I loaned some of my wedding savings to my brother. He was unemployed and he needed money for rent. My girlfriend found out and she's extremely mad. I couldn't leave my brother in the streets. I had to do something.

I am 13 my girlfriend is 12 and I want to propose to her. My parent don't want me to and won't give me money for a ring. I'm a responsible kid who gets straight A's and the captain of the swim team. We don't have to get married right away we can wait till graduation. Why aren't my parents happy for me

Long story short, My bf and I have been having this talk since October 2017. I want somewhat a big party because I mean, I am getting married. It's a journey with your soulmate and I want to share that special day with ppl that are close to me. He wants a small gathering with only family members. However, I want a few co-workers and a few friends that have been there for me. He has friends and most of his family is in Mexico and I can understand that probably they'll be more ppl on my side than his side. I cut my guest list short to somewhat please him but that didn't work for him. He has that idea of having a simple wedding but I don't want something small. Can someone please advise me on how to handle this situation?