If he cries and begs for you to take him back and you forgive him is it ever possible that he will change if he really loves you? And why doesn't he just leave why, beg you back if he knows he wants to be with other women?

a father is enjoying his retirement in Asia with his second wife. they have built a new life there. the grown up son from his first wife has a severe accident. He is in coma, his condition is critical but stable. as the mother of the son, his first wife, would you expect the father to travel to europe to see his son? or would it be ok to stay at home and get updates about the son's condition via phone?

I'm pregnant and the father of my child & I can't seem to consistently get along. We have far too many issues, and there's resentment. There's been no infidelity throughout our relationship, but we fight & argue all the time. Now that I mentioned child support, he thinks my intent is to ruin his life. I'm certainly not, I honestly want complete distance from him, but I still want the support for our child. He also has three other kids from three other women. One of them is old enough to support himself so I'm counting two children that he claims to contribute financially, but no child support. I'm done trying at this point. Taking care of this child is what's most important

Im not sure what to do im at my breaking point. My husband has been so late to our sons baseball games on NUMEROUS occasions he's actually missed the games. Often times it's because he came home from work took a nap and forgot. We had a family reunion with his family it was a week long vacation. We were supposed to leave at 8AM. My husband decides at 10AM to go get his shoulder looked at by a doctor because it hurts him. it's 12:30 by the time he gets home from the doctor. He had to still pack!!! We did not leave till 4PM and it was a 6 hour drive to the beach. We missed an entire day of vacation. Yesterday, my family came to visit. We had made reservations at a restaurant for 6:30. My husband gets off of work at 5:00. He came home and fell asleep in his car till 6:00. I flipped out. He insisted he needed to shower etc. I ended up taking the kids and going alone. He had everyone waiting over an hour until 7:30 to order food at the restaurant because he was so late. Another time we were all packed into the car to go to the zoo. We were pulling out of the driveway and my husband insisted we turn the car around. He forgot he needed to mow the lawn and Saturday was the only day he could do it because Sunday we had plans. I ended up with 2 screaming kids at the zoo. Thankfully, my sister was with me to help. I'm so sick of it!! I'm literally at my breaking point. I'm honestly consider asking for a divorce. What would you do?

My husband and I have been married 9 years. He took a new job 2 years ago and he's a different person. He works 12+ hours per day 6 days a week. His job is 2 hours from us. We can't move due to my father being very ill. Additionally, my job is here. The job pays great. Financially between our two incomes we have nothing to worry about. His mother lives 5 minutes down the road from his job. He will often stay with his mother 4-5 days per week. When he comes home we don't even sleep in the same bed he falls asleep on the couch watching tv almost every night he comes home. We have sex maybe once every month (maybe.) I don't feel like I'm married. I feel like I'm single to be honest. I hear from him once a day (if I'm lucky) whole he's at work. I find myself less stressed when he's not around. I'm not worried about "will he be home for dinner?" "What time will he be home?" etc. I went on vacation for a week without him and I felt such relief and peace. Often when he talks, I find myself bored and uninterested in anything he has to say. I feel super guilty for feeling the way I do but I'm just not interested in the marriage anymore. I'm 29 years old I might add. We got married young. No kids yet thankfully. I often wonder if we had children if I'd basically be a "single mom." Any advice?

I am in the process of drawing up papers for custody of my son. His father is aware and has welcomed it. Long story short, he has tried to be sneaky and do the bare minimum being a father. Example: he has complained about not enough time with our son yet skips out on multiple days a week and has openly said he doesn't feel like he should pay child support because I live with my parents while being the primary care giver for our child. That being said, he had blocked me from all social media along with his current girlfriend of 6 months. Apparently it was done because they were trying to hide the fact of getting engaged and soon to be married. I have met his girlfriend and she is ok, but something feels off about her and her attitude. I don't expect it to last long given a huge list of infidelity on his part in our relationship and also in his current one as well, also on his part. With that being said, is there anything I can do that can be listed in the agreement where his girlfriend is not given any parental responsibility to our son? I feel like given his track record with women and her attitude that it will not last and therefore she should have no rights to our sons upbringing. I know I have to speak with my lawyer about it but I'm just asking for ideas for things on the subject to be put in the agreement Thank you!

My husband has been doing this a lot and it's been freaking me out. He's still attracted to me and has sex with me. But he has to have gay porn on to get off. Is this normal? my friend's husband is friends with my husband and he admitted they sometimes watch together.

I am a south Asian man in my thirties. I live in USA but my parents are from South Asia. I married a woman also from my country 5 years ago. We had troubles in our marriage, so after I had my daughter with her (in our first year of marriage)I moved out of our dual home. I waited for years for her to come back, say she wants to patch up our marriage again, but to no avail. Five years passed, and i remarry and want a divorce. After my wedding to my new wife, my wife called me (I travelled back to mother country to remarry). She is crying, asking why I remarried, telling me she loves me and wants to be with me still, texting my family members about her feelings, calling my eldest brother. I have to admit, she still has a soft place in my heart. I have already remarried, and divorcing my new wife would be taboo in my culture. What should I do?

There is one man who seemed to like me and talk a bit (he never asked me out or directly said he wanted to date or anything, just commented aboout my looks) but i am not interested (and that was a while ago anyway). Other than that, i go to college and go outside by myself and men do not talk to me. Probably barely look at me. I usually try to dress to cover most of my body but a man can still find a woman's face prettt enough that he would talk to her... I am getting older (still am young though) and i will have to get by in life by my own will if i dont get married soon enough. I dont see it happening as men dont even talk to me! Maybe men are busy looking at explicit images online and don't value real life women anymore? A lot of men seem to only value women for their looks anyway. I don't want such a man.