I envy my friend who is happily divorce from her 10 year marriage. I thought things were going good for them but turns out she wanted more and actually parted ways and is taking care of HER. I envy my old H.S. friends who are married and have children and a nice home. I envy a friend who is trying to conceive with fertility treatments with someone who is willing to try for a baby. I envy my old classmates who got a job and are thriving in the surgical fields. I envy all the women who have men in their life that help build them up everyday and who help around the house without being told. I envy the people who get to travel with their significant others and come back with so many photos captured of their best moments together. I try to set all of my "wants" aside and be thankful for the life I am able to live but deep down I want more. All I have are the clothes in my drawers, a car and phone. The house I live in is not mine, I'm not married and I know I won't get the chance to make it mine/OURS. I am just so tired of being sad for the things I dont' have or possibly not ever getting to have for being scared to take a chance in taking care OF only ME by leaving someone who I "think" deep down does love me for just me. I shouldn't have ever gone back to my bf after having done some dumb ridiculous things in my past. I should of allowed him to be happy with out me and we both would probably be happier people.

I got an invitation from my ex mother in law and my ex father in law inviting me to a party to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary. I really liked them when I was married to their daughter. However I politely declined to attend because my ex wife and her new husband would be there and I did not want my presence to cause any problems for anyone at the party. I did however send a nice wedding anniversary present. After the party I got a call from my ex wife and she was mad at me. She said the present I sent her parents was nicer than the one she and her husband got for her parents. She told me I was no longer part of the family and I should not have any contact with her parents. I pointed out to her that her parents had invited me to the party so I though it was appropriate to send them a gift. I told her that if she has a problem with my gift to her mother and father, she should take it up with them. Does what I did sound reasonable to you?

I don't understand the problem

I'm 22, he's 34. I met him at my older brothers basketball games. He's been married but unhappy for so long, I can actually see it on his face, his wife tried having kids but she cant. This really upset him, I know I can give him children, and good looking kids too ! need advice, a plan or something to rid her without and trouble. Best way to go about it so we can get our lives going together, (we will move out of state) I see the blue troll added details, My terrific life must really upset him. I got a life, get one.

I had an affair with a co-worker. It ended when my wife found out. Fast forward 18 months later, my ex co-worker moved to a new state, is still married and she has a nine month old little girl that looks just like my son did as a baby. I tried contacting her a few times, but she wont respond and has blocked me. I m separated from my wife, pending a divorce. My preteen son won t talk to me. I feel like I lost everything. I want to seek courts to get a paternity test done, and get rights. But my ex co-worker is married to a man with a lot of money, and is her legal father. Is this worth pursuing?

And that she will always fantasize about being with an alpha male and will leave the beta whenever she thinks she can get an alpha male?

We have dated for about a year. We met not long after his divorce was finalized. Marriage is not on the table now. But I like to plan and think about it. I would like to one day have a wedding and I can see him standing there. But I fear that his divorce has made him cynical and in many ways uncompromising. We talked about it the other day and he said: "I was a fool in my marriage. But I am not an idiot. I have learned from my mistakes. You know what I learned from my wedding? We spent $20,000 and the next day it was life as usual. You know what I learned from my marriage? Not to indulge other people and to stand my ground. You have no experience in this but I do. I am not going through all of this again. I'm sorry but I am not going to let you lead me astray when I know it is wrong. I've done that in the past. Not again. I'm sorry but for me there is no compromise on this". He is so unfair, so harsh at times. I understand that his divorce and everything was hard but it is not right off him to judge me like I am his ex. Sometimes I wonder if he is able to go into a new relationship without bias. I love him, I really do. He is intelligent, strong and a good man. But is he really ready for all of this?

i just found out when I checked his Facebook page this morning. He has it open on our computer. his best friend was supposed to be one of our groomsmen but he didn't show. I don't know exactly what happened but he ended up saying he could not. I thought somehow they would still show up at the wedding. But they didn't come. He said that he had an injury at the knee and could not walk for a while so they ended up not coming altogether. Things got different between them after that. him and his ex were on and off together. We have been married for a while now. but why did he decide to go back on his bday and look them up. I can understand for his best friend but why the ex? on his birthday I made sure everything went well except that part when he got upset because I did not want to eat giordanos. I am on a diet so it would't Help me to eat that. I tried to make him understand but in his mind because it was his birthday he could get anything he asked for. He also tried to get me to take care of our baby by myself all day because it was his birthday. I told him having a birthday does not stop you from being a father. I feel like he regrets being with me. Or maybe he is very depressed. He has slowly cut himself off from everyone that he used to see even family. I want to reach out to some of his friends or family so they can talk to him but I don't know what will be his reaction if they find out I'm behind all this.

I changed my name back to my maiden name so since I didn t use my husbands last name he says we can t prove we are married now. What do I do

Over the last year and a half I have never felt more like a fool. The past 18 months she has been suffereing from anxiety and panic attacks. They just came out of nowhere. She had not ever showed any signs of that sort of thing. She is 26, healthy and no significant trauma had happened in her life. After many sessions with a therapist we deducted that it's due to stress. Various factors of stress are me, her job, her friends and her family. When we got married she continued to act like she wasn't married. 2-3 weekends a month she took the 2 hour trip to stay the weekend at her parents place. At the time I thought it was ok because we had no plans so why not? What's wrong with being close to your family? With the therapist we have unconvered that she has unhealthy thoughts. She has this compulsive need to put other before herself, acting like their therepist. She acts like a mother to her own mother, to her sister, to her brother, to her friends. And when you talk to her mother this is all due to something they call the evil eye. Someone is jealous of her apparently. She has done a poor job of not making people jealous. When she said that I yelled at her until I was blue and I haven't been there in 6 months. I married my wife to be my partner. Now I have a child that I have to reteach the lessons of life so she can forget what she learned over there growing up. And I allowed it to happen. But she is not getting better, she is almost ok with being at home. When is it enough?