Hi. I babysit for a lady who was always good with paying me when she got home. Just recently as her child has gotten older, so she lets me leave once he's asleep since the husband is home. (The husband works overnights, I stay at their house while he's asleep to watch their kid). I've babysat for her three times since she started this. She pays $11 an hour. The first time I babysat, she said she would pay me the next time. Next time came, and she didn't pay me. I figured she'd forgot. The second time came around and she still didn't pay me. I'm currently at her house right now and she said by text that next time she would leave a cash or check and she didn't leave anything. I can really use the money right now, and she owes me roughly over $170. What do I do? I have anxiety so it's somewhat hard to ask for the money straight up. I️ don't know what to do.

This afternoon, one of my coworkers randomly stated "I'm not sure if you are aware but you really set me off sometimes. Like I come into work in a good mood and you just kinda ruin my day" There had been no drama or issues all day. No bickering or passive aggressive attitudes with either of us. This was completely unprovoked. She even admitted that it's not something I do/say in particular and it's not an isolated incident. She basically said there was no particular reason for it and it was "just my general attitude". She continued to say this has been the case on more than one occasion, again unable to provide any actual thing I did or said to make her feel bad. While we don't engage in a lot of general conversation, We have never had any drama between us. She has never said anything to me about me making her feel like I was being unfriendly toward her or that I hurt her feelings in any way. we've never gotten into any disagreements or anything of the sort. She also proceeded to act like she was the one being attacked when I get angry. Even though All I said about it was "What did I do exactly" and "so basically my existence pisses you off?"

She acted moody and I begam to lose interest in her, but today she told me that she was sorry behaving me moody because she just did not want people around to know that she was in love with me. Is her reason reliable? I felt she played with me or had a boyfriend so behaved just friendly to me.

help. my mom left for a trip and i ve never really cleaned before and my home is a pigsty. beds are unmade,floors dirty, dusty,dishes,laundry bathroom,etc. i did attempt one big cleaning 2 days ago-i broomed and mopped everywhere, moved the fridge and stove- but it still looks messy. marks everywhere. when you clean one thing, something else gets dirty in the midst. everything is out of place-but its so much i dont know where to start. i restarted this morning and its now afternoon and looked like a tornado ran through. i have a mop, broom, ajax cleaner, a bleach spray, liquid soap, fabuloso for mopping, sponges and metal scrub thing. help! where do i start? what steps/order should i take?

Doing a sport camp with these hot young forgein counselors. Didnt understand a drill and kinda messed it up but didnt realize it. My counselor basically Said after, did you forget how to that part ? So i said yes bc i realized i messed up once he said that. He then said okay so next time you can come and ask me instead of skipping it. It was kinda sassy and i know im probably over thinking this. He then used me as an example of what to do in the next drill so idk, do you think this means he hates/dislikes me? He tends to get mad a lot but idk i am just paranoid cuz generally people like him and know he can be short tempered so i want to be on his good side

They always start some type of confrontation, then if you even look at them in a way that is not favorable to them they're offended. Why then would the person be offended if they always start arguments with you anyway?

I went to community college for 2 semester, the thing is I think about the degree and sometimes there's jobs that you can get and get paid more than what you will with a degree. I feel like it's a waste of time and a lot of money. My sister didn't go to college and is getting paid much more than a person would with a degree. The thing is I'm in a 2 year relationship and when I tell him my choice he says I'm being stupid and gets really mad

If he pulls that sh*t, you shouldn't stand for it, that is abuse, even if his abusive has only been verbal, it is ESCALATING to physical, even if he's always sober. You shouldn't tolerate him controlling everything, you should murder him in his sleep, don't let that wife beater control your life!

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