She's quitting at the end of the month, so it's not like it would be awkward if it doesn't work out. I'm afraid if I don't act soon the opportunity will be gone. We are both married, but she's mentioned that she's dissatisfied, and I feel the same. Although I feel like the proposition may work, I worry that if Ive misjudged the situation she could tell other coworkers on her way out or even her husband. And obviously the rejection would be pretty humiliating. Please don't respond with a morality lesson... my conscience would be clear due to circumstances I don't want to go into here. So what do you guys think? What should I do?

I know couples divorce but to separate and get back together this many times is it extremely rare? The shortest was a week and the longest almost one and a half years. Aunt is ignorant of his needs and he has a mean temper (never physically violent though). They have three kids and now 2 grandkids.

My fiancé and I are getting married in a few months. He has two children from previous marriages who are currently on SoonerCare. When we marry, will my income have to be accounted for and could the kids possibly lose their SoonerCare?

This new medicine called "Alprazolam" is making my wife lose control of her bowels at night. It's so gross. I smelled something last night and lifted up the blanket and it was like soft serve ice cream plopping out on to my brand new sheets. It was ridiculous. I couldn't help but get mad in the heat of the moment. I went to go sleep on the couch because I had to go to work in a couple hours. When I came in the room in the morning about half the bed was covered in her liquid feces. It's absolutely disgusting and this is turning into a daily thing. I will add that she has one or two glasses of wine before bed recently. Is that what could be causing this?

I'm telling you this because people judge. They'd tell me I'm a pig and what not. The thing is I'm not planning to do anything about this. And I'm avoiding her the best I can. To a point where my wife thinks I hate her sister!!! That's how hard I've been trying, but I still feel very guilty about those feelings. I'm starting to think I'm messed up in the head. I really do hate myself.

My wife is pregnant with our first baby she started to cry for no apparent reason. Why does she cry so much ? How can I comfort her ?

would it bother you if your wife or girlfriend worked as a stripper dancing naked in front of other men for money revealing everything. what would you do?

We use to have sex up to 3 times a day every day. We're still fairly young but don't have sex as often. It's just a chore sometimes. What are some tips to be more active again?

Im getting a divorce and my husband wont stop contacting me about the divorce proceedings when my family has given him all the info. Ihave a mutal restraining order with the court but i dont think he knows but it was a part of the divorce packet. He cheated numerous times, didnt want to fix himself and isnt there for our newborn and doesnt help financially. I dont want anythunf to do with this person. My family has agrees to be points of contact but he refuses to speak with them. He is able to see our daughter every sun at my mothers house but refuses to go. What is his problem?

I have been married 4 years today, a lady at the church called to ask him to take her to the hospital for a procedure, he left at 5 am, I asked him why she could not try someone else, knowing her history of dating married men, no one asked me if it was ok,, did I mind, now he wants out, saying my mouth he can't take, now he is not speaking, and he defends her, was I wrong for feeling like I was disrespected?

Of the part that declared that it would not be with the other or the third element and why?

With Thanksgiving coming up tomorrow my wife and I are hosting her entire family at our place. Two incidents in the past few days are showing me that she just doesn't want to do anything to help me out. I love to cook, always have. We divided up the menu between all the adults coming so each person could bring a dish or two. We're doing the bulk of the work. My wife can cook but is not a cook. Meaning, she'll cook to eat but she's not a person who will cook for a group. I told her that I just wanted her to focus on cleaning the house while I prepared the meal. She told me no because she didn't want me going around saying I fixed everything. She said she'd fix something. This is what she told me. She said, "I don't mind cooking as long as I don't have to cut anything." She hates using knives and would rather spent 3xs the money for chopped onions, celery, bell peppers, etc than to just cut one up we already have. Last night after I got off work I had to drive 2.5 hours to pick up my daughter from college. While on the road my wife called me about cleaning the bathroom. We live in an old house and there's no ventilation in our bathroom so it tends to stay hot which creates moisture. That in turn causes an excess of mold and mildew to grow. My wife said that she wanted me to spray that when I got home and my response to her was this. "I'm 100 miles away from home right now and you're 10 feet from the bathroom, you spray it." Her response was, "I don't know how to spray a bathroom." Who doesn't know how to grab a bottle of Tilex, turn the knob, and pull the trigger? I really think my wife is just trying to get over on my to have me do all the work. And it's not like we're newlyweds or you in age. I'm 49 and she's 48. She has been using these excuses for years to get out of doing things. Is my wife really this lazy? Talking to her about it usually causes an argument. In regards to the cooking I told her that I would do all the cooking because I had a lot of my mom's recipes but she didn't like that. She doesn't want it known that she didn't cook anything. I told her "what woman wouldn't want to go to work the following Mon and say that their husband cook everything." No, she likes the acknowledgement, the pat on the back, the praise. Plus, as a woman she doesn't want it said that she can't or didn't cook anything. But how can you call yourself a cook if you refuse to fix anything that requires you to cut or chop something beforehand?

She's quitting at the end of the month and I'm afraid if I don't act soon I'll lose my opportunity. Over the past year we've really connected emotionally and shared intimate details with one another like our dissatisfaction with marriage and life in general. I don't want come right out and say it but should I? Or is there a better way that would reduce the pressure on her that's maybe less direct but still gets my point across? Please spare me the morality folks, I'm just wondering HOW to do it, not if I should. Thanks.

My mom is very pretty and is in shape and after 20 years of marriage my dad said he want to marry another woman. Same with my male relatives.

My wife is pregnant also sick with the flu she loves to lay in bed all day and cuddle. Why ?