So I ask my husband for about 7-8 favors a day and he gets annoyed with it. It's little things but he's begun to get fed up with it. I feel like he should like it that I ask him for so much. He's a great provider for the family till the point when I make little complaints about him to others they laugh at me and say I should be grateful and stop wanting so much. He cleans he provides he protects and he's a great father . But just because of that should I just leave him alone? Is asking for help 7-8 times a day too much? I don't think him being a great provider isn't that important it's nice but not really so he says he's getting his own bank account is he wrong or so I need to chill? I think he thinks since he's super dad and provides he doesn't think he he needs to do more. Yes he cleans and does the yard and he gets me a lot of stuff but that isn't enough to me. Do I want too much or not enough?

mean "firm personality"

I don't want to go alone to c it because I think my husband should be there with me am I over reacting he said I should go with his parents Bu y his dad doesn't like me any way he likes his other daughter inlaw so I will be humiliated I don't know what to do as I live with his parents

My husband and I just got married. We've been together for over three years and got married at my moms bed side before she passed away, because she had wanted to be at our wedding. My whole family loves him, I know he loves me deeply, and I love him too. We own a house together and have bills together and we both care for each other deeply. But I m not happy. I feel ungrateful, but I feel unhappy in the relationship and its took the pain of losing my mom to realize she would want me to do what makes me happy in life. I feel stuck though, between all of the financial obligations we share and I cant stand to break his heart, I don't know what to do. Theres no easy answer i know, but I appreciate any advice. Thank you,

basically I just got promoted to manager at my job (2nd shift / 2-10 PM) she picks up a new job because the last job she had claimed they don't " have set schedules ", and she was making me 2-3 hours late every time she worked. So I got her to look for something new, mind you; my schedule never changes, it's either 2-10 or 3-10 nothing too dramatic. Now she has this new job that works her from 8AM to 630PM, I have called off the last 3 work shifts , no baby sitter and childcare for the state won't pick us up. Now I'm jobless, and on top of that, she doesn't even make as much as I did, and works more.. what makes it worse I'm getting interviews and can't even make orientation because she can't call off or be late for 90 days.... I'm lost for words, can't think straight. Something tells me she's trying to get her " situation " better , the faster , the quicker I'll be out of the picture. Some will say that's insecure, but if that isn't the case, who would cripple their own home in such a greedy way? Or am I missing the bigger picture ?

Me and my wife like to shower together is this normal ?

The only time he is awake is to do his school work (he is currently enrolled in online school) to eat, or to game a few nights a week. He is literally spends most of his life comatozed. He isn t working at the moment so that s not an excuse as to why he s so tired. I tried talking to him about it and he said his online school makes him so me really tired. He never goes out / won t take me out. We went out to the cinema the other day and he was so tired after it that he slept for four hours. Even though he had slept for 14 hours before we went to the cinema. I can t take much more and I m ready to leave. If I m supporting myself and him I may aswell just be supporting myself without the stress and aggregation. I should add he is overweight. It s all turning me off. Reading this back it sounds like I am an unsupportive wife but this has been going on for too long now. Im so over it. I m lonely.

Long story short -I m married and slept with another man who I have lots and lots in common with and intense sexual chemistry with. We have been talking for a month, and slept together one time. He just found out I m married, my husband confronted him and he is still trying to pursue me, texting me all the time, asking how my day is etc. Is this about sex or is he emotionally involved?

My daughter got married last summer and is coming from out of town to stay for Thanksgiving. I don't like my son in law he had a failed marriage before and heard he abused his ex and is a drug user and a drunk. I don't want them having sex in my house. Should I say something? The thought of this disgusts me. He reminds me of my ex husband he was a drunk but didn't smoke pot at least.

Hubby and I have a newborn and per the pediatrician's direction, she is to shave limited contract with people until her immunity is established. Hubby has two kids from a previous relationship that he and I absolutely adore. However, hubby has been incredibly pushy about having them over most of the time. I have asked that they not be around if they are sick, as it could harm little one. Low and behold, he pushed anyway and brought the kids over anyway, denying that their snot snorting was a symptom of a cold. I'm now sick and pissed as hell, because I don't want anything to happen to my newborn. How do I approach this so that we don't compromise little ones health, without making my hubby feel like he can't see his kids?

I was in a relationship and got engaged to be married. My fiance had some "challenges" however and they really came to light as we got closer to our wedding date. I ended our relationship when he beat me a month before the wedding and I reported the incident to the police. This was 4 months ago and he is still in jail. Meanwhile, his ex and him are back together (while still in jail) and she is ecstatic to be able to call him all her own. Happy day! But, I m left with the heartache, pain, regret, and financial liability of a called off wedding. It kinda stinks. Then there was J. J s parents called me after the breakup and told me they were team Melissa (I met the through my fiance) and that they still wanted me to be a part of their world. It took me a while but I accepted their invitation and haven t regretted it. The only problem is I have developed a crush on their son J. I m pretty sure he likes me too but it just feels so wrong, even taboo! I feel like Yoko! (I m breaking up the band) It s me ex s friend. I mean, 3 months ago I was supposed to be married and live happily ever after. Now he s in jail and ready to bang the first thing that shows him affection, and I m chasing his friend. I pretty much feel nothing but guilt.......guilt and a rush of excitement Everytime I see J......which causes more guilt. So guilt. I feel guilt. Anywho, is it just a rebound? Will this go away? Or could I really be falling for this guy? And am I a terrible person? Thanks ~M

I talked to him about my concerns, I asked for help, stuff mau change for a day or two and goes right back. He will say he is hurting, he has kidney stones, he has a surgery to remove them coming up. However there is always an excuse and has been for years. I offered marriage counseling he doesn't want to go he feels we should not invite people into our problems. I don't want a divorce due to I love amd care about him, but on the only hand I feel like i should have a right to be happy in my relationship.

So my soon to be future wife and future mother of my child doesn't want to take my last name. This is why. She has a son from a previous relationship, and she said she doesn't want him to feel left out by taking my last name, and he only has his real dads last name. I told her that he won't feel left out and that's a stupid reason. I told her just to hyphenate her name that way she can keep her last name in there, but she is saying she doesn't want her son to be feeling left out. She is also currently pregnant with out daughter. I really don't understand why she won't take my last name if we get married. Am I being selfish? or is she being selfish or what? because I just don't get it. I wanted to have her son have my last name too, but since his father is partially in his life and he has to sign off on it then I can't do it. What should I do here???

My wife has the flu she's worried about missing Thanksgiving dinner it's her favorite holiday besides Christmas but she might miss out on it too because she's having heart surgery next month. She said this is the first Thanksgiving she'll probably have to miss she always goes to her uncles house for dinner which isn't so far away I might go for a while I hate to leave her but her brother will be here to watch her. She hope's to get better by Thursday. How can I comfort her ?

I love going on AdultFunCams . com and just play around in there. They are really nice ladies and I tell them what to do, it's fun. However, I am a married guy and my wife dont know about this and if she did she kill me because she is very religious. Apart from that, the sex with my wife is just ... bad and I feel better sometimes going on this site then having sex with her. Is this considered cheating? It's not like I am having an intercourse right?

Like for example if the wife cheats on husband, she wont just cheat with one man. She will cheat with multiple. Or vice versa. Right?

I've been in a serious relationship for 5 years, young love lol, we've been through thick and thin and at one point she was pregnant but had an early miscarriage, i don't want to be with anyone else, should i just pop the question? Finacially we're fine to do it?