Removing myself out the dating pool with black men finding myself getting no where with them and time wasted- I have my career, home, etc why am I still single ? Friends are married and have husbands and I can't even get a mate dating within my race - afraid I'm gonna be 40 and 50 waiting on a black man to commitment

I have been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now and we both like each other and we have gotten pretty intimate as well but sometimes her phone lights up and I see her ex messaging her still the past couple times we have been together this has been happening. What should I do or say or any advice or recommendations?

I crush hard over asian boys. Will they think I'm a weeb b/c I want to date them? btw I used to watch anime but not anymore

Basically my boyfriend and I have birthdays in the same month. For his birthday he said he wanted shoes so I got him a pair of Jordan's and some shirts. (I am currently unemployed)I spent about $180 on his birthday. well today was my birthday and he wanted me to stay the night so here I am. But he didn't get me anything. Not one thing.(yes he has a job that pays well) I honestly would have been happy with just a card. I don't want to bring it up because it makes me feel like a brat. Should I be mad? He got me about 2 hours ago and immediately went to bed. I can't help to feel like crying. Also not to mention we broke up for 2 days a week ago when I found out he texted his ex that he loved her. I eventually caved in and took him back

Do guys think that girls are going to criticize them or something? Cuz I find that guys are nervous and standoffish to girls about sexual things. Please give honest opinions.

it's disgusting

Seriously. It felt very real. Am I crazy? He was also looking at my face for over 2 seconds

ill be a grandfather soon and don't want too cause waves because i know she won't let me see the child too often if I do and my son knows nothing of my feelings I do not want to stress him out! Don't know why I am asking this question Im just venting I guess thank you all!

I ve been with this girl for a bit now and I don t know what it is I need help. I know that I m 17 you re probably like "oh you don t know what that is" but I may not know what it is but I think I feel it. I ve been in a few high school relationships but NOTHING like this. I actually have felt nothing like how I feel for this girl. Her mom says that she has never had someone that has ever cared for her as much as I do. Her dad really likes me too. I feel I want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. What is it? What do I do?

When I have friends that are girls they sometimes send me a selfie of themselves. My initial reaction is like "okaaaay?". What does it mean? What do I do? Do I have to compliment even though I don't like them? They just send a picture without following up with any text. At least ask something like, "is my makeup good?" or something.

I feel like the girl Im dating I could never let go of shes great but yet I still watch porn and sometimes rather watch that instead of actually have sex with her. She deserves alot better than that im so confused now. Idk if I love her and have a porn problem which she knows nothing about or If i might not actually love her like I think. Like I said I feel like I couldnt ever let this girl out of my life idk what this **** means I hate wanting to watch porn instead of just having sex with her. Its not all the time though just sometimes. Does anyone else have this problem? I kind of feel like I love her but how can that be when I want porn more than her sometimes?

Friendly girl who flirts with a lot of guys and she used to flirt with me a lot then I was gone for a while and now she still will randomly blurt things out to me in a group. But is much quieter around me. When we are alone she is silent. She seems so nervous and shy all of a sudden. I don't know why?

Let's say you have a huge crush on someone and you finally get the nerve to go talk to them and you notice they seem just as nervous as you? The person can barely stand to look at you out of shyness in the first meeting. Upon meeting up with them a second time, the shyness is still there but a little less but not by much. They try to make a joke to lighten the mood but you can still tell they are shy.( You unexpectedly run into them somewhere and they can't stand to look at you they feel so shy and can only say a one word answer to a question because you are standing there.)You guys have an interesting conversation but all the while you feel so nervous and once this conversation ends it is on a positive note and you look back to see the person blushing as you are walking away. You happen to run in the person and traffic and they speak and ask if you and your family are okay and seem interested in knowing. Then a few months go by before you see the person again but when you see them again the shyness is gone and they seem irritated that you have come to talk with them and they have their back turned to you the whole time and barely look at you. They listen to the conversation but the whole demeanor is different. Before you have a chance to talk to the person about it they end up dying. Also over the summer of that year, I contacted them via email (they worked in the helping profession and told me to contact them if I needed help or had a question so I did and my questions were legitimate)and they respond quickly but the next time, when you call them, they don't return your call. After seeming to be so interested and shy acting in the beginning, what could have gone wrong. The person whenever they are near,I would have this instense feeling as if something is pulling you to be near them. It would happen even before I would spot the person or get to where they are. Then you later find out the person has so much in common with you like you have never had with anyone else but you never got a chance to tell them or reveal how you feel about them because they are deceased. You were planning to tell them but put it off. Is it possible they felt the same thing and it caused their interaction towards me to change totally or could they simply have become interested in someone else and I took to long to make my move. Also after the awkward interaction, I saw the person a couple times and I felt that pull as if there was some unspoken word that they wanted me to come talk to them again (I don't know why I felt like that but I did because the interaction was so different from the first 3 so I assumed they didn't want to be bothered and gave them space but never got a chance to go and ask about the different behavior)but I didn't because I thought they didn't want me around. Any thoughts or insight would be appreciated. It just has me puzzled because I feel there was really something there. It is like I could feel and read the person on a deeper level. I could feel how nervous they were the first time I interacted with them. I know I won't feel such a strong connection with anyone else like that again. It is something I never felt my whole life. It was like I wanted to know this person thru and thru

There's a girl that I want to ask out but, I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend. I've known her for over a year because we work together, but I can't tell if she's single or not. So yea we're basically friends, but how can I find out? Checking on social media won't work I've tried and nothing really. How can I ask her without making it awkward so I can ask her out?

The person can barely stand to look at you out of shyness in the first meeting. Upon meeting up with them a second time, the shyness is still there but a little less but not by much. They try to make a joke to lighten the mood but you can still tell they are shy.( You unexpectedly run into them somewhere and they can't stand to look at you they feel so shy and can only say a one word answer to a question because you are standing there.)You guys have an interesting conversation but all the while you feel so nervous and once this conversation ends it is on a positive note and you look back to see the person blushing as you are walking away. The next meeting is the total opposite(back turned to me most of the conversation and barely looked at me) and you put off going to ask about it and the person ends up passing away. You always felt they wanted you to come back and talk but you put it off and find out yall had so much in common that it was like a mirror. There was such an intense pull where it felt like you could feel their thoughts. Did I take too long to make my feelings known? Was it meant to be and I messed it up? There are a lot more details.

I have been talking to this guy for about a month. We have gone out on two dates. On the second date he took me to his friends house and we played uno and had fun. After we left his friends house he walked me to my car and gave me a huge and said it was nice seeing you and then walked to his car. He never asked me on a third date. Should I text him or wait if he messages me? Is this a sign that he doesn't want to see me anymore?

Any ideas on where a more secluded area at school could be?

My boyfriend takes care of his grandparents with dementia 3 nights a week, watches the game with friends 3 nights a week, and has his Kids every other weekend.

A couple years ago, this girl I was talking to just totally stopped talking to me. We had gotten really close and than she just stopped talking to me, a few days before she stopped talking to me my best friend got her number and been texting her and than 5 days later she just stopped talkkkg to me and later blocked me. I think he lied about me or something because it just makes no sense. But I still wanna know what happened, I still love her, does anyone have any idea what could have happened and is there any way I can still find out? Why did she quit talking to me? Could my friend have lied to her so he could have her? Please read question

I will fu ck your pu ssy harder and 1900 fu ck all day. What does that mean?

A couple years ago

I don't get what's so great about this girl... She can't really drink, because she has a child to take care of, and she almost never has a baby sitter. She Appartly she is an awesome cool girl who just stays at home. She tends to make friends with the males easy. Shes not a girly girl who wears make up all the time, and she's not a tom boy type. Yet she is a cool girl? She told her boyfriend if you want to go a strip club take me to one 1st. I guess he actually liked that, and she told if I can't drink, and if I get to out with you guys ill just be the driver. You all can get drunk as you want! It fact I'll encourage it, but be warned I'm taking videos of you dumb@$$ She Wil say things like okay, ill let you go have fun with your boy toys. I understand. I don't get it... They all like her?

I just don't know if he'll be a very good kisser. I know him very well, and he gets very nervous sometimes, so I am scared it will be awkward. Also, I don't think kissing at school is a very good idea, it's especially not romantic.

I think I'm high but I can't tell for sure

How can I stop myself from doing this? I keep wondering things about his penis too & keep almost asking things about it. It actually is the first penis I have seen.I also think it is actually pretty & keep almost writing that to him. Also, how long will this take to ware off? We are both over the age of 18. Is it fine to ask him questions about it or should I just google my questions?

He was shaking his leg a lot and told me to come to events on campus. Does that mean he likes/interested me? We've known each other for two years

It's my fiance's brother I'm referring to and he's bringing his gf to our condo for thanksgiving and neither myself or my fiance wants his brother to bring her. He's dating a girl that's 19 years younger. She graduated high school in 2015. She has a negative attitude, she constantly picks fights, needs attention and constant re-assurance. She's one of those really immature 20 something year olds that posts rants on facebook, whiny poor me status's, ridiculous photo captions about how she's sick of people and wants to move to a private island because everyone where she lives is "stupid". She speaks in really black and white terms. She has one negative encounter and suddenly everyone is stupid and an a**hole. She almost got my fiance's brother fired from work. She started dating him a month after her ex cheated on her. This poor guy has taken her out to movies, bowling, vacations, roadtrips, bought her spa days and clothes when shes having a bad day and still she posts status's that say "Torn between my mind and my heart, I should walk away" "no one cares about me, thank god for the bottle" if he says no to taking her on another pricey vacation. They've dated for 5 months and he's already taken her on 2 out of state luxury trips. Now she's up in arms because she has a sudden obsession with going to Thailand and he cant go because he needs to work to make money after he spent it on their trip in September. She's actually dumped him 2x and he begs for her back. Low self esteem?

This guy wants to kiss me and I cant tell if I want it too? It makes me nervous to think about but I cant tell if it's bad or good? I think maybe I'm just bad at being intimate w things. I've never been kissed before and neither has he... it kind of scares me. I am only 15 but he's been my serious boyfriend for a LONG time. How do I tell if I want to be kissed? I think my nerves might be clouding my judgment but idk!!!

I have a crush on a guy at work. The other day I told him that one of my favorite things about him was his attitude. He responded "want to know what I like about you? ... can't think of anything" .. I laughed and said "whatever, you know you like everything about me and you just try to hide it" and he was like "yeah.. I'm known for that.." I just walked away afterwards because i had to get back to work. Do you think he was being sarcastic or that he actually likes me? Some other things that makes me think he likes me, is when he was helping me with a task on the computer, he put his hand on the mouse while mine was still on there, instead of waiting for me to move my hand. And he doesn't react negatively if I touch him

He shared personal medical details really randomly. Does that mean that he likes me or is he just an oversharer?

my 13 yr old sister got a hickey, so I am assuming she had her first kiss... and I still haven't kissed a guy yet. I know I should be happy for her but I am 15, almost 16 and still haven't done anything with a guy. I want to so badly, I mean I just do not know what is wrong with me why am I guy repellent **** btw she literally turned 13 a week ago I feel so pathetic and my self esteem is really low from this

I recently found out my boyfriend of almost 6 years has sexted his co worker for almost a year. They work in the same department and slowly started developing feelings for each other.When I first met her a year ago I felt an energy but I ignored it. I think she started to fall in love with him so she started to want to see him outside. When he said no she back away and ending things with him. Do you think he started to develop some real feelings for her? I know it never got physical.

I use one finger and when people see me do this they laugh at me. I did not grown up with text messaging. I'm much older but look younger. Do you use both hands?

We've been snapping for a while and we're both each other's #1 bestfriends and like he'll wait an hour or sometimes two to respond. But sometimes he'll reply right away. What does this mean??

met this guy over five years ago when i had a boyfriend and at open mic night (my ex was a musician and so is he) anyways we contacted eachother on facebook later and stayed in touch thru the years. I eventually moved to his city and am single(not for him) he comes and goes for music and will be in town this week for two months. Last time i saw him we slept together in bed but we have never kissed. Im excited to him, you think there may be something more or would it have already happened?

I ve been with her for over a year and I moved in with her and her family only 2 months in. She makes me do all the driving, we re both 20 and she doesn t have her license. She even has me go alone to walmart over stupid things at like 3 in the morning and I feel like she s just using me.

I cry when me and my girlfriend have sex. She's a little too rough so it hurts me a lot. Is it OK to cry ?

has there been a time where someone has regretted ending things with their rebound and wanted to get back together w them?

My boyfriend broke up with me because he thought it would be better for me to work out my depression without someone to constantly lean back on. I told him that i didn't know if i could make it without him, and i think he believes he's helping me hold myself back from full recovery. I'm still in love with him and he wants to get back together but only if i can still be getting better with him there. Is it a good idea to get back together&start therapy or should we stop talking/get over each other? Do you think i'd be better off figuring things out on my own?

Ok so at school there is a boy and whenever I'm feeling confident and think I'm pretty he doesn't pay attention to me but when he sees that I'm not feeling confident or pretty he begins to pay attention to me. Why does he do this?