So, whenever I'm in hell (aka Highschool) whenever someone walks in, I just get ticked off, they don' even have to say a single word or do anything that's annoying or irritating.. It even happens whenever whenever I see my best friend of 11 years.. Sometimes I just wanna knock out peoples teeth with my fist and a jack hammer, and they haven't even done anything to me..

My group of friends are doing secret santa. We each had to write three things we would like. The friend I got put down rings, face masks, and for the last one she put surprise me. I have a horrible sense in fashion and have no idea which face masks are good or not. However, for the last one, she put surprise me so I think I could get her anything. BUT she DID also put down rings and face masks. I don't know what to do. Any advice? Thank you for taking time out of your day to read this!

I'm a college student. Last year I became really good friends with a girl, let's call her Mary. We met because we had classes together and we hung out a lot as a result. Second semester we had a class with a dude named Jack. We became aquaintances with him. This year I ended up living with Jack because he needed more roomates. All 3 of us have classes together now and hangout alot, we have group chats on basically every social media platform, etc. We are basically a group of 3. Jack goes home every weekend for family reasons so if any of us hangout over the weekends it's just me and Mary. However, lately I have been noticing that Jack and Mary are getting closer. When all three of us hangout I've sort of been feeling like the 3rd wheel lately. They've just had better chemistry lately and can carry on a conversation for 15 minutes without any input from me. Honestly, I've been contributing less to our conversations lately because I feel like I get ignored, interrupted, and as a result have nothing to add. Idk. I'm still always invited everytime they want to hangout, I'm never left out physically. I just can't tell if they're drifting apart from me and what I should do? Could it just be that I have known mary longer so they are having better chemistry because their friendship is new? and also because I probably see both of them 1 on 1 more often...considering I live with Jack. Also, they are both 2 years older than me so there's that.

I'm a 33 years old woman. It was my bday last week. It got me thinking about life. What I achieved,where I'm going. What I'm doing. Stuff like that. I'm single. No close relationships.I have a decent office job but it really doesn't satisfy me.I can pay the bills but I wish I had gone to college. I don't have a boring life,quite the opposite. I'm full of errands,little issues,big issues,dreams,hopes. People I met,people I lost. I've been having weird thoughts these days: one of my buddies in high school died in Iraq less then a year after graduating high school with me in 2003. I hadn't visited his grave in years mostly cause I don't like cemeteries. So yesterday I went there and I kinda felt guilty because I started thinking that he doesn't have problems,errands,issues. and I felt even more guilty because I complain about all these things even though I'm healthy whereas he's gone. I felt guilty of living kinda an empty life and he doesn't have a chance to live a full happy life. Does this make sense to you?I hope it does.

and how would u honestly rate this older mans looks from 1-10? Does he look handsome enough to be an older male model? Thanks and will choose a best answer to the person who answers all parts of this question

appointments. I am not happy with my life.

So I have this friend who has been my best friend since kindergarten, and we have gotten into tons of fights all because of her and some stupid reason. Multiple times each year, she just goes psycho, and makes up some big fight. She is constantly jealous, which often brings her anger. So recently, we are in an after school book club, which we read books online, and I am way ahead of her, so I start reading, but then she just starts wrestling me and telling me to stop, trying to turn off my laptop. So at this, I say "What s wrong with you?!" and that gets the teachers attention (My homeroom and the reading teacher, both males) and they just sorta look at us, because were their top students, and then when the homeroom guy leaves, reading teacher asks us what happened and if everything s settled. Now this guy (I ll call him Mr.Batman) is really nice and tries to get into our lives and stuff, and it s super embarrassing. My friend is always mean and stuff, and she is smart and makes good grades and everything, but she isn t mature, and when I always try to confront her and explain things, but she doesn t get it, because she isn t morally developed, and isn t a good critical thinker. I think she s bipolar... she always gets mad at me for no reason. Please help. (Oh and I know this will probably get hate, I m ready.) Oh and btw, if I stop being friends with her, because we see each other so often it would be awkward all the time around her, and because we have been friends since kindergarten, it would look bad on me, and she would somehow project it to look bad on me.

My friend can't accept that I'm gay besides my wife she's the only friend I really have. Me and her use to be roommates when we were teens we lived together for a long time in a way she's kind of like my little sister. She's a few years younger than me. I came out when I was 13 I'm 21 now she's 15. Every time me and my wife kiss or hug she always makes a strange face at us like she doesn't like it. Me and her are still best friends like I said she's the only one I got. Even though we don't get along half of the time we drive each other crazy especially if my wife is around. What's wrong with her ?

During the night at her house she invited a friend of ours over who lived down the block, a guy who brought half empty bottles of vodka, mixed drinks, and enough weed to fill one blunt. It wasn t my first time drinking but I had never had weed before and I didn t want to seem like I would snitch on them so I took a few hits, I drunk to much and the guy left which my friend told him to do because I was already wasted and cross faded and she knew that things could get out of hand. I was saying stupid things and acting stupid but only in the safety of her bedroom. Eventually they got me to sleep after me having annoyed them because I just wouldn t sleep. So the next day (hangover central) I started to remember things after I got back home and I remembered me pleading with them the entire night not to video me but much to my dismay she did and she has the video of me acting and saying stupid things and I don t know what to do because she s not the kind of person I would trust with this sort of thing because of the fact that, and what I just found out recently, she s messy. We haven t talked in a few days and she s been sort of cynical and I don t know what to do and I m trying not to get on her bad side because if the fact that she seems like the kind of person who would leak that video if I did. What do I do?

So long story short I'm 29. I've known this girl,Katie,for like 10 years . We shared so many things over the years. Went to concerts together,vacationed together. We see each other every 2 or 3 days and our relationsip is good. I mean she was there when I needed a friend. Her other friends don't like me and I don't care. But I have noticed that if I post a pic with her she usually asks me to remove it cause she says she didn't like how she looked in that pic. I take the pic down. However I noticed that if other friends take a pic with her she either likes it or put the love reaction on it,which kinda makes me feel that she doesn't want other people that wer're close and we take pics together. Is it me being paranoid or is Katie such a false friend?

The long story short, I lied to my friend about my age. I was worried if I had told him my real age, then he would not want to talk with me. But now, I feel guilty about it, and I want to finally tell him my real age. What do I do?

I left him behind and thought we were done. Throughout the year he has reached out to me and some of his messages I ignored. The other's I took a long time to respond to and wasn't very nice when I did. Every time he saw me in public he'd try hard to get my attention and I'd always catch him staring at me when he thought I wasn't looking. After fighting it I gave in to him and we slept together on the exact date a year ago that we last slept together. We text each other sparingly since then. I asked to see him again and he agreed. Then he very rudely cancelled on me at the last minute. I was very upset. Why would he chase me for a whole year and then dismiss me like that. He has other options for sex so why would he chase me for a whole year to only reject me again?

I've been keeping to myself now for 2 years. I'm looking to start dating but since I have no friends I wonder if that will be a turn off. I still go out to bars to see music or a game and I normally end up meeting people to talk to. I go to the gym or the movies sometimes. I'm not a shy guy I just don't really care to have many friends. I used to be in groups of friends and they can be fake sometimes. I like to hang out with women I like to date. I recently thought this co worker was a friend till he told people my business. Which I didn't like it and I had to cut him off. I learned not to be friends with co workers.

I live with 4 other guys. Often times we have issues with there always being several plates in the sink. Two of my roommates believe that if I see plates in the sink that I should just wash them because "we are all one" Mind you I have my own plates forks cup EVERYTHING. That way I am not held responsible for other peoples mess and also if 90 percent of our plates spoons etc. are in the sink I do not have to be at an inconvenience. I also feel if they throw their stuff in the sink, they should wash it. But this never happens. Another thing some of my roommates hate is that I have my own mini fridge, plates cups etc. in my room. They say that I do not give a damn about anything that has to do with the house other than my room. They say I should contribute to house chores and that I should take a vacuum and randomly vacuum the stairs or take out the trash. The house never gets dirty unless someone makes a mess. The house is usually clean Ok I disagree with what my roommates say, I say to them that we should all have like a group schedule so everyone is assigned chores and what to do. I agree that I can contribute and sometimes take out the trash though. However, noone wants to listen to my idea. They always dismiss whatever solutions I have to solving the issues in the house. Plus I think we are all grown men and everyone should know how to clean after themselves. Nobody should have to clean after anyone's mess. What do you guys think??

Basically I had this friend who was like my actual literal brother but something got stolen from his house which I was his other brother who sold it to buy weed & i got the blame even tho it wasn't even me. He did all this mad stuff to ruin my life like making fake accounts of me & and making fake accounts of girls to try get pics off of me to post everywhere then he started manipulating my friends against me and making rap songs basically saying I'm a snake and a tramp that no one likes and it's at the point where nearly everyone is laughing at me that use to know. He's been doing it for three years and now no one wants to go near me and it's really pissing me off and I just wanna get on with my life and get people to realise what's actually going on but I can't .... Anyone got advice plz much appreciated

My friend has recently learned how to rear-naked choke people out and thinks its hilarious. I, unfortunately, am his target of choice. Whenever he comes around or I go around him or even at school or in public he likes to run up behind me and choke me out (literally unconscious). I have fought and argued with him over it tons of time and it just seems like he gets a kick out my suffering. Everyone seems to be nonchalant about it and even laugh when I wake up, including his parents. His already choked me out like six times this week alone. Ive tried avoiding him but we have a really tight circle and as i said no one else really seems to care. Even when I told my parents they just said its my fault because I let him, and that i should tell him to stop. Is that dangerous though, being choked out so many times so often. If been having a lot of headaches lately but Im not sure they are related. How dangerous is it for your health and how do I get him to stop? He actually just thinks its funny whenever i confront him about it and im reluctant to actually fight him out of fear that he'll just end up choking me again.

I consider myself a fairly empathetic person. I'm in college and I love my roommates to death, they're my best friends. Being college, we're all alcoholics however I drink the least by far because I feel it's my responsibility to watch over them and make sure they don't make dumb decisions, like going swimming in a sewer 2 nights ago in freezing cold temperatures. Last night the girl I'm into asked me to go to a diner with her and her friends, and my roommates kept saying how by going I betrayed them and that they were losing me. Being mad, I spoke my mind. I didn't say anything I wouldn't say sober, I just told them they were being selfish, and I do a lot for them. I ended up spending the night in that girl's room because I was too nervous to go back and confront my friends. They're all still asleep and I'm just wondering what's the best way to deal with this situation. Any advice?

There is alot of tension between me and this guy. We've had sex before and we have a lot of mutual friends. I started out by keeping my distance after he disrespected me the first time but I figured I'd take the additional step to try to be friends. I invited him out for drinks and he agreed. Needless to say, he flaked at the last minute. We texted back and fourth trying to set up plans then he said his friend might come which is cool but then he stopped responding. I sent a text saying well don't text me, call or speak to me ever again. He called me back saying I was wrong to fly off the handle and that I shouldn't take it personal. He just decided that he didn't feel like going out at the last minute. I told him that I felt it was very personal because this wasn't the first time he'd flaked on me. He said his job is stressing him off and he'll probably hang out next month when he has more days off. We ended the call and I've decided to never speak to him again. Was I wrong to take it personal? Isn't it always personal when a person so rudely blows you off?

i have a hearing loss, i wear hearing aids, i have no friends, my sister stopped talking to me, i'm allergic to al kinds of nuts, i can't eat pork, i'm a Muslim, i'm pakistani-american, people think i'm indian but i'm not, i dont know how to socialize because i forgot, and i have asthma, and i dont have a phone

hi I'm jade I recently moved to a new school in San Francisco the problem is that is a really expensive elite private school in the rich side of San Francisco and most of the kids here do have alot of money or at least come from money. You know typical rich kids fancy clothes, new everything, some of them even have there own personal drivers that pick them up from school! I don't really care about any of that tho. I'm most worried about not fitting in or making any new friends here. My family isn't rich at all we're not poor but we definitely don't have what most people here do. I feel like kids here look at me weird and I just just want advice on how I can make friends here ?

This has happened to me several times where I feel very strongly that I want to be friends with someone. Anyone else experience this?

Bullied all through school, had to leave church because rumors got started, let go from every job. Ive found myself all alone, friendless, and scared of life. Is there any practical solution? I just want it to change

What do you do on weekends if you dont like the party or bar scene? Its starting to get boring to me

So my close female and and I were good friends. We are both 25 year old girls. I met her in college and we have kept touch over the years. Anyways about a year and half ago we went to a club and we got into an argument and I slapped her on the face because she cussed at me. I apologized and said I was so sorry and she overcame it after a few months, but she told her mom and now her mom doesn't really like me anymore and ignores me on Facebook and never mentions about me. It makes me sad because I did so many good things to her but yet her mom chooses to focus on this one negative thing I did. Why do humans focus on the negative over the positive?

I m in college at the moment.My friend was raped, and now she is dating her rapist. He makes everyone uncomfortable, but my friends still hang out with him because of my friend who he is dating. They say they don t like him though. I m not sure if I want to be friends with people who knew he raped someone, but still hangs out wit him. What would you do in this situation?

I was talking to my friend and gave my honest opinion on something (I was being blunt) and she called me insensitive. I don t know how to respond so she kept egging it on. How do I tell her she was being hypocritical and saying I always hurt her feelings when she was hurting mine. I Don t want to come off insensitive, so what do I tell her (It runs in my family)