Hello! I'm very confused. My boyfriend is a 23 year old male who identifies as straight. We are very open sexually in our relationship with each other and he has expressed an interest in anal play and pegging so we would engage in anal play sometimes and he often does when he masturbates. However , I've discovered that he watches shemale porn and it has been an ongoing fight in our relationship because it makes me feel inadequate and as though he will want to explore this one day. He made a manyvids and checked trans as an interest and looks at shemales on Tumblr. Recently, we got into a huge fight because I discovered the tags in his phone and wondered when he was watching this because I'm always home. He told me he watched in a public restroom on my campus and got himself off in there too because he was really h***y. I asked him why would he not wait until we got home , or we could have had sex? He says he doesn't know why and he watches the porn because it's close to pegging. I'm upset he's gone as far as to be doing this in public without my knowledge. He will often say he is tired sometimes if I try to engage in sex. But other than that our sex life is not bad or lacking so I am confused. Would you be upset, is this a dealbreaker ? Please help! This is tearing me apart.

I'm feeling so depressed and need some advice on what can be done. I left my kids dad because I was so unhappy. My kids were 11 and 12 at the time. My kids was upset but I talked to the explaining it was nothing they did it was mom and dad was unhappy together. They understood. I went into another relationship with My highschool crush and have married him. My kids have excepted this. My son is my youngest and recently turned 17. The problem is my husbands health is not good he has ptsd and severe depression and anxiety and many other things wrong. My husband and children have always got along and everything was going well until my sons birthday. My husband was not doing good that day and him and my son had a very bad argument. My husband was in the wrong I know that. My son will not forgive him talk to him or anything. My husband has apologized for what happened but still my son will not forgive him. I know he is just a teenager but he is old enough to understand things. I'm asking is there anymore I can say or do to help my family get over this and be happy again. I'm just depressed and don't know what to do. Please if anyone has any advice that could help just be nice about it I don't need any sarcasm or negativity. Thanks in advance.

Recently I lied to my parents about something really big because I was scared that they would be disappointed in me (I made the bad decision of having unprotected sex). This lie has caused me a UTI and a pregnancy scare. They both don't trust me anymore and I don't know how to fix the relationship. I'm scared and feel alone in this. Please give me some advice on how to fix this...

I will be leaving shortly to drive home from my parents house after spending a week visiting them over the 4TH of July. I have a long 8 hour drive home so to be more comfortable I am going to drive the whole trip in my bare feet and keep my sandals on the front passengers seat out of the way.

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Meaning, is it normal to feel unsure of everything as far as where your at in life with your SO and where you are going? I've been feeling very uneasy these last few weeks and I have no idea why exactly. I'm finishing my junior year of college this month and it's got me thinking about everything else in my life, primarily my relationship with my girl. We've been together almost 5 years and it's been great. We've been through a lot and it's all gone by so quick. We've never had a long vacation or crazy getaway and since starting college it's always been work and school. We live together and our home life isn't much different and we just do the same thing day in and day out. Recently I've been trying to figure out where I see everything going in the future and I get those feeling that times just slipped by. I have no crazy stories about wilding out, or about chasing girls or anything. Part of me wishes I had experienced that or had at least done more. I'm basically married as it is and it's bothering me the more I think about it. I love my girlfriend and even writing this I can see how blessed I am to have the life I have, I just can't stop thinking about experiencing more. Is this normal?

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So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and she has a brother that is transgender like the only way I knew she was actually a he was because my girlfriend told me early on in our relationship. The only problem is that my girlfriends brother always talks bad about me even though I have done nothing bad to him. The other day my girlfriend was venting to me about her brother the same old story that he's saying this and that about me and stuff. It bothers my girlfriend a lot when he talks about me and then she made the joke to me that next time her brother talks about me she will tell him if he wants me or something because he's always talking about me. My girlfriends mom doesn't like me either because she's racist but not even she talks much about me. Her brother sometimes ask weird stuff to me girlfriend about me like for example he asked my girlfriend how big is my pen*s and stuff. Why does he care? So it got me thinking could it be true or is it that her brother is just an a hole?

I just can t learn. Its like I keep touching the hot stove top and get burned and keep touching it over and over again. I feel like an idiot. I just want to make better decisions

I had an interview with a woman this morning, she was highly qualified, she had a lot of experience, well spoken, she thought thoroughly about the questions I asked her during the interview & presented her self well. Before the interview was over I was already considering offering her the job, I asked her if she had any questions for me, before she started to speak I felt her foot rubbing against my ankle, then she said she would do anything to get the job. I shook her hand & thanked her for her time, I didn't think it would be right for me to take advantage of her.

This woman I see fairly often in social situations targets me incessantly to discuss her health problems. She goes on non-stop monopolizing the time and never once gives me the time of day. Once in a while when I dare to share a morsel of my life, she shuts up like a clam then just continues on about herself. Any suggestions?

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