Family: Question: Don't know how my parents live knowing they produced such a hideous(this is an understatement) kid?

Question: Don't know how my parents live knowing they produced such a hideous(this is an understatement) kid?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 02:25 PM PST

Question: My crush doesn't text me back often?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 01:54 PM PST

I'm someone who will talk every day. I sent her a message and she wouldn't reply for hours or even a day or two. When I asked her about it she told me she doesn't like texting every day. But I see her on Snapchat sending pictures to people through her photo loop and on Twitter messaging people. It really makes me feel not important and makes me feel bad. Is this a bad sign

Question: What should i do ?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 01:33 PM PST

I just got married to the girl and she is in India. Every time i travel to visit her - her dad wont give us any space and wont even allow up to go out for an hour easily and even if we go - he will call us 4 to 5 times. On top - Now i am going to India and want to travel with the girl to a different state but her dad will send her brother with us who will stay in the same room . I feel frustrated and the girl keeps telling me to have patience and understand.

Question: How would you feel if your child was in a interracial relationship?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 01:28 PM PST

I'm Latino but look white my mum makes fun of me because I always had a thing for Asian women not Yellow fever I don't fetishize them just like how Kardashian's Love black men

Question: My mum is getting mad at me, all because I didn’t like a coat she bought me?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 01:23 PM PST

So I came home from school and my mum bought two coats for me. One was plad and another was fur. I didn't like the fur one and especially the quality of the coat. I even asked if it was real fur or not since the tag said nothing except for "China". She gets mad at me when I said the coat is too tight and she was using my dad as a threat ("*my dads name*! Get in here now!"). Then, when I went upstairs, I heard them taking. She was mocking me for thinking the coat was real fur and not liking it. My dad was trying to be on my side which is nice. What do you guys think about my mum's part on the situation?

Question: If a child who repeatedly got spanked by his mother, ends up in and out of jail and has five children by five women, is it her fault?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 12:48 PM PST

When I was eight years, my cousin (same age) got a severe beating while he, his mom, and 16-year-old sister were visiting my mom and I. It all started when he kept bothering/hitting his sister. Their mother, who heard the ruckus through the bathroom door, hollered his name in that calm, soft "You better behave yourself. I'm warning you" kind of tone. But he wouldn't listen. Next thing you know, she came out the bathroom with a high-heel shoe in her hand. As soon as she walked over to him, he backed away and flapped his arms in fear while repeatedly shouting "NO." Judging from that reaction, it's obvious that he suffered the wrath of that shoe before. Well, she whacked him about five times randomly on wherever on his body she could catch him. He then sat in the floor Indian-style, crying. Fast forward 30 years later, he now wears an ankle monitor, and has five baby mothers. Is his mother to blame? I'm just wondering since it's advised that children who get "timeouts" and lectures will grow up to be Hells spawn, so to speak.

Question: Depressing girlfriend, I need suggestions?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 11:59 AM PST

Right now I am goving up trying to help change her. She has severe chronic depression and mood swings Her health is at risk but I give up trying to get her to exercise and eat healthy. We argue and fight and it is draining. So I decided to focus on myself and give the shoulder for a couple days, but it hurts me seeing her so miserable when simple solutions like taking care of your body and keeping a tidy house do wonders. I am afraid this os only the beginning and I might leave her some day, but I dont wantvto call it quits because I love her soul. Its just depressing seeing some one so fat and let herself go. Her place is so messy I cannot even go in anymore. I asked her not to smother me constantly with texts too if we are apart for a day.

Question: Girls, would you feel insulted? This guy said the craziest insult to me but he meant in a jokey flirty way!!!?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 11:52 AM PST

I was taking a bath and I was probably in the bath for an hour. I was texting this guy and we are just talking about casual stuff. And I said to him, "Guess what." And he said, "What?" And I said, "I'm still in the bath 😀" and he said, "Ew your vaginal is probably wrinkled to hell." Then he said, "Vajj in prickled vagina juice. Pickled vajj." I found that super insulting. Would you?

Question: Am I in the wrong for asking my Mother not to smoke in the car with me and my kid's?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 11:34 AM PST

She said she can take me to appointments and all, but she doesn't stop to think I dislike smoke around my kids and myself. Is it wrong of me to ask her not to while we're in the car with her?

Question: How can I let my friends and family know I'm proud to be single ?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 10:57 AM PST

I kept pushing myself to find a girlfriend and get married . I was angry, disgusted, and upset because every woman I met had a husband or a boyfriend . I kept complaining about being single to everybody . I finally decided to give up being angry, disgusted, and upset and take on a new attitude . I gave myself permission to be proud to be single and unattached . I keep telling myself "I'm proud to be single !" and "I'm proud to be unattached !" . I began to see the advantages to being single . Every day, I go into Facebook and I leave a few posts that say something like "I'm PROUD to be single !" and I add a few of the advantages to being single . I haven't been able to tell most of my friends and relatives that I'm proud to be single and unattached . I leave my posts on groups that I know my friends and relatives probably won't get into . I wish I had the courage to tell everybody I know "I'm proud to be single" and "I'm proud to be unattached" . I've told a few friends, and my cousin saw one of my posts that's similar to this one, and she gave it a heart symbol that means "Love" . I knew that might happen, and I can live with it . How can I tell everybody I know "I'm proud to be single" and "I'm proud to be unattached" ? Thank you in advance for your answers .

Question: HELP, my grandma has been sleeping for 6 straight days. What do I do with her?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 10:17 AM PST

She is trying to break the Guinness world record for sleeping the longest. Quite honestly I'm mad at her because she broke the record a day ago and now she is just trying to mess with me! Ugh I also want to wake her up because she is looking so hot rn. I'm turned on....

Question: My Dad is going for the weekend to be with his boyfriend. Should I stop by and say hi or let them be?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 10:09 AM PST

His boyfriend is not my first choice for him but not a bad guy or anything, just kind of a moody old man (actually only 52). Boyfriend likes to hunt though my Dad does not as boyfriend is a little bit of a redneck. They do not gossip like my Mom does so that is good. So should I stop in and say hi or let them be alone? Not sure if they are seeing other friends or not and the boyfriends' kids are all much younger then me so not friends of mine though one of them knows me through my younger sister.

Question: My parents have no love or empathy on me. How do I stop hating them?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 09:49 AM PST

Question: Why does my mom lie about me to others?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 09:31 AM PST

She literally tells people I don't help her while I basically give her my car to use and my almost my whole paycheck for the past months. It is getting annoying to hear her say I am lazy and wouldn't help my mother to my strangers. Getting people lecturing me about it is important to help my mom while I lie they have a false impression on me. The reality is I wake up super early to drive her to work, work long days and give her money to help support her. However when some stranger comes over I am just told out front about how I never help. Honestly what is her deal?

Question: An uncle of mine had an affair. Does this make the woman he had it with guilty or just him?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 08:48 AM PST

The family calls the mistress mean words like slut and I have met her and she apparently does like rich men. Uncle and she are no longer together as his wife took him back. All this happened over ten years ago but just curious if this makes her guilty of infidelity or just him?

Question: Why do I say when my parents dismiss the hurt various life traumas have caused me?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 08:41 AM PST

They all involved being bullied persistently and being rejected by my Mom's half of the family when they were estranged from my Mom. My parents like to say "how long in life are you going to talk about that" or "your brother and sister were never upset about the estrangement" or "will you let that go". I am all for the goal of letting it go but my parents dismissive tone makes me not want to talk to them. I feel so alone in these traumas when I can't talk about them and Christmas time is the worst for triggers cause the holiday is all about happiness and family. So what do I say to them in reply (mean to say what and not why).

Question: Since my Dad is a liar do I have to do what he says now that I am an adult and do I have to respect him as my father or is it okay not to?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 08:38 AM PST

Since he is a bad and arrogant man who lies is it okay not to respect him?

Question: Is cancelling plans okay if done in advance?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 08:25 AM PST

Background: my daughter was 6 months when her dad got married to (step mom). A year later he cheated and divorced. The step mom asked to still be around our daughter and I said it was fine. I allowed our baby to go with her out of state or even spend holidays with her and her family because she said she saw our daughter as her own. More love the better. Well I moved across country away from my entire family. The said "step mom" I have made her our daughter's "God mom". The God moms bf asked to have our daughter. I cancelled plans a week after committing, but a month in advance for my daughter to fly to her God moms because my entire immediate family is coming in, and she has not seen them in over a year or met that side of my husbands family. I did not know they were coming until a week after I said okay to the original plans. Her God mom said im inconsiderate because her bf is deployed for 2.5 months and our daughter " was going to distract her" and basically only thing making her happy. The ticket is useable for up to a whole year though. She started saying stuff like she reserved a hotel for one night. Which makes no sense to me because I'm giving her a month ahead and cant it be refunded? This is the first time I have ever cancelled with her and she has messaged my family telling them how upset she is and inconsiderate I'm being due to all the work she put in to have my daughter fly. Can I get any input?

Question: Why do my parents get so upset when they find out I did something and then I deny it?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 08:19 AM PST

I would be willing to confess if they give me a lesser punishment like way courts offer plea deals. If I get nothing for confessing, how will it benefit me?

Question: Should I go support my mom?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 08:18 AM PST

My mom is a single mother and I'm an only child. Keep in mind that she has 6 sisters and 1 brother. So, I've been in band ever since I was 8 years old, and my mom missed my first band concert, because of work (but that's understandable). Anyway, I'm now in my second year of college, and my mom has only been to 4 of my band concerts, including middle and high school. So, I go to college 20 minutes from where we live and the concerts are free, so there shouldn't be any reason why my mom couldn't make it. Her reasoning is always, "I'm too tired" "I only want to hear Godly music". So, next Sunday, she's going to preach her first sermon, and she wants me to be there and I can tell that she wants her family there, because she's always talking about it, but she never supported me, so should I go and support her?

Question: Am I wrong for not letting him spend the night?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 07:45 AM PST

My son is 12, his aunt wants to take him to her place to spend the night, but she has smoked weed with him in the house before and I am just not ok with that. I told her she can take him out to a hockey game tonight but that he needs to come back home and cannot spend the night because she smokes weed with the kids there and I don't find that ok. Am I in the wrong? She has smoked with him there before and it was enough for me.

Question: Why do people assume that I have an older brother and that they've seen someone who look like me?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 07:39 AM PST

I would've had one but he died in my mothers womb (miscarriage) in 88. I was born in 93 making me the oldest with one younger sister with a 5 years gap between us.

Question: How do I get my mom to trust me?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 07:30 AM PST

I'm 14 and my mom doesn't trust me. When I approached her about it she said "No parent trusts their 14 year old, if they do they're stupid". I'm homeschooled, i'd say I'm pretty sheltered, I do great in school, and I've never given her a reason not to trust me. What do I do?

Question: How to deal with relatives who looks down on your family?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 07:04 AM PST

Nah, they don't say it directly but we feel it and we know what they think about us.. My rich cousins gets all the compliments, while me and my brother gets mean comments from them.. They're nice to our rich cousins... And when we post something about our accomplishment, they're unhappy.. It's like they want us to stay below them forever.. But NO, I'm graduating in college in a few months so they better prepare. I wanna know how to deal with them when we're together.. Thank you so much!! 💕

Question: I haven’t seen my father since i was 8. I am now 24.?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 05:20 AM PST

I haven't seen my father since i was 8. I am now 24. Last year he sent me a friend request on Facebook & i denied since I've grown angry at him, but lately I've been thinking about him & i don't know if i should try to talk to him or not. At least through Facebook that is. Although, I feel like he's done hardly anything to see me or talk to me all these years. Should i talk to him or just forget about him?

Question: How do I convince my dad to let me drive to school alone??

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 04:54 AM PST

Im 17 and have had my full lisence for 3.5 months now. Since school started I've driven to school almost everyday with my dad in the car. At the beginning of the school year he told me he wants me to get comfortable before letting me go alone. ITS BEEN 3 MONTHS. Everytime I ask if i can go alone he gets angry and refuses so let me. Since we live in a small town, the roads are not busy and the drive is as simple as it could get. Legit 15 mins of driving straight. I've proposed every compromise i could think of like telling him i can pay for gas or just start with one day a week driving alone and gradually moving up. Nothing seems to convince him and he knows i'm ready but he just doesn't want me to damage the family car. I'm a 97 GPA student and have never done anything irresponsible so it's not like i'm a bad kid. All i want is this one independence and it would be great to be able to stay after school for extra help and not have to wait an hour for the late bus to get home. This is getting ridiculous and i feel like i'm gonna reach my breaking point and take the car without him but if I do that then he'll never trust me.

Question: My stepfather says that I'm mentally ill for wishing death on him?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 04:23 AM PST

But he actually threatens to kill people, and has thug friends who have actually killed people or come close to it.. not once did he ever call them mental. I do admit that I have anger issues and get mad very easily but I don't actually try to kill him and I'm far from violent or anything . But he's so ignorant and makes me furious to a point where that's the only thing that I can say. The reason I wish death on him: He's selfish, very immature, idiotic, makes my mom miserable, not smart with money(at all) when he comes into a large amount of money he either spends it on very unnecessary items and spends it in one day or he spends it on his siblings that would normally try to avoid him and ignore his calls but when they hear that he has money they jump to his side. He barely spends any money on my mom. He thinks that he's always right ( you can't tell him anything) and lacks any common sense. His stupid decisions has costed his job and a place to live (we're currently living with a relative) and mof the idiotic things that he says is unbelievable. He acts 10 years younger than he really is. I thought he'd get smarter as he aged but no, his little 12 year old daughter has more common sense than him. Maybe my mom is the one who's really mentally ill: She's a good woman that puts up with a lot, from her kids and this Man child. They argue almost everyday. It's been nearly 10 years with the same thing. What are you thoughts on this situation?

Question: My brother's friends forced him to drink...who's wrong??

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 02:56 AM PST

My brother went to a party with a bunch of his frat friends who were all drinking and being reckless (many of whom are med students). When he refused to drink they decided to pin him down, force an NG tube down his throat, and inject a ton of whatever they gave him that way. I went to pick him up and his nose was bleed and he was passed out drunk. Knowing he doesnt drink I confronted them about what happened and they thought it was funny. I know better than to argue with a bunch of drunken idiots so I took him home and put him to bed. The next morning, he's hungover and when I tried to talk to him about it he was essentially saying "dont worry about it, they're a bunch of idiots" and basically making excuses for them even though he was visibly upset about the whole ordeal. I ended up confronting them again and they are serious acting like they didnt do anything wrong and saying at the end of the day he enjoyed it. I told them what they didnt was illegal and could land them all in jail and they just trivialized it and said "they invited him to a party, he came, they were roughing him around and eventually got him to drink" and that he was wrong for showing up if he couldnt "take it" and that I'm wrong for "harassing them" about it. I know theres a long list of felonies involved here on their part but I'm not sure of what they are but would love to list them out for them bc they are convinced they did nothing wrong. Kyle's been avoiding them to avoid conflict. Who's wrong??

Question: Is he a danger to my child (he swears he's changed)?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 01:33 AM PST

I recently found out my husband and soon-to-be father of my unborn child was sexually abusive towards his son for over 8 years allegedly prompting him to commit suicide at 15. This occurred over 4 years ago and my husband was acquitted on the charges but he recently has been saying things like "I made a lot of mistakes with my son but this time will be different"... he's said "he used to be ill/sick but he's better now"... and that "he can never undo the damage he did to his son but is grateful for the 2nd chance". A few days ago he said something that prompted me to ask him to be honest and tell me if he did the things his ex claimed he did, hoping for denial (tbh) but he broke down in tears and essentially confessed everything but swears that he is disgusted by what he did and after therapy would never imagine doing that to our child, and that he is better. I just broke down in tears and was in shock and have been avoiding talking to him bc I'm still in disbelief. I feel like my world has been turned upside down. As much as I want to believe him, I'm genuinely concerned for our relationship here on out and the safety of my child. I haven't told any one nor do I plan to but am desperate for advice.

Question: How should I deal with my Mother in-law?

Posted: 30 Nov 2018 01:22 AM PST

So my Mother-in-law is great to me, she helps out, takes me with her shopping & to eateries. However, she is very critical of my husband, ALWAYS criticising him & looking down on him. She criticises him on everything, she once accused him of letting himself go because he grew a beard; she questioned his manliness because he did not know how to fix an electrical problem. I could go on-and-on, it really upsets me. My husband is such a sweet man, a true gentleman, his solution is to avoid seeing her as much as possible. Personally, I think it would be better to set her straight, rather than live an awkward life where we are trying to avoid her. I would have no problem telling her. What's your opinion? Many thanks in advance.

Question: My grandfather is dying?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 11:46 PM PST

I'm not sure how to feel. Im hurt because I feel like a total d... I'm adopted, this is my biological grandfather, so I never got to bond with him. I've spent time with him about 7 to 8 times. I'm not sure if I'm hurting or not. I don't know what to feel. One part of me says man that sucks because he's your granddad, and the other says, well, you don't know him that well. I don't speak to anyone from that side of the family either because upon our reunion they really did some messed up stuff to me, and he had nothing to do with it. Can you help me please, because I don't understand what to feel or what I'm feeling. Thank you guys so much

Question: Friend makes unkind comment..? (what is her reason)?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 11:14 PM PST

A friend of mine hurt me badly by completely deceiving me (basically living life as a hypocritical christian). I was used (financially) and told lies to by a "christian friend", later she left the truth with a man. I mentioned this incident to another friend (much older). I said it was hurtful and uncalled for. She, who knew nothing of my friend said:"" Who asked YOU to judge?" I told her I never judged the other friend, I am confused as to why someone would their friends for being so selfish. Instead of listening to me (and she should realize I am a victim of deceit). She said:" You are the problem, its all you!" Which confuses me even more listening to her talk. It sounded so unkind and rude that she spoke of what she knew nothing of !! I am quite frustrated. Kindly advice please?

Question: Have you ever HATED a family member's significant other?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 09:15 PM PST

So my brother was dating this trashy party girl. I tolerated her because my brother seemed to like her. While they were together, she'd get blacked out drunk in our house every night. She'd literally get so drunk that she peed all over my brother's bed in her sleep. Not once. Multiple times. I let them borrow my expensive air mattress to go camping. What happens? This disgusting person PEES ON IT while blacked out. Okay, whatever. While they're together, my brother is drinking every night with her. He's doing a lot of drugs. He failed out of college while they were together. Okay, this makes me worried. Our mother died when we were toddlers. It was an extremely traumatic experience for us. This girl gets so aggressively drunk that she starts to make a scene outside of her parents house. My brother tells her that he's going to call her mom if she doesn't calm down. Her response? "Well I can't really call YOUR mom, *****!" By now, I'm sure you hate her as much as I do. Needless to say, they broke up that night. But that didn't last long. They're now "friends with benefits" and she's at my house all the time. Makes me extremely uncomfortable. What do I possibly say to my brother to make him realize she's awful?

Question: Will my kid hate me?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 08:49 PM PST

My daughter is 7. She likes rap music her mom and I do too but she's way too young to relate to it. I don't want to be a prude but I only want her listening to the clean versions of songs. She knows how to disable parental controls

Question: Why don’t my parents care about my birthday anymore?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 08:42 PM PST

So my birthday was today... I turned sixteen and literally my parents didn't even care. Neither of them told me happy birthday, they got mad when I asked if I could invite a friend over for my birthday after school and paid so much more attention to my siblings no matter what I did. I don't think my mom said more than 30 words to me today in total, but I don't know what I did. I haven't gotten anything for my birthday the last couple of years, even if I ask for something, and I honestly just want to know what I did to make things change and how I can fix it. And I know someone's probably going to call me annoying and spoiled, but I just want to know because you're supposted to have a "sweet 16" and yet today completely sucked and I was miserable.

Question: Pleas Help me stop fighting with my grandmother!? Read more below....?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:54 PM PST

I need some help!? I'm 15 and I live with my grandmother and we fight all the time sents my farther passed away 3 years ago. me and my grandma fight about the smallest things we have like 3 agruments a week sometimes more I we fight about money, food, asking a question if she could do that and if I can do this I understand sh is 70 years old and I love my grandmother very much she th eonly person I trust besides my dog. I just want the fighting to stop. Example of one of are fights: One night we finished taking out the trash then we came in it was dinner time I was hungry so I asked her if she can take me somewhere to eat she said no im not going to take u somewhere to eat and spend money when u can eat something at home I was really tired that day from 8 hours of school work picking up dog poop taking out the trash doing laundry I did not feel like cooking a lot so that why I asked her to take me somewhere and she did not even have to pay I was paying for it so we got in to a big fight yelling saying things we dont mean I just want to stop fighting and let me and my grandmother live happy and have one like a normale fight I always feel like she dose not listen to anything I say. so I need help on what to do I love my grandma evey much and she love me too so can I plz have some edvise befor something worst happends down the road. (Sorry if my spellings bad.)

Question: I want to commit suicide?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:46 PM PST

My dad is emotionally abusive and my brother is physically abusive.. my mom doesn't want to talk to me.. I don't have any other place to live.. I am almost 23 and I have two more years to finish my bachelors degree in accounting.. I don't feel I deserve to live..

Question: Is there any way to get two examples of someone's handwriting compared to see if it was written by the same person for free?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:46 PM PST

I have a postcard written by my dad from 40 years ago. I came across something that I believe was also written by him from 20 years ago. I want to know for sure if the second thing was actually written by my dad for sure or not. It is very important for me to know. My dad died and it is very important that I find out for sure. Does anyone have a clue how I can find out?

Question: My mom wants me gone, what do I do?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:44 PM PST

My mom has been trying to kick me out for months now. I m only 17 years old. I have no where to go & no money to afford to provide for myself. I haven t done anything to her for her to act this way, & I know it s hard to believe but it s true. I ve been getting good grades, staying in, etc. But my mom just constantly yells at me to leave her house all the time. I talked to adults at school about it & they just tell me to talk to her, & most of them just don t even believe my story. I have no other family, it s literally just me & my mom. I feel like I m alone.,My mom has been trying to kick me out for months now. I m only 17 yrs old. I have no where to go & no money to afford to provide for myself. I haven t done anything to her for her to act this way, & I know it s hard to believe but it s true. I ve been getting good grades, staying in, etc. But my mom just constantly yells at me to leave her house at the most random times. I talked to adults at school about this & they just tell me to talk to her, & most of them just don t even believe my story. I have no other family, it s literally just me & my mom. I m tired of heraing such hateful things everyday. I feel like I m alone.

Question: Emotionally Unavailable Mother?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:24 PM PST

I am a 21 year old female that currently lives with my mother. I recently told her that I dropped out of my college courses because I felt college wasn t right for me and I told her that I wanted to move out because I felt like moving out would help me be motivated and mature in life. As soon as I expressed my honest thoughts in a calm manner, she immediately exploded and started yelling,swearing, and critizing me for my opinions. This happens everytime she doesn t agree with me on something or I dissapoint her. I know the easy answer would be to just move out and ignore her, but this is so hard for me. I always end up in tears, because I feel like my feelings are being dismissed.Does anyone have any tips on this situation? Like how to stand up for myself? Or how to handle a mother that doesn t know how to communicate or overcontrol their 21 year old?

Question: My cousin was sexually abused as a kid as was her mother. Now she goes around with bad men. What is the connection to abuse and dating?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:15 PM PST

Why would the abuse lead to her bad self esteem years later and why might it lead to her dating these really bad men? She has two kids with two men and one of the men was a drug dealer now in jail for manslaughter in a teens death from drugs and another man had 3 other kids from 3 women and has cheated on her since. A third man was also a loser but no kids with him. He was arrested for felony drug distribution and grand larceny not long after they broke up over his arrest with a prostitute. So why the connection? The abuse was a family member on the other side of her family who my mother shockingly allowed me around as a kid. The same person abused her sister. The cousin is a cold person but not sure if that is connected or not as her mother is similar.

Question: I have an aunt estranged from the family. Does this make her kids estranged since we never see them?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:10 PM PST

The aunt is the one we hate, not her 2 kids.

Question: Since my Dad is a bad man will people think I take after him?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 05:09 PM PST

Question: Is this a bad sign or am I just used to being spoiled?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 03:58 PM PST

Me and this guy are talking. And today we just started. He told me he was thinking about me all day wanting to text me. And he asked why he feels like that. I told him I am not sure. Then he asks me to say something nice about him because he likes to he valued by people he wants to value him. Whatever that means... I gave him a joke compliment because it felt weird and needy on his part. Is that normal for a guy to say that? I m used to talking to guys who give me compliments (compliments I don t ask for) and I give them one once in a while because I m someone who is chill and doesn t need to give compliments or want compliments all the time.

Question: My parents are going through a very rocky part in their relationship. The whole household is very tense. How do I talk to my parents abt it?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 03:58 PM PST

Question: Why don’t my foster family talk to me?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 03:24 PM PST

They don't treat me like I'm a part of their family. They never include me in any family affairs. They always made me feel different. My foster brother sexually abused my 1st year of living here. He never loved me as a brother. I've been with them since I was 16 and I've always been a good child. Im 28 now and they've allowed me to stay here until I have an apartment to live in. I have a dysfunctional bio family so going back to them is not possible. Please help with advice!

Question: My little brother never does his homework by himself. What should I do?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 03:12 PM PST

My little brother finally got into school this year (he is 5 years old) and we re half way through the school year and whenever he gets assigned homework. (it s just copying the word for example duck he needs to write duck by himself 5 times) he asks for my mom or dad s help. My dad always babies him so all he does is whine saying he can t do it.Then my parents practically give him the answer and everything.Also yesterday my brother didn t do his homework and this morning I legit saw my dad doing it for him... Even when I say something, they get mad at me instead... I m in my last year of high school, I should be worrying about scholarships, etc. but here I am worrying about this. I don t know what to do...

Question: I need a break from my parents?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 03:11 PM PST

So I just wanted to know if I can take a break from my parents and how. I'm 14 years old and I want to take a break from living with my parents and one night sleepover isn't long enough. I need one week because they're just annoying me we have a toxic relationship and my sister bullies me. How can I leave for a weak and still go to school btw I don't have any other family members in this country.

Question: How do I tell my mom I need my phone for a school event I am going to be working at?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 02:26 PM PST

I am working at a school event on Saturday and I need my phone, but I don't know how to tell my I need it for something important I signed up for and I have not begged for my phone at all lately because I doing what they actually want me to do for once in my life. I am being a good kid and doing what is asked of me because I want what I want back, but I was like no begging just do what is asked me to get it back. I need my phone to contact my parents when I go somewhere without them or with them

Question: My Mother believes She can still treat me like a child?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 02:18 PM PST

To make a long story short, at the age of 28 I suffered a massive stroke. Since being discharged from the hospital in 2013 I have essentially been in my Parents care. However, my Mother has seemingly taken advantage of this. Growing up I never stood up to Her and just did what I wanted. Early on in my recovery, I DID have behavioral issues, but now I'm much better. The problem is, that She manipulates and threatens me into doing what She wants, and I'm now 34! It should be noted that She also has a high number of narcissistic traits. For example, She threatens to send me to my room or not do an activity I'd like to do if I don't listen. She has always tried to control my life and now it feels like She's doing that.

Question: Since I hate my Dad for not loving me why do I love him?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 02:04 PM PST

Question: My whole family has disowned me, I am alone with no where and no one. I want to die. What do I do?

Posted: 29 Nov 2018 01:59 PM PST