I just got home from riding with my mom to go pick up my dad at work. Since I did not get out of the backseat and we came right back home I went for the ride in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes. I had shoes on all day at school and did not want to put them back on for a 30 minute car ride since I did not have to go in anyplace and it was comfortable going for the ride in my bare feet.

Recently I found out where all the wash cloths have gone to. I don't touch anything in his room i just check it he's not doing anything bad in there. I found his pile of them. I ask him does he know where they all are he says no. I'm running out of wash cloths. I can see the evidence of his deeds.

Okay, so this is a very practical gift for my boys ages 4& 9. We just bought a new house. We will be moving after the new year as we have to do renovations prior. Currently where we live, the boys share a room. Here they will have their own room. The boys came to the new house last week and we re running around wildly and so excited about their own rooms! I think a great Christmas gift idea would be to make their rooms their own, unique, fun space. Paint, decorations, fun things - the 9 year old will have a "gamer/techy" room. And the 4 year old will have an OG DC comic/suoer hero room. Of course there will be a couple presents under the tree to open from Santa (the 9 year old doesn t believe anymore). Regardless we have to renovate this house and we just don t have the money to give a lot of toys, so I think this is a fun compromise - kill two birds with one stone. Thoughts?

My brother is alway talking about private parts and tries to see me naked in the shower and It makes me want to throw up... I tell my parents but I don t think they realize how creepy he s being. Once he came up to my friend and groped her... I don t know where he learned this stuff but I dont want him to be a creepy pervert when he gets older... Can I some how stop his behavior?

His sister is NOT one to just stick up for him cause he is family. They are not close at all. However, on this she noted there was no credibility. His daughter is mentally ill and my Mom made this claim that he did this. I do know there was a rumor at one time. So I see this man at reunions and if he is NOT a pedophile then I want to be nice, if he is one then I want to be cold. How do I know which is it? This man is narcissistic and rude as is but just that doesn't make me want to assume he is a child abuser if he is not one. My mother does have a long history of assuming things.

She puts more selfies then any human on earth. I guess this is her narcissistic glorifying of herself.

I'm 34, I hate the town I live in, and I hate the state I live in. It's full of vindictive, manipulative, evil evil people. I know this through experience and by fact. I'm nice, kind, caring, and outgoing, and people HATE that about me. So am I just supposed to be miserable like them? If I'm not, they go OUT OF THEIR WAY to MAKE me that way. That's why I'm leaving this crap hole. But I can't move until February, so I don't know what else to do. I'm waiting for some litigation to finish up, and my concussion to heal. A negligent driver ran a stop sign and T-boned me, and ruined my life and totaled my car. Luckily since she was 100 percent at fault, I got reimbursed for the car, and now working on a personal injury lawsuit. A lot of times I wish I was just dead, but moving away from here gives me hope. How can I overcome all these difficult feelings? I'm so used to working and being active, but the accident has left me nearly brain dead and lifeless....however I am trying to overcome that. And the doctors only care about getting money from me, it's obvious...they also want to put me on mind numbing, dumbing down medications :(

Im older, my parents are getting elderly. My sibling is in rehab and my family onlycares about him. I have no friends, no kids and im tired of living in my state for 35 years. Seeing the same ppl, same buildings, ugh. I just bought a new honda and honestly i just wanna get in my car and go. I have no money tho and only have a associate degree. What should i do? Apply to a college out of state? Just leave?

My twin brother and I use to talk all the time. Constant text message back and forth. That was until he did the unthinkable in my mind. Well, several years ago he was made a deacon at his church and that seemed to go to his head. Little did his church know, he was openly cheating on his second wife. The pastor knew but he assured the pastor that he had stopped even though he hadn't. It wasn't like he was having an affair with one woman, he was actually paying escorts for sex. Multiple women a week. Well, there when our dad left my church where he had been a member for all of our lives to join my brother's church that really hurt me. There was a program at my brother's church to welcome my dad as a new member and I was very hesitant to go but since the entire family went so did I. Yes, I had a scowl on my face the whole time and refused to talk to anyone. After the program my brother sent out a group text to all the brothers and sisters thanking them for coming then decided to rip me a new one during the text. He basically sent a novel about how he would never invite me back to his church, yadda, yadda, yadda. Well, several of my other siblings got on him about that. Since that day I've refused to speak to him and that was months ago. We still get together for family gatherings and things but I keep my distance from him. In the past month, him and his wife have split and he's now going through his 2nd divorce. They had to sell the house they built from ground up and he walked away with about $26, 000 in his pocket. He's back home sleeping on the sofa at our parent's house and instead of finding a place to stay he took $17,000 of that money and bought a new truck. He had months to move out of the house but he failed to find an apartment. There was nothing wrong with his current truck. He just bought the new one because everyone else at his church were getting new rides and he had to "keep up with the Jones'." Again, 49 years old, sleeping back at our parent's house on the sofa but has a new ride in the driveway. My sister tells me I'm wrong because I need to be the bigger man and apologize. She asked me why I walked past his new truck the other day and didn't say anything. I told her I don't have to celebrate in his bad decision making. Yes, I tried to get him to stop cheating but he told me I don't sign his paycheck. Yes, it bothers me when I go visit our parents and he's sitting there sleep on the sofa or out polishing his new truck but I refuse to acknowledge it given all that he and I have gone through. Why should I apologize when he was the one who basically attacked me in the text message? Again, he had the "American Dream". A house, a wife, descent job, but lost it all because he felt he wasn't getting enough sex at home. Yes, his wife knew and refused to sleep with him. She even threatened to send a letter and pics to his church. That still didn't stop him. Right now there are no plans for him to move out of our parents house because he's comfortable there right now. Again, how do you get over family hurt like this? Should I apologize?

she has threatened to bust his head opened as well hit me with a pole if I took her to the hospital..she's his father's mother.. She called me asked me why don't I deal with her anymore she doesn't remember what she said so she says but I don't trust it. She flipped it around on me telling me I'm lying and I hurt her feelings for saying that but my job is to keep my 5 year old safe help do they really have memory issues what would you do?

I go to a university in Oklahoma. I moved out of my house earlier this year after my dad and stepmom divorced. My step sister went to live and now lives with her boyfriend. My half sister went to live with my step mom, and I stayed with my dad who had his gf and kids move in just a few months later. after they moved in, he moved us 2 small town away from my town where I was finishing up my senior year as historian and 1 town from where I was also taking college while in highschool. I dont drive so I was to depend on my dad. I was willing to deal with this setback until I realized him and his gf got a bedroom, her kids got a bedroom, and I did not. I have PTSD from being sexually abused and raped by my brother so this was a big issue me. My dad knows about these issues but did not see me as priority. I also had a job, in the 1 town away where I took college. So I moved out, and slept on my friends couch for the rest of my senior year. I then was able to get summer housing paid for by one of my educational programs because I was homeless at a college dorm. I cannot go live with my mom because my brother with her. I refuse to go back to my dads house do to feeling neglected for months. My highschool was very small, I come from a small town, and i didnt know that they had to file paperwork about me being homeless to get qualified. I am 19, a college freshman, with little to no financial support from family. I was wondering if and how can I get qualified as homeless now?

https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20180915222238AA50zLc here are the items that she threw out: my pool bag my water shoes my baby clothes some of my baby toys a doll my little clock radio 3 cups and plated from my first birthday party if i ask her,i'm scared she'll lie to me. i don't what to do. i will never forgive her for throwing away my stuff. she must have threw them away when i was upstairs doing something. i can't sleep,i like to have everything with me. what to do? confront the woman and her family? everytime i asked them,they said no,they didn't threw them out,but i feel like it's a lie. and my baby diaper,that's clean pictures of me at the pool when i was little

I know we all hate a sibling as a kid but in adulthood I hate my narcissistic sister. Is this normal? I have another sister and brother I like. The brother shares my hatred of this sister.

We been though a lot. But my dads five sisters always gossip about us for no reason. We live with my aunt and uncle, my uncle is nice but my aunt is really mean. The whole family loves my aunt but treats my mom and my sister and I like crap. We are so nice, even after my dads frontaltemporal dementia they tried to blame it on us. And say that we only after his money. They are living so perfect and we are struggling so much, why god. Why do we suffer so much. My dad did so much for his brothers and sisters yet they don't respect him. It's fake respect, and when my dad died they cried so much. I'm like where was that cry when he was struggling with anxiety and depression

Hi. I'm 28 years old and I still live at home with my Mother and abusive Father. I have a good job and have the means to care for myself. Before I was born my father use to be physically and emotionally abusive to my mother and siblings. Now that he is older he is just emotionally abusive. My poor mom has been so abused that she has no real opinions of her own. She is so sickened with anxiety that she can no longer drive. I want to leave but I fear my mother's health and sanity. She has begged me not to go and has told me in the only one that cares enough about her wellbeing. I have developed anxiety and depression and its gotten to the point that I've wanted to die or at least go into a vegetative state. Ex. My friends pulled me away from the horrors on a two day trip. When I got back my mom is laying in the bed with pain with my niece and nephews sick with bronchitis all around her. Because dad wanted the kids to come over and spend the weekend. It didn't matter that HE was also sick and that they were passing germs to each other (this has been going on for months) or that my mom was in need of surgery. He makes my mom take care of them. When I speak up about it he degrades me for not have children and that if I wasn't fat I could get a man to have children with. I love my father. I really do. I don't what was done to him in his childhood that made him so awful. But I don't think I can take anymore. I don't know how to break free and save my mother. What should I do?

I feel so bad about it.... So today my dad and I got into an argument, and afterwards he told me I need to watch my mouth, and kept aggressively poking me on my forehead, and he told me "or this would happen" and clinched his fist and did the same thing he did but more aggressive. Now I've been dealing with minor headaches, my mom noticed because she was giving me a hug and when she accidentally rubbed against my forehead I flinched. I told her what he did already, but I didn't tell her that it has been hurting me for a while. Now their arguing, and I'm nervous now... How can I make things better? I feel like I started all of this, the argument started over bacon this morning, he claimed "I only care about myself" because I asked how many I should get. Currently I'm in the the bathroom, and I really dont want to be seen right now. Can someone please help me?

I had plans to travel to another country. My mom however was worried and didn't want me to travel. I am an adult and 22. I was planning on going no matter what my mom thinks. However, my grandma recently passed away and I don't want to be insensitive. I loved my grandma, but I still want to travel. How long after do you think is okay to travel? Thanks

My brother always laughs so weird like a clown and he does this in school and people think he's disabled. I'm in the bathroom putting on my underwear and he randomly ******* peeks his head and I can see it in the mirror and he laughs so creepily and walks to his room. I tell him to stop and he laughs again and it's so annoying. And I'm a guy so I don't know how this **** adds up. Help I can't deal with this anymore, my parents doesn't care at all and I have to put up with this autistic piece of **** everyday and I'm scared of taking showers now

Him, my mom, my sister, and me were in the car. My sister (13) said they'll think I'm sweaty at work because I didn't have time to let my shirt dry all the way. I said "You always have to say something rude." And she took that as me picking on her (because I'm 22?). I said "I'm just telling you you're being rude so maybe you'll think about it and be nice. My step dad blurted out to me "Do you want to be single the rest of your life?" That had absolutely NOTHING to do with anything, and he also says stupid sh*t like "Gays choose to be gay because no one of the opposite sex wants them." And "The Internet is evil against God because God wants people in different countries to be isolated from each other." My step dad has even thrown temper tantrums over my sister's disrespectful attitude, but this when I called it out (not even violent or angry like him) he randomly says "Do you want to be single for the rest of your life?" For more reference, my sister is HIGHLY disrespectful to almost everyone, me, my mom, my grandparents, other kids, teachers (some teachers are disrespectful themselves though) as she knows she will not get disciplined whatsoever. She even slapped my mom with a phone charger once, and tells her what SHE'S GOING TO DO (like she's the mother instead of the child) ALL THE TIME, calls her a liar and tells her to shut up all the time, and if I dare say anything I'm yelled at. My sister will just have to learn the hard way in life, I'll never say anything about her disrespect ever again. But what my step dad said to me has been stuck on my mind all day, affecting my work.

My parents have been fighting a lot recently and my dad is being horrible to my mum. I want to yell at him and tell him that he's acting like an ***hole but I'm scared to - whenever me or my sisters start having a go at him or swearing or misbehaving etc. he starts yelling at us (full force - it's a wonder he hasn't torn a vocal cord yet) and grabs us and hits us. Before you say that this is abusive - it's not. He's a loving father and husband, it's just his way of disciplining us, and as scary as it is (I'm not very close to him because of it), it works. He's a lovely person unless he's angry. I just want the courage to turn around and say 'What the **** are you doing?' to him and get him to shut the **** up because the things he says and does make me so angry and he spent all morning making my mum cry - and oh no, it didn't stop there - and after having done that, proceeded to come back to her room every five minutes to start on at her again. I desperately want to stand up for her but I'm terrified to, so please, how do I help my mum besides being supportive afterwards? I don't want to be scared of my dad but I am. He's horrid at the moment and I really want to stop it. Help! (PS don't tell me to tell a teacher or call childline or something, or give me advice on comforting my mum, I literally just want to know how to stop my dad in the moment, thanks!)

My sister most definitely has mental health problems but she absolutely refuses to see a psychologist. She's constantly complaining about my parents being assholes bc they've "caged her like a bird" just bc they don't want her to go travel alone. It's a valid reason considering she wants to go alone without anyone of my parent's relatives to pick her up & watch over her in China. She's never been there before, can't speak Chinese well & never been out of the country either. She also blames them for conforming her into a space bc they wanted her to take over the family business & forced her to major in business. She complains that it's their fault that she's so dumb & can't do anything which I find so wrong bc you have to actually try to do what you want & put effort into it. Not only that, she stays home even though she's 23, doesn't have a job & only plays video games. Not only that, she's met a guy online & keeps buying him things. She's never met him for one, all the pictures she has been given of him look like it was a profession photoshoot & not normal photos, that & the fact that he even refuses to talk by saying he's ill and can't speak anymore? She believes him & I just can't bc those are all suspicious things! She's so naive about the world & it's a large reason why my parents don't want her traveling alone. She's also started cutting bc "why not". I can't deal with her at the moment. Might I also add that I'm far younger than her & I honestly don't know what to do.

I love my grandma but she is nosey. She is always coming over to my dad's house and she goes through my room and read my texts. Last week I caught my grandma going through my Dad and Stepmom's belongings when I asked what she doing in she told me to mind my business. She also goes through my older sister's room and found two loaves of bread under my sister's bed. My sister yells at my grandma when she goes through her stuff and reads her text. It made my stepmom mad when she caught my grandma going through her stuff. My grandma aslo reads my stepmom's text she just doesn't know my has my going through her phone for

My sister was in the hospital because she collapsed and my sister's friend had to tell me instead of my own mother. When I ask my mom about it she just tells me she doesn't want to talk about it. And I overhead my mom on the phone talking about our family friend who is/was battling cancer and I heard her say he is dead. I don't know if she was just being sarcastic and i'm so scared of asking. He basically raised me like I was his own. If he's dead why won't she tell me?

It's been 2 weeks since he has been real quiet. When his dad died he didn't speak for a while year but he changed and got better. I recently got engaged. Since he never really known my fiance i decided it would be good to know him. I left them over the house for about 2 days while I went on a trip for business. I don't think my son ever liked it in the first place. Because !maybe he thought he would replace his father. His dad was a good guy but he is dead. I came back and my son had a cut in his cheek and he says he fell which I know is a lie. Because it's not that type of cut it goes down his face. He hasn't talked for 2 weeks and all he does is do his homework and it in his room completely in silence. He also is addressing my fiance as sir now. Instead of his usual yes mr.asshole. Which I hate but now he is being werid.

You read right. He doesn't insist at all. And I'm actually not bothering, because I find it positive that he's not a guy who only wants physical things. And btw, I'm virgin so the fact that he doesn't push for hit makes me happy and not worried, because I'm so afraid of my first time. I only have a few doubts: how can a guy as handsome as him (and my friends say he looks like the kind of tough, stubborn who only takes advantages of girl like me) wait so much and not make a single attempt to convince? He never talked to me about sex. The maximum he has ever done to me is sleeping next to each other, cuddling and kissing my chest but not taking off my clothes. For example, sometimes he looks at me in a sad way and kisses my face, cheeks and hugs me really tight. When I'm cold he pulls me in and warms me up in his embrace. But he never touched me sexually. How is it possibile? I mean I am of course glad, but I only heard of stories where guys (and he's really handsome) they're good etc but in the end they want sex. But he always respects me....how is that possible?