In an arranged marriage, if a husband finds out that his wife had slept numerous times with one of his best friend before marriage and before his relationship, then should the husband defriend with his best friend to avoid the awkwardness in future, as it will be very awkward situation for him to realize his best friend slept with his newly married wife numerous times even though its before...and he might feel awkward in front of his friend..or whenever he visits them.

My husband has said very hurtful things to me on multiple occassions during our relationship that I can't fully get over or comprehend. He is very insecure within himself so he made a habit of lashing out his insecurities onto me very early on in our relationship(he admitted to doing this). He has made comments insulting the way I look multiple times and has even compared me to how his ex-girlfriends look but he tells me he's attracted to me and that he loves me. Every single time I bring up how his behavior and the things he said hurted me and affected me he automatically gets angry, loud and defensive and totally refuses to listen to me and talk about it. He refuses to give me the comfirmation, respect and love that I need. He doesn't make me feel that I am loved by him. He's made very little effort to make me happy. I feel like he doesn't care he tells me he does but I don't feel it. No matter how much I bring up how much he hurt me he completely dismisses my feelings and downplays the affect his behavior had on me. As a result I feel depressed and lonely.

She's in a time of need and has a 9 year old. She left her husband and is staying with a friend. I'm trying to be there for her, but I can't have her living with me regardless of what happened. I live with my husband and we have a spare bedroom but we don't have the money to take care of them. My mom can't even work. Is it wrong if I don't want them here? How am I supposed to tell her? I told her to sign up for section 8 and stuff but if she lives her she'll get too comfortable and not do anything. Also it's going to affect my marriage my husband already said if they're having to live here he's going to have to live with his grandmother because it's going to be too much and too crowded. Why did this happen? What do I do?

My fiance and i have been together for 7 years and have lived together for a few years now. Recently his mother decided to break up with her bf whom she was living with and move back in with her previous husband to "work on things" . Now a month later she is seeing some other guy while living with her husband without his knowledge of it. She plans to move in with my fiance and i and has everything planned, she never even asked us about it!! She planned it all herself!! She states she is leaving her husband for her new lover and in the meantime she is moving in with us and will stay in one of our spare bedrooms since she cant afford to live in her own, to to mention we live in a 3br apartment which is decent in size but not super spacious. She is very controlling and i know me and my fiance will have serious relationship issues if she moves in, however he feels unconfortable saying "no" to his mom, as do i, but she is very manipulative and keeps pushing the issue and making things very uncomfortable!! Any advice on how to handle this???

My husband is 27 . He works at a magnizum factory five days a week 5-2 . I get a kiss good bye and that's about it . Sex maybe once a week . I don't understand and we just had a baby .

I've been with my girlfriend for 4.5 years. About 3 years ago I was at a 4th of July party. My girlfriend wasn't there at the time and I recall taking to some girl in a casual way. I knew the girl from high school and I had a crush on her but years have passed since we've seen each other. Anyways we smoked a ciggarete and had a beer and that's all that I remember happening. I have never thought about this day up until 2 days ago when I suddenly remembered that exact moment. With 3 years passing, I barely have any recollection of the day what so ever. I'm now questioning and becoming paranoid, thinking I may have hooked up with this girl and cheated on my girlfriend. First it was what if I kissed her, and now i'm thinking what If I had sex with her. Not sure what to do. Need advice

What would you suggest to someone who cared much more about becoming a parent than becoming a spouse? Personally, I don't think an arrangement like this would work. If you care more about kids than your spouse, it wouldn't be a healthy marriage. I personally think you should just have children alone if that's what you mainly care about. That's just me. What would YOU suggest to someone who cared more about having kids than getting married? I'm referring to BOTH genders when I ask this. It's NOT just women who care more about children than a spouse.

Seems to me the ladies are the only ones benefiting.

My husband's mom is hospital. My husband works at night and take naps before he goes to work. When he woke uo, i started updating him about his mom. He turns around says dont tell me all this stuff when i am going to work. I was shocked and just stopped saying anything and went into my bedroom. I get it he just woke up and i started talking. Knowing him he wont talk to me for few days. Should i even try to talk to him or wait until he is ready

I have been married for a year now. During my wedding my husbands best man is a very good friend to my husbands ex. My husbands ex showed up at my wedding. I had no idea until after the wedding I saw her in the pictures which I asked my husband and he agreed he knew she came to our wedding. He never want to talk about his relationship with her but his best man and I spoke and he told me exactly how that relationship ended so I asked my husband once again and he admitted he really loved her but she broke his hurt and couldn't love anyone for years until I came along. 7 months into our marriage I realized my husband has liked her post on Facebook. Should I be concerned or I am being insecured? I asked my husband for his Facebook account which he got upset and defensive in the end he never gave me his account details. Just to find out few months later he liked his ex's post on Facebook. I am concerned cuz am wondering how he will feel if I am the one liking my ex's post. Knowing my husband was not able to love after that relationship was over I feel am in denial that he still loves his ex and I know he been around after that relationship ended. I am confused if he truly love me or he sees his ex in me cuz people say we look alike. She's got few physical features as me.

I'm getting divorced and want to drop my married name of 'Adams' and won't be reverting to my maiden name for various reasons. My children will retain 'Adams' but will become double-barrelled so my new surname needs to go with Adams. Ideally it would mean something, like 'new beginning' or 'fresh', or be Welsh, which is where I've lived.

Me and my boyfriend had sex I'm 19 about to turn 20 in 2 months and he's 20. He really wants kids, I not so much. I know my mom would most likely be disappointed. 1. Because I'm not married and I know she's the type to say that your supposed to be married first. Me and him have been together for 6 almost 7 years. When he ejaculated in me I did not feel worried one bit and also I was gunna ovulate in 2 days after i had sex. I don't know what to do because my mom also wanted me to at least get a certificate in college.