I'm 14, when he comes home from work, he only talks to our younger sister, whose 8, he laughs and talks with her, sometimes they even laugh at me. I feel so bad. We used to be best friends. We'd go grocery shopping every other Saturday and talk while there. Now he barely even looks at me. I've been good, doing his laundry and making attempts to be nice to him and start conversations but he just shuts me out. When he's with my little sister and I pass by, he quickly hugs or kisses her to make me feel inferior. Why is he treating me like this?

I been dating this guy for a year now I met his daughter 4 months before she turned 4 and I have to say at first I liked her we bonded really good everything was great but after a while I began to feel distant every time she came back from her mom's house (my bf has custody of her she stays at her mom's house for 2 days) her mom doesn't like me and I've never done anything to her I neverrrr even met her. I read text between my bf and her and she was saying something like just watch when i see her. (She's petty) this week when she came back from her mom's house I was very distant with her I said hi and that was it later on that day we were outside and she said *my name* can you help me look for toys I went to help her and she asked me a little later what my name was. I took it to heart because never ever has that child forgot my name. Am I overreacting or ? She really likes me but lately I don't want her around me because I feel like her mother badmouths me.

I recently took a basic gun control certification course. I have 3 LOs and the way the world is nowadays, I feel that I need to do something to ensure their safety and mine, especially when I'm out and about with them. DH is making fun of me because I only landed 3 of my shots. The instructor extended an offer for a discounted private lesson, which I'm on planning to take advantage of. She recommended that I get a small 9mm that I can carry, as well as to have at home. However, the process seems all a bit overwhelming. Regardless, I need practice before I purchase anything. So my questions are: 1. Is there an inexpensive laser system that includes the glock? The one we used in class was Laserlyte, but it's over $300 for the target and glock. 2. It was recommended that we purchase insurance. A rep came from US LawShield. Does anyone have this or similar, and do you feel it's worth the cost? 3. Any ideas for a DIY type of target practice? On the laser in class, I was landing my shots. In the range, I wasn't. The only difference was I was wearing a baseball cap in the range. I'm weird about having anything on my head, so could the cap have affected it?

My teen boy cousin double ankle grab upwards groin kick to my nutsack then heavy footed dig soles in my nutsack twice wrestling cause i mess with my three beautiful cousins beautiful wide soles.

I recently had gotten smart with my Aunts' Husband named Berny. Berny was being a douchebag calling me lazy and stupid for watching TV. So I got smart with him telling him my flaws, and I guess the ***** cried to my mom cause she said I shouldn't get smart with elders. So after that I stopped but after that HE started bitching about how FAST I TYPED ON MY LAPTOP?! He said it was annoying, and I need to type slower, I tried my best to type slow but guess what? he snatched the cables and computer like a fucing dumbass, and I tried SO0 HARD NOT TO GET DISRESPECTFUL, how do I do so, im gonna ******** rob this ***** HES ONLY 59

Me and my ex broke up a year ago. I left him and I admit it was a really unfair/stupid reason. There was no fight, no cheating, nothing like that. I left simply because I was NOT used to someone treating me so good. With what I dealt with before, I got a little scared when my ex would actually INCLUDE me and not "hide" me away from people. He WANTED me to meet people in his life, he took me out places (AND actually held my hand to make it known we were together), he sent me super sweet messages just because, he was planning his future and made it well-known I was definitely meant to be a part of it. All the future planning and commitment really got me. I had NEVER had that before. I wanted it, but I was so used to games, drama, and no commitment ever among other things. I did share a good bit of my past with him and he was extremely patient and understanding. When I decided to end the romantic relationship, it SHATTERED his heart. I felt so bad for hurting him and seeing how sad he was. We remained very close friends and we did talk about getting back together. He told me several times he really could see himself happy with me forever and thought that we did well together. I agree we were a great match. We had a lot of similar ideas for our lives/the future. He told me often that he was plagued by "what ifs" and stuff and didn't really think he'd ever find someone like me - someone that really did make him happy and someone who had the qualities he looked for in a partner. I want to write out a heartfelt letter that goes much further into detail about things... and also expresses just how much he DID mean to me. I did apologize before for the breakup and explained briefly. He understood, but I feel he deserves so much more than that. He deserves a much better explanation. He truly felt like he did something "wrong" or that he wasn't "good enough" for me/to make me happy and that broke my heart so much. He was wonderful. I left out of fear/not being used to good. Right now, he is away due to his job. We would have to talk about this when we're able to, then slowly transition back into a real relationship if we chose to do so. I would like to get some input on this situation and how I should go about it. Another aspect in this, I do have a fwb right now. The fwb does NOT like my ex... at all. I have talked honestly to my fwb about my feelings and potentially going back to my ex. He was beyond angry. He told me it was a stupid idea and would never work. I know it's entirely MY choice and my fwb has NO say so... but I know he will likely become an issue if I do decide to go back to my ex. I would stay FRIENDS with my fwb, but I absolutely would not tolerate any sexual advances/flirting. He has told me he doesn't want me having a boyfriend and wants to keep me for himself (despite the fact that he has bluntly said he doesn't ever want to get married and does not wish to have commitment or a relationship because to him, true love doesn't exist). In addition to how to approach my ex and try to fix OUR situation, what should I do about my fwb situation? I know those arrangements are meant to end anyhow, but how can you "nicely" break it off with one that is DEFINITELY not going to be happy or mature about it? And how do you deal with it if they start getting disrespectful or you or try to hurt your relationship? Any/all advice would be appreciated. Thank you to everyone in advance and I'm sorry I posted so much!

Laura Hamalainen 🇫🇮💋