My sister and I are very close in age, but my sister is and always has been bigger than me. When we were younger she would tell me to do these things, and she'd do things to me too, and I didn't rly want to do those things but she'd blackmail me with things like thing with my parents and stuff so I complied. (Now that I think about it I don't know how she even knew about this stuff at the age we were) I've never told anyone about this and i don't plan to that's why I'm asking the internet, what's your opinion and is this a possible reason?

There is this fat, supposedly homeless guy in my town always hanging out by the gas station. I dont think hed homeless, because his clothes are pretty nice and he has a nice backpack, but hes certainly not wealthy. Anyway, I see him standing around all the time. It seems like hes just trying to make people feel sorry for him. Yesterday when I was walking my dog. This guy walks up to me and asks if I could spare some cash. I stopped, looked at him for about 2 seconds, and told him to walk away. I've felt kinda bad ever since, and was going to apologize next time I saw him. Do you think he deserves an apology?

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My husband is a wonderful man. However he is a very pracitcal man. He's an engineer. For him every problem has a solution. But recently, for various reasons, I have started getting more and more anxiety and I get the occassional panic attack. I have started seeing a therapist every other week, I have started taking me first and taking the right steps but it takes time. It might take me a while to get this under control. But as soon as it happened he sprung into action, head first as he always does. My family has been a great stress factor for me so he gathered them all together and apparently screamed at them until he was blue. He told them that every call to me goes through him because he is tired of their bs. Apparently he made my mother cry. He's talked to my friends and told them I can not be their personal therapist and done all that. But honestly the biggest stress factor right now is he. It's like he is a child in back seat asking if I am feeling better yet. He means well but he has taken things too far. Before this all happened we had planned a 6 week trip to go hiking and travelling. I have been thinking to tell him to go. Because I need time to just figure this out. I don't know what is wrong with me. And I understand, especially for him, how frustrating this is. I mean I had a panic attack on the train last week and we had to go back. I'm not really sure how much help he is. Is that wrong to tell him that?

I was nannying for this military family for 6 months, they had a 1 year old son who I watched 12 hours a day. The wife and husband lived apart because they were stationed in two different states, so her husband drove down to visit them on the weekends. Well after the most recent hurricanes, she told me there was a possibility she would be deployed and if she was then she wouldn't need me for about a month because her mom would watch her son while she was gone. Well that was 3 months ago, and I haven't heard back from at all. I've tried reaching out a few times to make sure everything is okay. I know she was to be back by now because she was only deployed for hurricane relief, and I know she has to have seen my messages by now. I was always on time, worked over time, never did anything I wasn't suppose to do, I never told her I couldn't watch her son even on last minute requests and weekends. So I'm a bit confused on why she left me in this situation without telling me she wouldn't be needing me anymore. She just totally dropped me and has ignored me. That was my only source of income and she knew that. She left me without any explanation and without a job. I just can't figure out what went wrong.

19, ugly but workout still a virgin never kissed anyone.

The guy I'm seeing got an erection when we made out. Actually each time we make out. We haven't had sex and I don't think he's after that. He says he really likes me and is turned on by me but doesn't want to be exclusive just yet because he's getting to know me. Yet he says "I'm all his!" And talks about me moving in with him...are these all good signs. We've met once and spent a few days together but have been talking for 4 months. We live in different cities but we try to make it work.

I was waiting for my girlfriend to come down so that I could take a walk with her. We're engaged in a traditional way so I had to ask for her hand in order to date her. I like her family (but not her dad, he hates me) but last time her mom told me something weird. She offered me a piece of cake made by my girlfriend. I sat on the table and ate it and she was looking at me and smiling (my girlfriend was upstairs getting ready). Her eyes turned sad. She told me 'you're a good guy. I'm so glad she has you. She's been through a lot since she was a child. She didnt have mamy things in her life. With you she started to smile again. I have only this daughter. Promise me you will take care of her, even when I will not be there'. Then her voice broke and she started crying a but. I was shocked and the cake was stuck on my throat and my stomach closed suddenly. I handed her handkerchieves and told her she was so young she still had a lot of time with her daughter and of course I would do my best to take care of her. But why did she say it? To me?