I have a friend from high school. suppose his name is ming. Ming and I were not very close in high school and then I went to college in another city. One summer in my apartment, suddenly I got a call from Ming. I did not realized that was Ming when I picked the phone. He said he was in my city and wanted to see me. And then he stayed at my apt and he brought a foreigner friend. That night he insisted to bring him to a strip joint. I was reluctant because I m not into that kinda thing. so we went to a cheap place and then he and his friend got a private dance. We went around in my city sight viewing and I showed him around like a tour leader for tourists. Couple years later, I went back to my home city. And I did not try to find Ming because I actually did not know his phone number. One day, my high school has a yahoo group and I found Ming's phone number from a friend. One day, we met at a friend's wedding and he asked me to drive him home (it was about 10 mile drive). So he kept asking for help from me. One day, I asked Ming to hang out and have a meal somewhere. When I called him, he was reluctant and was "hasty" on the phone. Eventually he wanted to come but I had to pick him up somewhere. When we ate, he was also reluctant to pay the bills. But he paid with a grumpy attitude after I paid the bill. I came to his wedding at a church. The church was empty. Probably only about 20 people were sitting at the front. And then last year, we met with some friends. He complained that I did not come to his wedding twice (yes I only came one time at the church). The reason I did not come that he did not send me a wedding invitation for his wedding party. So visiting the church is sufficient. so what do you think about having a friend like this? what do you think about his attitude?

My friend has been married for 4 years now. Recently, she has been going through some family issues and has been depressed. She ended up sleeping with her coworker to take things off her mind which I don't understand? Why couldn't she just sleep with her husband instead if all she needed was sex? I know her husband and I couldn't look at him into the eyes. He loves her so much and deserves to know but I don't wanna be a homewrecker.

My guy friend and I have known each other for over 2 years. We weren't always friends, but have been for a year and a half. He's not the affectionate type, as he's never given me a hug (I've never seen him give anybody else a hug either). He'll do high fives or hand shakes, but that's it. He's also never told me he loves me (as a friend) or that he cares about me. He's said/done some things in the past that make me feel like he cares, but I don't know. He once implied I deserve the best, he once implied that he wants to meet any guy I intend on dating so he can see if he approves of them or not (he's met my current boyfriend and seems to like him, although he hasn't actually said so). Today, on the ride home, he asked if I was hot or cold and it turned out we were both hot, he just wanted to make sure he didn't freeze me LOL. Also, before he left from dropping me off, he didn't drive away until he made sure I got inside okay. Does this mean he cares? I know it's a silly question and makes me sound dense, but wouldn't anybody normally do these things even for a person who wasn't a friend, but just an acquaintance? He's 11 years older. We're both adults, I just don't have a license at the moment.

She became? angry at us.

Just discovered the term close acquaintance on interneg what does it mean

Is it considered rape if your in bed with a guy and he passes out drunk, after he consented to having sex and you continue without doing anything more than than. Like you finish and that's it. Bear in mind he consented before he passed out. Now he's acting all violated and scared and saying his consent was invalid but I genuinely think it's because it was his first time trying it with another guys (which is why he got wasted in the first place) and he's having regrets. But to be clear he did consent beforehand.

I know someone very well and we used to hang out all the time. But there was no close bond. No love but only hanging out. He even made fun of me behind my back with my other frienda few times. We dont talk anymore. Is he a friend or close acquaintance?

I know this sounds very strange, and you re right, it is. I used to get bullied for looking "ugly" and for being really timid before I hit puberty. Then, when I began puberty it stopped- for a little while. Now (only the girls) will try to insult me for being "pretty"? I don t get it. Like, for example, I have really clear skin. They will say that I m not a "real girl" because I have clear skin so they are somehow better than me? They will also pick on me for having a small waist and tell me that boys only like me because of it. It really hurts my feelings when they say things like that and I don t know what to say when they insult me like that. Please help :(

I try to meet people outside of work. I go out to bars to see music or a game and meet people and be social that way. Where I work people seem to gossip and I don't care to hang out with anyone from the company. I've been there for 2 years and don't care too. I did try to be cool with one co worker. Till he told people my business about what I was doing wrong in a new department. I had to cut him off. We were never friends but I was just cool with him and thought he was ok.

When I was in elementary school, I was hanging out with my friend (we're both girls). So don't ask me how but we came up with this odd game where one acted like a princess and the other was Prince Charming. And whoever played sleeping beauty had to lie down and wait for Prince Charming to kiss her. So she played the princess and I was Prince Charming and I kissed her. And I remember kind of liking it.. and then she played as Prince Charming and kissed me.

Like why do they feel like they deserve the best? Like my sister thinks she's better than the whole family. For example my sister thinks I should be cleaning her room while she gets her hair and nails done. And like on the first day of school this girl walked in and called the class ugly but she was staring at one girl when she said that then she said she didn't want to sit next to the girl in the class cause she was ugly and said she wanted her schedule changed out of the class. This happened to me too. This girl didn't want to sit next to me and told me to move over a seat.

okay, so my friend is really really bad at art. she s trying so hard, but her arts not really changing and it just looks really bad. I think she knows that it s bad. what triggered me to ask this question is because she recently submitted an artwork to this magazine club anonymously. however, only 2 people out of 10 voted for her drawing to be on the magazine. we are both in the club so the two people who voted for it was me and her. i want to tell her her art is bad, but she s trying really hard and she even draws more than i do and I don t want to hurt her feelings. ill attach a photo of her artwork.

"Let me help you!" "I'll help you!" "Need some help?" Excuse me, dumbass, but this is none of your business! Did I ask for your help? Hell, no! Why can't you wait for people to ask for help??? Why do you need to go around "helping" everybody? I don't need your help, I didn't ask for it and I don't want it! YOU are the one who needs help! Somebody needs to help you learn how to mind your own business and tell you not to be so nosy. Stay the hell out of my life! I don't know you, I don't want to know you and I do NOT need your help!

Would you stay friends with someone if you sometimes brought it to their attention that you think they're kind of pushing you away but yet they act like they don't want to do deal with it and they don't really ever apologize for it?

I just want your opinions. I'm kind of offended because if anything, I'm more mature for NOT sending him nudes. We're both 16 btw

They were cool with me when I was little but after 17 they were dickss. Gossiping, making up stuff, and fake.

My friend depended on me for years, whenever she needed a favor, I would do it without hesitation. Before she passed, she gave me some used costume jewelry and handbags she owned, but she left her cousin, whom she hadn't talked to for years and lived in another state, all her valuable jewelry. People have told me I should have received the good stuff after all I did for her. Would you be upset if you were me?

I am in a happy relationship right now, but I have a best friend that I used to have feelings for for a long time. I have bad OCD and feel like telling him that I had these feelings for him, and because of it, I was a bit toxic in my opinion, and I can't stop having this repetitive thought. I don't know if I should just let this all go because he has no clue or if I should just get it off my chest since it bothers me immensely. I just want to talk it through and maybe ask to see him less just in case weird feelings come back?? Help!! Does that make me a bad person if I ask to see him less because of this??? I feel awful.

I was watching my brother play outside, he is 3, and he was playing with our neighbor down the street who is also 3 and a little girl. She was being a bit bossy and not being very nice, so I nicely said to her "Hey, can we please play more nice with each other?" She starts to scream and cry, and she runs back to her house. I feel bad that I made her cry but she wasn't being very friendly either. Did I handle this correctly?

i'm a sophomore in highschool and just transferred this year. i have a couple friends but i'm not super close with them. i really really want to make more friends i just feel so lonely all the time. there's one girl i really like who sometimes talks to me in english and i would love to get close to her, but she's so popular and i'm just average and don't know anybody. also a lot of the other average girls i want to be friends with have so many other friends it's hard for me to get to know them bc they're always hanging out and talking to a bunch of other people. please help i've just felt so lonely lately :(