So today I decided not to hangout with my friend again. Trust me I will keep my word. For a long time ever since he s been driving he would make plans with me by asking me if I want to go to different places. Sometimes I would say ok. Sometimes I would refuse to go because I have plans of my own. I remember when the 1st and 2nd time he invited me to his church. He told me to get up early. Be ready by 8:30. I would set my alarm clock and ask him early in the morning if we are still going. He would say yes. I would be waiting for hours. He would tell me in the afternoon that he wasn t going to pick me up and go. At the time I didn t have a car like I do now. Another time he did that we made plans to go shopping for a concert. He would tell me what time he planned to pick me up. I wouldn t hear from him after that. Later he cancelled. Told me he wasn t picking me up. Again at that time I did not have a car like I do now. Saturday he wanted to go to our old high school Football game. The game cancelled. I already was dressed. He decided not to pick me up. Today which is Monday he wanted to go because the school was having another football game today. He told me he was not far from my house but was heading back to his house. I was already ready. Now some people who I told letted me know not to allow him to disrespect me like that. I decided today to take their word. I will not be hanging out with him again. Because he dome that so many times.

I had a dream about my friend giving me head in my apt. We didn't have vaginal sex, but the 69 action we did was great, should I tell her even though we aren't together? We are good friends.

She's very judgmental and she said she was going to the preceint to say that I molested her which I never did.Then my friend writes me that he's going to the preceint to make a report against me.

I never really considered myself a shy person. I usually make friends quickly and since I've changed school quite a few times, I got used to meeting new people, but I'm still the type of friend who'll find excuses not to go out at social events or meetings because they, as fun as they seem, kinda tire me out and so do people. I noticed that most of my friendships, after a few months, go downhill. I don't know why but I, with most of my friends, start getting annoyed, bored, tired and even angry at some times. I feel like the qualities that made me become friends with them get drowned in their flaws and it irritates me. I can't say I am much better; I am short-tempered and pretty demanding, but I have very few friends who don't make me want to pull my hair out (I noticed that those friends were the one I don't see too often, for example the ones who don't go at the same school as me)... anyway. So yeah. Why do I get tired of people? Is it mean? Is it normal? Cause most of them get sad and blame me for not being as close as before and it makes me feel, quite honestly, like a ****. Thank you in advance and sorry for mispellings and the bad grammar, I am french!

I had been talking to this guy on Facebook and I said some things that I think upset him or made him feel uncomfortable. He said he would talk to me last week but he hasn't read my messages. And I know he's been online so today I sent him a Christmas Card to where he works. And I put a Starbucks gift card with the card.

What should I do to stop this I take things seriously because I don't want to be proven wrong or argued with

We known this girl for the pass 6 years and shes willing go to movies or dinner with us. She has a bit busy schedule but she will make time to hang out and go places with us .. I've liked her for quite some time but she doesn't know that tho. When she had a boyfriend we didn't hear from her much but now she's willing to hang out. I wish that I hang out with her alone and go to dinner alone or movies but I'm just nervous to ask. My chick and her text from time to time but I would like to have her number to.last time we hung out said asked if she can keep the tickets. Is there some kind of explanation why she is hangout with us? How can I let her know I'm into her. I sorta of spoil her when we're all out. Any segustions?

So I kinda like the ex of my best friend but since she's my best friend he also doesnt talks to me What should I do ?

I've been texting this woman. She said that I'm nice looking but she's not interested in dating. She's given me dating advice and she's given me tips on where to look for work based on my interests. She's open to hanging out with me and has invited me to hangout at her place. What do you think?

So I was really mad at this guy because he was really toxic and always forced me not to hang with other guys because he was jealous or something(keep in mind: WE ARENT DATING). He also talked about me behind my back and called me ugly once. Anyway, he's asked me out multiple times and friends have told me that he was in love with me but that makes no sense. Every time I tell him that he's making me upset, he tries to make it about him and keeps saying he's sorry, but does the same thing over and over again. This time, when I told him he's making me upset for being toxic and whatnot, he bought me chocolate, a flower, and a card. I feel kinda bad for being upset because he seemed genuine but he does this type of stuff so often now. Can someone tell me if I'm being a bad friend and unappreciative?

I like her as more than a friend and we went to the movies over the weekend. She loved the film. She grabbed my arm and shook it excited during this one scene. Even if she turns out not to feel the same way, I'd love to be friends. She is one of those hyper, pretty girls who has a big heart, loves puppies and kids you know? Before she went back inside she said "hang out again soon?" We hugged and she said love you! I want to believe she meant all she said but maybe it's just my anxiety second guessing everything like it does??? We texted a lot last night but most of the time I'm texting first. I don't know, I just feel like she's humoring me to be nice

So i recieved a call from my female friend and she said "hey Mark wanna hangout". And i said "Listen up broad. I want no funny business like last time. And no jibber jabber from that silly lip of yours." And then she hung up. I haven't seen her in 2 weeks. Does it make any difference that I said it in a generic 1950's detective accent? So it turns out she had received PTSD from my detective voice as her father was a time traveler from the fifth dimension who was a detective who so happened to beat her while smoking a cigarette. Everything has been fine since we conquered the zib zob imperial nation.

I have this friend with whom I had an argument with. She has been battling cancer for long time and it's been getting worse, despite this, she is a very strong person and she behaves as if nothing were happening to her. Knowing her personality, I just treat her like I would treat any other friend, she wouldn't like me to give her special treatment just because she is sick. Since every time I asked her how she was doing she had a sad answer I stopped asking her, because I didn't want her to be thinking about her illness when we were together. One day I asked her how she was doing, and coincidentally this day I needed her help with something, so she said that I only asked her this because I needed her help, and this really upset me. However, we went past this and everything was ok. A few days ago we had another argument so bad that we stopped talking to each other for a few days. Yesterday we started talking again, but out of necessity really, and I also found out from someone else that she is been feeling very ill. I have been wanting to apologize, but now it will look like I am only apologizing because she is getting worse and I won't want to give her that impression.

Me and this guy were texting about a rapper, and I told him that I don't really listen to him. He then said that he'd rip my lungs out and make me carry his child. He says this kinda stuff all the time and I know it's supposed to be a joke, but sometimes it's just kinda weird. He did ask me out multiple times and I rejected him so sometimes in the back of my head I'm wondering if he would rape me. We're really close friends though soi just think that he expects me to know it was supposed to be funny. PLEASE HELP ME

Attractive people get everything they want. My nephew just got married, one of those frat popular kid that's been and done everything in life at 25 and i didnt go to the wedding. Im 32 and ugly and haven't really had much a life. Doors have never been open for me but when someone attractive or tall gets something shouldnt we just expect them too?

Hi. My name is Sophie and I'm 15. So my main friendship group consists of me, my female bestfriend (known for 9 yrs) and my male bestfriend (known for 2 yrs). We are all pretty close but recently it's like my male bestfriend is trying to split me and my female bestfriend apart. It's like he's jealous of our friendship and it's pissing me off. He keeps saying sh*t like "oh Sophie told me she hates your painting" or "Sophie told me she prefers me over you" behind my back and tries to turn my female bestfriend against me. I've discussed this with her, and she knows what he's trying to do. So she acts unbothered when he does that and that pisses him off. It's so toxic. The problem is that I can't drop him, because my female bestfriend has a crush on him, so I have to tolerate him. But like. How do I deal with this? Also whenever we do a groupcall he makes us feel bad for leaving. For example today I wanted to leave the call so I could play with my pet birds, but he's like "wow you'd rather play with your birds than talk with your best friends." It's terrible. It makes me feel so shitty. I don't know why my friend still has a crush on him but I can't change that. Anyways what do I do?

I'm 23, and I have a friend I've been very close to for about 10 years. She has now finished university and she currently works full-time as a teacher. I'm still in university, because I started it later after taking two gap years. I now love what I study, and will be finished next year. However, whenever we catch up, I feel like my friend kind of tries to act like she's better or smarter than me, just because she has a 'real job', and I'm still studying. I feel this through the way she speaks and how much she speaks. She CONSTANTLY talks about her teaching - it's basically the only thing she talks about (sometimes in quite an arrogant way). Even if we discuss other topics, she often tries to prove me wrong when I speak, trying to make it seem like she knows more than me in general. I don't know why she acts like this. Why does she feels the need to try and appear like she's 'better'? I believe nobody is better than anyone else - we're all on different paths! This annoys me and it gets me down. I don't know what I should do about this. Any advice?

In the past six months Ive cried a pretty sizable number of times, I ve lost motivation to get school work done, I don t eat much on my own, I m always stressed and I never sleep which leaves me constantly tired. I ve also grown tired of the company of my friends and I usually want to be alone.

I have been having trouble with a friend of mine Daniel. This all started when he came out as gay which I totally support him but he now hangs out with girls more than he does my other 3 friends. One day I said to him ever since you have come out you don t hang out with us anymore. He got very upset about this comment and won t speak to me. He has now made every girl in my grade mad at me. They all accuse me of being homophobic when I am in fact bisexual. What do I do?

When I was a kid I was a complete bully coz I was going through stuff at home... then i got 16 and started realising that I shouldn't be taking out my issues on my friends and random people(who would be equally like me but I wouldn't have it) but now it's like my friends used to love me bullying them& being like a human flipping demon Or something... they tell me I need to be like that again and I've changed... Why are they bullying/ ignoring me and stuff??

So I was bullied in middle school and in high school by a girl named Athena. Well we are now 22 and she recently got pregnant. Her boyfriend is one of my good friends at my job. I was thinking of getting him and her a gift. Would she hate me for that or is it inappropriate to get her something as well as the baby. Any help is appreciated.

I got my bachelor last year and have only been an accountant for a year and it's killing me! This isn't something I can do the rest of my life. What should I do?

So we had a project with a partner and my professor was sick so the class was cancelled 2 times. During that 2 week period, i did not really think much about this project and was going to finish and ask my partner few days before class.. I actually waited for her to text me first so that i know she finish her work but she never did so I tried to ask her today and then she tells me she is not in the class anymore and did none of the work.. so.. i have to do everything and it is due tomorrow afternoon.. I do realize it is my fault for not communicating and doing things last minute.. but i wish she could have told me sooner.. i would have never thought this would happen and assumed she would do some of the work so i emailed my professor. and he never replied.. and realized i should not have because it seems like im making an excuse for not being able to do my project on time but at the same time.. i feel really mad that i have to do everything on my own because my partner did not tell me this important information eariler.. my professor is a very scary person.. he gets mad very easily and yells.. he hates me because I never understand things and i am not talented.. so this makes everything worse.. im so scared he will get mad.. i did try to finish and i did finish but i did not put my best effort into it... so if you were a professor and this happened to a student.. would u get mad at me? and i feel like he will be extra mad because we had 2 weeks to do this assignment

Literally I'm not. If I just thought I was I'd shut up about it..but I'm not accepted in any group. Not the alternative people, not the metal heads not the rap community. not the blacks or whites (I'm part black and white) not even the mixed kids accept me , I have 2 friends , Girls never want me and this all kinda sucks. I always hear people bitching about "having no friends" or "everyone hates them" and that pisses me off cause people love them and all I got is a mom who's kinda rude and a dog and two friends..so wtf

While it's common for someone to marry someone that they were friends since they teenagers, it is however very rare for someone to marry someone that they were friends with since childhood. Why is that?

Can a man go a long time without knowing when a woman is in love with him? I could never tell him, but it's been over a year and I don't think he has a clue. Are some people just really that oblivious?

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