My sister and I want to go on a small trip together. She is 14 I am 18. We need somewhere cheap, accessible by train and in England or Wales. Any ideas?

I'm a guy 30 with faults and flaws. Try and do what i can and be good to people. Parents hate me with a passion. Mom nags, and blame me for everything, my dad blames me for everything also. My faults are brought up. I generally keep to myself, but parents are always have something negative to say about me. Yes i need to move out, but they hate me regardless if i was moved out or not. They have always loved my sister, and treated her better. My sister doesn't speak, i have been willing to have a relationship with her, but it's obvious she doesn't want a relationship with me. If she wanted something from me, she pretended to care about me. I have given her money, and kept her kid. They don't want my nephew around me. I have bought him something, and my sister didn't say nothing about it. Mom nags about me not being around the family, it's not personal, i just am not where i want to be in life. And they have always cared about my sister, and don't seem to care for me. So i get hated for that. Also i feel they could check on me also. I am initially a quiet person, but if given the chance can be talkative. I don't trust people though. Mom gets into my personal life. She says i don't have friends, and i don't but i do have people i talk to. I have trust issues. I just want to be accepted for me. I blamed and hated for everything, and they don't know me like they think they do. I keep the grass cut so dad doesn't have to do it. But they say i'm a bad person. Mom always threaten me with the law, and i have to go to court as it is. Dad is quiet around me, but always talking to my sister. I can't defend myself, if i do i'm the bad person. Dad yells if i don't be quiet when he want me to. When i am around them they get quiet, and don't want me around. If i keep to myself that's a problem. No matter what i do i am blamed, and my faults are brought up. I am paranoid, that everybody have negative assumptions of me and hate me. I try and be confident, but when i am confident, that's a problem, as nobody wants me confident and happy. I am anxious around dad, and mom also, though me and mom use to have the better relationship. Me and my sister doesn't have a connection, she act as if she is better. No matter what i do i am hated. Friends is not really an issue. Though i don't feel that could be accepted in my town, and i just don't like my town. I have trust issues, and just do my own thing. Also i deal with females, but mom wants me to have guy friends. Why can't i just be accepted for me? she also says to check on my cousins, but they don't check on me. Really no matter what i do, i will be hated. I guess dad will have to cut the grass. I keep the yard cut with a push mower, and we have a big yard, and try and do it so he doesn't have to. I do what i can to be helpful, but nobody cares about me.

My mom has always had money issues. She hasn't had a job since I was 11 years old, and I'm 17 now. She relies on unemployment, child support & borrowing money to get by. She's pretty much always home hanging out & playing games on the computer. It's frustrating because we have been living in the same apartment for so long, and if she would have gotten a job we could have moved to a nice place. I also never get time to myself in the summer because she's always home when she should be working :/ I have my own job, but my mom has even complained about me earning too much money because it cut her EBT benefits... What should I do? I'm not old enough to move out yet but this situation is frustrating.

I'm graduating with a Computer Science degree in 6 months. He tells me I'm really lazy, I don't do anything, and that he's ashamed to tell people about me.

So my sister is 38 and I'm 17, she tends to switch her personality toward me like 24/7. There are times when she'll offer to take me to a nice dinner or take me someone fun. She tells me that she doesn't want me to be depressed or worry too much about what my crazy step mom says but then she'll switch. She'll call me out of nowhere and start screaming at me and just lashing out. Before I was able to handle this and think, "maybe it's just not a good day". But two days ago I was at my friends house and she called me. The first two minutes was just a normal conversation but then she started screaming. She was calling me a whore, a ugly *** *****, she told me I was disgusting; she threatened to put cameras in my room, beat me mercilessly the next time she saw me, and threatened to send me to jail, and she accused me of having sex with a family member. She knows very well that I hate the idea of sex, as I am a rape victim. She used to tell me that it wasn't my fault but now she's saying it was my choice. She doesn't realize how horrible that makes me feel and once I tried to tell her she told me that she no longer gave a **** about what I had to say. I don't know what to do. I'm scared to be alone with her, I'm scared to see her, and I'm scared she'll come to our house without warning at hurt me.

She's 9 year old and can't take a simple joke. If my mum imitates her cuteness she has a fit for the rest of the day. Only her tablet can entertain her. She's only 9 and she's going on social media trying to receive positive attention. I don't want to see her grow up like this! What do I do? I play with cards with her almost everyday after dinner and if I say I can't she thinks I don't want to play with her because I find her annoying and apparently I hate her. My parents say they don't understand her behavior. The smallest thing I do wrong to her she gets very upset. My parents say that I was much happier girl than sh was. She doesn't get along with her friends at school either. But by the sound of what she is saying she is the one who is bullying other people. I studied why people bully bit my sister does not match any of the bully's traits. Do you think I'm missing something? I thought that she might be being bullied on social media so I looked though her tablet, but I couldn't find any negative comments or chats. Am I missing something?

Ok, so I'm seeing 5 Seconds Of Summer with my mom, the thing is.. She's 32 and she's a typical mother, "But you can be a fan in any age" you might say, but no. She's not even a fan. She says "You can't come in without an adult" (I'm 14) Personally I think it would be a little bit embarrassing going to see them with her when every other person is there with their friends. I'll not be able to sign, dance with her around since we have a awkward connection now when I'm older than I was. What should I do?

My older brother died 6 months ago in a car crash. He left a wife and two children. My parents are asking me to marry my brother wife so that the children are not rised by a stranger. I said no. They're urging me to consider it. Is there a way I could raise my brothers kid without marrying his wife?

My grandma passed away recently and I know this sounds bad but I don't want to attend the funeral. To me, it is too much to handle and emotionally, I don't think I'd be able to take it. I've talked to my mom and she said that I'm at an age where I should be mature enough to go. Don't get me wrong I loved my grandma but I just don't think I can handle being there.

im a high school 19 year old girl. these days, my dad is always unhappy because of the two of us, my bro and i. i think, hes like this because of the fact i rarely go outside or make/have friends and the fact that he wants to throw us away because he wants to do stuff before he dies or something. but he cant because of me// im suicidal and depressed and he knows it. hes 50. but im starting to think he wants to abandon me so he can have fun again and live.....isnt that selfish? heck. what do i know... the shlt he says to my face makes me even more suicidal 'i really want to kick both you out' 'its your fault that___' its making me feel like a worthless loser now. his parenting f'cking sucks now he never watches what he says. f'cking narcissist always blames me, but doesnt like to be blamed himself. should i just pack and leave or kill myself so he can finally have some good old time with my brother?? what do u think? what should i do? what should i say?

I had a miscarriage last night I feel depressed and sad I didn't even do nothing wrong I don't drink or smoke my doctor said that both of us were healthy I don't understand it I was only 6 months pregnant. I knew something like this would happen anyway. My mom died when I was 3 my sister was just 2 months old so I been really stressed out about it I knew either I was gonna die or my son was gonna die of course it had to be him. My friend told me that I probably wasn't meant to have kids I think she's right. She came to stay with us last night she slept with me last night my wife slept on the couch she said that was ok. I cried my eyes out almost all night. Me and her and my wife were outside last night when it happened. One of my sisters friends went through the same thing a couple years ago she lost her unborn daughter for no reason like I lost my son. I even deleted Facebook because of what I posted about it last night will just hurt me even more I been very depressed today I can't even watch cartoons without crying. My wife and friend are trying to help me but I don't know how to tell them I wanna be left alone. I blame myself even though I didn't know what happened. What causes miscarriages ? How can I move on from it ?

I'm being told almost daily that I'm a terrible daughter.I can never do anything right.I feel like my mother's slave.I am in charge of all the cleaning,grocery,pets and even working at my mom's company as an only employee there!It's a small business,service based and so doesn't require much work,especially from her.But for me it's problem as it takes up most of my weekends and evenings on weekdays,when I could be doing hw or having a life.I am 17 years olds,girl,and my parents divorced 6 years ago.I have 2 brothers who moved out once they turned 18 as they couldn't live with my mom anymore.I became really distant from my brothers in the past couple of years and I barely talk to my dad(cuz of mom).I'm now senior in school meaning that I have to start applying to colleges.My family is pretty wealthy(especially my dad)and so have the money to send me to a uni of my choice(expensive).So my parents agreed to create a bank account for me and freeze it till i am 18.my mom threatened me so that I'd transfer the money to her as soon as I turn 18&I mustn't tell my dad.i'm not sure if I should do this since I want to go to uni of my choice but my mom specifically told me that she won't pay for it if something else comes up (like a new car). I can't ask my dad for more money since this was the money that i had to use for uni.idk what to do, my mom also calls me selfish since I am not thinking of her future life and what she's supposed to live on if she spends this money on my uni.

All of a sudden my Step daughter dosent really care for me, she use to text me all the time then it stop(she seem like she has issues so idk whats her problem with me) Well she is giving her son a birthday party Saturday and on today I get a text from her oldest sister asking if my kids can go! My thing is the oldest sister shouldn t be the one inviting, the mother giving the party she should invite like she did everyone else. Idk she stop talking to me months ago when my son was born(Idk if it s jealousy or what) she hasn t even seen him in person or came once and that s her brother. Would i be wrong not sending kids??

Im really sick of them. And i have always blamed my grandmother for the way my family turned out. I dont remember exactly how many children she had but i think it was around 11 or more with my grandfather. anyway my grandmother was always violent. She always had a reason to spank everyone badly in an unnecessarily excessive manner. When i was little i lived with her and i remember that she was always spanking someone every single day and for me she acted as if i didnt even exist she never gave me any attention. I dont think she ever gave any of her children love or affection once in her life because now they are all adults that do the samething with my cousins. None of my uncles (most her children were males) show affection to my cousins so now their negativity has passed down to us, their children. My mother is the same as my grandmother. Never gave us any type of motherly affection. It was always the opposite. My mother gave birth to 5 of us and none of us get along. We live in the same house and most of us cant speak to each other. Im sick of it. She treated some us different and unfairly too. I really blame my grandmother for how she treated her kids. She should have never had kids if she didnt like them in the first place. Because of all this negativity and hatred in my family i cant help but feel like im living in a curse. Ive been planning on leaving and starting a new life else where in the near future. I dont want to be around them anymore. Do you think this is bad?

If you ask anyone to describe my mother in law Jill, they most probably would say "beautiful". If someone ask me to describe Jill, I would say she is the best mother in law any guy can have. She is always there if my wife and I need help with anything and she is the nicest person you will ever meet. On day at work, she came by to ride home with me. I introduced her to some of my co workers. The next day these co workers asked me if she was married. I told then no. They ask me if I would fix them up with a date with Jill. I told them someone as beautiful as Jill did not need her son in laws help getting dates. She can get all the dates she wants without anyone's help. My co workers then ask me if I would bring her to the bonus day party they were having after work next week so they could get to know her better. I don't know if I should do that. They would enjoy the party more if she was there as she is really a fun person to be around. Do you think a woman would be interested in guys that are a least 10 years younger than she is? Should I stay out or her love life and ignore their request even if there are some real great guys that want to get to know her better? What should I do?

I watch my 2 month old niece and my nephew is over a year and half 3 days a week and I am losing my marbles. I feel like I never stop and no matter how much I sleep at night I don't feel rested. I have been watching both since June and I thought it would get easier as time went on and we developed a routine but it hasn't. I know stay at home moms do this all the time and I feel like a failure because I am going so nuts! PLEASE HELP!

My dad cooks for me and buys me clithes from old navy and Burlington but the thing is he gets on me for things like a 15 year old boy should take out the trash and empty the trash in hje bathroom but im lazy asf but my mon shes chill she doesnt yell at me for chores and she doesnr yell my name when im playing videogames when u have to do chores but my dad he does that alot he sometimes always wanr me to be a strong independent man and is always harsh on me all the time when i can be a strong independent man with my mom i dont know what to do

I always say something nasty to them or sulk or have a bad attitude basically at least once/twice every day. I honestly regret it but I cannot seem to control my emotions. I know the amount of stuff they do for me, my school fees, trips etc.. I love them and I sometimes cry at night thinking how bad a person I am. I'm not the type who shows love for someone very freely, although they just get it - they know I love them a lot HOWEVER this is the negative side: they shout at me for silly things, they get annoyed at me, my dad randomly starts ignoring me and it just annoys me so much so I talk/ignore back which I know I shouldn't but sometimes he takes things too far, even with my mom. How do I become more calm if not just them, but anyone does something stupid?

I just recently graduated and my dad sent photos in my extended family chat. They live in different country. My dad however didn't attend my graduation because he was working. My extended family are always would always say congradulation on any event. Do they hate me? Why would they not say anything. I feel very hurt and I started crying beacuse why would they not say so?

Every now and then my mum will comment on my weight. I'm 13, I have some stretch marks and weird veins on my thigh. I am 150cm - 155cm (I am not sure exactly) and 53kg. I'm fully aware that my body isn't in the best shape but she tells me I'm fat and that I shouldn't have veins or stretch marks then leaves. And it really hurts that she criticises me then tells me no way to help get rid of some weight. I have been very insecure of my body for a while and this isn't helping. Does anyone have any tips on how to get her to stop? It started when we went on holiday with my whole family. In the morning we all stopped at McDonald's for breakfast, I don't like McDonald's so I didn't get anything. My family departed ways back to their homes and it was just me my mum and my dad. Soon we went past a KFC and I was starving. I thought that if there was an option to get McDonald's in the morning then I could have KFC now because I didn't get any McDonald's. Boy was I wrong... My mum started yelling at me telling me that I was fat and that I had stretch marks and veins on my thigh. And it hurt. My mum, the person I thought would always value me and love me just depleted my self love and worth to zero. If anyone knows a way to get my mum to stop please tell me Thank you kindly, Nina

If we are ever discussing something (like the other day we were talking about which floor we should get) and we both have different opinions, she just brings up personal stuff out of no where that have nothing got to do with floors! It's hard because all I want is my mother to be kind to me, which she is most of the time, but every time she says something it just knocks down my confidence and my self-esteem. It's like she always tries to wind me up and I'd i retaliate she called me sensitive. I feel like she only does it to me, never to my older sister. Not that I ever would want her to. She just makes me feet like I'm overreacting if I get upset and I don't have a right to be offended. But in the end I know she loves me and I love her.

I'm in my high school year's and I've always lived with my grandma who is now turning almost 68 soon. She's decently nice and once every few days she gets depressed and talks abt her bad life to me. Even stating how much of a pain me and her kids are (treat her for ****/ain't successful) and I never know what to say but mm. Today we fought just before sleeping and I sleep with her in the same room. She told me to grab her phone in the living room but once I went to retrieve it I couldn't find it, losing my temper I yelled out I can't find it. She stood up walked towards our door pointed at the table yelling back I can see it right there where I still couldn't find her phone in the DARK. She then yells out cusses and says she should kick me out and gets close by and raises her hand almost as if she was abt to hit me. I sit back down on my bed and she does it again and says sleep outside, I wish I could just hit you! At that point I blast my music into my ears. She grabs her pillow and blanket and walks to the couch. I feel guilty now... I don't know what to do I'm always constantly feeling worthless and how I need to treat her better but some days I lose my temper and immediately feeling sorry. Help?

My brother told me this he sometimes tell lies...is he telling the truth or scammed...

Before you say "face the consequences, tell them the truth", my parents wont believe the truth. I wasnt doing anything i wasnt supposed to, other than being out at 3 am. I went to the baseball diamond not too far from my house to cry because me and my girlfriend are fighting. That's where our last date was. I couldn't sleep, so I did something that would make me tired. Im just tired and dont want to try to convince my parents that I wasnt out drinking or doing drugs or some dumb **** like that. The only way id be able to get in, is if I found some way to get onto the roof where i could climb into my bedroom window. My next best idea is to just fall asleep on the trampoline or something. Any other ideas? Not that I'm opposed to sleeping on a trampoline.

I'm 20, going to be 21 soon and My mom lives overseas and I rarely get to see her until i'm on vacation. She moved overseas to start her business when I was 14 and I only started visiting her there more recently. I feel like I missed out on a lot because she was gone since I was still young, visiting me every 6 months or so for 3 weeks at the most, so everytime I visit her, or she visits me I will always try to be close to her, for example when I get to see her we share a bed and snuggle at night, or when we go out i'll hold her hand. We were always super close but she's always gone and I just miss her so much that when she comes back that I turn into a little kid again. Is this weird?

I understand what my dad wants from me and my brother. He wants us to become close, to lean on each other and be best friends. In a perfect world that's how it should be. But to be realistic that might never happen. I am 5 years older than my brother, we live some 4 hours apart and we are completely different people. My brother is introverted, difficult to talk to and not very interested in doing activities. He hangs out with his girlfriend mostly and doesn't really have friends that he sees regularly. I visit my parents and my brother maybe once every 2-3 months. I was there a couple of weeks ago and I planned on spending a night with my brother having a few beers. He cancelled last minute. The day after I got together with some old friends and we went on a boat to fish and hang out. He didn't want to come, which is ok. I can not force him to hang out with me. And every time we do hang out we sit there quietly. Talking to him is like pulling teeth. He is my brother and nothing can change that. But I just don't see us becoming good friends in the near future. We are just too different and frankly I think having these forced hang outs is making things worse between us. I don't want to disappoint my father but it is what it is. And it's not like my brother calls me and wants to do stuff.

My friends put a piece of a wasabi in my salad and made it unbearable. Obviously wasabi is gross with a salad, but I don't like hot food anyways and i paid money for the salad but my friends don't understand why I'm angry. Am I right to be angry? If I'm paying money for food I find it disrespectful to mess with it at all. Let me know what you think. Thanks.

OK, so here s the full story. My older brother and I are spending the summer at my grandma s house, and we share a pull-out couch in the basement. I usually go to sleep later than him, so when I crawl into bed, he s fast asleep. He s told me a couple of times that I should blow my nose before I go to bed (In the times when I ve gone to bed before him) so that I don t have a clogged nose and therefore snore, which keeps him up. according to him, it works. So for the past few nights, I haven t slept at all because he s been snoring. I recommended the blow-your-nose tactic that he gave me, and he said multiple nights in a row that he would, but even after reminding him right before he went to bed, he just didn t carry through with this. This went on for a couple of nights, until tonight, where I handed him the box of Kleenexes to make sure he would do it. after asking him nicely multiple times to blow his nose, he said once you stop eating my food , which was in reference to the unmarked boxes of pasta in the cabinet (My grandma cooks a lot of the stuff, so it s impossible to tell if someone s bought more of it). I told him that I couldn t sleep at night because of this petty little problem that he could easily solve, and he turned the volume on his phone up so that I might stop talking. I accidentally swore at him a few times and stormed upstairs. I know swearing at him may have taken it too far, but shouldn t he just let me sleep?

My dad works 5-6 and I get that. But at night he is at a friends house or he's mowing the lawn or just drinking a lot. He only comes into the house for like a half an hour to get another beer. He doesn't talk to me a lot and it makes me sad. And now that my mom and dad are separating, he will be moving out and will barley see him at all. My mom said there is not going to be a custody scedule. That makes me think he doesn't want to see me. He told me he'd come visit us but not a lot because we were barley seeing him in the first place. It makes me really sad. I know he loves me and I love him so much I'm just really hurt and confused ):

My mom died of cancer six years ago. When she was alive I was the worst to her. We argued, fought and I made her cry. I ve always wanted to apologize but I don t think she can hear me... I don t think she can forgive me. I m mad at myself for not being able to say sorry

I'm in year 9 and we have a camp coming up. Every time I go to camp or a sleepover even if it's for 1 night I get extremely homesick and feel like I am getting physically sick but my parents won't see it from my point of view and will still want me to go. And when I go to camp feeling sick it's just not a ver pleasant feeling bundled along with homesickness. Please help me to find a solution like ways to convince my parents I don't have to go or ways to intentionally get sick for a few days so that I can skip it.

Almost every time I try to talk nicely with my dad, he always sighs or says "ugh" in a negative tone as he interrupts me. And when I'm talking, he suddenly says "eh, (my name)" and makes a negative remark. I never do this when he talks. He also does to my mom, but he talks nicely to other people. Nobody else talks like this to me when I'm speaking. I'm an adult. Is this rude or disrespectful? Yeah, in my heart, I think it's rude, but I guess I want to hear what others think about this situation. I don't know if it's normal for a dad to speak like this to his adult daughter. He easily loses patience with me. Thanks.

I just found out I had a miscarriage I'm really upset about it somehow I knew something like this would happen. My mom died when I was 3 it's really been stressing me lately thinking of her my sister was just 2 months old so I knew that either I was gonna die or my son was gonna die of course it had to be him I guess I wasn't meant to have kids. It's not fair my sister is 8 months she's doing fine. My doctor said I was healthy I just lost my son for no reason I don't smoke or drink not even when I wasn't pregnant I never do any of that. I did drink once in a while but very rarely never during pregnancy. My heart is broken right now I don't know what to do my wife and sister are trying to help but I want to be left alone. The same thing happened to one of my wife's friends 2 years ago she lost her unborn daughter right around this same time for no reason. I'm only 21. Why does stuff like this happen ? How can I move on ? Is it OK to cry ?

So her sister is like a kid who bullies. She has stirred up drama in the family for over a decade with every member it seems. She says hateful things about people and when confronted she blames everyone else (including her own son). She is downright mean to her adult son while showering praise on her daughters. So after being mostly estranged for two years she has asked my mother to call her and explain why no one wants to include her in family activities. She had written a letter 3 years ago after our grandmother died stating she would not attend any family activities my uncle is at or her son. So while there haven't been that many in recent years since the grandparents have died we have not asked her to the 3 or 4 there have been other then a wedding and she skipped that. So now my mother has responded not by telling her how much she misses her or loves her but simply stating the things that make her, her two brothers, and her older sister not wish to include this sister. She showed me the letter and it states she loves her (the sister) but will not be in the drama anymore. The other sister wrote something similar though I don;t think either brother has gotten involved. So my question is did my mother do this the right way or should she have written things like "we miss you and we love you" and sound more sad not to be seeing her. The letter was direct and not warm or mean, just direct and to the point. My Mom's other sister did the same and my mother just confirmed to me that neither of her brothers have been contacted by the aunt. One I know the aunt won't speak to cause he reaches out to her son she refuses to forgive. The son has some trust issues after being abandoned by his father and so has acted up at times. The daughters are super obedient.

I am an adult out on my own. He hates his wife's sister and her step-brother. When younger he had a step-brother of his own he would get mad at me for being around but has since forgiven him. My mother was the same way when I was a kid but not so now. By his wife I mean my Mom. Never is it to protect me, but they are using me to get someone back. The one exception was an older cousin when I was a kid with drug issues. I can see there they wanted me to be supervised when around him for protection.

When he is home he always tells us all of the wrong things we have done in life (not like smoking or drinking more like you cant do anything right type of stuff) i am getting tired of him i am 17 right now i dont know what to feel

She is not a nice person.

It hurts when my Mom tells me he doesn't love me or my brother. I am not allowed to see him again cause he drinks even though my grandparents offered to supervise. My mother says his whole family doesn't want a relationship with us anymore but my grandmother reaches out. How do I stop feeling so rejected? I cry a lot about it and am only 14. I was 9 when I saw my father last. I see his parents once or twice a year but my mother says they don't want a relationship with us. This hurts even more then my Dad not loving me.

Hello, I am 22 years old. I recently graduated college and unfortunately had to move back home for a while (hopefully not much longer) and it's drivng me crazy. My mother and I do not get along at all. I'm at the point in life where there is no point in arguing and I can tell this makes her even more mad. I usually just say ok, or I'll try to stay out as long as I can. I really have nothing to talk to her about but everyday she tries to nit pick and start arguments. My dad (they're divorced) says it's jealousy. When she was my age she had my brother, and was struggling and barely made it through school. Here I am, 21, no boyfriend (I prefer it this way) living my life having fun. And she is always trying to bring me down. I don't do anything wrong, I workout and enjoy my own company. I don't understand WHY she continues to try to make me mad or irritate me. She knows I have a history of anger problems, but being away at college I've learned how to control it. I want to move with my dad, but she's so spiteful and evil that she will probably take my car away. Can anyone give me advice? It's a lot worse but I'm tired of typing. Thanks.

About half of the party was still good. It was 50-50. I am obsessed a lot that it was a let down as I looked forward to it all spring. How do I change my perspective so I can consider it a good day even if it wasn't great? Can half be good when half is just as much bad? Please help LAST TIME I WILL ASK (I am OCD)

In 2005 I was aged 11 and my grandfather and I drove to the lake since I was scared of flying on a small plane. The rest of the family came up on a small plane for a reunion. All my 1st cousins, aunts, uncle, and my parents and siblings were all on the plane. 32 people total. The plane crashed. All died. My grandfather and I were all that were left. He raised me, home-schooled me, and traveled with me cross country and Canada as well. I did not go to school any longer after the crash so while I taught myself with his help some stuff I am not very educated. I don't have to work as I have inherited a lot however, I have no one now. My mother had already died in 2005 and she had only her mother who died in 2004. She had very little extended family and I've only met one other relative of hers (just twice). I have no one now. How do I cope and move on? I don't have to work and am rich so I should consider myself lucky but I am at a loss. I am now 24 years old, male, and have no one. I have no desire to marry as my learning disabilities have kept me from having any friends and I have never been one for dating. I live in this massive lake house but am lost. What do I do? My grandfather died of a stroke at 83 on April 22. I was really close with my grandfather and we got along great so in a lot of ways this loss is as hard as losing both parents and my 3 siblings 13 years ago. Today is the anniversary of the plane crash. David B:---https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_fatalities_from_aviation_accidents (No one in the family was famous). https://www.google.com/search?q=plane+crash+kills+family&rlz=1C1KMZB_enUS565US565&oq=plane+crash+kills+family&aqs=chrome.0.0l6.4149j1j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

I have 3 sons and 1 daughter. We cannot afford ANOTHER baby! There's also no guarantee that it will be a girl either. My daughter is incredibly jealous of families with two or more young girls. We are not financially and emotionally equipped to handle 5 kids. She has no choice but to grow up being the only female child.

My cousins their 13 and twins but not identical and their mother are at my house till the 17th they've been here since the 3rd and it's going to kill me my brother and my stepdad and mother are just trying to handle it as well they didn't expect them to be here so long and their being snobby and I need help before I rip someones head off.

I'm using my address to register my 6 year old daughter in school because i'm the only one who can take my daughter to school and pick her up. her mother works days and i work nights. i am not the custodial parent but this is the only thing that works. i used my address because her mother lives a few towns away but works in my town. her mother drops her off i take her to school then i pick her up from school and her mom picks her up and takes her home. my question is could i get in trouble for registering her with my address?

I've always looked like my mom a bit so I know that I am for sure her daughter but then when it comes to my siblings I look completely different. I have darker skin, darker hair, darker eyes. My siblings have light brown hair and hazel eyes and like slightly tan skin. I just figured for a while that this could just be the Syrian from my dad that I take more part of than them I guess(it's possible to have a different percent dna heritage than your siblings) but I was curious and got my dna tested on 23andme and let me tell you I wasn't expecting this **** at all. I had only my moms heritage (Iberian and Italian) then the rest of me was native american and only a little bit of North African and that most of my ancestors came from Peru ? I was like how tf can I be Peruvian I'm supposed to be like half Syrian from my dad and let me tell you he is not latino I can tell for a fact. Anyways it came to me that my mom was probably sleeping with someone else. I've been freaking out about this for a couple of days I really don't know what to do right now. Should I show my mom and see how she reacts or like ask her why I'm nothing of my dad?

I was waiting to be seated at a restaurant with 2 friends and this great looking guy was leaving the restaurant and he saw me and came over and give me a hug and said "Hello Joyce, you are just as beautiful as I remember you. We talked briefly and then the waiter came to seat us. The guy gave me his card and said "Call me sometime and lets have lunch and catch up on what we have been doing all these years". My friends at lunch said "Who was that guy that gave you the hug"? I told them he was a old boyfriend from high school that I had not seen in over 25 years. He was the guy that talked me into going to college which was the best decision of my life. It is where I met my husband, the love of my life. I really want to have lunch with him and say thank you for all you did for me. I just need some advice on how to do it. Should I call him and say my husband and I would like to meet you for lunch some time. I don't know if he is married or not so should I ask him to bring his wife along as I would like to meet her? How do I ask my husband to join me for this meeting. It just does not seem like he would understand if I said I want to have lunch with an old boyfriend. Perhaps I should tell my husband I would like to meet a old high school friend. Someone please give me some advice on how I should handle this. THANKS.

She's 8 and lately she came up to me and asked what is ******* ( wich i don't know where she heard it ) and i said nothing. should i explain it to her afterwards ? would i be in trouble if she tells my parents ?

So I walked into the bathroom (The door was ajar so I assumed no-one was in there) I walked in and my dad was sitting on the toilet, he had his privates all covered up so im not scarred for life about that (thank god) But I just stood there in shock for a few seconds just staring (I don't know why I didn't just immediately leave but there you go) I just said "SORRY" and then just left. Its been a day and Ive been avoiding him ever since just because of the embarresment of it all!

When I try to explain they act like I m the worst thing ever. I always tell them I could be like other kids that smoke all the time, drink and have sex. How are some parents so chill to let their kids do that? Even some of my friends parents. They literally act like their friends and all of them have great relationships with their parents and never have to hide anything from them. Strict parents make us sneaky kids. My mom asked mwhy my friend can t come over to our house and I said the reason is because she always embarrassed me and treats me like I m 3. She hears one little curse word and is like "what s that mess" like I m about to be moving out soon, you even said it yourself. And then my dad always calls my clothes "whore clothes". My parents don t even let me wear crop tops. If I have even 0.1 inch of my stomach showing then I m a "hoe" or trying to be grown like maybe I just like THE STYLE OF IT. strict parents just ruin our livesand make our relationship with them worse and be rebellious. All My friends have belly piercings and nose piercings and some even tattoos and I m like how. I can t even wear SHORTS or Crop tops without being a "hoe". My parents also take my phone at night AT 9:30 since I was like 11 and no one else s parents do that . my mom doesnt let me listen to rap because it s "trash" like I m 16 years old, I m not gonna be pure all my life, and I curse with my friends,I hate my parents I wish I had my friends parents .

Sometimes I feel she does this to bother me but it doesn't like it used to but I don't put up with it either, when her or my brother has a problem she will constantly talk about them none stop but if I do she completely ignores me I won't ignore her back like I used to yes I know immature but that was years ago when so many small things got to me but should I stop being there for her as much? She doesn't talk about my problems she just gives me the silent treatment it hurts a little bit but not like it used to I need some advice? Why have kids if you won't care for them? She'll say how much she does but her actions sure doesn't say it..