My wife had loans when she got married to me she had debts for marriage arrangements and her family support before marriage. Now she says its my responsibility to pay her everything off. I believe its her family's responsibility. What does Islam say about it? Answers under the Shria reference would be very helpful. JazakAllah kher.

There's a 15 years of age difference.

So basically she insulted me, my family, my husband, and my husband's family to my face. Then tried to convince everyone he and I shouldn't get married. No one knew the terrible things she said except me and my husband but they disagreed with her about us getting married. She didnt show at the wedding. My husband made the choice to not tell anyone else the terrible things she said to me and just shut her out of our lives. It's been two years and she recently reached out to my husband. He didnt recognize the number and Answered and he is way too nice he didnt hang up he actually had a conversation with her. I'm afraid she now thinks she is welcomed in our lives. I dont want that. She seriously insulted me and my family and she talked bad about his family but keeps hanging around them trying to be family to them. She is a fake and a liar. I dont want any part in that. I discussed this with my husband and he thinks we should just be fake too and not be rude but also not let her into our lives. I want it clear to her she is not welcome near me and my family but obviously my husband disagrees. What do I do? I've had too many liars and fakes in my life I dont put up with that anymore.

I am a female and my significant other is male. -He always makes time to talk and appreciate me, even when he's busy with work. -He loves me with or without makeup and always tells me I'm beautiful. -He's understanding when it's my time of the month. -He's not afraid of wearing my jackets when he's cold. (Some men freak out) -Whenever I cry he cries with me and we comfort each other. -His parents like me. (Lol) -We make playlists for each other, especially when we're going on separate trips. -He enjoys showing me off to his friends and doesn't hide me. -We rarely argue and are good at working things out. -We take each other's advice. -He'll try new things (food, activities, etc.) because of me. -He loves doing anything with me from shopping to seeing plays. -He makes or brings me food when I forget to eat. -We're comfortable with each other's bodies. -We play video games together. -We love each other very much, of course. Thank you.

LEGALLY married...in the process of divorce. She took the baby while he was at work, all her stuff, and moved to Texas. He hasn t seen her in over a month. He filed for divorce but it will take months to go through. Even though by law they re together, but they re separated, is it bad to get physically & emotionally involved with him? He's 25 and I'm 27.

His mom dislikes me that Is nothing i can change about it. I tried to keep a good relationship with her but it didn't work out well so I rather stand back whenever she is around. His uncle likes me but they haven't been on good terms since two years before our wedding. His grandfather's wife is very nice to me and our kids she invited us everytime, but it seems he is no longer interested in keeping contact with his grandparents. Something happened , I don't know what but ever since he stopped socializing with them. when it comes to his friends. One got an excuse to not be a groomsman at our wedding and they haven't talked since. the other stopped talking to him because he owed him money from the suit he bought for him for our wedding( he was a groomsman too) the third one is still in contact with him, but he does't Seem to be interested in trying to hang out with him. at his job I have met a couple of his coworkers before. One was playful with me, and the two other older ladies were kind of rude. One went straight to say hi to our first child and then kept talking to my husband and then finally remembered I was there and said hi to me. The other lady we met at the store he introduced us to her she introduced him to another lady that used to work at the same job. The lady shook his hand and when I reached out to shake her hand she pretended not to see mine so I had to resort to saying hi to the second lady.

Husband passed away 7 months ago, only make enough to pay bills , don't recieve food stamps.

Husband has sent these texts to a "lesbian" coworker "send me boob pics & 👹👅😻💦💦. I confronted him about the "boob pics" statement which he said was an inside joke at work and that she was unattractive and gay. She's not gorgeous but she is also not unattractive. He then preceded to tell me I was nosey and if I felt he was doing this then I should leave. The emoji message happened after this conversation and I'm fed up and know he will just lie to me. My intuition is what led me to look at these messages because I drop him off to ride with her to work and she never looks at me or waves. Opinions welcome.

I told a guy I thought he looked good for his age and really looked good in a black t-shirt. Of course, he said he appreciated it and thanked me. I then told him because of my marriage and his GF I could only admire him from the room. He said that was fine, that made him feel special. He said he felt funny about texting another man's wife, so he will barely respond to my text if I ever text him. However, when we see each other, he is always looking my way. Our eyes lock. He is very sneaky to make sure his GF is not watching him before he looks. Each time he walks past me he touches me either my rubbing my arm, squeezing my arm or patting my shoulder. Others have caught us looking at each other. I think there is more than him just being nice. If he wasn't interested why would he touch me and continually look my way. I don't think the GF knows about the text otherwise she would def say something. I know we should not be flirting with each other, if this is what is really going on. Please no lectures! Just tell me why does he touch me and why do we keep locking eyes.

you might react ? And does the visual help if the guy is in good shape ? No. No I am not gay Just thought it would be fun and sexy !

So, I have added my Federal Taxable Income over the previous 5 years, and reduced that by half (a generous reduction), then divided by the # of times my wife has caused me to bust nut. Yes, I have kept track for the previous 5 years. My DPN is $1000. Curious to see what other fellows have been spending. Cheers!

My father said "you don't know what sad is" when I told him. So I have acted happy about it but I am not. My mother is the one walking out as she is in menopause so being all crazy like. My Dad has never been one to validate her feelings is his wrongdoing, in her end she is on menopause so mean and has always been mean to his family.

He's 39 and has rejected many good quality women who cared about him, are low drama and attractive. He's been a sex addict for years and cannot get beyond looks. The younger the better. He started dating a 20 year old (now 21) back in February she turned 21 in June. They went on 3 vacations and he spent a good deal of money on her from the get go. He treated her way better than any other women he dated in the past because of her age. He brought her around every friend he had and took every opportunity to show her off. She cause a lot of chaos and drama in his life, he almost lost his job because of her antics. She had broken things off with her childish teenage (19 yr old) ex just a month before dating this guy and the ex came to his work and wanted to fight. A lot of his friends thought she was using him to make her ex jealous and it worked and she didn't care what happened with the older guy and wanted a free ride. His friends expressed their concern with her negativity and constant pessimism and sense of entitlement towards the vacations, money and gifts that she demanded. He didn't care...he wanted to have sex with a 20 going on 21 year old. Over the course of their 8 month relationship he spend over $12,000 on her and he only makes 50k per year and doesnt even own his own home yet. As expected their relationship ended and now he says hes suicidal and no one cares about him and he will never date again... Would you feel sorry for him?

My sister and I used to be married to two brothers. Two brothers married to two sisters. Now my sister got divorced because her ex husband was emotionally/verbally abusive, manipulative AND he got a baby mama behind her back, which he even had the audacity to justify!!! He justified it saying that he was unhappy in his marriage and he wanted to have more kids so he "didn't do anything wrong." Those are his exact words by the way! He has manipulated even his own parents (my in law's) into accepting that his act was noble! They even tried to manipulate me into convincing my sister to come back to him but I didn't fall for their trap. My in law's are now friends with the baby mama and they also tried convincing me to be friends with her. They're despicable people and they disgust me. I told my husband that I don't like it when they rub the baby mama in my face. My husband spoke with them and they stopped talking about her. But now they started talking about her to me again. They also always victim blame my sister saying that she was at fault for keeping him unhappy while they were married, so she's "not allowed" to divorce him. Again... those are his words. He denies any allegations of his abuse and manipulation but his behaviour has already shown me his manipulative tendencies. I don't want him and his parents to talk about the whole situation in front of me. Should I talk to my husband again and tell him to tell his family to back off? What should i do?

My husband always calls me fat, joking or not. Im not really fat..I just had a baby and gained a bit weight..and I am working to lose it but the baby weight is coming off slower than I thought..anyways...he would call me fat, ugly, cow, etc al the time..today I said I needed to go shopping to buy new clothes..he says "oh yea you only fit in 3xl" (I dont btw) Today I felt like that was it and told him that i may be xl...youre is a small size and Im not talking about you shirt.. he got so offended and walked out and didnt talk to me after and now hes constantly ignoring me..he always calls me fat and i either brush it off or laugh it off but now i thought it was enough..when i try to work out or diet he keeps discouraging me and says youll never be able to do it..but one comment i made offended him so much..hes ignoring me should i bother talking to him or let him be? Hes insulted me all this time..

I recently had an unexpected 3 day hospital stay. I did not expect to have any problems with the medical bills as I have insurance from where I work. I did not know the doctors were not part of my insurance plan. I was out of pocket over a thousand dollars. They turned their bills over to a collection agency which called me several times a day. I also got letters almost every day demanding payment or they would get a court judgement. It was a terrible. I was a nervous wreck. Suddenly the phone calls and letters stopped. I did not understand why. It was sure a relief. I told my parents what had happened and they told me they knew why I was not getting any more bills. They had told my ex husband about my problems and he had paid the bills. I was really surprised. I called my ex husband Bob, and asked him why he had paid my doctor's bills. He told me that he knew about the nightmare I was having with bill collectors. They call all hours and threatened to tell your neighbors and boss at work and he did not want me to have to endure that. He said we are friends and "I don't let friends suffer when I can prevent it". At that moment, it was like a MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN. Bob is really a great guy and he still has feelings for me. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. If he will marry me again, I will be the best wife he could ever dream of. Please give me some suggestions on how I should tell him what I am feeling.