I think I've noticed that. Many people who strike me as arrogant are certainly not friendly to talk to.

I am 23 years old and I still live at home with my parents. I have grown up with a very controlling and overbearing mother What really upsets me is that no man I ever date will be good enough for my mum. If I really like a guy I am dating, she will put me off him by making me not trust him. If I tell my mum one thing the guy has said which is 'off', she will automatically accuse him of being controlling, and tells me he will get abusive if I get into a relationship with him. She has already told me that he is NOT to be trusted and will likely be mixed up because his parents are divorced. It really upsets me because she makes these judgements based on what I tell her, having not even met him. She makes me believe that I can trust NO ONE and that every guy I date will hurt me or abuse me. I have recently got out of an abusive relationship and I am starting to date again. What really hurts me is when my mum tries to put me off men I date before I know them. I feel like even if I found the 'perfect guy' he would still never be good enough for my mum, because he wasn't HER choice for me. It's really putting me off this guy I am dating, even though he has done nothing wrong and has behaved like a complete gentleman to me. The only thing I would say is he may be taking things a little too fast, but to my mum that is seen as 'a red flag' and a potentially controlling man. Why will NO man i ever date be good enough for my mum?

About 8-9 months back, there was this girl who told me she loved me for a 2-3 months before the 2nd semester of high school ends. I simply thought of it as a love as in a way to just make me feel better because I was kinda empty for those few months. I would say something like "Everyday is the same," whenever someone asked me how my day was. During those months was the final choir concert, where she actively told her friends that she loved me. One time during the rehearsal for the concert, she told me yet again that she loved me, and I replied "Your just joking aren't you?," then she replies "Why would I say that if it was a joke?" The day following the choir concert, she asked me how my day was, and I replied "The same as any other day," and then she had a sad look on her face and told me "Your complicated," then paused and said "That was a joke." In a sad and wistful tone. Then after that, we never once spoke to each other again.

We have been broken up for 3 weeks or more and reason i ended it was because we argued and i was tired of the same **** different day thing so the following day he tried being nice but i was still dwelling on the problem so i told him ti leave me alone and broke it off. Now its been 3 to 4 weeks and we live 45 min away from each other we used to leave near eachother but now we live a distance apart. I told myself i was gonna try and get him back and fix things so i went yesterdy and he looked at me smiled and i asked him how he was doing and he said hes trying to be happy and work and provide for his kids (has 2 girls) and that hes trying to improve his life and that he doesnt wanna go back to a toxic relationship that if i wanna be apart of his life that we can be friends first. Which makes me think he might be talking to someone else already. Everything i wanted him to fix or improve on was everyrhing he is now doing without me. He said he doesnt need to **** someone else but idk. We were in a relationship for 5 years. Hes 4 years older than me, i lost my virginity to him btw when i was 21.

I go to Georgia Tech, and I share a dorm with a few others, including one Indian. My Indian roommate is so disgusting. He stinks like crazy, and he cooks a lot of disgusting Indian food that smells like curry. He listens to loud Indian music when he does his homework, and this really distracts me. I've tried talking to him, but he just ignores me. He hogs the limited fridge space with disgusting stuff like curry. He farts a lot, and he puts his stuff everywhere. This is why I put my laptop, backpack, most of my clothes, books, binders, homework, school supplies, credit cards, and wallet in a large $500 metal safe I bought for myself. I've talked to my parents about this issue too, and they said for me just to accept diversity and learn to deal with him. Not helpful. Anyways, he rolls around on the floor, making the whole room stink like curry. And sometimes when he decides to eat out at a restaurant, he orders really loud. And he doesn't know how to play basketball either. When me and some friends play basketball, he always joins in, wearing a football helmet, tap shoes, a Scottish kilt, and he takes his shirt off. His belly is so huge, and he bumps into people, which is absolutely vulgar. We are in the same physics class, and every time he answers a question, he shouts loudly. And if he answers it right, he sings and flosses in joy. Should I call the CPS?

So we are both 18 and she is pretty hot but also unbelivable strong. Bench like 200 squat 220 and so on. The problem is that she always come up behind me and bearhugs me. She squeezes the f*ck out of me. Sometimes Even picking me up. I can't get loose Even thoe i'm strong aswell. Any advice? Im 6'1 and she's like 5'9. And yes i have told her to stop but she don't listen

I am in kove with a girl 4 years younger than me. For a lot of reasons at first I opposed to it, trying to fight my feelings and telling her it's wrong but she kept insisting so much telling me that she wont give up on our love that made me change my mind. Her relatives hate me and call me names. I have become the joke of her cousins and her dad hates me so much that one day he'll put his hands on me (almost happened once) if he sees me again with his daughter. I dont knoe why but there are lots of reasons (my family, our economic situation, the fact that I had to work at an early age, I dont have a college degree, I live in a social apartment etc..). She is the one who believes so much in this love that she said she will never give up on me and she's been waiting for 5 years to be with me (waiting to have the right age). To avoid all the problems, she pretends she doesn't know me in public (but she cant take her eyes off of me though) and when she's with me she tells me romantic things, poems, and she shows me all her love. We have to hide or not to tell anyonr about us or where we meet. She says one day we'll get married and they'll accept everything but now they will nust cause problems to us and stick their nose in our business ruining everything. She's really attached to me (I was the first guy she ever fell for ) and often cries and apologises for everything that she has to fake in public. What should we do?

He says he doesn't believe in marriage and is against the institution of marriage and the government Is against societal norms and customs and doesn't care what anyone thinks or says He thinks and I quote him it is an "Obsolete outdated old fashioned sexist tradition and religious ritual that has no place in Modern day Liberal society He says that marriage reduces men and women into possessions to be owned by the other lulls people into a false sense of security so couples stop trying to wooh each other and traps two people in a relationship and if one party is unhappy in the relationship it is very difficulty and a nightmare to get out He said Marriage was used in times when women could not work and needed to rely on a man to provide and take care of them it reduced women to property and they were traded away given by their parents to men . Women were expected to be chaste pure virgins and men were expected to provide for them But nowadays we are Equal and women are independent and can work no longer need men to provide so its not needed ? He says we should be together because we are happy together and want to stay together not because we are trapped by a legally binding contract