Both are bad and deceptive people.

He is a deceptive person. He lies to me and I presume my siblings also.

I'm 21 and I made a choice of going to New York for the whole month of December. My grandma recently came from New York to Georgia for 1 week and a half. But I brought her and I'm taking her back. On Friday we will be leaving. I get sentimental because in Georgia my mom , brothers , and stepdad are going to be here for Christmas and New Years and I won't be with them. But yet again I will be with my dad , grandma, cousins, aunts and uncles in New York. But to be honest I don't feel comfortable being in New York because I don't really get along with certain relatives just because they always bring a negative vibe for me. I bought the ticket already and it's settled. But I'm a sensitive person and get easily emotional when saying goodbye to my mom and other family members. What do I do ?

I am divorced buy my ex wife and I are still on friendly terms. My ex wife Rita has remarried. With her marriage she became a step mother to a teenage girl, Megan. Megan was behind in her classes and she needed some tutoring help. Rita called me and told me about Megan's need and that Rita and her husband did not have the money for a tutor. Rita asked me if I would tutor Megan on credit. I like to help people when I can so I told her I would tutor Megan for free. Megan came to my house after school 2 times a week and I tutored her until dinner time then we went to a restaurant and back to my house for more tutoring. I took her home after tutoring. After several tutoring sessions she told me she did not want to go home as her mom and dad were always fighting. At the last tutoring session she told me I would make a great dad and she wanted to move in with me as she could not stand the constant fighting her dad and Rita were doing. Not knowing what to say I told her parents would never agree to that. Megan clearly needs help but I am at a loss as how she can get help. If anyone has any ideas how I can get her help, please share them with me? THANKS

My family members are downright abusive. They abused me since childhood and they make nasty jokes on me, treat me badly and they always use abusive insults and language towards me and each other. They have even beat me before. How do I leave and quickly? I feel like I'm Cinderella living with her step sister and mom. I'm a young adult and have no job. How do I quickly move out?

I recently caught him masturbating in his room. I didnt say anything, though, nor did I bat an eye. I simply remained calm, smiled at him, and excused myself. As his mother, this has me concerned. NOT because of what he was doing, but because of what he was watching on his computer while doing it. I'm thinking about putting a lock on the parental controls of his computer. But the problem with that is that he might still easily get access to it somehow. So there's probably no point of restricting his access.

They both want me to live with them but thats not possible im staying at my mom at the moment but i miss my dad and im not sure what to do or who to live with i hate having to choose what should i do?

I am a 19 year old guy with a 15 year old female cousin. She is a very nice person but is very shy. Her parents will not let her date until she is 16 which is a few months from now. She is very much looking forward to that time. She told me she has never kissed a boy and she wants to do it right. She wants me to give her kissing lessons. I told her there ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT BE ANY ROMANTIC RELATIONS BETWEEN US. She said she understands that and is cool with it. She said she just wants to learn how to be a great kisser. Should I do what she wants? It seems kind of kinky to me.

I'm in a single sex religious private high school, and I what to switch to a more lenient but still religious, coed private high school. My sister is graduating from my school this year. , I'm in 10th grade and want to transfer for 11th, I even figured out a carpool and turned down a summer program to make up for the tuition difference, but I don't know what's else to do. O will not take no for an answer, accept it all ideas thanks The tuition is thousands more than my current school, but by not going on a summer program, which I previously was going on, makes up almost all of the difference. I'm not being bullied or harassed, just placed in a school where I don't belong, leaving me to resent high school, when my peers around me all are having the time of their lives. I organized a carpool, figured out tuition, began the application, talked to my schools administrators (who agreed with my desire to transfer) and also … (cont.) listed all reasons why I should transfer (all were very good reasons) and why the other school would be perfect for me. Everything has been figured out, all I need is my parents' approval, and I'm done.

I'm an adult guy 31. I have faults and flaws. I had have started a job. Sister and family still hates me. I generally keep to myself. Parents only care about my sister. Though she has her own place. She stays with us. I asked if she had money for guys, so i can get to work. She said she didn't. But she has money to do everything else. She have asked me for money, and for me to do things for her, and I didn't say I couldn't.

With my family s current living conditions, it s difficult for me to get any practice in towards driving. My parents have recently divorced, with my siblings and i living with my dad. although my mother has told me that she would help as much as she can whenever we see her, she works a lot which doesn t give me much opportunity. And with my father, he had just sold our F550 truck to put that money into a building he s working on(not a smart move in my opinion). So the only working vehicle we have is the F250 his friend is lending to him, which is a big no for me, a novice, to practice with. Now, it might sound selfish of me to say this type of thing, that "i need practice and i need it now" but the problem is i have to depend on my dad for absolutely everything. From finding a job, to transit from one place to another. And this is because we live on a mountain, an hours walk away from any form of civilization. So my question is, is there anything i can do to get practice in and become more independent of my dad?

My mother is an idiot. She can't do anything, has no hobbies, can't even copy a link, yet she has a ******* job. I just quit a shitty job and haven't even registered as unemployed again, or she came waving with an even shittier job vacancy. I went to please her but the people at that job were so negative I declined. She then gives me the silent treatment all day. ***** the **** did I do wrong?? ******* dumb little ****. I sometimes just wanna strangle her that is how furiating she makes me!!!

My grandmother has always been very naïve, paranoid, and easily frazzled. She doted on my dad's brother as a child and she pities him now as an adult for "all his problems" (which I think stemmed from her babying him as a child); every single surface in her house was carpeted - my parents have been married over 30 years, and my mom does not remember the house not being carpeted (the only surface that was not carpeted was the concrete basement). At the senior living facility where she now lives, Grandma has not properly bathed herself in over 2 years because she is afraid of falling (she fell in her carpeted kitchen 2 years ago); she refuses to ask for help, and calls my dad for the every little thing - because she "doesn't want to bother anyone" (the nurses who work there are supposed to be bothered, it's part of their job - they are also there to assist with bathing, but she would rather take a sponge bath every day). She refuses to do anything medically necessary that is considered common sense (take a certain pill for a headache or use a heating pad for neck pain) unless her doctor tells her that it's ok. Grandma is also terrified of death, and refuses to prepare for it (oh, what we went through for her to write a Will and a Power of Attorney); when her arthritis flares up (cue Dad), she thinks she's dying and wants to go to the hospital - where her story changes about the pain's initial location and severity. She is in relatively good health for someone of her age.

My son father and I had a very bad breakup back in February a week later he started dating someone new and she and her kids moved in with him. Me and her doesn't get along, she has called and email my job and in the past when my son would go over there she would make statements like your son laying in the bed with us etc and I'm done with the situation. I met with my son dad last week and he told me he dont get in female problems. I told him my son can't come over to his house because I dont want her or trust her around my child..I told him when you want to see my child then we can meet up and you spend sometime with him but my son can't come over or be around her.What do yall think am I Wrong? I'm just over it and I want peace in my life and don't want my son brought up in between his mom and dad at each other throats. SN He don't speak up like he should because he scared that she will leave him/ our child is one year old

I ve been a furry for 15 years, and I m worried my parents will kill me if they find out

Should I go into Job corps?

He used to say very rude things to me, and undermine me. Now I have pets, and he takes out what he wants to say on my dogs instead. He has dogs too, but his dogs are so poorly trained. Really weird that he is so on top of being critical to my pets/family, but his are so crappy. What does this mean, do you think?

My dad and my brother (who's 16) are constantly fighting. To make matters worse my dad has a lot of friends with the police force and calls them whenever he's "done dealing with Brandon". He usually calls them whenever things get physical and then he plays the victim and my brother gets taken in. This morning, they continued a fight from last night and my dad called one of his friends and was blatantly lying saying that Brandon threatened to harm himself and that's why he tackled him and they were fighting, when in reality all he said was "I'm over this place". My brother weighs nothing and couldnt fight to save his life but he wouldn't back down either. After about an hour he was breathing really fast and still trying to argue and the lies to my dads friend werent helping. My dads friend was just ignoring both of us while we were trying to explain. Eventually, the cop calls for backup and says he's "5150" because he was gonna hurt himself. And when the ambulance comes my dad starts spinning all these lies about how he's worried about him and how he always talks about killing him and then himself. He lied and said he refused to see a counselor after a major panic attack (which was completely unrelated) and has been suicidal ever since. The more my dad went on the more agitated my brother was getting so they started yelling at him to calm down which only made things worse until they just tackled him to the floor and gave him a sedative and took him to the hospital. Im still in the waiting room to hear any updates. Meanwhile my dad is telling a bunch of lies to the doctors too. i seriously annoyed that no one took the time to listen to anyone else's side. my dad and his smooth talking, they're taking everything he says as fact which is why my brother got so agitated ugh.

I live in Fremont Ca at 4AM I walked to jack in the box in rainy day and I arrived at 4:45AM and dining room opens at 6AM and I texted my brother to tell his girlfriend to pick me up and my mom called me angry and upset then she she picked me up at around 6AM clock. Plus I didn't bring my wallet with me and nobody attacked me I only brought my phone and soda cup.

So.. I only love and care about my family and my pets.. and I hate everyone else I've ever meet until now.. I don't know, is that a normal thing ?? or is there something wrong with me

He also is a womanizer apparently. I am from an immigrant family and he stayed back in Kenya so I have only met him twice.

His parents were wonderful.

Ok so about me, I'm not perfect, always got the short end of everything growing up. But I started my own business, am actually married, make like $200,000 a year with the business, am a rescue diver, and me and my wife are planning on buying our first house this Spring after we file/pay taxes. My sister got preg out of wedlock, she's dating some guy who half the time seems like he doesnt even give an S about her, she popped out 2 babies without being married... Why she would do something so stupid, especially considering we grew up in a home where our parents divorced at a young age. Is she wanting her kids to have a similar childhood? My mom was the typical woman that divorced the husband (my dad), tried to get all his money, badgered us to lie about our dad in court to get custody, and then ended up remarrying some guy who, although a mostly decent guy, my other family doesnt seem to like.. But then, my mom got mad at me because I filed taxes which I'm legally required to do and sent them a tax return (we were living at their house at the time, a couple years ago)... Apparently I am the bad guy because I wasn't aware they were not declaring that income on their taxes (aka fraud) when they never even had the common sense to tell me that I should not state that I paid them... My dad is constantly drunk, even though hes super successful and he remarried some bimbo who does cocaine and adopts sketch pit bulls into the house that bite people, then they deny that the dogs are dangerous AF even though they are, the one bit me twice and he denied it even happened The other dog they had bit some lady's face LITERALLY OFF, but they are acting like the new dog (whos a "rescue" from some sketchy drug dealer) is somehow going to be a better dog, even tho the new one already bit me twice.. My dad is really brilliant at his work, but hes also being the biggest idiot for whatever reason. Don't even get me started on my stepfamily. They're all complete liberals, the only one who's made something of himself is the oldest Tom, who although I respect, doesnt respect his own dad (my stepdad) for literally no reason at all, (and Im 99.9% sure the reason boils down to the fact my stepdad is republican and Tom is a huge liberal), and Im just disgusted that someone would completely not talk to their father when my stepdad was actually good to his bio kids and treated them like kings My half sister is crazy AF and even though we're both Christians, she gets fanatical on random topics and also seems like she has some bipolar going on. My half bro is probably the only one who's really cool and successful and normal in the family, and of course, he naturally avoids LITERALLY EVERYONE ELSE in the family (unfortunately also including myself, because I get lumped in with my sister, mom and dad). I think the last time I saw him was like last year. And in general I feel like I'll always be financially successful, because i'm smart and work hard and think logically, and I'll always have a good marriage because I'm fair, good to my wife, attentive, good in bed and have common sense and all of that... but I feel like I just completely got robbed of a childhood by my family being so crazy and my parents divorcing so early, and my half bro (whos the only normal one) not wanting anything to do with it completely makes sense but sucks for me Also, because of the fact I own my own company and skipped college (again, worked out well, $200,000+ a year income), and because of the fact I moved schools in the middle of high school due to custody battle between my parents, I didnt really get super good friendships in HS because I waltzed in halfway through the year and I feel like I burned my MD friendships bcuz everyone was salty that I "decided" to leave, even tho it wasnt my choice at all. And I really didnt make a ton of friends In the meantime because I've been working at a company where the only full time employee is me and now, my wife, and then our subcontractors which are all guys who do the work for us- because of this, I haven't been able to really make new friendships either. What should I do, should me and my wife start joining groups that are for young couples to make friendships? We considered that, but havent actually made it happen yet.

Here's the tea: I'm not gonna get into detail but life for me has been getting worse since middle school. I'm almost afraid I wont make it to 16. My mother was very abusive not only physically but mentally, caused to fail in school and fall into the wrong crowd. The biggest event in my life was when My mother called my two older cousins to beat me up without a warning. The beating was brutal one grabbed me by the chain around my neck and dragged me until it broke and left deep scratches around my neck, the other one ripped on of my earrings out, I had bruises all over body and face, multiple scratches on my back and neck, blood was dripping from my ear; lip; eyebrow; and neck. Right after the beating I was sent to AZ with one of the cousins. I've lived here for 8 months and try to pretend like nothings happen. I do everything I'm asked but no result I'm still in the same situation. I wanted to live with my father but I'm not allowed to. So I want to move out, if you have a better idea let me know, foster care is out?

We have been talking for a few days. We were basically friends but we flirted a little bit. Everything seemed chill texting her until one day she ask me how I was and I answered and started talking about stuff. Then she said, "I'm fine too thanks for asking." And I said, "Oh, sorry! How are you?" And that was it. She never replied back. I looked back on our conversation and she did ask me how I was a couple of times and I never asked it back except this one time. Would she really cut me off over something so stupid?

I keep hearing that men like variety and hooking up but I've seen women chase after men and they aren't faithful to their husband's. Like are there some women out there who are polygamous?

I'm a Muslim female who is 14. mom is also homophobic and a slut shamer can you believe that when I was a kidnagartener my mother accused me of sucking a dick of MY TEACHER. MY TEACHER, can you BELIEVE THAT?? I didn't even know what that means and I told my mother no and she would physically hit me and be like my throat is red and she said if I say yes she wouldn't hit me I said yes and she called the cops and got my police to fire my TEACHER I was so sad and guilty. This have scarred my life ever since. I k ow have a issue about my religion I really have questions like they said when we die we will be 60 ft tall I asked que st ions and my mother assumed I'm changing my religion

So I live in colorado in the mountains when I'm at my dads house. His house is about a 40 minute drive to school depending on traffic and the time of year. My moms house is in the city more but it's about a 30 minute drive depending on the same things. I want to go to my local high school by my dads house, which is a 6 minute drive from his house. My dad is mostly on board with the idea, but refuses to let me switch because I will see my mother 1.5 less days a week. I don't have an ideal relationship with my mother but I also see his point. What can I do or what should I do? I don't want to get up at 5:20 am to go to school anymore, I'm tired and I want to be able to hangout with friends after school or on weekends, both of which are very hard to do. The school I want to go to is as good as my current one if not better. What can I do? Who is right?

We are really close and I would not ever want to get him in trouble. The hole family was the my brother,mom,dad,and me we were playing a game. I was just going to sit for a minute on him but then I feel it and I wanted to get up but my parents would have seen and gotten mad. So I sat ther for a half hour. Today he walked in and said thanks for that last night we should do it again.

We have always been close and we had fun together, he also listens to porn really loud and my room is next to his so I can hear it

When I don't answer my dad's phone (99.9 percent of the time I don't answer, I'm driving, at school, or at work), he calls over and over again until I answer. He refuses to leave a voicemail because he thinks I'll delete it without listening to it. How can I get my dad to wait for me to call him back, rather than just call me until I answer? (No, he doesn't pay my cell phone bill. I pay it myself).

I ask because over the summer while swimming I had to pee. So I got out of the public pool and went to the men's locker room. I since I was in swim trunks with no fly, I untied them and lowered them to my knees. This pool has a trough style urinal. Think of the feeding trays farm animals eat out of. Someone is in the one stall directly to my left. I think nothing of it as I start to pee. As I'm peeing the stall door opens and out walks a girl of a different nationality who I would say was at least 10-12 years old. She pauses when she sees me peeing. Then behind her walks out an older man in his 40s I'd say. He sees what she sees and ushers her out or the rest room. Other times I've been either drying off and changing when a dad brings in his two daughters and strips them and puts on their suits to swim. The whole time the two girls are looking at me. They were probably 3 and 5 or 6 I'd say. I turn away as I finish to dry and dress. Then a different time I was in the open communal shower area and a Chinese looking dad comes in with his young son of probably 2 or 3 and his young daughter of 4 or 5. He strips them both naked and showers them. I do my best to turn away as I finish my shower. The young girl was busy playing around. Not sure if she saw me naked or not. I didn't purposefully flash any of these girls. Just embarrassed, especially by the older girl. What would you do? Is it alright these dad's brought there daughters into the changing room. We're they too old?

I don't want to be thought of as disloyal at the same time I don't want my Dad's arrogance and ignorance to hurt me anymore. He is not a good person.

Bela, that is perfect thank you !!! Anonymous is a good one also, she got her Karma when it came to my younger brother believe me.

She also disliked it when I wore a Christian T-shirt. She hates the Bible although my grandmas the one who forced it in her by firmly telling her it is the word of God. Even when I was kind of skinny she still didn't seem happy and I am large chested and she isn't.

This started when I was about late 16 years old. At this time I got really depressed that I had to leave high school and be home educated for my whole junior year of high school. During this time my parents havent been supportive. They think its my fault and I m doing this to myself. They yell at me. Tell me everyone works their *** off and I do nothing. Because of that I developed really bad anxiety too. They wont allow me to get my drivers license and I m 18 now and I got kicked out of school because my parents werent keeping the school updated on what was going on when they told me they were. So now I don t have an education either. I was able to find counselors online that come to my house and they re trying to get me back in school but the principal wont allow it because 1st semester is over already. (i should be a senior atm) My house is also not nice. It s infested with fleas from the animals they have but dont take care of and I cant fix it because im not healthy enough to get a job. I wanted to just save money and move out but I don t have the ability to get a job or go to school. Since I m 18 now can I even do anything? I thought about calling the police because I should be educated and I think I m being abused. My parents dont help me so I dont really care about them. They want to kick me out. Im kinda just lost at the moment.

I am 15. My got arrested because she was driving under the influence of Klonopins. She was really messed up she also had other pills on her when got arrested She Blamed me for her getting arrested because I got sick at school. My Grandmother picked me and told me that my mom had been arrested. My Grandmother took me and made me pack my things then she called my dad and told him what happened she also told my dad that my mom was buying pills. My mom is out of jail now when she and told me it was my fault she has to take Klonopins because I am a shitty daughter. I have been walking on eggshells at my Dad's house. I don't want to casue any problems and I think I get on my stepmom nerves because she doesn't want me staying in my room all the time. She told me that wants me to come out of my shell. On the weekends my stepmom won't let hide in my room. And she makes me talk to her. She also wants to hang out with my friends. I am afraid to mess up and I don't want to be a burden. My Stepmom is a sweet person and I don't want to annoy her. Last night I told my Stepmom that I didn't want to be burden my worst fear is turning out like my mom. I don't want to drink, smoke or try any drugs because I am afraid that I would become an Addict.

Cause, I have to email them to the examiner in Microsoft Word Format overseas. And they don't accept Google Docs.

i am right now 5´4 and almost 14. my dad is 5´10 and mom is 5´2. I am a girl

my mom is usually nice and good but there are times when she would get kinda nuts. i remember a time when she stabbed my back with a pointy hairbrush end and it bled. she also punches, kicks and pulls my hair. thats when she gets really mad and its usually on small things, like spilling water or not doing the dishes. today, she told me to pick up the groceries and i forgot that, so she told me that when she gets home, she ll do something to me that ll scar me forever. im scared and im just wondering if this is abuse or shes just punishing me? im a bad kid so maybe i deserved it . i love my mom though. i dont wanna call the police on her. is there like another method to stop this? she doesnt listen to me either and will probably get mad if i talk about this.

How do I stop abusing my son? My family is convinced that the few times every 4 or so months that I stick to my guns on an issue is abusive. My son and I have been to counseling and I have never been told that I am crazy or abusive. But clearly I am since those who love me most, including my son, are telling me otherwise. How do I stop this behavior? My son and I rarely aregue so it is difficult to learn to hold me temper when I am so very rarely angry. What can I do to stop this maddnese I am creating?

Graduated in 2015 with degree in accounting. Got a job as an accountant, annual salary 50k. I work to live. After living with my parents the past 3 years and living very frugally I have around 70k saved up with another 11k in my 401k. I am planning to move out in Fall or Winter of 2019. Told my parents. Dad seems to okay with it. My mom however is against it. My Mom's reason for against it: 1.Rent is expensive around the area. Ranging from $1,200-$2,000+ per month. It's a waste of money. 2.Why not stay at home where there is plenty of space, save lots of money, stay with us and take care of your aging parents? 3.You should only move out when you are married, have children and need to buy a house. Don't rent, buy property, and rent it out, stay home until you're married. 4.You're not going to take care of yourself. You're are going do crazy stuff like eat less meals, do major car repairs on your own, be stingy on buying basic necessities, and cut corners in order to save money on rent. My goal in life is to travel the world or travel across the US and have long lasting memorable experiences while I am still alive on this earth. I probably will indeed resort to some "crazy stuff" to save money since I won't be able to save as much once I move out. I don't think there I anything wrong with that. In order to accomplish what I want in my life, I am certain moving out is the only way.