Family: Question: What would you do if your gay teenage son started shrieking and crying after you tell him that his sense of fashion is hopelessly outdated?

Question: What would you do if your gay teenage son started shrieking and crying after you tell him that his sense of fashion is hopelessly outdated?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 02:46 PM PDT

Question: Should I put my father in prison?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 02:17 PM PDT

My mom just told me that if she signed a paper my dad would get a warrant on him for not paying child support. But if she were to do this, he would probably spend the rest of his life in prison because of his history and the fact that he has medical problems. I'm wondering if it is morally right to send him to prison just for revenge? First off, I almost never see him. Our relationship is basically over. He has been a bad father/husband. He has never supported his family, is a severe alcoholic, is very hostile, and has never paid taxes. He has threatened multiple times to beat me to death. He has broken my mom's hand and all her fingers. He's cheated on her. A lot of bad things. But since he's been out of our lives, I think he's cleaned up his act a little. Of course, he isnt perfect. Is it right to send him to prison for his past actions? Will it change the fact that she didn't get her child support money? Is the world a better place with him in prison? If he were to find out about this, would he attempt to harm my mom? This decision will essentially take him out of my life forever, but it will also take him out of the rest of my family's life. Do I want to lose that whole half of my family? I have forgiven him in my mind. I have granted myself the peace of mind to accept the past as it is. It can only affect me as long as I let it. I just think it will always affect my mom. This is the hardest decision I've ever had to make. I would really appreciate some advice.

Question: I touched my sister's butt?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 01:49 PM PDT

When I was a kid 11 I was in the pool with my sister who was 17 and we were showing how to dunk or hold someone underwater or something like that and when I was doing it to her I kept touching her butt like that's all I remember touching while doing it and she didn't say anything about it

Question: My grandad did fight people a lot, my family owned a racehorse, my dad and uncle lived in caravan for few years. We are close to gypsies.?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 01:41 PM PDT

What type of family am I

Question: My mom’s pregnant and I don’t what another sibling? What to do?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 01:02 PM PDT

My parents aren't emotionally supportive, I'm 16 with depression and anxiety because my parents don't understand and don't do anything to help. I already have 2 younger sisters youngest is 6. They just want a boy. But a boy or girl still is a baby who I can't take care of. I just taught my sister to ride a bike while my dad is at the tennis club at 8 pm to 11pm imo it's irresponsible. They are terrible role models they love yelling when I get a C or cry from anxiety. My mom already had an abortion in Christmas. I found out about this pregnancy when I was taking vitamins and RIGHT BESIDE IT was prénatals. Worst way to find out. They keep getting pregnant because they refuse to use condoms or contraceptives!!!!!! I literally told them to use it and if not then just don't have sex. Because my mom is 45 and dad 55 THEYLL BE IN THEIR 60s-70s when he graduates high school!!!! AND ILL HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF EVERYONE. I'm an ap student so I couldn't be more stressed rn. I need guidance/advice/ just a response. Pls help

Question: Does my child's half brother's grandma have any right too my child?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 12:48 PM PDT

She didnt inform me of my daughter until she was one year old. I dont want my child spending time there anymore. Currently Tuesdays and wednesdays. She played the role of grandmother that my mom should've been playing the whole time.

Question: Parental approval in the Midwest?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 12:12 PM PDT

I live in the state of Missouri. A friend of mine who lives in Washington state lived in Missouri for a few years. He recently spoke to a friend living here in Missouri about his wife leaving him due to her mother not approving of him. When my friend was living here he noticed that others also looked highly for parental approval. Could this be due to parents in the Midwest and South imposing their will more on their children, while parents on the coast are more laid back? Also, are children on the costal areas more independent minded?

Question: Why does my 15 year old sister still act like a child?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 12:08 PM PDT

Question: WHY IS MY MOM FORCING ME TO READ?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 11:32 AM PDT

EVERYTIME IM ON MY PHONE ITS BECAUSE I HAVE BOTHINF ELSE TO DO, AND I ENJOY THIS TIME AND ITS THE ******* SUMMER WHY THE HELL DOES MY MOM KEEP SAYING "oh you need to do something productive"? WE JUST MOVED AND WERE STAYING IN A HOTEL UNTIL WE MOVE INTO A NEW HOUSE. OH MY FFUCKING GOD CAN I HAVE THE TIME NOW TO GOOF OFF AND BE ON MY PHONE BECAUSE SCHOOL IS ALMOST STARTIG AND I KNOW WE HAVE A LT OF WORK TO DI WHEN WE MOVE IN THE GODDAMN HOUSE! WHY IS SHE SO UFUCKING ANNOYING I CSNcant take this d BS ANY LONGER

Question: WHY IS MY MOM SO OVERDRAMATIC?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 11:29 AM PDT

Today, I forgot to make my bed and my mom told me to make it . So I did. And then she started nagging about how I couldn't done better? Then she continues to nag about how that reflects me As a person... I made my bed and that's what you wanted and I'm not a ******* perfectionist SORRY? Then I sat on the couch and started to look for back to school clothes and then she starts nagging about how she's going to set a limit for "screen time" and she damn well knows that I need To use computers and such to edit videos for my YouTube channel. And she bagged again about how I waste my time? Yet yesterday we were both on our phones basically the whole day while watching movies and I was looking at YouTube tip videos and looking at back to school clothes, makeup, etc. why is she such a a hypocritical overreacting annoying person to get along with. So annoying

Question: Why does my aunt hate me?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 11:14 AM PDT

Like me and my sister we are nice and conservative people. We wear respectful clothes but my aunt and her daughter wears revealing clothing.My aunt didnt want to see us happy for some reason, and my mom said she didnt like me and my sister since we were young and wouldnt let us play with her kids. One time we went to beach together my aunt was wearing two piece bikini and mom asked her "Why would u wear this in front of men?" My aunt said" Meh, who is going to look at us?". She took picture of her daughter in two piece in front of my mom and gave mom a nasty look. Later she post it on Instagram. Thing is my aunt's husband is cheating on her with one of her friends, btw. She hangs out with her anyway but she doesnt want to let her kids hang out with me and my sister, even if we are nice. Why?

Question: How do I get my Mom and aunt to stop fighting?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 10:50 AM PDT

Aunt says Mom is a fake and a hypocrite and Mom says aunt is a narcissistic woman with a personality disorder. I am caught in the middle. They have seldom spoke since the summer of 2014.

Question: Do I need permission from my Mom before I have sex and get married?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 10:45 AM PDT

Question: My father will not memorialize his elders. Why would one be this hostile to the good people who raised him?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 09:25 AM PDT

He neglected them terribly when they were elderly also. They were wonderful so there was no need for hostility or anything. My Dad was very disloyal to them.

Question: If your sister would be very quiet and awkward, would you hate her?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 09:24 AM PDT

Question: My sister beat me up last night and put bruises all over me. Do I show our parents when they get home from Florida tomorrow?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 09:23 AM PDT

My aunt came to get me so I will be safe from her. My sister beat me up and put bruises all over my body. She was hitting and kicking and swearing she would slit my throat from one ear to the other. I was so scared and finally called my aunt who lives next door when I managed to get in a room and lock the door. The sister threw forks at me as well. She was mad cause I kept talking about the same stuff cause my interests are limited. I wasn't doing anything wrong. My aunt is keeping me safe and we have bars on the doors. Our parents always dismiss it as Sue being Sue (that is my sister's name). Do I show them or do I just claim I fell down the stairs? I am scared my sister will kill me literally if I tell them. When she said she would slit my throat that was new. She is 18 and I am 16.

Question: How do I get my Dad to stop alienating me from his family?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 09:19 AM PDT

Question: How can i deal with my narcissistic mother?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 09:02 AM PDT

i know its not the place to ask about it, but i have no one to talk to, my mother and i have a very different opinions about almost everything which leads to us arguing regularly, my problem is she very narcissistic and thinks that shes never ever wrong,she always makes the smallest stupidest things into a non existing problems, which leads her to flip the table and makes herself the victim and im the one whose wrong, for years i believed that and it destroyed my self confidence a lot, just lately i've started to realize what she was doing, but i dont know how to deal with it, she's impossible to communicate with so talking to her wont solve anything, my first step ill stop apologizing all the time and let her come to her terms, but im afraid she'll take further worse and flip out on me, i cant move out because simply my family wont let me, how can i solve this peacefully?

Question: Is this normal? If not, what do I do?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 08:14 AM PDT

So, I just turned 16. I hope the following question doesn't make me seem like some entitled brat, because I really want to make everyone happy. Anyways, I live with my mom and my grandma. My mom is the type to act more like a friend than a mother, and she's always on her phone. My grandmother is as well. I don't have one, just a computer where I do my commissions and stuff. Lately, my mom has been working a lot (sometimes she lies and is doing other stuff, but that doesn't matter i guess.) This leaves my grandma and I alone. She has compulsive behavior when it comes to cleaning, and forces me to do it all. That is a teen thing right? I don't ever whine and not do it, but honestly on the inside, it's terrible. I find myself crying when no one is looking. I have to do everything, and I mean everything. When my grandma gets sick, I have to take care of her. When the pets are becoming out of hand, I have to help. Basically I do everything except cook because I don't quite know how. They don't really speak to me much, either. They stay on their phones. If I leave the room, my grandma screams for me to come back. I went to a psychiatric hospital in March due to a suicide attempt and it was the stupidest thing I've ever done, but I feel like I'm constantly being punished for it now. I'm not suicidal anymore, but I cannot take this pressure, and I can't cope because my grandma doesn't allow me to do anything but clean without screaming at me. What do I do? Is this normal?

Question: Spiders keeping me awake? Can someone help?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 08:10 AM PDT

So I am thirteen years old and have an extreme fear of spiders. I don't know what to do, but it's so bad that I'm not sleeping at all at night. I live with my mom and half sister who has a different dad to me who shares a room with me. Anyway my mom works a few nights a week and because my sister and I are under 16 my mom doesn't like leaving us on our own so we go to our dads houses. At my dads I sleep in a room on my own and I never sleep there. It's ok when my sister is there because I feel safe. But ever since I saw a spider in my room at my dads I hardly ever sleep. Even if my dad removes the spider which most of the time happens I still won't sleep because I'm paranoid there will be more. And there seems to be so many spiders in my room too whenever I go into my room there's normally two or three and it's freak me out. If I see a spider I will not sleep at all even when I get tired the other night I stayed up right until 7am when my mom picked me up. I literally will hide under the covers shaking and crying. I don't know what to do because it's just making me feel ill and scared and tired. I just hate them so much and it's the only thing stopping me from sleeping. I'm literally always looking for them I'm always checking each wall and side of my bed every minute I'm terrified. Please help does anyone else have the same problem I do?

Question: Is my cousin autistic?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 07:50 AM PDT

I say this because he does not hang around people his own age and people with autisim tend to hang around younger or older people. My cousin is 21 and has a friend who is 19 and another friend who is 22. He has no other friends his age(21) he told me if I call him a name(autistic) once more he is going to tell people I'm a horrible person. He is horrible at things autistics are great at such as math and science. He hates nerdy things autistics like such as science fiction. He has no problem with eye contact or talking to people. But is he autistic because he won't hant out with people his age?

Question: What is wrong with my brain!?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 07:49 AM PDT

Recently I started questioning if I'm even in reality I feel everything is fake and that even my own mom is irrelevant and isn't real it's wierd and it's getting worse every day and I am super scared I don't know what this sprang from but it's just weird. I used to feel safe and it would go away if I sat in my house or room but now even when I look at my own sister I feel she's not even my sister can someone tell me what is going on?

Question: Is it bad to hate dropping family members off all the time?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 07:49 AM PDT

Before I got my car my family never did anything for me my mom never took me anywhere and once I got my first job I had to walk and take bus. I only have my license because i earned and worked hard for it. It was just never givin to me or I was never lucky like that. However my mom makes me drive my brother to work and pick him up it irritates me because I work so much and when I'm off I like to spend the morning sleeping and being able to do and go where I want without spending my days revolves around picking someone else up.. if he has a job it's not my problem it's not my job I have my own job...I'm not a taxi if she wants to baby him she could but he's 19 and he needs to not depend of people and get his license like I did or find his own transportation.. is this bad?

Question: Why does my mom expect me to be rich one day?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 07:07 AM PDT

I come from a middle class family that's not upper middle class or rich. My mom keeps telling me a lot to get my first million before she dies or she will say I want you to have a big house and nice car. It's really annoying because I am an adult and I don't want to be rich. I just want to live alone with a regular income just to make it with basic stuff. I don't want to make all of the types of money that my generation makes speaking that I'm in my 20's. I don't see the need for a lot of money because we all die and all of that won't matter in the end. I'm not interested in social status amount people or females especially with finance.

Question: I saw these 2 stupid little kids with their father and they kept staring at me looking very sad! Did they want something from me?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 06:52 AM PDT

These 2 kids and their father acted like strangers! They didn't even talk to each other! They just stood there staring at me. And the kids looked so sad, like they had been crying! Is it possible those kids were kidnapped and the man with them wasn't really their father? Why were all 3 of them staring at me??? It all looked very suspicious! What kind of family is that? They don't even talk to each other! All they do is stare at people!

Question: My parents force me to travel with them?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 05:36 AM PDT

my parents go to lots of music festivals. they always make me go because I can't stay at home alone as I'm only 14. I used to find this fun but now I HATE IT. the only ones we go to are filled with old sweaty hippies and screaming vegan protesters. I hate them. finally, a chance to see my favourite musician ever, adore Delano has come up as she's doing a UK tour. she's going to London and Manchester and I want to go more than anything else. I'm old enough to go to the concert as its 14+. they get really angry whenever I mention her tour and whenever I ask if it would be possible to go. how can I get out of the festival? how can i go to the concert?

Question: My sister is a bully and a mean person. No one likes her. How do I ignore her at family events so it doesn't get to me?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 04:37 AM PDT

Question: How do I get over the stress of not having parents?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 04:36 AM PDT

I live in Foster Care and am unloved I am 15

Question: My aunt is a narcissist. What causes one to become a narcissist and do they ever change?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 04:16 AM PDT

Question: Is it ok for a mother to call her daughter a whore?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 02:54 AM PDT

Because I slept with my boyfriend, the only man I've ever slept with and I was 18 at the time. I'm 20 now but she says I'm a whore until I get married and that she doesn't regret calling me it.

Question: How To Comfortably Sleep On A Park Bench.?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 01:32 AM PDT

About 6-7 years ago I was diagnosed with Tourettes. It's been hell. I get constant **** from my family to shut the hell up cus they're trying to sleep. I feel like it's the boiling water on the hot stove, I was abused as a child mentally, emotionally and verbally (And some physical) by my mother - as well as verbally by my brother. Fast forward to 2018. I'm currently staying with my nana and brother who lives here too. My mom will be staying too for a while because her and her boyfriend are separating after 13 years (She's ******* psycho. I'm suprised he lasted that long). She is the most controlling, passive aggressive person I've ever met and I just wish I never had to see her again. I t's very hard to control my vocal tics at night, and with HER staying over for a while while she finds a condo to buy, it's gonna be absolute hell. I'm angry enough at everything and I Don't wanna deal with her BS screaming. I've dealt with enough of that as a child, I've decided that since I'm not ready to hang myself yet, I'll walk to the park with my blanket and pillows and sleep on the park bench, she won't be kept up and she won't scream at me and I won't live in fear that she'll open the door and start screaming. I'm not happy about this, but I have to deal with it since this is my fault and I can't control it. So if anyone has any tips on how to comfortably sleep on the park bench and actually be able to fall asleep and not get mugged or beat up - that would be great

Question: Step grandad makes me feel uncomfortable?

Posted: 25 Jul 2018 12:40 AM PDT

Whenever I'm around my grandad (who's technically my step grandad) I get this weird uncomfortable feeling, basically a gut feeling that gives me hints he's an odd dude. I've known him my whole life and I've never had any sexual incidents with him but recently over the past couple of years I just get this weird feeling when I'm around him. Used to me and my mom would go stay at their house on the weekends but my mom recently passed away and so now it's just me going over there and my grandmother (moms mom) is somewhat terminally ill and not fully aware of her surroundings most of the time. And when I go over there I just get this uncomfortable feeling about him. He touches my ears?? and plays with my hair and I honestly can't tell if it's in a sensual way or if I'm simply overthinking it. I don't want to say anything to my dad because he'll stop letting me go over there and I want to be able to spend time with my grandma. And I don't really know who to talk to about this issue without making a big deal and still being able to go see her. So If anyone has any advice on any possible solution to this it would be greatly appreciated.

Question: Black sheep in my family?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 11:23 PM PDT

The women in my family begin life very early. My mother was married when she was 20, her mother 19, and her mother 14. All of my cousins got married in their late teens and early 20's. And most of them begin having kids soon after. It almost sounds like a cult of expectations, but I'm not fitting in with it. I've been the black sheep of my family for years, and it's a huge family. The odds of being odd had to be minuscule but I was born this way, anyway. My female blood kin is a long line of freakish consistent prom queens and beauties, and again, I'm neither of those things. I'm 25 and I'm not married, I've never been anything special as far as tradtional western rights of passage go. I've never been accepted by most of my family, and well, that really hurts. Not by the women, anyhow. I get along fine with the men. That's not to say I'm masculine, but I guess my interests are more appealing to men than women. But I'd still like to know what it's like to feel pretty and like an actual girl that the other half of my family can talk to. I've tried conforming a handful of times, but make myself uncomfortable in the process. I just want to fit in and I know there are worse problems to have, but family is my main priority. Up there with my career and health.

Question: Is it wrong for porn stars to have kids? Growing up with a porn star?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 10:48 PM PDT

For a parent has got to screw with a kids mind.

Question: How much of a culture shock will my daughter face when we move from New York City to a town of 10,000 people in North Dakota?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 10:37 PM PDT

We are moving to a town because of my husbands new job. Both him and I have always lived in New York City. And we have a 4 year old daughter. I'm wondering how much of an adjustment she will go through.

Question: I accidentally made my niece cry by lying to her?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 09:50 PM PDT

So the other day; there was a costume birthday party my 4 year old niece was going to and her mother, my sister, asked if I could take her, with my own costume because she had a meeting to attend. I was down and I took her offer. I decided to go as an all black female ninja. For my mask, I used this 1-hole tactical balaclava ski mask that I could adjust. I got to my sister's house and she was all ready in her princess costume. The party was only 2 blocks away, so I figured I could walk and hold my niece in my arms. I first adjusted my ski mask so that only my eyes were exposed. I started walking out and apparently because my niece thought I was scary looking, she kept pulling my mask down after I would pull it up. It was ruining the facial make up, so I decided to tell her there were monsters in the darkness who were out to get us. She started to cry because she really believed me, but I told her if I can cover my face, they won't be able to see us. So I pulled my mask up to cover my face again, and she calmed down a bit. We soon got to the party afterwards. Looking back, I felt kinda bad about lying to my niece, but I just didn't want my facial make up ruined

Question: Should I let my 12 year old daughter have Instagram on our shared iPad?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 09:40 PM PDT

My daughter is very honest and agreed to let me closely monitor it. I'm just too surprised she asked because my daughter isn't social. She's the academic, introverted and gifted type. We have open communication at all times. The reason why she wants an account is to follow slime/meme pages, see aesthetic photos and keep in touch with a few kids (especially those from summer school, camp and vacation). She does not own a phone at all so that wouldn't be a problem. We share this iPad together so that means that it's almost impossible for me not to know (as she almost never goes to friend's houses or libraries alone, and her school blocks social media).

Question: What can i say to my dad so he'll realize how he treats me lately?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 09:38 PM PDT

Question: Am I spoiled, the honest truth?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 08:11 PM PDT

I'm 20, and go to college. My parents are paying fully for it, and I failed 1 semester. I get a $50 a month allowance and sometimes use their credit card to buy things. I worked in my dads real estate business during the summer and I got to sit around and still get paid, also I can come to work whenever. Anyways they told me this is my last chance to pass my classes, and that they're not getting me a car if I don't pass. At home I don't really do chores, I just get asked to take out the garbage time to time, and clean up after myself. Sometimes I leave a pile of dirty dishes and my mom gets mad. Shes the one that cleans the dishes. To be honest I have not washed dishes a dozen times in my lifetime. I probably did laundry only 20 times. The money I wasted from college was $30,000. They are losing my trust, but I am turning myself around. But am I considered spoiled? My sister on the other hand already passed college which parents paid fully and bought her a brand new car for $33,000.

Question: Am I being selfish and unreasonable?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 07:52 PM PDT

I want to swap bedrooms with my older sister because it is better located in the house. So, my parents wouldn't hear me playing online at night. We even tested the sound situation out, and proved it. I'm in high school. My older sister went away to college. She has not lived home for six years, and she has often made it very clear that she doesn't plan on living home again, referring to the idea as "a step back." She still stay by our parents house sometimes, but it has only been 3-4months total in last six years (a weekend here and there) that she has stayed. The girl even stays with friends when she is in town for a week or two. Now, she just went Arizona, and will be staying out there for about four years, after staying in North Carolina for the past two years, and LSU for the four before that. I'm still living at home. My room, close to my parents, is slightly bigger than hers and has two closets. Her room is slightly smaller, but three closets and is a a lot further away from my parents. They want to not hear me. I want to play games. Sister lives away. It's a win-win. They won't let me switch because my sister wants to keep her room and live anywhere but home. My parents respect her wish to retain her room, since she hasn't bought her own house or apartment, and think I should respect her wishes too. However, I'm of the opinion that my sister has given up her right to choose by moving out and not planning on moving back in. Who is right in this situation?

Question: Are unfavored children generally more vulnerable?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 07:39 PM PDT

I'm wondering if favouritism in families have serious impacts on children. The parents favor one child and ignore the other. Is there a higher risk of the unfavored child having depression, anxiety, social problems? Are they more likely to run away from home - and worse, lured by a pedophile (as they often target kids with low self-esteem)?

Question: My mom is always mad at me and somehow everything is my fault?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 07:31 PM PDT

Hi, I am 14 years old and once I attempted suicide. My mom is a single mom and is quite successful. My mom always finds a way to make me feel more and more insecure about myself, whether if it's at a nail salon telling me that the outfit I'm wearing is hideous (loudly in front of everyone), or calling me weak and retarded because I attempted suicide. Today, I was having a hard time breathing and asked for my inhaler. She recently called the pharmacy to refill my prescription since it was running out, but I assumed she had what was left of the inhaler (along with the box) with her. I asked her for it, and she started screaming as to how I misplaced it somewhere and, to be fair, I yelled and said "I gave it to you". She then proceeds to tell me how I'm just like my father (who's a failure of a parent if there ever was one), and that everyone's better than me and that I'll never be good enough. I love my mom and I'm beyond blessed, but I'm just tired of being sad.

Question: Was this fair of my dad to do?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 06:47 PM PDT

I am a 15 year old girl and I got caught on Saturday night sneaking in past curfew, which is 11. My dad threw a hissy fit and took away my iphone x and grounded me. I am still grounded and I have asked for my iphone x back but he won';t give it to me until I have earned it, which means I have to do chores around the house. I told him i won't be doing any chores until I get my phone back. All he said was "well I guess you'll never get it back". What should I do about this? Is my dad overreacting?

Question: Help! I'm confused. What does this mean?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 05:55 PM PDT

We broke up about a year ago because we were fighting and arguing and his tense family circumstances didn't help as his brother was diagnosed with kidney failure. During the fight he said i didn't know how to treat a man because my parents were divorced and i hadn't seen a loving relationship like his parents. I then went on to say that his mom had no voice in their household. He attacked back saying "at least she didn't come to church dressed in club attire, arms and legs showing" I then responded which I shouldn't have "your mom looked like she came from the stable, you never buy her new clothes." Fast forward two months I saw him staring at me in church so I texted him but he said he would never forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again because of what i said about his mom. I didn't respond. Every Sunday in church he'd keep staring at me but I gave him cold looks and avoided his looks. He started smiling and talked to me as I went down the stairs saying hi how are you. I saw him peek through a door crack as he walked past to see if i was still looking at him. The other Sunday, he walked past me and smiled and I smiled back and he winked at me. Recently I've been warm to him looking at him and smiling. I texted him the other day and this how the conversation went. I asked about his brother then he asked me about school and when I get acceptance letters. This was last Sunday, this sunday I was going down the stairs he was a bit behind I"m wondering why he didn't catch up to me and talk to me. Could he be too scared?

Question: My mother was racist when I was a kid but not now. What changed her?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 05:36 PM PDT

Question: My 18 year old sister booked a holiday home (three hours away) and is going there with a boy but is saying she’s going by herself.?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 05:18 PM PDT

My mother doesn't want my older sister to go anywhere because she's worried that somethings going to happen to her. My sister told my family that she book a place that's four hours away for herself. But I may have been creeping and saw her email that said she had book a totally different place for two people. I'm worried because she never goes out to meet him and I think it's this guy she's met at a night club who lives three hours away and she only talks to him online. I know she's an adult but my parents are very protective and they just want to know who she's going with but she keeps insisting that she's going alone. I just want to make sure she will be safe.

Question: Is there anyway to live off of 200 a month?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 05:11 PM PDT

I want to move out badly I can't stand living with my brothers who have anger issues, a sister who is lazy beyond reason and parents who don't enforce anything and let everything slide while putting all blame on us instead of actually doing anything. I can move out and I should have moved out years ago but never did because of no job and little money. I have been trying for almost a year to find another part time job but haven't heard anything back. My mom doesn't want me to move out unless I can afford my own house but that's not happening I'm not gonna wait my whole life away just to meet up with her expeditions of my life 😡I was going to move out with my bf in another town but he decided to save money by roomating with a friend (none of my friends live nearby anymore). My job only gives me 6-9 hours a week. I don't know when I'll ever find another job. How can I live off of a very low paycheck?

Question: Why do I cry so easily?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 04:43 PM PDT

One time my mother told me to fold cloth and put it away and I didn't it here weren't many space so I just put it every where and ,yes mom could find her cloth so she start yelling at me saying I did that purpose so she would have to tell me to do work and I keep telling her that not it there was no space but she yep yelling and when she went to take shower I just cried while cleaning, people yelling it just too much for me to handle

Question: How to tell you're parent you are streesed?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 04:17 PM PDT

I'm living with my aunt who always takes my things away if I forget something she says or tell her something. I'm forced to go to martial arts 3 days a week and I'm a boy scout while in school . I want to tell her I'm stressed because of everything that I'm doing but don't want her to feel bad. I would greatly appreciate it if someone help me out.

Question: Is my mom abusive?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 03:56 PM PDT

everytime I talk to people about my issues with my mom they conclude she's abusive and that I should move out whenever I have the opportunity. I will admit I do feel trapped living with her, it feels like a prison both mentally and physically. First of all we don't have the same values, im atheist shes muslim. Back in 2015 when i told her that she calmly said everything is gonna be alright and started to make me daily watch and read things about islam and meet with a religious leader weekly, i was young and tired of being forced to read for hours so i told her i was muslim again, me being the lazy person i am i realized at 14 years old things were easier if i just kept them hidden from her and started develop this pattern, i became secretive (without her knowing) because it was easier. Even when i hung out with friends (which was never boys cause she'd kill me if i hung out with boys) i would lie when i wasnt doing anything bad. Now of course at times id be tired of hiding and tell her what i really want but then she'd just angrily yell that im "being selfish" and "dont appreciate all the hard work (shes doing)" and she'd make me feel so guilty ill just go back to hiding things again. She also have future plans with me and my money ill be earning, and whenever i tell her what i want to we end up fighting. but i mean shes not a bad mom, i have clothes and food and place to live. And she can be very supportive and loving, but it just has to be for the right things.

Question: Why Significant other family still accepts his ex but I get cold shoulder.?

Posted: 24 Jul 2018 03:04 PM PDT

Significant other and I been together for 3 years, lately he has been talking marriage. Which family is important with getting along with to me. Well when it comes to his family I don't like the fact that I been getting the cold shoulder from them all three years without even doing anything wrong. Some of his family mainly sisters still hangs with ex from 10 years ago all the time and some family members even still calls her aunt or etc... I don't have a problem with who people hang with it just upsets me that I get cold shoulder like I done something wrong. Mind you she cheated on him and done him so dirty and they know it. Significant other notices their behavior to but never says anything. How would u handle situation??