For a couple years, my fiancé had helped me with finances because I had a tough time getting work in my field. I recently landed a great job in my field and now bringing in more money, however, today he tells me that I owe him about 10k for everything he's done for me. He said that he wants 300 out of every paycheck of mine. First it was 500 then he lowered it. I appreciate everything he's done and want to contribute to the finances, but he was being super rude and is treating our relationship like it's a financial agreement more than a loving one where people just do things for each other out of love and kindness.

so i'm 18, my bf is also 18 and we are in love. we both agreed to get married young since he's in the military and it's easier to get married while he's serving. however, are we rushing it? is 19 too young? we want to get engaged/married in about a year or less

My husband has a 9-year-old from a previous "hookup" I put quotes on that because that's the word the child's mother uses. My stepson is awesome; he lives with us almost full time; she has EOW. She is frequently absent when it comes to caring for stepson, but she is very present in our daily lives with texts and calls. Any advice on dealing with this? It's not like I'm new—we've been married for 6 years and we have two additional children, ages 4 and 2. Here are examples from the past weekend (when she had him): - She is angry that son has on underwear we purchased, she showed up at our door demanding the underwear she bought. - Son clogged her toilet; husband needs to come over and plunge it. - Husband needs to come to her house for dinner because son won't eat his chicken. Here are examples of recent communication from when she was solo. - Her tire is flat, husband needs to take her to grocery store so that she can put food in cupboards. - She made a cake, can she drop it off? - She text a photo of fried chicken and writes, "It's hot and fresh. Too bad you can't have it." It is so bizarre. Husband does not respond to her unless it has to do with son. And these are the nice messages/calls—there also are nasty ones that are about how terrible of a dad he is and how much she hates him. It's a coin flip on who we'll get depending on the time or day. Any advice on how to deal with this?

My husband is on his 3rd phone this month. He was working out of town and has broken two phones and recently lost, then found a third one. He knows I can see what apps he has downloaded so downloading a WhatsApp account wouldn't be an option. He has had some very suspicious behavior and even has said he thinks someone is hacking him :/ he actually quit his job to work in town bc it was causing such a strain on us. I am not completely naive. I know that something is up, so I'm wondering if he could be switching back and forth between android and iPhone using the same SIM card? The last week he was gone I saw on google maps that he was at a bar, and then lied about it, the next day, his phone "breaks". The hotel his was staying at wouldn't let me through to his room while he was away. They said he wasn't a registered guest. Lol! Is there a way to find out for sure if he is using 2 devices for one SIM card?

I mean on the mouth and without tongue, but not just a friendly peck on the cheek. Does that quite meet the definition of cheating to you? Or is a less serious breach?

My wife and I used to live in my parents town in Florida. While living there it was constant drama. She lost numerous jobs, had issues with various people. It got so bad she had a mental breakdown and we decided to move. Once we moved out of the area 4 hours away to a new location my wife did exceedingly well. We both had great jobs, we had friends, we both made decent money there was no drama between her and anyone she held a stable job. Everything was fine. Things were really good. I got a job offer I couldn't refuse back here in my parents hometown. My wife was very reluctant to come back. We did and of course she's run into issues already. She had a job the company went bankrupt, then had another job that was temporary. Now she has another job and there's all kinds of "women drama." Not only that but our neighbors are nuts. The guy to our left is married and has been hitting on my wife. It's to the point my wife refuses to go outside without me there. Our neighbor down the street is a drunk who has shown up at our house numerous times yelling and screaming at myself and my wife. We've had to call the police on four occasions now. My wife is fed up and wants out of this area for good. I explained to her we cannot move again due to my job. She told me she will leave me. I don't know what to do. We don't have any problems anywhere else we've ever lived ever. Any suggestions?

My husband and I are in a disagreement because our daughter is 15. He thinks its amazing that she's having sex because that's when he started. He actually started younger than that. Anyway, I caught my daughter and I let them finish the deed and waited until later when the boy left and then I talked to my husband about it. It makes me sick that he's encouraigng this and he thinks its the greatest thing of life. He's praising our daughter for it as well. is this weird? Should I talk to my daughter if my husband already talked to her? Were actually fighting about this and currently not speaking.

I recently met this couple who have mutual friends with me. Let me start out by saying I have no intentions on doing anything with this man even if he is interested. I also have a boyfriend. Recently a few of us hung out together at that couple's house and my boyfriend was there as well. I noticed throughout the night that the man kept looking at me and making excuses to talk to me/touch my arm. Also when I first got there he said "look at you, wow" referring to my outfit. At some point throughout the night, he came and sat next to me on the couch when my boyfriend was on the other side of me. His wife actually said something like "oh you want to sit next to her and not your wife" but laughed it off but I could tell she was kinda annoyed and I felt bad. I know he's married and like I said, I am happy with my boyfriend and I would never cheat on him or interfere with someone's marriage but I am curious on other's opinions. Does it seem like this man is showing interest in me?