with friends who disrespect the public, and plays it like he has his life together, which he does in some parts like having a high paying job.

Question: I have to miss one of my grandmother's two Christmas gatherings due to my Dad's families plans. How do I cope with her anger at me for this?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 09:03 PM PST

She is doing Christmas on the 23rd and the 25th. She made note to us in October of the 23rd gathering. I have to cancel cause my Dad and his wife are doing something on the 23rd and I can't see them after that cause they are travelling. I am scared to displease my grandmother cause I know how much my mother fears her. What do I do? How do I cope with Granny being mad at me for the winter? I am scared

Question: My Dad does not care about continuously letting me down but he still cares about letting his elders down by flunking out of college, why?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 09:01 PM PST

Why the fixation on him being a failure in college and no concern about him being a failure of a Dad to me?

Question: Is It truth that Jackson Krecioch hit his mother and sister?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 08:36 PM PST

Question: Why does my sister want the same exact career as me?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 08:25 PM PST

I have been majoring in fashion studies and merchandising for 5 years. She majored in something different. My sister acts like she is a bigger expert about fashion and trends than I do. She copies everything that I do. She also gets her love or art and dance from me too. I will never be my own person. I am actually afraid she will be more successful than me at art and fashion but I majored in it.

Question: My aunt is a narcissist and she is coming to the extended family Christmas this year. How do we cope?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 08:15 PM PST

I know my Mom will be trembling in fear. She always has done this around this aunt.

Question: Is there anyway to help change the attitude of my narcissistic dad?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 08:05 PM PST

Question: How would it make you feel if your parents expected you to take a charge for their favorite?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 07:21 PM PST

I'm 27 no record step bro 22 no record he had bag of cannabis in his gloves box, they seen end part of his finished weed cigar searched found it arrested both of us it's just a 2 or 300 fine but could cost him his job and he has good job but lives at home rent free I make half as much but live in my own (since 19) they say because I can just find another because it's just minumm wage job and are upset I won't take it I won't rat him out either but why is he more important than me because I don't have a good job at least I take care of myself I would understand if it was mine or part mine but it wasn't they know it he told them Truth and they still want me to take it I have a right to feel hurt and cut ties with them right it's just REALLY hurtful last straw kind of thing

Question: I stopped talking to my aunts and cousins, my dad passed away with dementia. They used to gossip about my mom and dad all the time.?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 06:37 PM PST

They gossiped about my mom and dad, and my sisters all the time. I don't want to talk to them even though grew up with them. my dad had anxiety and depression for years and has been taking antidepressants, but my aunts and cousins always mocked and said he was faking it. Now when he was dying on bed from ftd dementia, they were blaming us and sayin we killed him. Two months later my cousin wants to talk to me. Should I talk to my dad side family or not? I just feel so much hurt.

Question: HELP IDK WHAT THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS !!!!?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 06:29 PM PST

My bestfriend has a joint in her room and she was hiding it. I'm close to her family including her little sisters and her little sister just texted me and told me she found a joint in her sisters stuff and for me not to tell my bestfriend, her older sister, that she found it cause she said she was gonna do something about it. Do I warn my bestfriend that her little sister found it or do I tell her little sister I knew about it or keep my mouth closed altogether ?

Question: Are you in love?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 06:07 PM PST

Question: Should I wear diapers all the time?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 05:55 PM PST

Question: How can I be a better daughter?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 05:34 PM PST

Question: How to get along with mother...?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 04:53 PM PST

I've always had troubles getting along with my mom because she always has to be right, but the worst thing is I turn 21 soon and I do live with parents because I'm a full time student... and hen I go out I have to check in with her every house... she constantly needs me to check in and it's like I honestly can't breath she gives me anxiety. I have to have my phone in my hand at like all times. She'll call me to keep asking me what I'm doing and it's so tiring...

Question: My mom and brother fight! How do I stop it?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 04:08 PM PST

My brother is 16 years old. He always overreacts to things and makes my mom upset. He tells her he hates her and they yell at eachother. Most of the time all of the arguments end with my mom saying: "I can't live here anymore." And my brother says that too. What can I do? What do I do? Family counseling is an idiotic option. There is no need. Also, my family acts likr this behavior is abnormal. It's not. I wish I could just sit there and tolerate it, but it's hard.

Question: How do you disarm a narcissist parent who tries to control you and tries to implant how they see the world even though your wisdom is unique?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 03:53 PM PST

Question: Should I live at my mom's full time?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 03:35 PM PST

My dad always treats like I'm 2, he asks me very stupid questions all the time. He tells me how bad I am and that he never wants to see me again. He told me today when he's gone I will miss him. He is never ever happy or in a good mood. He's thinks I'm mentally ill and I not. He compatibles about everything. He says very bad about my mom. Should I move out of his house?

Question: Is my dad right when he says I can't solve problems by pulling switchblades on people?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 03:31 PM PST

It got me out of a real bad situation before, but he wants me to stop carrying them around anyway.

Question: Why did i get called a jerk ?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 02:34 PM PST

I went to my grandpas house to give him somw homemade bread and cheese and my uncle ( he lives with my grandpa and grandma even though he is 40) said " well what the **** how come i dont ever get homemade cheese and bread" so i said " well what did you do to get homemade bread and cheese ? Get a bum award ? " Then he was all like " what did my mom and dad do ? " then i said " give birth to my mom and she gave birth to me and grandma is someone that i can talk to and not have it repeated to anyone else" then he said " jerk ".

Question: Does anyone else’s grandmother still bathe them at 40 when you come over???

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 02:04 PM PST

Question: My inlaws don’t take photos of us with our new baby ?

Posted: 25 Nov 2018 01:19 PM PST

No I won't ask them , it would be too weird . I am wondering your thoughts on this . They take pictures of themselves with our new daughter but not a family photo of the three of us ? We got all fancy for thanksgiving thinking they would and all they took was of his niece holding the baby . Do you think that is odd ?