My boyfriends grandpa passed away within the last year and he was very close with him...his grandpa is a Holocaust survivor and my boyfriend is very proud of that...I want to get him something for Hanukah/Christmas in memory of his grandpa but I'm lost on what to get....any ideas? We celebrate Christmas and Hanukah for both of our families (:

I secretly stalk a young sailor. He's the most handsome and special guy I have ever seen. When he's around my heart beats so fast it makes me afraid... And it beats faster if he gets closer. We spoke only once when I tried to talk to him asking for info... He answered back and when he looked straight into my eyes I froze, blushed and lowered my eyes in shame. I like him so much I want to know him but I'm afraid he wont like me or think Im creepy. I even wrote poems for him. I'd like to give them to it but I'm scared as hell and hide myself from him. What do I do?

When I was first married to Joan, her mother Lisa helped us out financially. That was many years ago. We never paid her back the money she gave us. Fast forward to the present. Joan and I had a friendly divorce and she has remarried. I am in a MUCH better financial position now than when we were first married. I have evolved over the years and I now believe that it is the morally right thing to do to pay Lisa back the money she gave/loaned us with interest. I did this by depositing the money directly into her bank account so no one else had access to this money. All of my friends that know what I did tell me I am crazy for doing this. They tell me I did not owe Lisa anything. Even my ex wife Joan are unhappy that I gave this money to her mother because she said I made her and her new husband look bad as they don't have any money to give to her mom. Does what I did sound crazy to you?

So I've been in a relationship of 3.5 years, have 2 kids (My eldest one is from my ex) So, from last year I caught my partner talking to another woman on fb, no sex texts or pictures but they were both being charming to each other but trying to hold back. He told me they are friend till I spoke to her and she was surprised that he didn't tell her that he is in a relationship and that he has 2 kids, so she stopped having contact with him. 6 months ago he started another conversation with another woman on Skype (he met her in another chat), no sexual messages or pictures, same with the previous woman, she had no clue that he has us. He told me that nobody needs to know his personal stuff, for me that is complete bullshit, and he turned it to me of seeing porn. Excuse me? I tell him that I watch but never spoke to real man. He told me that he got bored, he works and socialist but I am in his country and I have no one here. Am I over reacting, what's your thoughts?

Mom and Dad sold their farm and divided the money among us 5 children except they kept my share ..retained until I need some (I am widowed, 60, and live alone) I don't really need any money *I have my own little nest egg only I know about* ..so I don't really need their help financially, but they do have that retained egg but I have not asked for any of it.

I mean what do even "friends" , relatives, or good neighbors mostly talk about? and why would want to ? why not ask deep questions like can on yahoo answers ? I cant just go up to people and start asking them deep questions about philosophy or history , or society or politics or some specific question regarding repairing my vehicle or computer or other item in home & garden like I do here....so what is so great about conversations in "the real world"? same fake, small mindless talk, chatter? why would want that? or what is missing?

Which is the meaning?

My on & off boyfriend/father of unborn child is doing cocaine. He's been doing it for a while and I can tell the obvious difference when he's on it, he becomes a lot nicer and tries to manipulate me into having sex with him. When he's off it, he's inconsistent, combative, dismissive and rude. I no longer fall for his manipulative games. But as the soon to be father of my child, I've asked him to stop, at least by time the baby comes considering how much he recreationally enjoys it. He claims he's capable of doing it by then. I have no intentions of hopping back on this relationship roller coaster with him because it's gotten too toxic & dysfunctional. He doesn't consider the unnecessary stress I need during the last stages of my pregnancy. I'm worried and I don't know how I'm going to effectively coparent with his inconsistency and angry outburst

But its early on and the hints are subtle so you arent sure

I'm not fat, I'm 6'0, I have a fulltime steady job that pays good money, I own my own car, house, and I have a college education. Plus I am also Bi-lingual. I work in a management position so it's not like I am shy or anything. I am pretty bold with a strong work ethic. A woman who found attractive told me I was good looking right to my face, but she kinda grew to dislike me for some reason. @Chloe- I really have no hobbies. Sometimes I just get out of work and drive around until I either get sick of it or have to go to bed. I guess from that you can say that I like to travel. I am not active in politics locally, I mostly focus on things happening in my home country. The only time I really ever met anyone would be when I was in school, or at work. @Chloe-By bold I mean that I have confidence