Most nights my wife cries herself to sleep for no reason. She's 7 months pregnant with our son she's been emotional lately she's usually not the kind of girl to cry. What's wrong with her ? How can I comfort her ?

Why would somebody do such a thing? After all, he couldn't know that the other woman was "better" until he actually cheated on his wife. What could the wife have done to prevent this from happening?

I know plenty of men who work full time and still help their wives with dishes, clean up after themselves, do their chores, etc. I am married to a lazy/immature trucker who thinks that having a full time job excuses him from having to do "women's work" (chores and helping with the kids). I work a few part time jobs, have a business, and take care of the house and kids and he says that this is "my job, not his and that I will not talk down to a man or tell him what to do in his home". Problem is, my family paid cash for the home and he was supposed to pay them back for it and he has refused claiming they gave him the house as a gift. He also borrowed over $1000 from my grandma and refuses to pay her back as well. I have already started divorce proceedings, as I am sick of his smart mouth and refusal to help out or do what he is asked to do around the house. I often stay up til 3am with little-no sleep after cooking and cleaning and working all day. What is right here? Some women tell me a man should be allowed to relax and do nothing. I clean up after him and he relaxes all day, every day. If I ask him to cut the grass or help with chores, he accuses me of verbally abusing him. He tells me the divorce will never happen, as his family has dirt/ammo against my family and I and that he will fight me tooth and nail because "the Bible says I am to stay married to him for life and obey him". I tell him constantly, that if he continues to give me lip and not help out, then he can GET OUT... But does working full time (he really doesnt work that much he exaggerates grossly) excuse someone from doing chores? He has told me that he watched his father verbally abuse his mother when she didnt do his laundry or housework to his specifications and his dad would scream at her until she cried and call her names.

A friend of mine is getting served divorce papers, she filed that they have been legally sperated since December 2016. He is in prison momentarily. She filed to have him pay $195 for all three children upon his release. This is a 3 year agreement. Could have have to pay backpay child support? And when is the soonest he could file a motion to modify the custody arrangement? What is the difference between sole physical custody and sole legal custody? This is in Idaho.

Please help! I don't wanna be a home wrecker!

When I am there they won't ask for anything but when I am not around they expect my passive husband to pay for 3 adults, father, gf and teenage son.

Thankyou to all of the Yahoo Answers Community who provided feedback on my last question. Special mention to Mad Luv who always responds in detail to each part of my question. First of all, my son's well-being has to come first. Social work have been involved and an order put in place almost 2 months ago from police following an incident where she smashed up plates and hit her own mother. It damaged kitchen tiles. She has been to the court... Our son was only 2 months old and heard everything. She had hit me in anger whilst holding our son as well. I made plans to leave. It took several weeks for her to calm down and stop being angry. But she has been through my phone and seen that I was talking to friends and family to line up support. Mainly.bevause she initially talked about walking out on our son and I wanted to ensure I had support to take care of our son whilst I worked. She also "discovered" that I had been chatting to a female classmate and been to dinner with that person. I do not consider that cheating because we were just friends and acknowledged we had partners. I was asking her to help out with baby sitting and my wife had met her previously as she was looking to invest in real estate through my wife's company. Well she messaged my friend and told her to not contact with me anymore. I apologised to this woman and explained it was creating too many problems. I went grocery shopping late last night and came home to her questioning if I was meeting anyone... She then acted funny about her phone and laughed at sending some flirting text to a random guy she added to her messenger. Her justification was that I had been speaking to my classmate. Anyway, i straight up told her that she is behaving immature and that I don't have time for her games. Our son was sleeping next to her the whole time. I mentioned divorce and she asked when we're we going to the court...I responded it doesn't work like that. I had our son outside with me after that. I took him out to get away from her. Then realised I was using him like a pawn. But I wanted to spend time with him. He was sleeping in the bassinet and I just wanted to see him. He woke up and was crying for milk. I was trying to heat it up when she came out and took over with the kettle. Then said to our son "daddy is a bad father". I told her to stop that at once. I then quietly told him I'm a good father and don't listen to mum. My real concern is that he could be subconsciously learning all this. He may not remember what is said now but it may affect him. I feel bad for that. I've made a decision not to do that anymore. Today I will firmly talk to her about the poor example we are giving. That we need to work together. Otherwise we may as well not be together. Our son deserves better. I don't want to play games or retaliate to bad language or put downs. I have tried the laughing tactic and responding previously. My son's welfare is my priority. I did see a lawyer and got some very useful advice. The costs are beyond what I can afford to initiate anything. We have been to couples counselling once and it turned into a blame game. Putting it back on me for triggering her. She is still mad at me calling the cops. But I was concerned for the safety of our son and her mum. Because of her violence order, I can get custody of our son and she would get supervised visits. But he is so young. It would ruin him as well. Her father is still here. He came out from China to help care for our son. My parents will be back soon from their trip. They gave been away during this whole ordeal. I look forward to talking with them..they raised me properly. I want to get their help and input. They want to babysit. When my wife threatened to walk out, my parents were overseas...

I'm 37 years old and unemployed. Yet, some of my relatives keep urging me to get married and have children though I have no job to feed myself and my family. They say I would get a job sooner or later but marriage is once in a life time and I have to do it quick because of my age. If your son went through the same experience as mine, would you urge him to do the same thing ? If you wouldn't, can I conclude that my relatives were insincere and don't give a damn about me ?

I'm the so-called "a trust-fund baby", financially secure but not rich (don't envy me; I got it because my mom died in an accident). Meaning I can rent (not buy) a flat in a good neighborhood and have a holiday once a year (nothing fancy, tho'). I have a job as an administration staff as well. Now I'm in a pretty serious relationship with a researcher. As he's working in a university instead of in industry, he's not rich either. I don't mind that. The problem is this: He's half-Japanese, and his widowed mother lives in Japan (no possibility of her coming here). He has recently told me that he has to fully support her, because she has done everything to ensure him a good education in the West, and now she doesn't have enough saving to keep her tiny home unless he helps her. He told me so that I can decide if I want to continue our relationship despite this, as this means that I have to "share" with his mother. I don't want to sound shallow, but this has rather taken me aback. He's a kind and steady man who has promised to prioritize me, but - because he doesn't want to let his mother to lack anything either - this means that we're not going to be as comfortable as I've imagined. Without this problem, we would be able to buy a house and have no worries about bills. He has an elder brother who doesn't want to divide the burden, but he has this sense-of-duty that makes me rather worried for the future. Were you in my position, would you take this man despite his 'baggage'? I'm not a gold-digger or something. However, we're in the 30s and plan to have kids in the future. With his responsibilities toward his mother, we have to put unexpected hospital bills and what have you in the equation, and I'm afraid that this is going to cause extra pressure on our finance (and on me). Yet, I'm also afraid of regretting my decision should I let him go, since other than that, he's everything I've wished for in a partner.

Hi My husband likes to chat on Facebook sometimes with women. I've never liked it but he thinks it's normal. It's been a while that he's been chatting with a single woman who takes dance lessons. One day he left his Facebook open so I decided to take a look. I know it's not right but deep inside I feel like I can't fully trust him. He told her: "When you become famous will you remember me?" I don't know if this is considered flirting but I don't think he should be saying that to a single woman. And this woman knows that he's married and she just goes along with it. I remember another time he also brought up if she had a boyfriend or something. Are these things out of line? I don't know how men are these days so that's why I'm asking. It seems like everything is normal and men don't act serious anymore.

Hey guys ! I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half . Things happened quick we were moved in together in a month . I have two teens . When we first moved in he was nasty to my son . Even made him walk outside 3 hours after school . After he moved out he started attacking my daughter accusing her of everything he said my son did . He apologized to my son and blamed it on her . Honestly I don't believe what he says . He even took a lie decetor and failed . Said because English was his second language. He got my fired from a 100k job I worked my tail off at for 12 years . He said he did it to protect me . Cause i was stressed . Every time I approach him he says how much he loves me and my kids are liars. He never wavers in how much he loves me . Maybe I'm wrong maybe my kids are lying . We just had a baby and I don't know if I'm crazy .

So, I recently got married and my stepson is moving in with us. I was startled to discover he speaks no English...his Dad is fluent. To make matters worse, his Dad is going on a business trip and I'd already planned a trip down to my grandparent's to introduce my new (step)son. How do I supervise a teen I can't communicate with? This also sounds like it wold be scary for him. Am I right to think I should have been warned about the language barrier? His Mom had custody until recently...she got fed up with the lack of electricity and decided to send the kid to live with his father as soon as the father moved to a larger (my) place. His Dad has met my parents already.

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I would be grateful to everyone who helps me reasonably. Well when she was my fiancee she cheated on me and never mentioned it to me. We had a rough phase where we had fights and stuff. She cheated but never called the engagement off. I got to know through someone she knew and it broke my heart so bad. She gave a ******* to another guy she liked at work. It took my almost a year to accept and move on. We got married and its now been 7 months. I never questioned her but mostly when i am Kissing or making out with her i get the thought and it disgusts me. I mention nothing to her since she looks like a different person to me now. She shows love. The problem with me is i do not know how to handle this, it sometimes still haunts me and hurts me A LOT. I don't want to torture her by throwing her past again and again on her face. I want to just get help about how to fix it. Before cheating Physically she also had cheated on me emotionally with her EX. To be honest this marriage was kind of LAST OPTION thing to her and she herself admitted it. After trying everywhere when she got no one she came back to me. She seems a good person now and regrets what happened but she has broken my trust 8-10 Times. It gets really hard sometimes to deal with it and i just sit alone and Smoke cigarettes, i never touched smokes before this. Has anyone gone through sometime similar? Any idea how can i fix this? I love her and she loves me and the engagement was also on our wish. It is a love marriage. She gave a BJ to another guy she liked at work.

Sorry, I'm just "venting" and I don't have any friends. I recently gained weight from depression pills, I finally got off the medication and decided to run and walk. My husband workout with me and he's just keep pushing and pushing me to workout on his pace. I've talked to him and he's just ignores me. We run/walk 4-Miles a day on a 100 degree weather. He constantly complain if I take any water break saying I don't need it. I only deserve it when I run the 4 mile. I swear he's trying to kill me sometime. He always tell me I'm trying to make you a better person but he's causing me to be depressed... maybe I just need to be on his level..

OK here's the thing I stopped eating meat three years ago for moral reasons. In the last year I've become more militant and more against meat fish animal flesh. When I got married my husband after year he moved into my house that I bought by myself before we were married and I asked him one thing is if you wants to eat meat to eat it outside of the house and not in front of me. I told him I don't want any meat in my refrigerator or on my pots/pans or plates or silverware. I had a pot that I saved from when I used to cook meat and I told him if he insists on cooking meat to use that pan and it still decent pan and last night he refused to cook his meat in the pan I asked him to and he cooked it in my new frying pan I got so upset I just didn't say anything I walked out and went to the movies. How can I help him come to a compromise because my house was the only place I had it was my sanctuary to get rid to get free for meat because there is meat everywhere except my house. How can I make him understand? (PS he knew all this before he married me