So things got a little crazy at the Bachelor party and we had one too many drinks. Everyone was asleep and he out of nowhere said, "pretend that I'm your wife right now" and we just started making out. Weirdest thing is I think we both were really into it. When we wokeup the next day we didn't talk about it. Should I mention this to my bride to be or not? I'm so confused about this

I don't come from a family from divorce and met my husband 7 years ago. We dated three years and got married in aug. 2014. He's been mentally,financially, verbally, and emotionally abusive to me. When I was 36 wks pregnant he ran me out of our apartment at 2:45 am telling me to get the **** out and I ran out with no shoes on. He told me had anger issues after our son was born but said he wasn't going to counseling. I just better not make him angry. He's threatened my son and me w/a gun, he has 4 of them. He threatened to kill my parents two years ago on his bday. He belittles me in every way. He calls me fat because my stomach from my csection I had. He said I shake the whole house wherever we I am and said he can always tell what part of the house I'm in b/c it rattles and shakes. He's never taken us out on a family outing b/c he doesn't like to do anything including vacations. We did go on vacation last month to the beach to my parents timeshare and I knew he's show his true colors because I know he hates the beach so I kept telling him we didn't have to go. We went and he ruined our trip in every way and went off in one of his rages in the condo. He wouldn't go out on the beach with my son and me or go out to dinner with us. I was basically just there with my son, which wasn't fair to him to not have both his parents with him. So, I decided I was through. I'm 32 so hopefully can move on w/ my life and find a man who will love me and my son. It's embarrassing,divorcing

Just wondering how it ended . I just keep thinking if I leave I go back to that feeling that if I got in a car accident no one would even know I was gone . Jane doe . He's emotional abusive even so much he got Me fired, threatens to kill me etc. why can't I just have one friend or family to get away from this

I really like her and I love her really and I confessed it to her but she rejected me she is 8 years older than me. I sleep with her occasionally and we once privately escaped to the coast by the beach and we rented a beach cabin. I had alot of fun she seemed serious most of the time and smiled occasionally that same week she was drunk and she told me to dance with her. she suddenly kissed me (she has never done that even in sex) and said that I am hers and hers only as she nuzzled my neck but then she denied ever saying that when she was sober then tells her friends "I do not like or love him. I only use his d***." On Friday I went to a birthday party she was there too and she was sitting in a chair in the middle of her two friends I was standing holding a cocktail in hand and waved hi to her and her friends they said hi but she didn't respond then a close woman friend introduced her friends to me we talked and laughed then I noticed she was staring at us coldly and fixedly. They took me to meet their boyfriends I didn't see her anymore later I searched for her to offer her a ride home but she left with her friends before me. I texted her that night and it lead to me telling her "goodnight my love" she responded "I think you loved those women more. I saw it you were with them for almost the entire night" and didn't reply again why is she like this? She says she doesn't like me yet she gets jealous.

Rather than going out with a guy who has a full time job, no debt, lives on his own, invests in stocks, and pays his own bills, they still want to date the guys who party all the time and live with their parents still and play video games all day and don't have a job or only work part time and are still supported by their parents. Why don't they realize that these guys are always going to be like this and will never grow up if they are still acting like that at 25+?

Okay we had our issues but we both showed that we loved each other till the day she moved out. I don't get how she can act like the last 4 years didn't matter. She is living her life find and i'm sitting here suffering every day. How can she act like the last 4 years meant nothing? I never cheated on her or never put a finger on her. We argued and had trust issues even though neither of us did anything wrong. How can she just be living life everything we had is gone. We did everything together had fun had memories and i'm sitting here like a tool everyday missing her and she's just living life like it's just another day.

My husband has been taking 6 of these a day for 7 years . He is normal sometimes but then all of sudden accuses the kids of stealing dumb stuff . He goes on and On even if there is proof it hasn't been done . He's also super obsessed with me . Wants me with him 24/7 . Can these pills do this

I was just thinking about childless married couples before birth control. I know it was more likely that they were just infertile, but what were the chances that they just didn't have sex if they were truly in love?

I'm 14 and my parents are going through a (pretty nasty) divorce, and my brother and I will be meeting with a guardian ad litem tomorrow. All of the answers and articles I've found have been from the perspective of the parents, and I would really like to know what the process is like for the children, and hopefully from someone who has gone through the same process. Thanks in advance for any help.

My friend is dating a married man. HIs wife and him sleep in separate room, and she is very mean to him. Tells him she doesn't love him anymore. And as soon as their daughter graduates high school, she's divorcing him. She really hates him. But sometimes he can be ok to him. They've been married for 24 yrs. She'll probably divorce him soon because the daughter going to college end of august. But he still loves her through all of this. Because my friend asked would you get back with her if she said she'd try. and he said sometimes yes, and sometimes no, that he'd want to try. So recently my friend said I don't feel like I compare to her. She saw a pic of the wife on facebook and she's really pretty. His answer to her was let's not go there. So in other words she can't compare even though she treats him like gold and the wife is so mean.

If a man develops deep feelings of love for another woman he meets after he marries his current wife what should he do? Should he tell the wife and explore his feelings with the woman? It's not a cheating situation where he is bored in his marriage. He is happy in the marriage, the feelings sort of just happened.

Now let me start off with before this year My husband held a full time job, where after our child was born he supported me for three years; until he has shoulder surgery and get a part time job. after his recovery he return to his job and I return to my part time. He however grew tired of his workplace and the fact he never had time to play games,or attend tournaments for.40k. He then asked me to find a full time Job so.he could leave his job. I did, however over an.hour so we sold our home, to help my now homeless parents buy a home.He Did Leave his Job.He gets to attend every 40k event and gaming event he wants too now that his time his free. It worked for a.few months until our vehicle had broken down .He then stated he wants $500 from each of my paycheck to put twords repairs and afterwards he will then put it in savings. He has slipped up.a few times.claiming he is so frustrated with not having his own money. So I assume the $500 is really so he can have money. That leaves me with Bill money and grocery money by the end of it all.Now flash forward to recent times, I just took on a new job paying $2 more then the previous one. it'll be nice to get some help around the house. then proceeded to set rules that I and our daughter must follow. He is sick of being the only person doing work around the house, That it's always him, and everyone is lazy.Anyway tho I work full time to support him should I be the one to take over household chores, while he works Outside?

We dated for 7 years engaged at one point, broke up 4 months ago now she is dating a guy for the last 2 months, I don't text email or anything at all I simple walked away, but this girl email me every 2 weeks about insignificant things, just curious why she does that, nostalgia to make sure I am still on the hook? she does have a BF just don't make sense.

I'm seeing some embers of hope in our marriage at this time. We have been settled and we even started to resume intimacy... But still one issue remains. She refuses to kiss. Over the years there have been many excuses. The latest is the fact that I called the police after her and her mother started smashing up the kitchen and attacking each other. There were broken tiles etc. In the week following that, i was threatened with divorce and attacked and had my phone smashed up. I have spoken to a lawyer and I know the processes involved. But at the moment we are starting to get along a bit. We talk about having more children, upgrading our home and going to Europe eat the end of the year. Now I know the biggest factor in me deciding to go or stay is whether or not she will continue to work on her anger management issues. I cannot be held to blame for getting police involved. I had to take action as I feared for their physical safety and thought they weren't going to stop until someone got seriously hurt. Plus I wanted an intervention for my wife to realise her anger issues. I was concerned for our 3 month old hearing that violence. A lot of problems have plagued us. But there is so much more that could be done. We have proven that we can function as a normal couple in most aspects. These past couple of weeks have proven that. But I still cannot find a way forward for the kissing issue. I don't want to go the rest p f my life never knowing what it feels like to kiss a woman... It has been almost a year since we last kissed. She still occasionally looks at porn to get in the mood and continues to watch it when I pleasure her. Those saying take our child and divorce, she will still have joint custody, it will financially destroy me and hurt our child who deserves a mother. She is good around our son. She used to like kissing during our first year together. Then she found out that I had a meal with another woma n when we were on the verge of breaking up. She got jealous and thought I was cheating when in fact it was just a colleague to discuss our work. Since then she held it over my head and then makes up other excuses. The internet is filled with stories like mine and everyone keeps saying it is a sign that they are no longer in love. Is it a permanent thing? If so, is it worth breaking up a young family over it? Note she won't go to counselling. We went to one session and she was blaming me for triggering her angry outbursts... I'm wondering why she hasn't tried to divorce me over it? She is willing to go the rest of her life without feeling the kiss of a man? It sounds so bizarre! Unless she plans to cheat, she must have plans to never kiss again (I'm guessing she will eventually cheat to get the feeling?)?? Note that she has controlled her anger and learned a bitter lesson. She will carry a criminal record and has to go back to court in September to finalise everything. I'm not looking forward to that time because it will stir everything up again. But for now she is being a great mum to our son. And treating me well aside from the kissing issue and saying that she has lost feelings with me.

My husband is 34, I am 32. We both work full-time and our 3 yrold daughter goes to preschool 5 days/wk. I am generally very unhappy about having to leave her but for a multitude of reasons we felt that daycare was the best option. I am generally fiercely protective of any time that I do get to spend with her. The issue is that my husband is severely devoted with his parents & demands that we see them every single Sunday, we end up spending 3-4 hours which is down from years past. His mother and I have a strained relationship, and her tendencies to hoard my child during our visits, results in little time being spent with my daughter and I am furious.I find it reasonable to visit bi-weekly. At the very least, I think the visits if more than biweekly should be kept to 1 hour-max of 2. My daughter is just a toddler, and it's very important for me to spend time with her. Also the fact that I feel betrayed by my husband as he is out and out choosing his (overbearing) mothers over me. She has made huge issues and enjoys regularly making this an issue for her son and I, and encouraging us to fight about it. Fights about this issue have led to all-out battles and divorce is mentioned frequently over it. How would you handle this issue?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years...we had always talked about marriage but he hasnt propsed to me yet. I found out im pregnant so that really had me pushing towards marriage especially with my Christian upbringing. I dont want it to seem as if we are getting married because im pregnant...i want him to marry me because he wabts to spebd the rest of our lives together. So my boyfriend and I have talked and he said that he wants to first move in together before we make a commitment..but I dont think that matters if you love me and we been together for almost 5 years you should have been married me...and now that im pregnant should push you to commit to me. I live with my parents he lives in his own place with a roommate...Im over there everyday cleaning doing laundy we making love its basically like I live there but he says its not how it would be if we actually atayed under one roof. My boyfriend loooks like he is set in his own way...but I wabt to be married before this baby arrives. Any advice??

Me, my partner our daughter and my son moved to Spain 2 months ago. We are now separating and he is moving back to the UK. I'm in the process of starting a new business, my sons starting at his new school in September and my family are here so I feel like its not in mine or the children's best interest to move back to the UK but my daughters dad has said that he wants to take her back to England and if I don't agree he will get a court order to make me go back to the UK with her so he can fight for full custody back in the UK. I am planning on seeking the advice of a Spanish solicitor but I was wondering if anyone has experienced something similar and could maybe help settle my mind

To make a long story short, i hit my wife several times over the course of two months. I had personal issues she wasnt aware of and it got worse when her parents got into a conflict with me etc. So now she's gone for her own safety and she is in alot of emotional pain. We talk for hours each day on the phone but she is scared of me. She doesnt want to see me or be in a room alone with me ( thats how serious things are ). I got some treatment and im following her instructions on how to spend my time alone constructivly etc. Is there anything i can do to gain her trust again ? Time is running and we miss alot of the things we did together. I dont need any advice or criticisim about me; just advise on how i can gain her trust..i know im a monster cause ive been made this way by my alcoholic father abusing me and beating me as a kid and juvenile.

My father is so selfish , he has restricted me to not to fell in love . I just can't understand him. He wants his daughters to stay his daughters and no one's girlfriends or wives. I know it is about sex . He do not want sex life for us not even in the form of marriage. I am 28 and unemployed .I love a guy and want to marry him but i am financially dependent on my father. I have been trying to get job from almost 6 years now . I am from a third world country and our economy is so poor and unemployment is so high, grabbing a job is so tough as merit is so high for a single seat. I just want to get marry and have a family now but it looks like it will never be possible. All my friends are married because their parents have married them off and on their own choices. Looking at them kills me , why my father is not responsible like them .I am so depressed .

I was watching tv and landed on a tv show about a guy who has two families but they don't know about each other, the second wife finds out because he sent flowers to their house with the name of the other wife. They live 10 minutes apart from each other. The second wife goes to the first wife's house and asks her if she can use her phone, goes in the house and sees pictures of her husband. With the first wife he has a daughter and with the second wife he has a son. The children meet in a party, fall in Love, start dating, she gets pregnant. He finds out they share the same dad because the father picks her up from school. Both confront him and tell him they're in love and expecting a baby, the father says it's impossible because they're related, so they kill him. I need to know the name of this show or whatever it is!!!

We've been married 2 years and since the wedding we argue almost all the time we can't spend a whole day together without getting into a argument and also I always hear empty threats about divorce and her not being happy in the marriage no matter what is done she is never happy so divorce seems in the picture soon but what I'm wondering is I recently closed on a house 2 months ago and wondering who would get the house we do have a 4 year old child together so no BS answers please if your not going to answer my question to help out don't comment

My wife complains that we never talk. Now I think we talk, but I normally don't open up as much as she'd like and it takes a bit for me to open up. When I do, I expect that our conversations are in private, I should be able to confide in her. I saw her text msg with a friend we both know (I know I should not have looked). There are several from her talking bad about me. None from her friend say anything negative about her husband. So the last "private" talk I thought I was having with my wife was shared with her friend as soon as I left the house. I don't think I had gotten in the car. She was "venting". I believe in keeping personal things private. How can I confide in her knowing that our talks are not private?. She does not know I saw her messages so I don't know how to bring it up. I also saw many messages where she talk bad about my family. How do I bring this up without saying I saw her texts?

So I'm about to get married soon and I'm just wondering if it's okay to discuss sex before marriage. What would be the best way to bring it up without sounding perverse? I'm from the US and I'm traveling to Dubai with my parents to search for a potential bride. The reason I'm asking is because oral sex is very important to me and I'd hate to find out after spending a fortune on a wedding to realize she either disagrees with the act or simply just doesn't wanna do it. Don't tell me it's 'haram', I've done my research and came to the conclusion that there's no decisive evidence forbidding it. How could I bring up the subject without sounding rude or perverted? It's a vital part of sex and not receiving it is honestly a make or break deal in a marriage for me. I'm 24 with an extremely high sex drive and I have needs and desires that require fulfilling. I'll be damned to put myself in a position to be sexually frustrated. It simply just isn't fair or right. Disagree all you want, but that's just how I feel. So how would I go about finding out? Any subtle hints I could give or jokes I could throw out to see if she's into that? What do you guys think? Lemme know. Thanks!

Im a Muslim arab girl and I have been majorly worried that I will never be married or happy. I had my hymen broke when I was 15-16 by a mans fingers. I bled and hurt after that moment. So i know my hymen is broken. Now that im 22 I am worried that if I get a husband he will divorce me on our wedding night because he will think im unpure and bad girl because I didn't bleed having intercourse. What should I do?? Should I stick with western men(white men) or marry an Arab Muslim guy and tell him the truth? Or get surgery to reintact my hymen?