It's been almost three months since he ended things with me. He didn't watch anything I posted for a while after we stopped talking, but for the past two months, he has literally watched everything I post. I don't want to be petty and block him. I'm just curious as to why he still cares what's going on in my life if he chose to end things with me. He's also 40 and I feel like that's a little too old for playing games (I'm in my late 20s). I'm just a little bothered by it.

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First sorry for my English,So we have 2 years with my bf and more than 1 leaving together, at first he was So nice but now we fight almost about everything. We are engaged and our weeding is in 1 month, everything is paid and we were going to church classes to have a church cermony- I have so many problems inside of me I was rapped by my cousin and my parents had so many problems. yesterday when he was sleeping I grab his phone and go into his google drive and I saw this ex(she been recently try to contact him) this texts that I saw were from 3 years ago but still I was shocked. She was married and he was treating her like a queen telling her to marry him and that he would adopt her child sending her poems and money, I also saw naked pics that she has seen to him well this was before but he gets mad every time I try to send him provocative pictures sometimes I feel rejected. I woke him up and I was crying I started to hit everything and myself too in the bathroom and he broke the door grab me and put me on the bed and he told me he was done with me to go home with my parents that he will cancel evrything and he took the ring , today I don't know what to do he just went work And told me to leave or he will call the police. we had everything for the weeding and Idk if I was wrong, I know I have my problems and I even told him I would take therapy Idk if I should give him time or just go away from his life and Idk either who was wrong. I take any advice I feel so depressed

I know this is more of poll question rather than one right answer type of question, but I am just curious. I am 19 and still a virgin. Yeah I feel pressured to lose my virginity but I can't really see myself losing it any time soon. I have met people as young as 9 and as old as 30 when they lost their virginity. So how old were you when you lost your virginity and do you regret it? Feel free to explain why and your experience, don't have to though.

How do you see this. We are all adults with husbands, wives, children, grandchildren, yet our mother still decides what is appropriate for us to spend for each and every occasion she sees fit. So, when Uncle George retires, she says "You each owe me such and such for your part for his gift"..the gift she chooses as well. Same with birthdays, funerals, and every other event. I feel that adults should be able to decide what, when and how much they want to spend or be involved in, and let each family decide on their own if they want to partake, not feel obligated to do so. She also doesn't consider what our spouses may think about it and many of them are not big gift givers within their own families. It's not so easy to just stop doing it. She wouldn't like it and nobody wants to cross her.

My boyfriend and I decided to mount a tv on the living room wall. It's my apartment, but I'm more than willing to make changes and improvements with his help. Now, the TV is mounted and we've TOTALLY rearranged the living room and there's stuff EVERYWHERE! This project resulted in me having to throw out some of my valued possessions and there's less room now to plug various appliances in. I love that my bf helped me redo the living room and make it "different" - and I can't go back now and say I'm unhappy with it - I thought it would look nice, but it's more of a hassle now. But the clean up and facing all the things I have to get rid of (photos, figurines, books) is giving me anxiety. I don't even want to be in my living room or LOOK at the task ahead. How can I get motivated to make my living room space decent again?

I moved in with her last year and we both agreed we'd split the bills when we got the place together and signed the lease. But she's hardly paid me any of the money from her half since we moved in and I don't know how to really talk to her about it because she likes to make excuses and she's my sister so I don't want to have a huge fight over it casue then I'll have to talk about it to my whole family and I want to avoid that. I said something awhile back about it and she finally gave me a little bit but then she never gave me anymore after that. Now that the lease is about up idk if I should make her leave or what to do. Honestly any advice would help

His wife and daughter died in a wreck 20 years ago. He still struggles with it everyday. To the point where he left one Friday and I did not hear from him for two days. He lied about where he was and what he was doing and after almost a week he finally told me the truth. It was Thier anniversary and he went to the spot he proposed and Thier grave and fished in between. I was so worried about him. I don't know if something bad had happened. He lied and said he was offshore fishing. I knew he was lying and I already thought it had something to do with them. When he finally came home after 5 days and the truth...I didn't complain. I was glad he came back and was ok. I listened and hugged him. It's been two weeks since he disappeared. I was mad because I didn't know where he was and if he was ok. I told him not to be ashamed and never forget them. Since then things have been rocky. He left again last night and didn't come back. Won't answer anyones calls or text.he keeps saying he wants to be here but I won't stop reminding him of his lie. Which reminds him of the whole weekend. What I'm trying to figure out is what am I suppose to do or say? Nothing? Just let him come and go as he pleases because of why? It does not seem fair to me to wonder where he is. And I don't think he should put me in that spot no matter where he is still going through. Am I wrong? I ask myself is he using this to go do whatever. I would hope not. But here I sit. Alone. Again.

Just wondering how it ended . I just keep thinking if I leave I go back to that feeling that if I got in a car accident no one would even know I was gone . Jane doe . He's emotional abusive even so much he got Me fired, threatens to kill me etc. why can't I just have one friend or family to get away from this

My bf mentioned he doesn't get that lovey feeling from me sometimes and I want to find new ways to express love to him. What are little things your gf/wife does that makes you feel loved and important? Small insignificant things and bigger things too

He broke my heart and broke up over text. Knowing i was ready to settle down and what I wanted and he kept telling me he wants a family etc right until he broke up. Then tried to get me back a month later and saying he realised this and that and wants to give me what I deserve and be that man. I wanted him to prove himself before I consider it. But he went back to his old ways again and hurt me and then took it all back and threw me away. And acts as if he hasn't done anything wrong and pin it on me as if this is what I want? All day and night I think of him, what I eat and drink I think of him, what I wear, wherever I go I think of him, I cry every night and morning. Wishing and waiting for him to come back to me as the person he knows I want and deserve. But he throws me away as I'm not important or didn't mean anything to him. Like I'm not enough for him. Yet keep pulling at my heartstrings Cus he knows what I want and feel. Please someone give me advice or talk me through this please. :( :(

what to do my mom washed the pans and everything in the kitchen with steel wool and now everything sticks and burns underneath. but I try too much so it doesn't burn but still sticks . and I can use oil my dad doesn't let me .also if I add oil it doesn't help. and my brother says Teflon give you cancer. so what to do eat food burnt from underneath or add Teflon to them? what do I do? I told my mom she said very well that I washed away the Teflon (none stick) it gives you cancer. also, they say if food burns it will give you cancer. and if I use other than oil my dad will annoy me and also no lubricant help without Teflon. also if I use high heat it will smell bad burn food horribly this time. also if I use and not burn it will stick and my mom says hay I washed that stuck food like she is proud.here is the picture of that **** she uses to ruin them pans and everything. WARNING. IN OTHER CATEGORIES I GET NO ANSWER. SO I HAVE NO WAY OTHER THAN PUTTING IT IN WRONG CATEGORY. **** YAHOO ANSWER WICH GIVES NO ANSWERS. if I use oil or any other thing they will annoy me don't say that. if I use butter he will literally kill me. they absolutely hate butter. they say you get fat and things one time my dad boiled onion with beans because my brother told not fry onion. the ******* smell was making me throw up so I dumped it .my father was even mad why I dumped it.

my mom has pretty much been emotional and physically abusive my whole life. our relationship has always been bad but i feel like it's gotten worse since i've been cooking and also since i started dating my boyfriend. my mother is the type of person that is never happy. She complains about my brothers ordering pizza everyday but when i cook she complains. complain complain complain. no matter how much i do or how i try to better myself it's always a complaint. she complains about me seasoning my food but doesn't mind going to burger king, mcdonalds, kfc on a rotating basis. i told her " you do realize that those places you go to are wayyyyy unhealthier than what i'm cooking right and i can control the seasoning i want in my food". her logic is consistently flawed. she says stuff like " if you put seasoning on your foot they gonna have to cut off your foot" and i was like " well i guess yours is getting cut off from eating burger king everyday and also drinking sodas everyday." since i've learned how to cook i never eat out anymore. I spent $125 on groceries because fruits, vegetables, and meats, and grains are so expensive. i also drink tons of water and make green smoothies. i also notice she will drink my stuff without even caring to ask and like i said my groceries are expensive. if she asks i would buy her a drink or give her one of mines.She doesn't buy groceries for the house hold, it's just me and my dad. If it was up to her the fridge would always be empty. she hasn't cooked for the household in about 10 years. My dad was on the phone was his friend and was telling him that he was embarrassed because his wife never cooks for him. I'm always cooking meals for my dad. I don't blame him for not having the energy to cook after working 16 hours a day. my mom has much more down time than him but she doesn't. She's obsessed with cleaning but won't cook i don't get it she always tells me how she can't wait for me to move out becase i dirty up the house and kitchen. i work full time and then manage to come home and cook AND spend hours cleaning for her to still be full of complaints. if the kitchen is not 100% spotless and immaculate she freaks out. it's like she doesn't appreciate all of the hard work i put in if she sees ONE thing out of place she goes crazy about how im a dirty person like i said cooking is my passion and i LOVE cooking everyday so i have acquired lots of seasoning, herbs, spices, special asian tools and ethnic things. I have a wok, blender, a grill, rice cooker,pancake maker,tons of different spatulas and lots of cook books that i have aquired over the years to make the BEST tasting food. she is forcing me to cram everything in one cabinet even though she knows it won't fit. she won't let me put my stuff in any other cabinets. she was like " youre taking over MY kitchen. you're taking up too much space. this is MY house. i'll drink up any juice that's in the fridge i don't care if you bought it with your own money. you get a little money and think you're all that.." then she said i was sneaky because i be watching her carefully to make sure my food and drinks aren't eaten up. i cannot afford to keep buying this stuff, i'm trying to save to move out that's why i get irritated when my stuff is eaten or drinken" she literally pushed me because i asked her to please stop drinking and eating all of my stuff. every time i'm in the kitchen cooking she looks at me with so much hatred and just looks miserable. listen, it's not my fault she doesn't wanna cook. i''m not stopping her from cooking. but her behavior has gotten out of hand. and she goes around saying i'm sneaky like you say to a 15 year old. i'm 26 years old, recently got my bachelors degree. I could move out now with my boyfriend but my mother said she won't allow it, she said it's against the bible so i'm trying to save up so i can afford to move out alone. my mom told me it's going to be worse when i move in with my boyfriend. i told my aunt about her and my aunt was like " that's what all manipulative and controlling people say to keep you under their control.i love my sister but she has issues" also she lost her mind when i spent ONE night with my boyfriend in pensacaola for my birthday but didn't care when my brother spent a whole week with his girlfriend in orlando and he is about 4 years younger than me. She lost her mind and was calling me fifty thousand times from various numbers. She went off on my boyfriend and called me a wh**

I've known this group for 11 years. Both me and my fiance have tried talking to this girl multiple times throughout. If it's not interesting topics, like celeb stuff, she walks away. Her & her future husband are normally use to being the leader of the group. Since we've moved 5 yrs ago, the group hasn't talked as they normally would have...except ever since the couple took this seminar. They've only been talking to all us again because of the program, despite my prior attempts to reach out. She recently told my fiance how lazy he was and how he needs this $3K+ program because , and her words, "[your] clearly not enough motivation for him." I know I can't get mad because this is coming from a girl who has cheated on her spouse and obviously needs this program. They canceled their wedding a month b4 but still went on their honeymoon & their bachelorette/bachelor parties (wasn't invited or told). For her engagement party, I flew in without a "Hi", "Thanks" or "How've you been?" the whole night. We celebrated the Holidays after our engagement & wanted to celebrate with friends by giving them hand-made gifts while they locked themselves in 2 rooms among 33 people just to do blow. She made out with 2 guys, only admitting it when she was going to get upset that he had a stripper's number in his phone; That doesn't include the 3rd guy when he was studying abroad. She told me my job as a woman was to convince the man to do what is necessary & I'd be the reason for his regret.