Shes near my husbands age& she's always been jealous of me since day one i never felt comfortable around her. And I wouldn't mind if my husband has small talk with her, i just dont want them to be close friends if that makes sense. I feel like she would purposely try to make mad and use him against me. Should i tell my husband that i dont feel comfortable with him being friends with her? And if he asks why cant he be friends with her, what should i say. I dont want to seem like the type that talks crap about her own family. Should i tell him everything shes ever done to me like all the bad stuff or just keep it simple and to the point 😂

Ok so I became friends with this kid within these last two weeks of this semester of college. So we became good friends over the last month or so, text often and all. What started as ajoke of calling each other awkward end up in a mild arguement over who's awkward or not. I mean it was just an arguement but it didn't get too mean or personal. Anyways he then blocks me on all forms of communication, saying I'm delusional, but I did manage to try to tell him to forget about it and let's just start fresh. He said no and to never contact him again. Isn't that a bit extreme? It was just an arguement that wasn't anything to personal/mean and I even apologized and to forget about it. No one has ever blocked me like that and we went from texting everyday to now probably never talking to each other again. I just find it odd. I've gotten into much worse arguements with friends where it's actually been mean among them and I still made up with them or they didn't go as far as blocking me lol.

Theres this girl my best friend and i used to be friends with. Anyway, we realized she was very problematic and rather mean to us both (especially my best friend) so we decided to distance ourselves. However out of no where, my best friend decided to once again consider that girl one of her BEST FRIENDS and began jumping to her defense and hanging out with her and i cant help but feel angry and confused especially since every time i try to bring it up she changes the subject. It makes me want to ignore her and not give her the satisfaction of being able be both of our friends. But now im starting to think that im being kind of sensitive and ridiculous and it would be unfair to make her choose between us. After all, we are two different people and we spend so much time together that ive started to feel like we are the same person but we arent. And it sucks because i know the only problem is me since the other girl also likes me still but i dont like her. What do you think i should do? Am i being stupid and controlling?

I'm a male and back from college for the summer and can't stand her rn. She's a little devil who her and her friends need their asses whopped.

Most of us have plenty of people and things to keep us busy, such as jobs, family, volunteering, friends, etc. When someone who used to be a friend, or used to be an acquaintance, but who you haven't been in touch with in years, resurfaces every now and then and wants to "catch up", without a clear goal, do you bother accepting the invitation? Or when someone you see regularly but isn't friendly (and perhaps doesn't even speak), but suddenly acts all friendly, do you bother with the person? Thanks. To add: I had a friend (through church and school) for a few years. I was even a groomsman in his wedding. He now lives 2 miles away (far in an urban area) and we don't belong to any shared groups and thus I haven't seen him in a few years. He emailed me out of the blue, asking to get together. I responded, saying yes, and he never responded. WTF? One guy at the gym every morning is generally crabby and often doesn't speak--but every month or so will come up to me, all friendly. WTF?

I am 29 years old, going to be 30 this year though. I have been friends with my friend for over 10 years but she always don't believe me when I say I am virgin. Is it because I am beautiful or because I look happy? Inside I want to find someone but can't find someone. I don't know if I am being picky Or I am just not lucky to find someone. My coworker even asked if I was a virgin and I said yes and she said "no ur not." Why is that? I dress very conservative too, never sexy

parent can be an asshole to there kid and everyone even there counselor say "its your mom u gotta rsepect her anyway"? yeah andthen when the kid gets suciide its you ******* fault

Uh, how should I exactly respond to that?

so i had a party the other day. and i walked in with my new gf. im 28 and shes 37. shes hot though. and my moms friend is my gfs age. so my moms friend kept looking at my gf non stop and looking at her up and down. and everytime she would see me she would say stuff like "wow you got taller and better looking" "we need to celebrate because im getting divorced" "you should check out the rodio one day, thats where i work" . oh and i caught her looking at my junk too XD. so doesshe want me or what?

I moved to a new highschool in january, and while i don't have a hard time finding people to talk to, I really just want someone to hang out with! I've reached out to some people but they're constantly "busy" so i just figure they're not my people. Thanks!

I moved to a new highschool in January and i'm a rising junior. I'm talkative/fairly social/outgoing in terms of starting conversation but i just have a hard time making real friends because some people aren't interested in actually being friends not just acquaintances. Any advice? :) thanks!

Hi, I moved to a new highschool in January and i'm a rising junior. I'm a talkative/fairly social/outgoing person in terms of talking to people, but i just have a hard time making friends because some people aren't interested in making plans and that's what i want in a friend, someone to hang out with not just in school! Any advice? :) thanks!

"It's been awhile since I've heard from you, how you been doing these days? I'm doing good, do you remember me telling you about the times I've gotten shunned & rejected by a bunch of people who I've liked and wanted to be friends with? Looking back I've realized if I've had gotten to become good friends with these types of people I don't think I would be half as nice, friendly & compassionate of a person as I became today and I don't think I would care so much for the elderly and the disabled as I do now. At my job I've been getting a lot of appreciation from my co-workers, customers and some of the managers and I feel like I'm doing something right if I've made a positive impact in their lives being who I am, when I was younger I've had an image on who I wanted to be and it wasn't the person who God wanted me to be."

so i live in new jersey, and i've been here for 14 years (my whole life). recently, my mom told me that we're moving to virginia before the end of summer. we're moving because my mom really wants me to go to uva, and in state tuition is affordable, and new jersey doesn't have amazing colleges. i'm really upset about how i'm not going to the high school all of my friends are going to, and it's 4 to 5 hours away. i'm really going to miss all of my friends, and i don't know how i'll manage without them. plus, it will probably take me a while to get settled in a entirely new place. also, my dad will still be going back to new jersey a lot because of work and the like, so i'll probably be visiting a lot. however, at the same time, i'm really excited to move and have a fresh new start at a new school, which is academically better than the other school, and academics matter a lot to me. i don't want to spend my last month and a half in new jersey worrying about moving and missing my friends, and i want to make the most of the time i'll have, but i'm still really upset about moving. how can i stop thinking about moving and focus on having fun with my friends before i'm gone?

I do not have any extremely valid reason for moving expect repeating a school year. I'm not moving house or anything. I have a group of 3 friends I know one of them will be understanding, the other will be mad and idk how my best friend will react. We are in almost every class together and she does not have any other friends in the classes and doesn't have anyone but me at lunch. I don't want to loose her, I know she wanted to graduate togheder. I am worried I am being selfish leaving her and honestly don't want to tell her, but I know I have to. Would telling her by text be cold ?

a group of 5 girls were really close with my best friend, but after some drama, they cut her off. now, me and my best friend and still close but we gossip about them, although they gossip about us. we don t have a picture as proof but we ve heard them. recently, i have been lead to the assumption that one person in the group of girls went through my best friend s dm s on instagram and found out that we were gossiping about her group. i know this because she got our personal information, and she had my friend s password. she took screenshots and sent it to her group, and wrote a long paragraph about what bad people we were, and how she doesn t regret cutting me off though we were never close friends. so far, i have apologized to the girl who wrote the paragraph (she didn t forgive me), and to two other girls in the group (they both forgave me). i am about to apologize to the other two girls soon. i feel really guilty, although it is clear that she went through our messages, and there was no other way that she could ve gotten a hold of our conversations. what can i do about her hacking into my friend s account? am i doing the right thing?

Last night, my best friend picked me up to go to the beach for a late night sunset get together. We walked along the beach for awhile but when I looked at him he'd always say what! Or is there something in my teeth. He smiled but then he stopped and kissed the side of my neck. We've never actually kissed but him kissing me on the neck turned me on. He has kissed me on the end of my nose before. What would you do? Should I kiss him on his neck the next time we get together???

I wonder how they can even enjoy life when they stay quiet all day and are always alone. Isnt that really boring? I couldnt even survive for 1 day living like that

I'm 27, single, female. My friend is 38, married, male. We hadn't REALLY talked in 3 months. He felt distant, even during the occasions we saw each other at church from afar. I figure he's just been really busy, but it felt like he was being intentionally distant. A few Sundays ago, him and his wife came over to say hi to me and a mutual friend at church, but he felt more like an acquaintance than a friend...it felt awkward. We didn't see each other for a couple weeks after that because I went out of town and then I missed church last Sunday. This past Friday, he gave me a ride home from work (he works within 5 minutes of me and got off about the same time) and when we pulled into the driveway, we literally sat and talked for 10 minutes. The first thing he said when I got in the car was, "how've you been? it's been a couple of months". Today, his wife wasn't with him at service so he sat in the seat in front of me and we talked for a couple of minutes. If his wife was there, he likely wouldn't have said more than hi. Do you think he missed me (as a friend, of course)? He went so long without really speaking to me and suddenly, he is going out of his way to have conversation with me.

I was at a party and the host ask me to drive Jane home as she was too drunk to drive. I agreed as I did not want her in a car accident. The host said I will call her husband and tell him you are bringing her home. When I got to her house, her husband met me a the door and would not let his wife come in the house. He said "She is not coming in this house until she sobers up". OH CRAP. What am I going to do? I can't leave her there drunk on her door step. I called the party host and ask her what I should do. She said to take her to your home and take her to her house in the morning when she was sober. I was not comfortable having a married woman sleep at my house over night. I was afraid of what her husband might do. He also seemed to me to be drunk but I didn't know what else to do so I took her home. The next morning she wanted to know how she ended up at my house and I told her. She was outraged. She said "I am not going back and live with that S.O.B. of a husband". Can I stay with you until I can find a place to stay. I told her no but I would help her find a place to stay. I was afraid of what her husband might do and/or I would get involved in a divorce case. Please tell me if I did the right thing here. Should I have let her stay with me?

Even though I am divorced, my ex wife and I are still friends. I was good friends with her parents before we were divorced. After the divorce, her parents told me they very much wanted to remain friends and hoped I felt the same. I did but I told them I did not want to cause my ex wife any embarrassment or problems by being friends with them. They said it was fine with their daughter if we remained friends. Just to be sure I called my ex wife and asked her if it was OK with her if I remained friends with her parents. She said she thought it was great that I would do that. She said her parents liked me very much and I brought a lot of joy to their life. It was NOT a problem for her if I remained friends with her parents. Her parents were getting older and they deserved all the happiness and friends they could get. When I told my friends about this arrangement they all told me I was nuts for doing that. They said I am divorced and I should stay away from my ex wife and especially her parents. It will only cause trouble in the future for all of us. Please give my your thoughts on this. Am I doing something wrong here.

2005 Ford Taurus. It has 2 little dents on the back bumper that looks like butt dimples. The car is so attractive I sometimes fantasize myself banging this car. Anyways my friends told me that the 2005 Tauruses have a V8 6.3 "Powerstroke Hemi 392" and I was getting a 400+ car. I got it and ot couldnt even get past 100. Lies?

I have this friend who is about five years older than me and when I first met her I was going through a difficult time. She seemed to always want to be around me when I was in a bad place and I was getting over a bad stage of my life regarding abusive relationships. She gave me lots of support. Since then, I have found her to be very controlling and extremely judgmental of my life decisions. According to her I can never do anything right. Four years later and I have got into a happy stable relationship. When I asked her about this boy before I got in a relationship with him she said 'don't go out with him just get to know him in a group as a friend' I didn't listen to her and since I have been in the relationship she has wanted to see me and has told me that I have got 'everything wrong' in the relationship and she told me to not be too disappointed if it doesn't work out, because I am so young. She never told me congratulations or expressed any happiness for me in the relationship, instead she has criticised everything I've done in it and has made me doubt my relationship. The strange thing is, she is always stalking my posts of me and my boyfriend on social media, and she has never supported or liked my posts when I have been on holiday with my boyfriend and as soon as she has viewed them, she sends me a message asking me to meet up. Why does my friend always criticise my life decisions and hasn't expressed any happiness for me for my new relationship?

My friend Lucas has an immense home and the neighbors often see how his driveway is filled up. He lives for friends and family. And wonderful that his house is in the center of town so everybody flocks in from all directions. To his closest friends, he lets you spend the night, his pool has been weekend activity of many. But Lucas has a lot of fake friends who are always taking advantage of him. These are people who bring the wrong crowd to his house, who show up without invitation simply because they feel that its like a second home. Sergey just casually goes through his fridge. Alex, that lazy scumbag, is always pestering him to help him find a good job when he does nothing. Milo is always flattering him because he is interested in his sister, which he likes only because of her position and network. Anthony is always using Lucas's house as a sort of storage space for some of his crap None of these guys understand Lucas like I do. And I have always treated him the way he treats me. But if I begin telling him that some of these men are fake and self interested, he would disagree and say that they are his friends. What do I do?

Example:Like few months ago she texted me on a Tuesday evening asking me would I like to go to this place on a Saturday morning I siad yes so because of that I asked her would she like to call up to mine on the Sunday to watch DVDs and pig out.she siad Yes( asked to see would she Make an excuse up) her reply was 'aw yes that would be great I'll let u know what time I'll be able to call up.ofcourse it didn't happen she texted me to tell me she couldn't even thou I knew it wasn't gonna happen and the fact we planned it days ago? Again I don't get it it bothers me bc I'm always doing things with her but when it comes to me asking it's just excuses excuses . Im so sorry for the long text !!!!

So I've asked this question before didn't get much answers and did get a few rude ones . So I've this friend who's I've know since our school days after school we stayed *best* friends I was always there for this girl ( but never was there for me if I had issues or problems )and honestly taught she was my best fiend . this issue has been going on for sometime and it's really pi💥💥ing me off . I just don't understand why my friend makes up excuses not to hang out or do fun stuff, everytime she's asks me I do or alleast try and do if I'm not busy or have things going on( which I do ) but I try but when I asks her would she like to come to my house she makes up lame excuses not to or her favourite thing to do not text me until days later pretending I didn't even ask her. I just don't get it she's been to my house a million of times ( doesn't smell ) if I can take a few hours out of my time to do things with her why can't she do the same .

My father has a best friend since they were middle school. They watched me grow up to a women. Nothing happen between me and my fathers best friend. Until a yesterday my dad invited him over to have dinner with us. Although he was always starting at me whenever I'm in his view all the time. I thought nothing. However it changed that same night when my parents was out to get a few things at Walmart. My dad's best friend just stay home with me. Alone. He told me that he was in love with me ever since, he wrapped his arms around my waist and kissed my head. I told him to stop but he didnt and he told me not to tell anyone or what he'll do. When my parents got home. He acted nothing happen. It's happen yesterday. I'm terrified and I don't know how to tell my parents what happen especially to my dad. I don't want to wreck their friendship and I'm scared of what will happen if I did? Is there a way to keep me away from his best friend?

I'm 21 years old, and my friend is 19. So we work together, and ever since, I started dating a friend of ours who also works with us. She's older (26). He's been saying stuff behind my back, and telling my ex girlfriend that I cheated on her with our friend (I did, but I was stupid for doing it). I did tell her everything that happened, though. Face to face, and accepted my consequences. But he just had to tell her afterwards. Like butting into someone else's business, just so that girl he likes won't like me anymore. He has been also saying other stuff that was taken out of context to make me sound like I'm a jerk. It honestly hurt me. I have never in my life did anything to him. If anything, I always helped him with work because he's lazy. No joke, he just quit because he "wasn't being appreciated." When in fact, he left everything up to me. I did his job for him. And he wonders why that girl never liked him? And why she still tries to go after me when I left her? It's because he's immature! He plays games at work, and doesn't take it serious. He talks to our boss like he wiser. Like no respect for your elders. No joke, him and that girl he likes posted a Snapchat of them arm wrestling at work. That's how immature he is. She's also immature, that's why I decided to leave her too. I also made my ex girlfriend take me back when I was being unfaithful. Anyways, now since I left her, she's been begging me to spend time with him too. I really can't stand fake friends...

So I would not actually consider this girl a friend but she's in my friend group... First, this girl is pretty rude at times. She'll tell me that I'm bad at certain things and put me down, BUT when I fight back and defend myself, she tells me I'm the mean and horrible person. It's as if she expects me to take in her insults and just allow her to push me around. My other friend called her a "prick" jokingly, but I know she means it truthfully. One of my other friends called her a "horrible person" before as well. Yet this girl can not seem to comprehend that it's her awful attitude that's making people dislike her, but she blames me when she gets hate.

I did have a lot of confidence issues because i grew up in the south knowing that I do not belong here.. so I do not know a lot about fashion, trends, enviroment, people..and it seemed to have gotten worse over the past year because I moved to NYC last year for college and I am trying to figure out who I am.. I also struggled with depression because I was just home all the time with no friends and felt very lonely because there was nothing to do.. I have everything that I want tho.. I get to go to a really nice school, live in a luxurious apartment, have supportive parents I should be happy with what I have.. but I always seem to compare myself to other people.. and it is really bad because there are a lot of rich people at my school and so I became interested in Luxurious brands like Gucci, Chanel, Balenciaga, etc.. and I did not even know anything about those until this year.. I spent so much money already and I secretly buy it without my parents knowing.. I sold a lot of my stuff just so I can buy them but my greed will not stop.. I do not need them.. but I feel like I have to in order to blend in with people and fit in with my friends (but they really do not care i know..) and I love the reactions I get from other people.. I also think they are pretty and makes me feel expensive so I rather wear those than cheap clothing..i feel so much confident and happy everytime I buy them not only that.. but I feel like I am at risk of becoming anorexic because all the girls are so skinny and pretty.. I literally starve myself and eat a sweet potato and protein shake for lunch and a salad for dinner.. but I still feel fat and I am thinking of trying to make myself throw up with pills but I know I shouldn't.. also I became obsessed with makeup.. it takes me over an hour to do my hair and makeup in the morning and I look like a totally different person.. it is the only way to make myself feel confident and be able to lift my head up in public.. my parents hate it.. I don't know what happened to me over the past year.. but I wish i can just be happy with who i am..I used to just go out in my pjs and with no makeup but I can not even do that anymore now when I am alone.. I keep try to tell myself.. those people are from different parts of the world.. they grew up in a different culture, their parents are rich but I am not, so I should control myself.. but then everytime I see "them"... I forget everything and tell myself.. that I should try to be as pretty and skinny and rich as them.. also since all the rich and skinny and pretty girls are asian and I am too so it makes me more anxious and it makes me feel like I have to do it... i wish there was a way to stop comparing myself.. i get jealous very easily.. My grades even dropped last semester because I was so focused on changing how i look and i felt so tired because i was starving myself to lose weight.. but now.. i am obsessed with shopping.. i need to stop please help and i always had this problem.. I always compare myself to other people.. no matter where I am.. I do not even feel happy and confident around my friends at school anymore.. because I am always comparing and comparing and trying to be like them.. when i know i can not afford it.. Im going to end up having no friends again... because of jealousy.. and also it is fun because all of this is new to me..

I'm feeling insecure. Seriously. This is not a joke. I feel like commiting suicide because I feel super insecure and I feel like nobody likes me. I'm jealous of Madonna. I know she's a billion years older than me, but I feel so jealous of this ugly skank thot ****!!! I should be the ******* biggest female artist in the ******* world, not this hag *** white *****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If I can't be Madonna, I might as well kill myself. What is the ******* point of living!! Everybody loves Madonna and she's the Queen of Pop, and nobody loves me and I'm just some stupid poor a** c*nt n*gger. If she dies, it'll be a HUGE deal, but if I die, who will give 2 f*cking shits!!!! I *CKING HATE MYSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... I HATE MYSELF SO F*CKING MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I JUST WANT TO DIE ALREADY!!!!!!!!!!!! I HAVE NO PURPOSE!!!! NONE!!!! :'(

I have a friend who knows a guy who's in a gang and he just got out of residential care. He was there because his parents got shot in front of him while on probation for robbery but now he has an apartment he's trying to change but he's struggling with it he signed himself out of drug rehab but got back in. I tried to tell my friend that he wasn't a good influence but now I abide from trying to get that through to him ever since his parents got shot I felt sorry for him more then anything else plus due to the fact that my friends relying on me to give him advice but I just don't know how to help him with that. I know he's trying to change but it's hard for him.

i am a girl who was talking to people on omegle (dont worry, i skip anyone who shows me their penis, etc.) and i came across a black screen. he called me a skank immediately, and i shrugged, still smiling. he called me vile names such as whore, but i was wearing a large sweatshirt and sweatpants, so i knew it was not true. i turned my camera on and told him that i skip the men who show their penises, and he said "who would show you and your disgusting greasy forehead their penis?" i have a little forehead acne, but its not so bad.. i know he is a troll, but this comment really got to me.

I have a very calm persona and I believe I can try and help bring about a change in people lives and I do my bit every now and then.I live in Cali (36) and she's from New Hampshire (31). We are not lovers. She thinks of me as a friend ONLY, while I am more into her. Our relationship - strictly financial. Yes apparently I am quite rich and keep helping her out monetarily out of care. She has been in prison 2-3 times, the last time she went IN was for over 7 years. I maintained phone contact with her throughout her jail time. Now she's out and a completely different person. She now wants to get her boobs done...This is just one of the many things she wants to do. While I am not helping her out with that, she is still going to go ahead and get the loan from bank. Whatever.. The real issue here is I care about her because of torrid past, her childhood. She is emotionally unstable and at times I find it overwhelming dealing with her. Yes one minute she is all cute and the next minute she is throwing expletives, but then she will send me texts and apologize. So yes I do have the financial means to support her, but I believe I don't support her on an emotional level much. What do I need to do to help her out? Me going to visit her is out of question, because I just don't know when will she flip from good to bad and cause embarrassment. Please dont respond asking me to leave her. I care for her too much and willing to go the distance. I really got it when it comes to finances.