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- Question: 办假四级成绩单?
- Question: Am I unreasonable for expecting mother in law to be more generous?
- Question: Should I move to Texas with my sister and her boyfriend?
- Question: I always help other people and my mom just is negative always towards me. She has issues and puts it out on me.?
- Question: Mom always say being thin is important?
- Question: How do I convince sister to put her daughter in private school?
- Question: My dad like to pretend to give you options when he’s already chosen for you and it’s really annoying?
- Question: What should I do about this?
- Question: Why does my cousin take her boyfriend everywhere?
- Question: I just yelled at my brother, and he locked himself in the room?
- Question: I hate my life what should i do?
- Question: How do they treat insomnia in the hospital?
- Question: How do I start a conversation with my biological father?
- Question: Why did my mom hit me?
- Question: Why is it when I wash my car my dad has to wash his after... and then the week after also? like its a competition?
- Question: What's wrong with my brother? Why is he acting like he doesnt care?
- Question: Would you complain if you had this privileged, upper class life?
- Question: Is my sister sexually harassing me? How to tell her to stop? Am I overreacting?
- Question: Why is my father choosing his new girlfriend over his 4 daughters?
- Question: My strict parents are forcing me to have a trip vacation with them.?
- Question: Is my mom wrong about “the grass is not greener on the other side”?
- Question: Does the love of my life take advantage of me?
- Question: My family is trying to set me up with someone and these women are giving me a hard time, why are they doing this?
- Question: Should I be worried if my 13 year old daughter is hanging out with kids from a different school?
- Question: Why is my “grandfather” the only one that cares about me on my biological fathers family?
- Question: Why does my family not want to see my baby?
- Question: My parents are really mad at me, how can I appease them now?
- Question: Does anyone have a rv that they don't want. My bf 2 month old and ten year old need a home we live with 10 other Ppl and stay in 1 bedroom?
- Question: Where is the nearest Walmart located to myself I live in my moms basement I am 36 years old and shes done with my **** so I live in Walmar?
- Question: Dont know how to deal with having to live with family members I don't like?
- Question: My aunt is a narcissist. Does this mean she is incapable of loving people even if she acts like she loves them?
- Question: What are good sites to get print magazine subscriptions at discount rate, other then Amazon (read a ton of bad reviews about their sellers)?
- Question: My father lies to people frequently. How do I stop relying on him?
- Question: My Dad refuses to support me having friends unless he likes them but I am 31. How do I get him to grow up and let me be an adult?
- Question: What do I do if my narcissistic sister bullies me again?
- Question: I hear voices and one's named Ralph and he's my biological father. How do I get my Dad to admit he is not my father and why do the tests lie?
- Question: Where your brothers overprotective growing up and why are mine overprotective?
- Question: Moving Out at 18? Life Advice?
- Question: I hate my brother. He makes me feel suffocated.?
- Question: My Dad is a deceptive person and yet he complains about a deceptive person he works with. Why the hypocrisy?
- Question: Should I pursue my goals or help out my family?
- Question: My brother is a drug addict. My parents enable it at times by giving him bail and lawyers. If he dies how do I not let the family fall apart?
- Question: I am going to the party on my mother's B-Day for my step-brother on Dad's side. How do I explain this to my mother?
- Question: Confused. What's going on with him?
- Question: How do I get over this?
- Question: Why is my dad so sensity ? I cannot have a serious conversation with him without him getting offended. It is becoming very stressful. Help?
- Question: I am a loser at age 33 in my life so much regression?
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- Question: How can I answer this without getting my wife mad a me?
- Question: Will my brothers think it was funny if I told them what I was thinking?
- Question: I havnt talked to my father since about 3 years.?
- Question: How to deal with my lazy older sister?
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Question: Am I unreasonable for expecting mother in law to be more generous? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 01:44 PM PDT We are not well off and she knows it. She has $146K from insurance check from the death of father in law and rather to put in law ylto earn interest. Nothing is wrong with that Except whenever she's with us... Our "duty" is to pay for her meal, gas, lodging if we travel with her. The thing is we are working to save money and she knows it but she doesn't care. |
Question: Should I move to Texas with my sister and her boyfriend? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 01:03 PM PDT I currently am 13 and live in a toxic household. CPS has been called on my parents multiple times but nothing has happened because they didn't have enough evidence. My mom stole drugs from her mother and gets drunk all the time, my father drinks and screams at us. My sister got kicked out and is living with my moms mom. She will be moving to Texas with her boyfriend after she graduates this coming year. Thy offered me to live with them but all my friends live up here in Oregon, but I don't want to live with my parents. They scream and yell at me for no reason. This whole situation has caused me to feel suicidal and depressed. Thank you! |
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Question: Mom always say being thin is important? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 12:49 PM PDT Like mom said a girl means beauty. She hit me a couple of times and she forced me on diet and told me to look beautiful. She get me clothes and stuff and oil to make my eyelashes longer and oil for my hair. This was since I was 13. She screams at me not to gain weight and not to gain acne since I was 13, but it too young. Why? |
Question: How do I convince sister to put her daughter in private school? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 12:23 PM PDT My niece is so intelligent, but my sister insists on putting her in some public school so she "gets a well rounded experience". I'm trying to convince her to strive for better for her daughter. It's a bit selfish to take away a good opportunity just for socializing. |
Posted: 14 Jul 2018 12:17 PM PDT Before I start, I know some people don't get the same options as I do and I don't mean to sound spoil or anything. So my dad got me a Volkswagen when I first started driving, I don't really enjoy the performance but I was really grateful and I've been driving it for about two years. So now he wants to trade in the car and get me a new car and he told me to pick the car so I told him about how the Volkswagen doesn't perform very well and the trade in is going to be at a loss because they depreciate faster than any German car I've seen. I've shown him an Audi whitin the same price range maybe a thousand or two more. Which if you think about it is not really bad as they do not lose value as fast as the Volkswagen but he won't listen and already had his mind set on the Volkswagen. So my plan is to just drive my old 2004 a4 as even that car is faster than the 2018 Tiguan which makes no sense. This might come off as I'm being a brat and all but it honestly makes no financial sense to get the Volkswagen as when it's time to get a new car again he's going to lose money but at this point I don't care, he's gonna learn his lesson down the road. |
Question: What should I do about this? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 11:38 AM PDT Me and my husband got invited to a friend's party/dinner. We are obviously adults. And they had champagne bottles for the grown ups. I also brought my daughter with me, she's 15. There were other kids there, but they were younger than 10. And my daughter wanted to try one glass of champagne to see what it tasted like. But I didn't let her have any alcohol. Anyways there were leftover bottles at the end and my friend let me take one home. But the next day me and my husband had to work, leaving our daughter home alone. She's also an only child. Anyways when I got home I noticed she drank almost half the bottle by herself. She didn't appear to be drunk or anything, and she's usually a good kid too. Should I punish her for doing this or just leave things how they are? |
Question: Why does my cousin take her boyfriend everywhere? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 11:35 AM PDT My family is really close, we're Filipino. But my cousin started dating this Mexican guy (I thought he was white at first) he's a really nice guy don't get me wrong but she brings him to everything even church. Our family goes camping every August and he's going to be there when he's not even family. He's offered to take me to the gym and help me workout but at 13 I'd rather just play Xbox. And all he ever posts on social media is either him and my cousin or his gym bros. They're leaving the country for Christmas which I guess is nice but does he really have to be at everything???? |
Question: I just yelled at my brother, and he locked himself in the room? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 11:25 AM PDT So basically today is Saturday and that s the day when my half-brother (12) can visit every two weeks and usually he goes to play on the Ps4 with my brother (11). My dad is at the hospital because of my grandpa and so basically, my brother was having PS4 problems and started getting angry and I asked him what the problem and so he raised his voice at me. I got mad and took the PS4 away from him and let my half-brother play it but my brother couldn t. My brother got mad and still argued with me, and he started crying and locked himself in the room. I m so embarrassed because my half-brother had to see me act this way, I don t know what to do. Please help.. |
Question: I hate my life what should i do? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 10:59 AM PDT i spend a large portion of the day alone because my sister leaves to do stuff either work or social crap, my mom works all day and i don't have a driver's license despite my age of 21 so i can't leave the house. my dad when i was 8 and when i call him because my mom hurt my feelings, he tries to exploit my emotions to turn me against mom. i meant to say my dad left when i was 8. i have no job and my mom doesn't trust me with money often. |
Question: How do they treat insomnia in the hospital? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 10:13 AM PDT I 've been sufering with insomnia for a couple months now. and after a ton of tests and sleep studies my dr has decide to have me admitted for treatment. because i just turned 17 my parents are forcing me and i dont have a say. we tried 3 different pills and every remedy on the internet but i'm still not getting "sufficient" "quality sleep" as the dr puts it. how will they treat it in the hospital. they get throwing the word sedation around but that could mean a lot of different things to different people. whenever i ask my dr or my parents , they just tell me not to worry about it. cant help it though. what exactly are they going to do as treatment. are they gonna put me in a comma or something -_- |
Question: How do I start a conversation with my biological father? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 10:08 AM PDT I'm 19 years old, and I've never met him face to face. I friended him on Facebook And i want to talk to him, but i don't know how to start the conversation. any tips would be nice. |
Question: Why did my mom hit me? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 10:07 AM PDT Like I was chubby when I was 13 and I lost weight at 16. But during that time mom insulted me and said that not the way a girl should look. So one time I asked her Why was it important for me to be thin? Mom: don't u feel a difference? Me: No Mom: cause you are an ANIMAL! ( mom punches me in the stomach) Mom is almost 50 btw. |
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Question: What's wrong with my brother? Why is he acting like he doesnt care? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 09:25 AM PDT My mother was diagnosed with cancer a couple years ago she was in remission for a few months but the cancer is now back and spreading quickly despite treatment. I was the first of my sibling to find out and my mom decided not to tell my youngest brother (who is 22) until things got really bad. She told him earlier this year and he seemed pretty hurt that we decided not to tell him but got over it pretty fast. Anyway, a few months later and our mom has been in the hospital constantly and is getting worst fast. My brother has come and spent time with her, and when he does he talks about dumb stuff like movies and food. At first we though he was in denial so we did kind of an intervention so to speak and he spoke about everything so casually it made us all cringe. He and mom were always pretty close and they both seem very happy when theyre together but whenever he leaves he hugs like its the last time he's going to see her and then we have to twist his arm to get him to visit again. I really seems like he's avoiding her and the hospital all together. We've all noticed it and he's acting like she's already gone. He hasn't cried or anything (as far as we've seen) and his emotions are pretty blank whenever we talk about her health. At first my siblings and I were pretty angry with him but now we're kinda worried. Whenever he visits its with gifts and says things like "you've been the best mom I could've hoped for." but then he avoids her. is this normal? should we be worried? |
Question: Would you complain if you had this privileged, upper class life? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 08:21 AM PDT So, my cousin whom I've never really liked has always had the perfect life. Or darn near close to it. Both of her parents are doctors and she grew up with everything. She never wanted or needed for anything. She's always had the best of everything and she's never appreciated any of it. A couple of years ago she was married, she and her husband are both in an Ivy League school to be doctors. Their starter home was a two story house, 3 bedroom, and massive square footage and all right next to a major city. And she's still not happy. She has EVERYTHING but she's never grateful for it. She just complains about what's not right about what she has. She can also do no wrong. To my family she is golden. One of her friends posted pictures of her drunk and half naked at her own bachelorette party and everyone just laughed it off. If me or one my other cousins had done that, we'd be shamed for the rest of our lives. When we were kids, I was jealous of her until I was about 10-years-old when I figured out that she's just a mean girl that likes making everyone around her unhappy. I know no life is truly perfect, but how can a person have it all and be still be so hateful? Thanks. |
Question: Is my sister sexually harassing me? How to tell her to stop? Am I overreacting? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 07:42 AM PDT My sister and I both live at home w/ our parents. We are both working on our masters degrees. I am 23 and she is 25. She is single and has asked out 4 men in recent years. They have all said no. Her last boyfriend told her that he was becoming a priest and left to India(since he is Indian). For the last couple years my sister has been complementing me a ton based on my body. She tells me that "I have huge muscles, workout all day, am huge/ buff, told me that I have a high testosterone and called me the "toughest man I have ever seen." Its gotten so annoying that I have to wear long sleeve shirts around her now. She also called me a "good looking guy," and told me that "I would have a harder time getting girls" when I got braces. She brings up a former girlfriend often to embarrass me. Once she made up a story to my brother about how me and a "hot blonde" girl workout together at the gym. Recently, it has gotten even worse. She compared my appearance to a man she liked. She told me that we both workout, are the same age, and implied that me and the man she liked look similar in appearance. Is my sister sexually harassing me? How to tell her to stop? Am I overreacting? Thoughts? |
Question: Why is my father choosing his new girlfriend over his 4 daughters? Posted: 14 Jul 2018 12:53 AM PDT My dad and mom were together 30 years before they split (I was 24 when It happened) he raised my two older sisters which are not his and had myself and one younger sister. After he split he got a new girlfriend...but he has completely changed with us. He no longer talks to the two he raised nor his grandchildren. When I go to visit him he always makes an excuse and I closes her for everything. (I have no problem with her but ever since I knew he was with her she blocked me on Facebook) I've confronted my dad about his behavior but he says I'm being ignorant that he has to live his life too and he's done raising me. Idk what to think of this anymore. It's like I've accepted the fact we're not like we have been my entire life but it hurts. What do you think is going on? |
Question: My strict parents are forcing me to have a trip vacation with them.? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 10:58 PM PDT All my life Ive been dealing with parents that are just way too negative, aggressive and overall unlikable. Im the quite guy in the family who is not negative and very different from them. (i have adhd which made my childhood difficult for memorizing my studies and my parents think that im just an idiot who doesnt want to study.. till now they dont know what adhd is, never had adhd treatment yet, thankfully i got decently good grades) I believe in my Future wanting to an animator (how i earn money now is doing art commissions, and i faily get a good amount of requests from customers) and they dont seem to care about my future and they wont let me move out of my house thinking that im gonna leave them forever... Im 20 btw. These days i try to not be around my parents most of the time because ive lost trust in them, and now they bought a ticket to a trip expecting me to go with them. I tried to tell them multiple times that i dont want to go with them but they always deny and get manipulative which really pisses me off. Btw i was always polite to my parents and accepting their orders hiding my true feelings but i couldnt take it anymore and told them my true answer and they dont want to accept it.. I really wish i can move and leave my parents one day, but im still really broke and cant afford much. |
Question: Is my mom wrong about “the grass is not greener on the other side”? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 10:57 PM PDT I'm a 13 year old girl. Basically, me and my friends' parents are all very protective...except for one girl, whose mom is busy working and doesn't speak English. She's allowed to do almost whatever she wants. As long as she finishes all chores/homework, her mom never bothers with her. Not our parents! Let's say the MOST risky social app just came out, right? Our parents would probably be mentioning it to each other, on the lookout for dangerous people. One of my friends did mention that this girl doesn't have a mother keeping up with teen issues, and my mom told her "the grass is NOT greener on the other side". That people who are overworked 24/7, their kids have to do lots of chores. That they might worry about their futures sick because no one is helping them succeed, Or that people like the girl I talked about might feel too lonely. I do know for sure that at some point, this girl was bullied badly at school and her mom never tried to call the school. She eventually got depression because no one noticed, and that was really bad. Her mom tries to do what's best and tries to treat her kid to gifts, etc. To make up for not being physically there. |
Question: Does the love of my life take advantage of me? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 10:41 PM PDT every once a while i buy a gift for the girl i love because she cant afford much and has to save up for lots of things. she loves drawing and i got her a laptop and a drawing tablet once. she always helps me stay alive and sane and if it wasnt for her i would have killed myself 2 years ago. yet she feels like she is taking advantage of me when she doesnt. she is super sweet and always helps me when i got trhouble. helped me get better at drawing and moral support and makes sure i stay healthy and give me advice a lot. how can i explain to her that she doesnt take advantage of me and that i give gifts as a thank you for saving my life and helping me. |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 10:30 PM PDT So I am having serious problems trying to get a woman to date me here in america and so my family is willing to help set me up with someone in my native country vietnam. My aunt who lives in vietnam are trying to set me up with someone and these women are giving me a hard time. Some of them are unsure if they are wanting to meet me. Some think that I am just like my cousin who they claimed scammed some women over there. My cousin promised a girl over there that he was gonna marry her and they had a engagement ceremony and everything and he ditched her. Some of these folks were saying to me that I am probably just like him and just gonna do that to some girl over there. I am frustrated as I am genuinely wanting to have a wife and a family of my own and I was hoping that my family could set me up with someone as I can't even get anyone here to date me. Everyone rejected me. I am desperate to have a wife and be married. Why are they doing this to me ?? Why are some of them are unsure if they want to meet me ?? |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 10:06 PM PDT They're all girls her own age with seemingly very involved parents. My daughter is severely bullied at school. The kids are horrible and cruel towards her. I understand that this group of preteen girls are more welcoming and kinder. I'm partially worried about her problems with schoolmates - and actually, the fact that I do not know these families well. Their neighbourhood is further off. Their parents all know each other and it does seem like they frequently discuss teen topics to keep up, etc. However, my daughter is becoming more of a "one of them" in the friend group, not just a "guest". |
Question: Why is my “grandfather” the only one that cares about me on my biological fathers family? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 09:42 PM PDT So short story I never met my biological father but his father is the only one on his side of their family that is actually somewhat in my life. Why is he the only on that wants anything to do with me? |
Question: Why does my family not want to see my baby? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 09:16 PM PDT He's 3 months old and no one ever stops by to see him but they pop over at my sister's house all the time to see her kids. And yes I have been nice to them inviting them over and they flake out. The only person who ever comes by to see him is my dad and he and I didn't even get along when I was growing up. I want my son to grow up feeling loved not abandoned. |
Question: My parents are really mad at me, how can I appease them now? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 09:14 PM PDT Okay, so I am 17 and I have a little sister who is 9. My family and I recently went to Orlando to have some family time together. The days we went were from July 6 to July 11. Everything was going great, but the evening of July 8, my two best friends Sarah and Katelyn called me. In short, they asked to borrow my house to host a "small get together". But things quickly got out of hand throughout the later night, and eventually a neighbor called the cops! They came and everyone quickly cleared out. When my friends called me the next morning to tell me, I scolded them but forgave them so were still good. Then I prayed my parents wouldn't find out when we got back. When we got back, my parents found out what happened through a neighbor, and they're extremely angry, They found out last night. Usually I'm really good, so I hoped they would go a little bit easy on me, but they grounded me for a month with no electronics. They also called Sarah and Katelyn's parents, so now they're grounded too. Since I'm already grounded and I can't even do anything or have a chance of getting ungrounded, what should I do now to appease them and make them a little nicer about the whole ordeal? Also, if you're wondering how I'm posting this since I'm grounded, I basically lied and told my parents I needed to borrow my laptop. I know it's bad, but I won't let them figure this one out. |
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Question: Dont know how to deal with having to live with family members I don't like? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 08:13 PM PDT Basically my aunt and uncle needed a place for them and their kids to stay at and my parents offered to take them in. I didn't think much of it at first but lately it has been causing me so much stress and idk how much longer i can take them here. They have three kids, one is incredibly clingy to me and i hate it so much, I can barely walk around my house with her finding me and hugging me. She is 7 and I understand that she is young but I can barely do things I enjoy without her coming in and interrupting it. One of the older ones is very egoistic, and even though they put zero effort into school they are constanlty being rewarded (they are like the favorite of the house) and I work hard and get A's yet am ignored yet they can get C's and my parents send them to go on vacation and do other things. Its just annoying how they all focus on him while i feel like my parents have been ignoring me. There is another kid but they don't really talk to me much. The entire family though is misogynistic, racist, and very judgmental of me. I tried talking to my parents about it, but they just ignore me about everything. At one point someone at school had told the school conselor that they were concerned for me and I ended up breaking down and they had to call my parents but my parents just yelled at me to be grateful for what I have. Right now the only safe space I have school but soon I have to go to school with the older one and idk how much longer i can deal with it. |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 07:35 PM PDT She hates her son but acts like she loves her two daughters. She also acts like she loves her parents. So does she love these people or is a narcissist incapable of love? |
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Question: My father lies to people frequently. How do I stop relying on him? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:58 PM PDT Like his friend Bill who I call his clone don't think it is intentional lies except when he was married but I do think his yeses mean no as he always gets distracted and very seldom falls through with his promises. He is not a good person at all. |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:54 PM PDT It is usually the family members I choose to be friends with that he objects to. He feels I am 12 still. He gives me money all the time I guess as a way to get me to submit to his rules. I don't like him. I live on my own so don't see him much but have to sometimes in order to see my mother. He fears my mother so lets her do as she wish but not me. My siblings have pulled away more but he is not as controlling of them cause they don't have relationships with family members my Dad is against. |
Question: What do I do if my narcissistic sister bullies me again? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:16 PM PDT |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:14 PM PDT The DNA test was a set up and a lie as it said my father who is outside my body (my Dad) is my biological father but I know he is not. The voice is Ralph and he is my father. He was a teenager and my mother put me up for adoption. She was taken by doctors but Ralph is still looking for me. My Dad and Mom who raised me don't believe me and say it is my illness but illness' don't talk. I know I am right and the doctors are trying to take me like they did my bio-mother. Ralph is trying to find me in human form and my parents will not help me as they deny the truth of my DNA and fall for government controlled tests. Doctors are part of the conspiracy and Dr. Allen tried to control my mind so I know better then to fall for the government ordered doctors. How do I get my Dad who raised me to admit he took me from my bio-parents Ralph and Susan who were trying to save me when the medicine people hijacked my mother and how do I get him to release me to Ralph and admit the truth? My parents use illness but of course I am a knowledge of the truth which is why Dr. Allan deemed me ill when he is working for the addiction sponsored medicine industry. |
Question: Where your brothers overprotective growing up and why are mine overprotective? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:10 PM PDT I am guy and I am the youngest in my family and I have three older brothers and I have one with autism. Anyway my mom's friend has been close to us since I was a kid and they treat me like I am their own family and she has two sons who are like my brothers. The oldest is Will and the youngest is eddie and they are both pretty protective of me and they know my real brothers are distant and they have done everything they can to make sure I have much of a normal childhood. Anyway, I am close to graduating high school and me and will are about a year apart, he is a year older and he is 6'4 and I am 5'5 and we both go to the same chuch and he has always made sure I am safe from bullies but he is getting pretty annoying because I started experimenting with dating and I remember when I liked this girl that we both knew, he was against me going out on a date with her and he said she was a slut and had a whole bunch of diseases and I didn't end up going out with her. I got drunk for the first time a couple weeks ago and he got mad and said I was acting irresponsible and he threatened to tell my parents if I didn't stop acting like a rebel. Oh and God forbid I should get a bad grade because if I do, both him and eddie make sure I pass my classes. Why are they like that with me |
Question: Moving Out at 18? Life Advice? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:05 PM PDT (Some background info) So I am an 18y/o girl about to start my first semester of college in the fall. In a nutshell, I went to a high school with high demand. I finished school with a 3.9 out of 4.0 gpa. I was all around active and I have worked all four years of school. I recently just got a new job with better pay and more hours. The past four years, there has been some major family problems. I stay out of all conflict as my mom is the major driver behind these issues. She constantly criticizes me and talks down to me for no reason. She mocks me, makes fun of me, and does everything she can to belittle my accomplishments. For example if I say I worked for 8 hours today, she'll scoff and tell me to grow up. Anyways, my family is essentially broke due my mother's frivolous and extravagant spending which everyone else is forced to foot the bill for. Its gotten to the point where she'll force me to buy her things. Its just gotten to a point where its stressful. My boyfriend of a year and a half is my other half. I want to move out and rent an apartment with him. We are going to the same school and he also has a well paying job. I know that no relationship is really "solid" especially since we are young but we have plans to marry. Its one of those things where you just know. I know that typically people my age are irresponsible and immature but I assure you that that is not us. I just want to know your thoughts on my situation and offer any advice. How do I tell my family? |
Question: I hate my brother. He makes me feel suffocated.? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 06:02 PM PDT He always trys to prove me wrong and make me look stupid in front of people. I asked him about it. And he said he just likes to prove people wrong. I told my mom I don't like him, and she tried to convince me that it's cause we're living together. I shut down that theory real quick. Please help me before I cuss out my who family for forcing me to be around this 20 year old douche bag. |
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Question: Should I pursue my goals or help out my family? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 05:47 PM PDT Hello, I graduated college 2 years ago and moved across the country to help my parents start a business. I obtained a degree but was still lost as to what I wanted to do with my life. So, I decided it would be best to help my parents out while I planned out what I wanted to do. Its already been about a year and a half since I that point, and its certainly been difficult. Minus major holidays, we've been working 13-14 hours everyday (though I'm sure many other individuals may have it worse) due to poor business. We are still making profit but not enough to hire extra employees. During that time until now, I have formed serious symptoms of clinical depression. However, I was finally able to find a path that I wanted to pursue but required me to take some time off to study. I have tried to make some time but leaving the business for even a bit deemed difficult and wasn't enough. I've discussed everything with my parents, and while they support me and want the best for me, they themselves are stressed with the idea of me leaving the business. I know staying with the business would bring no benefits for my future, but it would lessen the strain on my parents greatly, especially with their increasing age. I am at a point where I'm not sure what would be the correct decision. Any ideas, opinions, or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 05:23 PM PDT Also how do I go on when my parents will not be able to function for several years? They are the type, my mother especially, who if they are grieving will resent me having any friendships or fun during the years they are grieving. They were like this when they made us skip Christmas for two years after my Mom's father died in 2006. It causes me pain. So of course I will be supportive when I can if my brother dies but how do I make sure they still let me have fun and not resent me as an adult for going on with my life? Because of the drugs I feel it is when and not if. He is currently in jail but gets out in October. |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 05:20 PM PDT I am going to leave early so I can also see my mother. My mother absolutely hates anyone affiliated with my Dad. They are divorced obviously. This is my step-mother's son. I am not going to stay the whole time but going for an hour to my step-brother's party for his new baby's baptism. My mother I know will be absolutely furious. I hope to hide it from her as this is not for another few weeks but if she finds out I am seeing both her as well as my Dad's family on her birthday then how do I calm her wrath? I am an adult so not having to follow rules but like I say she hates it when I see my Dad or his family. I allowed her to go see a friend of hers on my birthday who is a big problem causer and I don't like so she should have the same respect but won't. I want to calm her wrath if she finds out. |
Question: Confused. What's going on with him? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 05:12 PM PDT We broke up and when I tried going back he said it would never happen again and he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me. At church he's a deacon he kept constantly staring at me but I was standoffish and looked away because I was upset. One day he went down the stairs next to me and smiling, said hi, how are you. I responded but was not enthusiastic. Months passed after that, I realized I missed him I decided to stop looking away. He looked me in the eyes and smiled big. Then he left earlier and passed by me smiled and winked. Why isn't he making a move though? |
Question: How do I get over this? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 04:54 PM PDT My son's father has been in jail for the past few months for reckless driving and malicious mischief. Before that I broke up with him because he started using meth and we have a new baby. Sometimes I feel bored and lonely because he and I used to do everything together and I thought he'd be a great father to the baby which I was wrong. Sometimes I start day dreaming about how it should of been but I know it just can't happen, even if he gets released he's still not trustworthy enough to have a family or even co parent with. I'm filling for full custody this month and the whole thing is just really hard when I didn't think it would come to this. I need some way to cope. |
Posted: 13 Jul 2018 04:31 PM PDT I have been financially supporting my dad for 10 years. He has no money, no house, no business, no job, nothing to live with when he gets older. He has been living with me for 3 years, sleeping in the same room I do. I am a 28 year old woman and at this point I am starting to think hardly about my future. I love my dad, but I think it is very unfair to have him depend on me for the rest of his life. I approached him nicely and intended to have a conversation about his future. I told him to look for himself. To get a job and save money so that he has something to lean on in the future. I told him that I will have a family and he cannot depend on me forever. He became pity. He started saying that he knows I'm bothered by him. That nobody cares about him. He really made me feel guilty but at the same time I feel that I have the right to express my feelings. I need my privacy. I am a woman and having him sleep in the same room I do is very uncomfortable. Now he stays in the room and doesn't even leave the room to take a shower. He doesn't want to eat and I heard a conversation between him and his friends. He was complaining about how his family abandoned him, that he has no place to go. Was I wrong for telling him What I did? He doesn't want to talk to me now and having leave in my house and not being able to have conversation is making me anxious and depressed. |
Question: I am a loser at age 33 in my life so much regression? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 04:02 PM PDT I left my parents house, rented a room from a friend, stayed in a tent in someone's back yard, then moved in with a crazy ex, then rented a room from a nice lady, then rented her in law suite off her property, then rented a nice big house all on my own......UNTIL Some lady ran a stop sign and T-boned me, and it all came crashing down, I lost my business, my phone, and my car, totaled...granted the insurance accepts liability and I will be getting a check...for my car and personal injury claims But now, I can't renew my lease, my finances are on hold for 2 months now, and I'm having to rent the same room from the nice lady where I really got my start. So I feel like I'm starting over all again but I do have so much more experience. I feel lost and useless, and I'm not sure how to proceed. I've always wanted my own house, but now it's just a pipe dream, so much for a 6 year college education :( I just get grouped into all the lazy millennial, even though I work harder and have way more ambition, it seems like something always strikes me down... |
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Question: How can I answer this without getting my wife mad a me? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 03:13 PM PDT My wife and I were at her mother's (Linda) house. My wife was showing me the family photo album. In it was Linda's pictures as a swim suit model. Wow, was Linda great looking and had a figure to die for. I told my wife "I see where you get your good looks. Your mother is gorgeous ". Linda heard me and came over and hugged me and said "You made my day". My wife asked her mother if she could still get in the bathing suit she had on in the pictures. Linda said "Yes, they still fit". My wife ask her mother to put one on so she could get a picture of her now in the swim suit. Linda said she did not think she should do that as the swim suit was too revealing. Linda turned to me and said "You would not like to see me in a micro bikini would you"? Every guy reading this knows what the truthful answer is but I can not say that. Wives, I would like your opinion on how I should have answered without making my wife mad. |
Question: Will my brothers think it was funny if I told them what I was thinking? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 02:54 PM PDT I have 3 older brothers. They were watching TV upstairs and one of them ask me "Would you come up and measure to see which one of us has the biggest one". I told them NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS would I do that. They said "Sis, all we want you to do is measure our head to see what size cap we should get". Oh My God, that was not what I thought they wanted me to measure. Should I tell them what I thought they wanted me to measure. I am sure you can figure out what I thought. Will they think it is funny what I thought? |
Question: I havnt talked to my father since about 3 years.? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 02:22 PM PDT some people tried to seperate him from our family and he listened to them ... our fight happened when he started to look down on us. It got very violent and i had to hit back for self defence and the ambulance got involved... he tried to convince the ambulance that im mentally ill and they should take me away and keeps threatning me about the police about being "disobedient" ...they took my side and asked from me if i wish to open a case against him but i didnt... he is manipulative, racist he pressures people.. he even calls us racist names because my mom is not from his disgusting country. even tried to pressure me to marry someone i dont love. worse is that he always wants to please the guys he brings to propose to me... he even tells me what to wear when they come so they can like me more... like im a vase in the house or something... he even lies about their description to me.. he thinks we are garbage and he is some royal. on that day he kicked me out and hit me outside the house... i slept outside in the streets in the cold for a night and when i came the next day he hit me and kicked me out again. I left the house for 7 months... i managed to establish a small business and started making good money .. I had to move back the family agreed to travel to another country because of a crisis that happened ... we will never fix it. there is many more things but no charachters left.. I cant talk to anyone. i feel like i have a tape on my mouth. I hate even looking at his face |
Question: How to deal with my lazy older sister? Posted: 13 Jul 2018 02:15 PM PDT My sister is 27 and moved back into our house with her boyfriend, they have her old room, the sitting room and half the kitchen. They are saving money for a new house so I have no problem with it at all, my issue is since she's moved in the shower has been blocked with hair a lot when I go to shower, she eats our food and doesn't replace it and buys her own food which we can't touch, she leaves a mess in the kitchen a lot and to be honest she asks me to move stuff from her room into the attic and stuff from school, they're heavy I'm a man that's fine. However she shouts and nags at me 24/7 about the mess's she makes, it's evident that is her long hair in the shower, coconut oil spilled over the sink, fake tan etc. Also in the kitchen it's clearly her mess I clean as I go because I don't want to have to clean after. The problem is my mom and her have a sister like relationship so my mom sides with her and I'm called immature for arguing my case, it's been a year now and it's getting to me, I've had many arguments about it and I'm not an angry man in general, but I've spoken to them all about it and I've talked to her boyfriend who doesn't want to get involved. I'm at the end of my tether here, what can I do? |
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