Me" my moms & bro moved to a new area aftwr my bro out of prison for molesting my 2 little neices. He is on parole and can't be around kids. Hes suppose to be here sense im here but im a boy so it should be ok. He don't have nowhere else to go anyways. So mom said not to tell my new friends were he was or anything about it. I get that cause we had ti move cause my old friends parents would'nt let my friends come over any more when he got out. But i don't want to lie if they ask why my mom wont let girls come over here. I hate my bro hurting my little neices lije that. I wush i could kick his @$$ but he is still alot bigger. Should i tell them what a creep he is?

Hi again. I would like to ask some questions. Normally when I am surrounded by people I am the one they don't like. I also wondered why exactly. This also in my family and close family memembers like my parents. For instance my mother had a stroke in 2006 and I could not help her due to my age and my own backlash/psychological problem amnesia/stress. People never helped me, nor did my mother. Thank God I have a dad always supporting me. My family always spread lies and bone collect about things I have not done or said. My fathers family, not my blood are currently also spreading lies and bone collecting. I am wondering what is wrong with me and why this is always seem to happen to me. For myself I decided to let it go, like any other child/family memember (in my family) would. Meaning that either my dad, family member like my aunt (whose financially and socially responsible) need to make sure that all of the above mentioned (financially and socially) need to care of her. I don't want to ask anything anymore since my help in consistently denied by my family. This also probably means I will never see her or hear from her again because of what they want. I hope for my mother that she is safe and that when she passes remembers that I also loved her. Thank you mom and good luck. Hereby I would not like to have any contact with her family anymore. Always denying and rejecting my help. Saying I can't help. Making sure I am not there family.

Before you comment on how awful this sounds, understand a few things. First of all, my grandma moved from Michigan (where I live) to Minnesota when I was only a few years old. She decided to marry a high school friend who abused her and stole her money instead of building relationships with her granddaughters. She only moved back here a couple years ago because of health problems. I had no interest in building a relationship with her because I barely knew her and I still don't, and she left us. My sister and I were always forced to visit her and I never enjoyed it, and spent every second wanting to leave. Now, she's stopping dialysis and killing herself. My parents expect me to take a 3 or 4 day trip out to Minnesota for her visitation and funeral. I'm in very competitive and difficult classes in school and even missing a day will set me back a great deal. My grades are struggling right now because I missed a day last week. I can't imagine the toll a four day trip will have on my grades. Neither my sister nor I want to go to this funeral, but my parents want us to.

She came home to visit and her purse is in the kitchen and i want to see if there's some cash in there.

I'm a stay at home mom, I have a nursing degree, but once I became a mother my husband asked me to stay home and care for our children because he has a very good job. I have 6 year old twin girls a 2 year old son, and a 10 month old son. I often find myself being short tempered with them when they are misbehaving and sometimes I even find myself raising my voice at them. But they misbehave with me so much more than they do around their father. My husband has never lost his temper with them, never shouts or gets frustrated. He says things like "Sweetheart get your foot out of my face" "Come here my angel, don't hit your brother that's nice" I on the hand, find myself saying things like "stop it right now" "Behave yourself or you're going to get in trouble" "I'm going to send you to your room if you don't be nice" I just wish I could be as calm and loving towards them like my husband is. I'm not sure if I'm just overwhelmed from being around them 24/7 or if this is just a mom thing. But any advice on how to be more patient and calm is appreciated. I love my children more than anything.

I'm hungry, my stomach hurts. I want to ask my mommy for tea-tea, but i'm feeling scared to because i'm afraid she'll yell at me because she is sewing. NO, I want piece of cake instead

of me! He said that as if I wasn't even in the room! That is the reason why I cut my retard family out of my life over 30 years ago! I'm so glad my ugly, evil parents are dead! I wish I could bring them back alive so I can have the pleasure of killing them! No way in hell am I related to those monsters! I must have been adopted. Who are my REAL parents???

Like everything getting expensive so fast, and I'm worried how life will be like 5 or 10 years from now.

Ever since my father died 3 years ago, my mom and me have grown apart even though we both have lived under the same roof for years. See at a young age I was adopted at 11, I have shared a strong relationship with her but over the past couple of yrs she has changed doesn't talk much or becomes irritated with my presence. She is now seeing a new man and though I want her to be happy I feel like it's betrayal to my dad. She wants to sell this house and live separately I just feel it's to get away from me.

My dad told me I don't act like an adult when I said I wanted ice cream..

I wanted to post a picture of both of them, but did not want people to think they were a couple.

my sis has been divorced 10 yrs now & raises 2 daughters 16&15 yrs. she never, by my observation, treated her older daughter as well as she does the younger one. & now it has started to take its toll.... the older daughter has since joined a gang (dad's pretty much outta the pic) & has experimented w/drugs, the way my sis did (and my niece knows about it). now my sis says very hurtful things in front of and to my niece& vice versa.there is no respect between them and not much kindness. i try to intervene when i can but there's not much i can do (i have my own fam.) my sis doesn't work half the time(for med reasons, she says) and both of my nieces get frustrated that there is not enough $ to buy things teen-girls want. just yesterday, they got into a physical fight and my sis kind of bragged that she "busted her lip" (my1 niece's). they say they don't need therapy and i worry that something much worse will happen if they don't get the help i think they seriously need. what can fam. do?

Long story short... I grew up with no dad, I am almost 20 and I have tracked down his facebook thanks to my mother finally telling me who he is. I am engaged and so far, life is pretty good without him. Aside from my upbringing of my mom having to work 2 jobs to make ends meet and me raising my baby brother... Everything turned out okay. However, I feel like it is only natural to be curious about these things and I need advice. I want to reach out to him and if not him then... One of his two sisters or parents. When I was younger and my mother tried to reach out to him, he blocked her and i assume it is because he probably thought she was trying to claim 'child support' or whatever... Well now I am 20... So should I go for it? What do I have to lose? I've grown up without him and I can live without him but at the same time... I want him and his family to know I exist. Even if they shut me out and ignore me... I want to know about things like health and my heritage... Stuff like that... I just don't know what to do, I am so conflicted. Thanks for the help anyways.

So me and my gf just had a little girl anyhow she cheated on me with my best friend I confronted her on it and she slapped me twice then told everyone I choked her out and swears I did she blamed it on me got mad at me for putting her in the place to cheat and she wants to spend Christmas only at her family's everyone is grown up expect her sister who's 15 their mad because I wanna go to mine to I have a 6 year Old and a 8 year old brother and sister and I'm not aloud or she'll take my daughter everything we disagree about becomes we'll I'll take my daughter any advice would be great to hear

So we've been dating for 2 years we have a daughter anyhow her family wants us to stay all of Christmas and spend Christmas Eve with mine her sister is 14 I still have younger brothers and sisters anyhow since they won't do this their awful and I'm thanksgiving they tried to tell me they were going to keep my fiancé and baby the entire night and I can't take her to my family for thanksgiving this is my daughters first well everything I've tried to talk about it but it results in anger any ideas?

I told my sister.. You were a nutritionist at the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia when you were in your 20s. You were an accountant at a construction company in your 30s and early 40s. You never lived in the city a day in your life after you turned 17 and married Charlie. Why the f)uck are you associating yourself with all of these inner city blacks that are threatening you, abusing you, and calling you foul names, and throwing boxes at your head and beating you up.. And immigrants from turkey who are so insular that they are 50 years old and don't speak a word of English. Why ? She didn't say anything. So I asked her... Who the hell do you think you're helping by bringing these trash people around you ? She said "i have no idea".. And I said.. I know exactly who. YOU. That's who you're trying to help. Because you can manipulate them, that's why you do it. I also told her, that the BOGUS reason why she does it, is to try to cure the ills of the world.. And that reason that you might have stuck inside your head, is a LIE. But even if it was the truth.. You can't and you won't cure the ills of the world. ALL that's going to happen, is that you're going to try to help a murderer.. and end up murdered. If you want to help somebody, try helping your family... Or yourself, through better means.. Like getting a part time job. :P

I am in my twenties and my brother and mother have treated me terribly my entire life. Every year I am forced to spend the holidays with all of us together at my mom s in my hometown, but every year, I am miserable. I know they are my family, but should I cut off all communication between them if they refuse to treat me better? All I do is sit in my old room because they do their own thing refusing to talk or spend time with their sister/daughter, and I am sad. It also causes me to lash out and be angry, which of course I know I am suppose to pray for them and turn the other cheek. To make matters more complicated, my doctor s appointments are in my hometown so usually when I visit I also see my doctors. What should I do?

A few months ago I made the mistake of sending out a recording of my boyfriend yelling at me, and I was in a terrible emotional state. In the recording you could hear him hitting my arm and it somehow ended up in the hands of my mother (whom I tell nothing to). She then sent the recording to nearly every family member I know and they all hate him. The police got involved and I didn't press charges, and he got banned from campus housing. His family loves me, and they also know about the situation. We've been together for three years and that's the first and only time something like that has happened. it's my fault for recording and sending it out anyway but now my family talks behind my back and won't support any of my future decisions. We've forgiven each other and our relationship has grown so much. It was all a misunderstanding.

My mom is 60 years old and she pretty much doesn't have anything. She has always depended on my father or boyfriends to support her and take care of her. She recently left her boyfriend so now she has nowhere to go. I am 31 and I am living with my aunt and I am looking into buying a condo. My mom is bouncing around to different family members houses but no one wants to take her full-time. She is extremely difficult and asks everyone for money and wants everyone to pay her bills for her and refuses to get a job. I know once I get a condo everyone is going to try to pin her and me full-time. I have never lived on my own And I want to experience living alone and being independent. I work and I want to create my own life and have my own space. My mom gets really nasty when people don't give her money and has even threatened to come to my job and embarrass me and cause a scene. She continually curses at me and threatens me, demanding money from me. I can't live my life like this. When her mother was around, my grandmother, she drained every penny she had from her. What should I do, am I a terrible daughter for feeling this way?

I'm going to do it but I need advice from people who have done it before.

I am an adult so not living with him. I have anxiety and depression so am sensitive. He is likely not as arrogant as I think but he does have a sarcastic arrogance to him. He is also VERY ignorant of mental illness and feels it is no more then a bad habit.

Last time she was here, back in March, she threw a big temper tantrum at the family dinner and wrecked the day for everyone. She is always throwing temper tantrums like a teenage girl.

There are these two older girls. 1 and 2. 1 started laughing loudly and at great length at one of my jokes asked me to repeat it to her, she was eavesdropping in my conversation. She smiled the whole time I was talking and later teases me.1 starts butting into my conversations and responding to stuff I say to other people or laugh at stuff I say. She gets red and smiles while talking to me and doesn't look me in the eye. 1 smiles at me a lot, when I say hi she blushes. Her friend 2 asks me to talk to 1 and joke around with her, chase her around talk to her tell her stories and jokes. 2 asks me to be around them and 1 seems embarrassed or has an attitude but still wants to talk to me and when they took turns with selfies next to me she asked me to get closer and after that I could only be next to 1 in selfies and wants me really close. They both laugh at stuff I say 1 finds any way to compliment me and tries to talk to me. 1 teases me after we talk.2 came and got me for a picture when 1 wore something nice that showed cleavage when she never wears anything like that and she blushed.They both do stuff young girls do when flirting. At first 2 had me talk to 1 and I can't speak to her and she can't speak to me. She directed me to talk to 1. Well 2 offered me a ride when it was unnecessary and apprehensive when I accepted.2 cant talk to me in front of 1. 2 said me and her would be dancing partners. 2 talks to me when 1 isn't around. 2 approaches me with 1 but I can only talk to 1

Do most guys think getting a b*ner and having someone like their mother notice it embarrassing? I've had it happen to me a few times when I would just be wearing my shirt and boxers in the morning. I actually don't feel shame if she notices it. She knows what it is and has seen it so, I'm fine with it.

Since he was in his room, I didn't want to shame him about having masturbated there, as I have told him in the past that masturbation is okay but only to be done in private. The thing is that it was time for school, so I told him upon my entrance to hurry up and get dressed. But he told me to "wait" because "he's coming to the good bit." Perhaps I should've also mentioned to my son that "privacy" also means "alone." Since it was just me there, I let it slide and patiently waited for him to finish. But should I have forbid him and say "no, get dressed." I didn't want to frustrate him in the middle of his fun. Please help. Thank you.

I am moved out now, but now that I'm moved out I feel like I was in an abusive household. My mom and dad are divorced and I stayed with my mom most of the time. My mom did things like put soap in my mouth, force me to sign up for clubs, religious activities, and jobs I didn't want to be in and made me walk to work and I was forced to buy my own car. When I did she would ground me if I didn't tell her every little move I made, she took control of where I went. Even though i bought the car with my own money, I wasnt able to go wherever I wanted. I was 18 years old. She turned off the wifi a lot too because she thought I played video games too much, yet I still was responsible enough to wake up for work every day. I've never done drugs, never even went to a party, never done something so bad to deserve the treatment she gave. Then when I got a girlfriend she hated her right off the bat without even knowing her just because she didn't have her license yet. She called her vile things, made judgments about her without even knowing her.  My dad has always been a lot better so I dont have much to say about his side, anyways is this all abusive parenting or am I overdramatic?

I think his mother killed him and then killed herself. 1. Considering all the media coverage this case has received, i doubt if Timmothy is alive somewhere and nobody would recognize him. 2. Their activities during the final day almost seems like his mother wanted him to have a final good time. 3. In her suicide note, his mother mentions that Timmothy is "safe with people who will love and care for him forever" and that he will "never be found". The certainty in that statement strongly implies that Timmothy is dead. And the "people who will love and care for him forever" seems more like it is referring to the afterlife rather then an undocumented adoption. 4. It is known that the relationship between his parents was strained and that they were considering divorce. In case of a divorce Timmothys father would almost cetainly get custody of Timmothy, given his mothers mental health. I believe his mother wanted to give Timmothy one final day of happiness. Bought him toys. Bought him clothes to make him look respectable. Then drugged him, killed him and buried him somewhere. Then killed herself in the hotel room so that his body would not be found. A sad scenario, but all the evidence seems to point in that direction. What do you think?

This woman I'm friends with on Facebook always has to post everything of her life on Facebook. She has a son (who is 12 years), and she always posts stuff about him on Facebook. So when her son was constipated and was sent to the hospital, she decided to post that on Facebook just to let everyone know about it. So people who were friends with her got mad at her for posting that thing about her son on Facebook and thus were chewing her out, telling her that that stuff is not appropriate at all to be posting on Facebook, and they were also telling her that she was selfish for not thinking about what her son would think about her posting stuff about him being constipated. Also many people were telling her that she shouldn't be allowed to have a Facebook or any form of social media if she doesn't understand what is and what's not appropriate to posting on those websites.