an introverted weight lifter at 32 at the time, 37 now, and never had a girlfriend in my life due to self esteem issues that rises when I was a young kid coming from people in general or parents teasing me. So in that regard I never ever really tried to get a girlfriend and just stayed to myself. Of course many girls I came into contact with who were flirty were just bullying me. Truth. I'm still into girls 18-20 something. I've seen this one girl in the gym when I first switched clubs. She is always training with her friend. They are eye candy for sure. Every guy in the gym would talk to her and she be surrounded by sharks lol. Noticed the one girl very innocently and maybe even got caught. Therefore, I usually keep my distance. One day I was stretching and she all giggly asked me if I left a water bottle by the machine. It was obvious it was hers. I just shook my head and continued to stretch. Moments later I went to get some water at the fountain and she was standing behind me waiting for her turn. I simply walked past her like she wasn't born. The next day I'm walking into the building and she walking to her car. I can feel a strange invisible sense of awkwardness. In the corner of my eye I could tell she looked annoyed. Why? It's been a couple years and I stil see her in there time to time. She was sitting doing arm curls and I walk by to go to a station. In the corner of my eye I could see she made a sharp turn with her head in my direction. Why????? When I saw her a few months ago, I was walking by and she finished a set of curls or something and she was just kinda looked up toward me. I felt like this girl thinks i am creepy so I kept looking at the damm floor lol. I hope i never meet or see another girl like her again.

Where is your brain before the marriage? Why go from one to another

I am a mechanic and last year I was working under a car when the lift collapsed. It threw me to the ground and broke my back. I can walk now, but I've had multiple back surgeries and I am hurting constantly. I became addicted to Vicodin and oxycontin, due to the pain. I am in the process of getting clean, but it's rough. I am constantly vomiting. My wife of 19 years left last week, saying she "can't be with a junkie." She took our girls and moved in with her sister. Any suggestions? We have always been inseperable, but she is so detached now, when I really need her the most.

He only has dates her for 4 months. We have two kids and still haven't finalized our divorce or even achieve custody arrangements for our youngest who is 11 months. Can this help my case and hurt his?

My long term boyfriend and I are long overdue for taking a next step, any next step!! Going over to a normal house, start a family or get married but finances are holding us back. We both have jobs and have a good study background but somehow we won't catch a break. We are stuck in entry lvl positions and in our thirthies I'm really down to finnaly just have the feeling I have my own fam instead of still feeling like I'm living like student. I don't have grand expextations anymore and I just hope for the minimals but it seems if my bf doesn't want to do anything exept if it's his dream version that's becomming more and more unrealistic... how do I get him to accept that and move on with our lives. I wish it was perfect but it's not and we never seem to have the luck so to keep waiting for it seems kinda dumb.

What if he reasoned it out with you and said, "When you're a star, they let you do it..." Would you understand his reasoning and respect the man for it. What if he said , "I moved on her like a *****. But I couldn't get there. And I know she was married. " Would you just pass that off as guy talk? Nah, he's just an *** hole and people feel the need to make excuses for him. A dog is a dog doesn't matter if you try to dress one up. Of course no women were present, probably because he knows they'd slap him in his little teeth.

shes on the left https://www.instagram.com/p/Bpx2Bq_lWP-/ she knows hes married and I confronted her and she said "I don't care, I judge people based on how they treat me, he takes good care of me and loves me, if you're upset it's your problem not mine" I feel the worst pain ive ever felt. I filed for divorce today.

Ok here's the deal.... I'm married and my husband and I make a average/decent leaving. I have the potential of making even more money. I want to do that for a even better life and pay off the mortgage faster. But I also want to be there for my children's ages 15 and 9 school events. Which I never had growing up. What would you suggest and why?

why do people get high

would you attend marriage counseling or divorce? i was just wondering it's a hypothetical question i am not married.

ening to because somehow she thinks 350 a month isn t enough. I think she s trying to get more money from me because she knows I make a lot. But I dont want to pay her I only want to pay for my son. But ive been paying her at least 300 a month through cash app stating what the money was for in the note since she was 5 months pregnant! Me, my gf and my 1 year old son live in another state. Anyways if she files for child support will they count that as child support or will I still owe backpay

What should I do?!

yes i'm a female. over 21 it's just he had a very very sexual past life i didnt actually. i did dumb things, yes, thanks below me, i guess i worry to much