So, following my divorce I am looking out to get married again. My confusion is I have a 4.5 year old son from my previous marriage. Should I choose a women who is a divorcee and have kids or without kids? If she has her own kids form previous marrige will she end-up ignoring or even being mean to my son? Looking for inputs and guidance

It seems like most people I know who have kids mainly do it because society says you're supposed to after getting married. None of them really wanted to have kids, they were just going through the motions of life. Is this common for a lot of people? My wife and I will never have kids and people are in disbelief we are going against the norm.

Boss found out I've slept with his wife and fired me. Searching for jobs but haven't gotten a call.

I've been trying to get a divorce from a man that was the cause of me being in an 8 month coma, and in a wheelchair. I never got to get a divorce because of running away, and found our he was in prison and is there for the next 10 to 12 years. I'm not sure what to do at this point. He keeps getting inmates families to harass my family and me. I'm scared for my life. He is in prison in Florida, and I am now in NYC. Can anyone help me with steps of how to save myself please. No lawyers want to help me I guess fear of being hurt. I don't know what else to do. He's a danger once he gets out, and at this point I wanna die, because I don't want to know what happens. I don't know what else to do. Please help me.

My husband and I recently got married a few months ago. Before our engagement, he had mentioned he was thinking of relocating back to his home city and living with his family which I was okay with (cultural). A month after we got married, he got his transfer ( which he waited for at least 2 years). The reason I'm upset is because I feel like my husband doesn't appreciate what I'm giving up so him and I can have a successful marriage. I'm leaving behind my family, friends, city and career while his life goes back to the way it used to be (house, family, friends etc). What can I do or say to make my husband understand how hard this transition is for me?

My wife is pregnant with our first baby she was watching Teen Mom I don't get why young girls like watching this I guess anymore girls love drama. She's scared we might end up the way those parents are half of those kids don't know who their dad is because they either walked out on them before or after they were born I'm never gonna do that to my son or daughter. Also me and her aren't stupid teens who got drunk and had sex and got pregnant just so we could be on tv were adults she's 26 I'm 31 we got married first then had a baby even though it was unexpected you don't see that much anymore. How can I help her feel better ?

About 6 months ago I asked my husband to stop watching porn and explained my reasons why and he s understood and agreed. He is a very lovely understanding husband. We have a word that means we promise or swear and we would never go against that word we even said it in our wedding vows and I honestly trusted every time it was said. He promised he wouldn t watch porn and throughout the following months swore on this word that he wasn t. About a month ago I caught him on an erotic game and it turns out he had been playing them a lot and used the excuse he thought it was a stupid loop hole so he convinced himself he wasn t breaking his promise. For some reason now I just can t trust him atall in any way and I m really struggling emotionally with it as I just can t look at him without feeling betrayed... mainly because he swore with this special word so many times. Am I being ridiculous should I just get over it? He is immensely sorry and has sworn never to go on them but now I just feel like every second I m not with him he must be looking at something or doing something! Any advice or opinions would be really appreciated as it s tearing me apart the lack of trust but I don t know if it is fully justified. I know he would never cheat on me. Thanks in advance x

Is it a threat?

John Dylan Ashley, you aren't camp! Deal with it! You are built like Thor, you cannot be camp if you tried! Oy violence! No no little wife scared! No sudden moves round me babe, im a torture survivor! Camp means effeminate, right? Effeminate meas like a woman. One thing you're not is womanly. You are very manly! When are we having sex again?

My wife has been diagnosed with the flu she also has a really bad cough and her throat hurts. We got her some medicine today I gave her some when we got home last night. How else can I comfort her ?

My husbands family has Facebook right ? They take photos of the family at events but leave me and my husband out . They do however take photos of my new daughter . They have always done this ? Please give me your idea of why ? We aren't ugly or anything . I just don't get it , they will take family photos without us sometimes too ?

She left him but now they are back together. This was 6 years ago.

My husband is completely against marriage counseling, however we have some problems and had them for years and we talk about it and it never changes, i am no longer happy. I want to go to marriage counseling as a last effort to get some ideas on how to fix the issues, I don't want to break up our marriage I love him but I also want to be happy. How can I get him to agree to go?

He is the one I was writing about that was sleeping with someone new and separated but not yet divorced. He is now filed for DIVORCE. Not his wife but he filed. His four kids know about it. So is it okay now that he is sleeping with my Mom's friend that she set him up with and with her all the time? Irene: Yes he does, and everyone else in the family also, especially is outgoing wife. He was divorced once before and I wonder if he did this. I was too little to know. It is my Mom's brother.

Our 21 yr old son lives not too far away from us in an apt. off college campus. He was an only child for 10 yrs until our second son came along. My husband and 21 yr old son get along really well while I have personality clashes with my son. We usually misunderstand what the other one said that it sometimes leads to hurt feelings and awkwardness. My husband favors our 21 yr old more than our 11 year old son. The 11 yr old and I get along better although I can't say its always that way but its definitely more relaxed and upbeat, we have fun. My husband allows our older son to do what he wants such as travel on his own in a foreign country because he has a 10 hour layover in that country. I was against this because I have heard about horror stories traveling in a foreign land esp. on your own. My husband said (with our son in the room listening), he is 21 he can do whatever he wants. Well, I know that, but as his spouse shouldn't my husband stay neutral and not give our son the momentum? At the dinner table, my son eats this food with gusto because he thinks his dad cooked it while he ignores/forces to eat the food I served him which he saw me cooking earlier. What he does not know is, I marinated the dish he preferred and all his dad did was stick in the oven. I eventually commented how good my marinade turned out. My husband never said anything, he allowed our son to believe he made it the dish our son loved. What do you think?