Yes, I still have need years to go to be a full adult. I want to move out in my 20's. I really want to leave this house because of my dysfunctional family. So, which is the best place to go? No, it's to have places in mind for the future when I'm old enough and have a job to make money and survive on my own

someone you have to be around, like a roommate or coworker?

I remember it just like it was yesterday. I graduated from college 5 years ago and I had big dreams about going out there and achieving great things. I imagined moving out within the first year, moving to another state (I went to college in my home state), establishing myself as a strong man, having good times with girls, and having great adventures. I have always felt a compulsion to go and live in California and I even wanted to go to school there but my parents talked me out of it. Five years later little has changed. I just turned 27. I'm still stuck in my home state, I still am a virgin. I envisioned living my 20s, the most important decade away from this state independent, working a killer job, traveling, with an awesome girlfriend, but I guess that's all for naught now. After 30, it's all over. People don't give a damn about you. People don't look at you at "the prodigy" or the young man who went outside the bounds and achieved great things. They don't look at you with all your potential. To others, your potential has been maxed. I don't have the money to go and live in California and by the time it's all said and done I'll be older. People expect me to grow up now, people expect me to start settling down, not to goof off, not to travel, not to have wide-eyed dreams, especially since my parents are getting older. I have gone mad with this realization that it may be too late for me, what are some suggestions to move forward?

They seem to be scary smart compared to American women.

My friend said the same thing... A lot of people, in fact most people are not nice to me, and all I do is be nice to them.