My husband and I have been together for close to 6 years. Been trying to have a kid for about 5 years. When I met him he drank and did coke. I told him after a month I can't be with someone who does drugs. Let's just part as friends. He insisted that he would stop the coke. And he did from what I am aware of. He still drinks pretty much daily and uses Ritalin every so often because apparently he has ADD. But he parties with it The drinking and drugs upset me to no end but he refuses to stop. We fight almost everyday. At LEAST twice a week he's wasted There have been more dark times than fun times when he drinks. I don't even want to drink w him because I'm so sick of it. He CONSTANTLY gets other people involved in our drama. I'm unhappy more days than less. When he doesn't drink and acts like a normal man, he is the best. But I can't take this anymore. I rather be alone than deal w this anymore. There's been way more negative in this marriage. All stemmed by his addictions. Which he INSISTS he is not al alcoholic / druggie. He's also addicted to ambien and clonapin. He has a cocktail of pills every night before bed. Is this a normal life? Are married couples out there dealing with the same issues? If so, what do U do to handle it or is this something that would put someone over the line to filing for divorce? Keep in mind we're both FORTY now. Isn't it time to grow up?? He's also miserable to because we can't have a kid. Just don't know how to handle all of this

Do married men generally open up to their female friends about personal things? Not like their marriage's personal details, but stuff you wouldn't open to your coworker or something, about. Tonight, my friend (who's married) and I were alone together for half an hour and he told me all about how one of his buddies had a lot of mental/emotional issues and committed suicide this week and he was opening up about how he wishes he had done more to be there for the guy and I kept telling him how he shouldn't blame himself, etc. How often do married men open up to their female friends like that?

i got copies of my divorce , not stamped yet she said the official one will come in mail so am i divorced yet? in florida i am

I asked a similar question recently and the answers ware really helpful. Married to the best wife ever but she has some money issues. We both work and do pretty well. My son graduated college a few months ago and moved out of state for a new job and apparently he is not making enough to make ends meet. I knew my wife was giving him a bit of help here and there but I found out she sent him $600 this month!!!!!!! I know she did not tell me as she knows I would be really upset. So, do I confront her, gently, or let this slide. By the way, he is likely to start making more money next month. Thanks.

She lost a baby 20+ yrs ago- my oldest son from a prev. marriage has mental health issues and she has always hated him/blamed him and so does my husband and his whole family. My son had become violent with my husband and I was afraid that the neighbors would call the law so I texted her to see if my husband would be able to spend the night there to get out of the line of fire w/my son (I was only trying to help). My son had gotten my husband thrown in jail before for lying on him & I was afraid. Suddenly, his mom popped off and texted me accusing me of being a negligent parent who "cant control her kid" and saying my son broke his bro's leg, wont go to school, etc and that is all my fault. My son does go to school and the broken leg was an accident while they were playing. My husband explained to her that I am in and out of the hospital with kidney problems and my son is bigger than I am and I am disabled and he told her that her comment was highly inappropriate but she wont apologize. Should I cut her loose and not speak to her again? We will get along then she starts stuff due to fear and its war again. Actually, her losing her daughter has EVERYTHING to do with how crazy she is. She will turn ANYTHING into why she is VICTIM for her baby dying at birth for sympathy. She will cry and use it for attention or for ways to gain power and GET HER WAY.

I am a big user on AdultFunCams . com and I really like the site, the girls there are nice and I like commanding them and tell them what to do and they useally do it (unlike my wife).. however I also have a wife which dosen t know about this .. webcam sex thing .. is it considered cheating or not?

So my best friend called me to help her clean up her mess at her place. She hooked up with another guy and cheated on her husband. So she wants me to go to her place and try to clean everything up. She cant because she's spending the day with her husband. She left a condom and some of his clothes at their apartment. Is it okay as a friend to help with this? I feel really uncomfortable and shady :(

We got in bed I was listening to slow music. At an extremely low volume. I was also singing a little, not too much to bother him. Not loud either. everything I do that makes it seem like I'm happy or at peace gets him annoyed somehow. this was my last song before falling Asleep. He gets up and goes to sleep on the mattress topper that is on the floor and so I asked him if his back was still hurting and if it was the reason why . He answers that I was listening to music and that was bothering him. And it didn't seem like I was done, and I was vibing with the music so he wants to let me enjoy it and not bother me.I told him he could go back in bed because I was done. I was ready to sleep Anyway. Insisted that his back was hurting on the bed anyway so he would get on the floor instead. I said that it was just an excuse. because I knew it was. really how hard was it to just tell me to turn off my music. He said that he cannot sleep on the bed because he is scared to roll around and get to the baby. (So he offered to buy a cosleeper to keep the baby in bed with us.)now that he bought the cosleeper he is still claiming that he had to sleep on his stomach so that he doesn't accidentally roll over on the baby? if you don't want to sleep on the bed just say it.he used to sleep on the bed fine before the baby. Even with our first baby. Now all of a sudden he has nothing but excuses as to why he would not be on the bed? It seems like he doesn't Want me to be happy or at peace.

Do you think that this is normal behavior? BRAND NEW HUSBAND of a few months. He liked his exes post and looks at her fb stories. Is this wrong for a brand new husband to do?

So you wont have unfulfilled expectations? Being a woman, I would like to do all the housework and be a stay at home mom and cook every meal for everyone, but my husband can make all the money for the family and he can give me scalp rubs nightly.

then claim to guys she's still a virgin? hahahahaha!