So there was this guy that I was basically in love with. He was pretty much my first love but he didn't feel the same way. In tenth grade I told my friend and he told the guy that I liked him. The guy said he wasn't looking for a relationship but our friends teased us about dating and having cute babies and he didn't do anything about it. Basically I knew that meant he didn't want to date me but What I thought was weird was how the guy had a birthday and he texted my best friend to make sure I got the invite. I was flattered but I didn't want to think to much into things. A little bit later in the year he made a Snapchat and started adding random people and he got mad when He found out I had a Snapchat and didn't add him And told my friend to tell me to add him. so I did. He also took a girl to prom that year who was one of my friends but I have this gay friend who is a guy and the guy I liked became extremely jealous and stepped in front of us while we were talking and stuff. Fast forward to junior year, we became more of acquaintances and we were interns for a play and me , him, and my best friend would sit back stage and laugh at stuff and he would laugh at all my jokes which Ik for a fact weren't that funny bc some of them weren't even jokes and no one else laughed but anyways can someone clarify all this for me? I need to know what we're his intentions. Did he just want to sleep with me? Or could he actually have been interested?

Why won't he just say he's not interested? He keeps saying he's interested but that he's busy. This is a message that he sent me recently. "nothing you did was wrong. I am going to get to hang out with you very soon. I'm not trying to play games but I'm sure that's how it looks. My schedule is still pretty busy but I swear I'm going to find time very soon" I don't understand why he just won't come out and say he's not interested.

I texted my ex bf that i miss him, I asked if he missed me he said he'll think of m me time to time or when he sees me at church but he remembers the arguments and clears his mind and he played hardball saying he was hurt etc, how would it be different this time around he didn't want to be hurt again etc(he wouldn't ask how it'd be different if he wasn't interested still?) he said he didn't want to be hurt again and I was fed up with it because despite everything he was playing hurt card I said things happened that shouldn't have and this time it would be different, after that convo a couple days past and before my trip i texted him saying despite everything i tried giving him the benefit of the doubt but it was useless. He said "ok i'm not going to argue with you, enjoy your trip". This was before I went on vacation.I didn't say anything else, I'm wondering if he was playing hurt expecting me to constantly try harder and get back with him which I didn't and now he's being nice to me. When I got back, I avoided looking at him at atll, he passed by me leaving and winked at me then next couple times waited to leave church after me and caught up and said hi how are you. If he was so hurt and eveyrthing he said now why is he doing this?

I'm in a state of ambiguity with my friend, I'll call her Lucy. We've been close for years. We walk to school together, we're always over at each other's houses, we have a one-on-one sleepover at least once a week. Which neither of our families mind, if you were wondering. Her parents adore me, and invite me to come along on family vacations. When we've been at the beach together, we always put sunscreen on each other and it's not the only time we've ever given each other massages. We face-time every night, and sometimes Lucy even face-times me from her bath, so once or twice I've glimpsed her boobs, and I don't know if that was an accident or if she just doesn't care. We're very affectionate and cuddle all the time, sharing a bed when she have sleepovers. Sometimes we cuddle in public too, and a lot of people think we're dating. Our parents have joked about us getting married before. As for us, we've talked about it a couple of different times. Neither of us is pushing for more or less than what we have, and Lucy is the kind of person who isn't into labels. Once, we ended up having a long, tender conversation about how we can't imagine our lives without each other, and ended up making out for several hours - but that's the only time we've ever kissed. What are we, exactly? It's never been awkward, we've always felt relaxed with each other, but are we more than friends? We've talked about it, but I still felt confused after. Where is this going?

Okay so the basics is that in 6th grade i struggled with depression and making friends. In 7th grade i pushed myself very hard to make friends and by the end of the year i made one specific really good one. we talked all the time, hugged everyday, and texted everynight. This was the most fulfilling friendship i ever had. Toward end of the year i started to become depressed again and it was hard to get out of bed in the morning. i really wanted to tell him what was going on i was to scared. I didnt want to lose him so when summer started i avoided talking to him so that he wouldnt have to know. finally i was sick of lying to him so when he texted one night i lied saying it was his fault and that he made me uncomfortable. When he asked what made me unconformable i said it doesnt matter and he should stop pushing me. 2 months later I decided i was going to text him but backed out. that night he texted me saying he was sorry and that he wanted to be friends again and i said yes, but never told him what really happened. now we talk afterschool often and say hi to eachother everyday, but its not the same and never will be. I managed to get him alone afterschool one time and we talked for 40 minutes but i didnt tell him out of being scared. i got him to text me but after a bit he left me on read and that made me realize that its not the same. i want to tell him really bad but i dont know how to, and i want to try to get that friendship we used to have. please help me, im desperate.

Is it bad that watching people slaughter each other is very relieving?

Problem with hints is that you get confused and don't know if meaning yes or no as answer. Example: asking female for first date, she won't say yes or no but ignored me, I ask her few more times. Still not get answer. Example 2: after dropped application off for job, I call them asking when interview and whatever I get this new job or not. Supervisor keep saying still waiting for human resource to approve, I asked again and again still same answer. Example 3: I saw car I like, I made offer to seller, seller kept saying will think about it. So question is should I take a hints on everything? Or need to be pushy until they give me straight answer? Don't want to lose opportunity just because I got wrong idea if took it wrong.

I have definitely fallen for him. Sometimes it seems like we are just friends then it seems like it is more than that. I honestly do not know what to do. I am not brave enough to risk the friendship but it destroys me.

I'm from Italy

I'm 21 and I still don't have a bestie. I've always wanted a good best friend. I've never ever had a real friendship. How to get a bestie?

she keeps saying she'll get me back but i know shes not smart enough for that

We went in a movie hang out a couple weeks ago and had a blast. She shook my hand during this exciting scene and was clapping. We've talked snap chat and such since then, but when I texted her yesterday if we were going to the movie agajn this Saturday she said she couldn't anymore cause she has work training with dcf. My friend got it in my head she just doesn't want to hang with me because who trains for work on a Saturday? At night? She mentioned she was going to college in spring and I texted her worried but it online school. I told her I was worried she was leaving and loved spending time with her. We've talked as friends for years and she said I love you to me before and I say it back. My friend though said asking her if she'd like to go Christmas shopping with me and asking if she wanted to have dinner freaked her out. I like her like her but I don't want to lose her as a friend if she doesn't feel. I sent her a text explaining that and she didn't respond. I'm screwed

So I'm a 22 year old guy, and I've met a lot of people who have wanted to become friends with me. Whether it was people wanting to hangout outside of college, or after work. Sometimes I find people who want to be friends, even in the most random places, but I always kindly rejected their requests. I don't even have a social media account because I don't want to be "friends" with people who will never really want to hangout. And even if they aren't that way, I have met friends who always turned into assholes. I believe friends are unnecessary because they're really a choice, not a need. I'm also single, but by choice. I have my own problems, and feel that I'm not ready to commit to a girl right now in my life. I tell my older brother these things, and he always looks at me like I'm crazy and tells me that I have issues. So is it weird? I mean, Don't get me wrong, I'm really friendly, and I currently make the most profit off of customers at my job.

I had a friend add him in her account and he watches all of her stories but doesn't open mines anymore? What could be the reason? Did he mute me?

I've been at my new school for 3 months and I still being that left out one the other new girl who joined 2 weeks before me already has loads of mates hugs everyone of her mates already has a best mate she can tell everything to and everyone spoke to her nobody tries to get to know me she also texts all the people at new school and FaceTimes them and I can't seem to get comfortable with anyone cos they don't try and it feels like I'm the only one trying to try but at my new school nobody notices if I'm off school or not it's just like they forget I exist She also already has a bf I'm not jealous of her I'm mad at the fact that everyone tries to get to know every other person but apparently I look borin cos I'm quiet Im too shy to be able to be a loud outgoing person I find it impossible and every time I say to myself I'm gonna be more outgoing I don't know how to like what to say to the people I chill with cos there always the ones talkin and I'm stood behind them

What would you tell her?

My life's peak rn, I'm 17, at college and I work as a dominos delivery driver. This sounds really mean but I am falling apart with most of my current friends and bored of the stuff to do round the area. I need to meet a new group of people and find new stuff to do at night (I don't mean activities like a martial arts or something).

it's thanksgiving and my good friend doesn't have that many good friends because she just moved here and she facetimed me all sad and asked how my thanksgiving was then hung up and i texted her and she said it was bad and i just feel bad because she doesn't have a good relationship with her parents because they constantly call her fat. help? i would hang with her today but i'm with my family

This is something a guy sent to me. Why won't he just say he's not interested? He keeps saying he's interested but that he's busy. nothing you did was wrong. I am going to get to hang out with you very soon. I'm not trying to play games but I'm sure that's how it looks. My schedule is still pretty busy but I swear I'm going to find time very soon

I'm 22 years old and I feel unaccomplished in every aspect of my life . I'm not trying to exaggerate my situation .From the moment I was born and up until now , I've never been happy . Sure there are times when I feel happy and that everything is going to be okay but that happiness is short lived . Socially , I'm shy, extremely introverted i only have 2 friends and no relatives whatsoever . Exactly 2 friends both of which i've known for 10 years . My problem is that I'm always unhappy . I AM in a place where i can meet a lot of new people . It's not like I'm scared of social interaction , it's just everytime i meet someone they don't seem all that interested in getting to know me . I feel really hurt when I see how excited they get when they meet another person in front of me . I'm never invited out . They never greet me when I come in the mornings,Sometimes I do and they don't notice but they'd do it happily for my best friend ( one of the 2 friends), It just hurts that people never approach me.I know that 20 years is a long time and I should've gotten used to this by now but I can't.I'm a student and in my major each 2-3 persons pick eachother to work together . And I was never picked I just stick to my best friend but people tell her that they want her so I just tell her to go . There are a lot of projects that I want to do but I get anxious about everything in life . And if I don't I get anxious as well. Please I need a solution.I'm obese,this has given me low selfesteem

This is something a guy sent to me. Why won't he just say he's not interested? He keeps saying he's interested but that he's busy. nothing you did was wrong. I am going to get to hang out with you very soon. I'm not trying to play games but I'm sure that's how it looks. My schedule is still pretty busy but I swear I'm going to find time very soon

Around the year 2007/2008 my friend, her sister and I would play very often. They would sometimes go to my house and I would sometimes go to their house too. I remember playing a lot of games with them. One day, we decided to play house. My friend and I were the mothers and her sister was the daughter. We decorated our little house and we started playing. When we started playing, my friend was on top of me and we were pretending to kiss each other. Her sister wasn't looking because there was a blanket covering us. Then, I put my hands inside her pants and I squeezed her butt cheeks. I don't remember if I touched her nipples and back. After that, we stopped and kept playing house. We were both 9/10 years old girls. I didn't know what I did was a bad thing. Now that I'm 20, and think about what we did, I don't think it was appropriate. At that age I thought that if a guy touched a girls stomach, she would get pregnant. But now I understand that you need to have sex to get pregnant. I think me and my friend were very innocent at that age and still didn't know what was good or bad. Should I feel bad for what I did? Me and her are still friends.

Most people make friends when they're younger or when they are kids. And I don't have friends and I've never had a bestie. People would use me when they wanted something. But I've never had a true friend. It seem hopeless because most people already have their bestie by age 21. Will I ever have a really true good best friend?

My friend came home late one day after spending the night with her boyfriend and lied to her mother that she was at my house. My friend told me to lie to her mother too if she ever asks me. Her mother asked me one day and I told her that she was at my house studying, but she also started to ask me questions like when did she come home, which I didn t know. I made up a time and she found out that I was lying (my friend went home around 1:00 AM but I said in the evening). She told me that she would call the cops on me next time if her daughter was missing (idk why) and to never be friends with her again. Should I be concerned?

We are both 23 and have never been intimate with anyone before. I've known him for a year but we started dating for 4 months now. We makeout a lot but I wanna take it to the next level. Any tips how?

I texted my ex bf that i miss him, I asked if he missed me he said he'll think of m me time to time or when he sees me at church but he remembers the arguments and clears his mind and he played hardball saying he was hurt etc, how would it be different this time around he didn't want to be hurt again etc(he wouldn't ask how it'd be different if he wasn't interested still?) he said he didn't want to be hurt again and I was fed up with it because despite everything he was playing hurt card I said things happened that shouldn't have and this time it would be different, after that convo a couple days past and before my trip i texted him saying despite everything i tried giving him the benefit of the doubt but it was useless. He said "ok i'm not going to argue with you, enjoy your trip". This was before I went on vacation.I didn't say anything else, I'm wondering if he was playing hurt expecting me to constantly try harder and get back with him which I didn't and now he's being nice to me. Now he waits to leave church at the same time as me to say hi and has done it the last couple days and I also got i, I also got 7 blocked calls at 2 am the week that we talked, assuming it was him. Why doesn't he say more than hi how are you?

So, I'm a college junior and am halfway done with junior year. I get that college isn't for everyone and that's okay. But, my younger friend is a freshman and never listens to any of my advice. She currently has a D in one class and has two more Cs.. if she keeps it up, she'll lose her scholarship. I get so frustrated because I'm trying to push her to actually put in some form of effort.. but she literally acts like she doesn't care and has basically said that "none of it matters." Is it okay that I've tried to inspire her to do better? I've been extremely blunt with her and have tried my best to inspire her. I know she has potential, but literally could care less.