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Question: Saw my sister masturbaiting Is it ok? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 01:17 PM PDT So last night I came home from my friends birthday, my parents were gone so feeling tired I just went to get dressed for the night ( my sister and I share a room there's two beds in the room) and so I open the door and I see my sister ( who is 2 years older than me, 21) naked humping the bed, when she sees me I was embarrassed so I turned to leave but she told me to stay saying " it helps me get there better, shut the door little brother it's ok" so I shut the door and sat down and watched her hump the bed she started moaning my name while she did it, so I'm wondering is it ok to do this with her after all I mean her and I are family and also has anyone else had any similar experiences? |
Question: My 12th day without a cigarette? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 12:43 PM PDT Me and my sister's friend got into an argument, and he tried to threaten me from across the table.. I told him... Trust me on this, you don;t want to try this.. This is my 12th day without smoking. Then he asked me what the significance of that is... And I answered back.. Because you know how Asperger Syndrome affects my physically... makes me a hell of lot stronger because of something involving my intake and use of oxygen.. You heard it from me, you heard it from your friend, my sister here.. and you heard it from my other sister, and you heard it from my nephew.. and as I said... this is my 12th day without smoking... And you're going to get hurt. Then he threatened to call the cops, telling me that I'm threatening him. :P |
Question: Aggravated at my little sister cause she gets anything she wants? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 12:19 PM PDT So aggravated I know I shouldn't be but she literally gets everything she wants. Gets to dress how she wants and wear tons of makeup as a freshman in high school when I couldn't even wear shorts that didn't go down to my knees. What do I do to get rid this resentment I have towards her and my mom for letting her get anything she wants. |
Question: Is it wrong to block family members (or friends of family) on social media? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 11:56 AM PDT I am over the age of 18 and I am friends with my mother and most relatives of my mother's side on facebook. Time and time again I will get spam from them on my feed (I know there are features to stop this, but it still happens) from them and other annoying things. What irks me most of all is that almost every week I will get a text or comment from my mom or one of her relatives regarding something I am posting, and they will try to get me to take it down for no reason. It has gotten to the point where it has become annoying that I am an adult whom is at the age of consent in the USA (18+)...and yet I have my relatives clogging my feed and telling me to take posts down that they think are "not adult enough". The lowest blow from all of this is when my mom and her relatives got mad that I came out as agnostic and bisexual during national coming out day. They wanted me to take those posts down and I told them to leave me alone or I would block them...but they are threatening me with bullshit things. What should I do? |
Question: My mom won't clean after herself. How do I help an anxious hoarder? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 11:52 AM PDT I have lived in filfth for most of my life. What I mean is I couldn't eat without having to wave flies away. Sometimes they'd get in my food or drink and id have to go throw it away. Trash piles up. Dirty dishes with food pile up and it smells horrible. No one cleaned the kitty litter ever so the cats took to using the bathroom in the basement. Floors are sticky and dirty. Laundry is rarely done. And junk and trash is piles in almost every room. I could never have guests growing up. When I was younger it was overwhelming. Now that I'm older. Its much better because I clean up after her. But the reason I am asking this question now is because I just got surgery. I cannot lift heavy things or bend or stretch for at least three weeks. Its only been four days and already the house is going to **** because no one is helping me. My mom left food out two nights ago and because I was in bed and didn't see it. Flies multiplied and have even traveled to my room. I literally can't do anything to stop this or fix it. And my mom doesnt help. I don't know why she is the way she is. My grandma was always a very clean person. Whenever I bring up this issue she gets mad at me. I think my mom gets overwhelmed and anxious too but she doesnt do anything about it. I need help and advice. I can't clean for her right now as I need to recover for three weeks. But I can't stand it here and I dont have enough money to leave. I'm still in school. How do I get my mom to change? |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018 11:01 AM PDT My dad is 52. He's being infatuated of his coworker,let's call her Kate. They do trips together and vacations together and she's honestly just a bitc* if you ask me. She goes out to him only because he's got plenty of money as he's an US attorney. She likes the pride of his job,she likes his status,she likes his money. He seems to be blinded by it. I care about him so when I told him that she's just being an opportunist he got mad at me. How can I get him to come to his senses? Hell, he even ditched his job one morning to go with the park with her. A 52 years old man. It sucks as I care about him but that bitc* just makes me what to go to her car and smash her window with a rock or something. What shall I say to my dad? I really want that whor* out of our lives danxp2 ·: I actually do have proves she doesn't care about him but cares about his money, meaning that if he doesn' t take her to a nice and expensive restaurant she won't go with him,I've never seen or heard about her doing him any favors. Plus she would NEVER EVER get out of her office earlier to do something with him and that's it. They've been going out for 10 years but they're not a couple. he sees other men and goes out with them too. God I hate that ***** |
Question: How to deal with someone who is planning suicide? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 10:00 AM PDT Hi, recently my brother is threatening he will kill himself, made a plan and doesn t care about our thoughts or feelings.He was very cold with all the members of the family as long as I can remember, recently I tried to talk to him he said I don t love you nor I care about you.He is very aggressive, complains all the time, negative, doesn t want a job or to work.What he wants is a lot of money ,which we can t give to him.He refuses to get help, threatens all the time if we try to do something. |
Question: Parental rights stuff? 18+? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 09:49 AM PDT I live in the state of Ohio, 19 years old & I just need advice. My parents pay for everything & because of that I understand they have the rights & I live in their house. I'm going to college & they're paying for it. I know you'll think, "Why can't you get a job to pay for it yourself?" Well, one problem is that it's their money being put into my card & they banned me from getting a job because they want to continue to control what I do by using their money. They won't let me get a job. If I do my own thing they'll hit me or take away my phone. I understand the phone part because they're paying for that too. My bf suggested to buy a new phone which i'll do when i start college in a few weeks. I just wish my parents weren't as controlling & trust me I'd do anything to have a job so I can have what i want, do what i want, & I'd be willing to pay for it all. But they won't let me & I got smacked hard when I tried to apply earlier this summer. I'm planning to get a job or internship but my parents also banned my bf from even visiting me because they want me to date "thousands of bfs." They said if they'd ever find out I'd be screwed over because they'll refund the money paid for college & will make sure I don't use my credit card to pay myself or get a job. I personally don't know what to do. |
Question: Which basement apartment should I choose? Based on these features...? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 08:25 AM PDT 900$::: 2 rooms. 1 nice bath. -Close to town, bike lanes to town and trolley. Kitchen. Nice stove, and fridge. Utilities included, not internet or cable. All home utilities (water heater, breaker box, furnace/ac unit with filter, sub pump, radon mitigation unit) -No separating entrance from upstairs (just open door, walk down stairs) -Not as well insulated (some noise upstairs) -Small windows, limited sunlight -large closets, and extra storage space -No washer/dryer (can @girlfriends) $1000 -One bedroom, One bath (a little nicer) -Tile, easy to clean -Washer/Dryer/Dishwasher -Top of line everything, including fridge -Clean -Regular windows, plenty of sunlight, in country -Taller ceilings, very well insulated, no noise issues, and a door that separates apartment from rest of house with lock. -Fireplace -Not as much storage space, but can store tools, ladder, and mower under deck, in my bin -Free cable, Utilities, and supplemental heat throughout. -100$ more, and 11 minutes from town. This is kind of my pros and cons list and I know it's my decision, but I just can't decide right now. I like the idea of being close to town, but the other place is so nice out in the country, and 3x nicer and 100$ more. What do I do??!? Close to town, easy access, or a little further off, for the niceness. I get 30mpg so....? Help me decide |
Question: What should I do pregnant prostitute? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 06:59 AM PDT I was 15 homeless foster child and I slept with many many men just to lay my head my daughter is 11 years old now and she wants answers what do I say to her I usually tell her a fake name but now she really wants more details and im scarred to tell her the truth |
Question: Really annoyed with my new nanny family? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 06:44 AM PDT They're nice for the most part, but their overly casual, laid back attitude is really starting to piss me off when it comes to paying me on time. They pay me through Venmo, and this is the second week I've worked for them and my paycheck is late yet again. I even texted the dad last night at 9 pm and sent him my hours for this week!! It's almost 10am and I haven't heard a word . The original agreement was Friday. Not only that, I even let her friends kid come over and she offered to pay me an additional fee to watch her child, asked for my Venmo and never paid me either! What should I do? I'm extremely resentful now. |
Question: Please help me !!!!! I have a little cousin sister she is of 8years and I am 18? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 05:18 AM PDT she is very irritating and misbehaving. I don't even want to talk to her but she keeps nudging me and hover around.... whenever I talk to someone on call she doubts me as if she is my mom (my parents are very open minded) she tries to hear my conversation....... One day, she heard me talking about periods and pads(of course I didn't know that she secretly heard that) and she kept repeating those words in the house and when my grandma asked her that who taught you these words she pointed out to me. Do not respect me at all neither she respects my mom and dad which is quite insulting to me but as she is young I AM NOT ALLOWED TO SCOLD HER OR TO SLAP HER....She calls me as WITCH(CHUDIAL) AND OTHER DEROGATORY WORDS......as a don't live in joint family so we go to my grandma's house for 7days..since starting I am a very furious and angry child I can't tolerate lies and fraud people and my self-respect is very high.....but I couldn't deal with this kind of misbehave everyone in the house forgives her just because she is small......my father even stops me from slapping her because of which I get into a serious fight with everyone in family. everyone thinks that at 25 I m still immature......I am very depressed because of this I can't hold my emotions now I will be out of mind or mentally Ill. Please help me!!!! |
Posted: 28 Jul 2018 05:17 AM PDT He even excludes me sometimes cause he is embarrassed of me I guess. I come from his first marriage, his other three kids from his second. Like his grandson's high school graduation he had everyone but my son and I. |
Posted: 28 Jul 2018 04:42 AM PDT He was a woman named Lisa when he met my Mom and became George. I am frightened and I don't know why. I am 17, a rising high school senior, and I learned this. I thought my aunt, his sister, was telling me just to stir up a lie but then I confirmed it with my friend whose parents have always known my parents. My Dad and aunt are estranged cause she drinks but I occasionally see her, now I don't want to anymore. She told me and then my cousin confirmed. I also looked on-line and found an ancestry.com record where he is Lisa (last name). It is an unusual last name so I don't want to type it on here or I might get caught. I feel like I have been lied to. They were honest that I was adopted but yet lied about this. I probably wouldn't have minded if I had always known that he was a she and she is a he. My mother though has always been a she, at least that is what my aunt says. She says Lisa was miserable and seems happier as George. She was getting him/her back for staging an intervention on her for being an alcoholic and helping her ex get the two kids full time. |
Question: Is smoking weed bad for you? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 02:04 AM PDT I love weed and the effects it does for me but I have one uncertainty about it. So I live in a state that has weed legalized since 2018. I love how it improves my performances and efforts with a lot of things. But here's what I can't seem to shake out of my head: 5 years ago my dad said he use to do weed, but he stopped because it makes him stupid. 1 year ago my older cousin (he's 53) said he use to do weed but he stopped because he also said it makes him stupid. I wonder why did they say that? Does weed really make the person stupid when their high, or when they're "super high"? Or were they trying to lie to me and convince me not to do it while I was a highschooler at the time? |
Question: How do I log out of other devices I'm not close to? Posted: 28 Jul 2018 02:04 AM PDT I've recently discovered that someone else is using my YouTube account, and I know who that someone is. That someone is my uncle, who lives at my grandma's house. Now, they do live close, but not close enough to warrant a surprise visit just to log out of my account. Also, my uncle is n alcoholic, and hates things not going his way, so I can't just log out, or he'll get upset. So, is there any way to log out of said account remotely, without having to deal with my alcoholic uncle? |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018 01:12 AM PDT my parents went out to get food from the bar and they both came home drunk which I know they were because they acted weird when they don't on a daily basis. they kept saying ****. btw I'm 16 and I don't know why but this situation bothers me a lot |
Posted: 28 Jul 2018 12:08 AM PDT this is something really huge for me and i can t get rid of the thought of my family ( which was the only thing i would ever imagine to fall apart ) is falling apart , TBH my biggest worry is my little sister ( 14yo) ..what Will happen to her if the family falls apart i found out about this few weeks ago , i suspected my mom s chatting with someone more than ever ! before this she barely uses her phone but now she is just chatting and stuff .. so i found a way into her Instagram account ( im not proud of this ) where she uses direct for chatting and i started reading her conversations and after a few days i found out she cheated on my dad with his best friend kinda for decades! this man is our family friend and we hang out with him every bloody week end and used to hang out for as long as i remember , he is divorced and has a son .. my mom cheating with him was the last thing that would come to my mind based on the comments she always gives about him and the attitude she has towards him .. but here we are .. i know my father doesn t have a single clue about this and would be super furious if he finds out .. ( he is kinda against the fact that we hang out with his friends ( not only the referred friend ) all the time and he thinks its a lot ..and he was right i guess..) so what should i do .. should i talk with my mom ? should talk my father s friend or my dad ? or should i just ignore and let it go and see what will happen? someone please help ,this thing is killing me .. |
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Question: Have you felt like this please answer? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 10:35 PM PDT Ok so I have been trapped in my house all week because i'm Highly contagious and so tonight I just went crazy because i'm tired of being trapped in this house. I just wanted to leave my house and never look back. Have you ever felt this way? And i've gone to therapists over the years but they haven't helped me |
Question: Is it okay since we're brother and sister? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 10:11 PM PDT When I was a kid I was 11 I was in the pool with my sister who was 17 and we were showing pool or underwater moves something like that and when i was doing it to her I kept touching her butt I wasn't being sexual I just was touching it and she didn't say anything about it. is it okay since we're brother and sister? is it normal for us? |
Question: How can I get the right to see my son, if he and his mother are living in the uk? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 10:02 PM PDT About 5 years ago during my last year at college my girlfriend who was a foreign student from England, started dating and sure enough she got pregnant, and I planed on marrying her and starting a new life with her since we were both going to graduate soon, and I already had a job over at an engineering firm. Things when south with her though, since she wanted us to move back to Birmingham so she could be with her family, we couldn't work things out and she graduated, and left me and took my child with her. It's unfair since in 5 years I've never gotten to meet my son, she's barely been gracious in letting my skype with my kid, plus I make more money then her and he'd be far better off living her in America with me. I can more than afford to fly out and be with my son, and she can afford to fly out here too. How can I fight the British court system if I'm in the UK. She straight out lied and told everyone that I got up and left her. |
Question: Living with my mom makes me miserable, i dont know what to do.? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 09:59 PM PDT Recently my parents went through court to gain custody of my siblings and I. It was ruled that my mom would take us. A little bit ago my mom and her boyfriend got in a fight (one of many that caused us to lose our house multiple times in the past few years) so I decided to stick up for myself after he got in my face and started to yell at me. They both agreed to break up but live together until they both had enough money to go their seperate ways. Its been a couple weeks and they are back to calling eachother "babe" and acting like nothing happened. Ive told to my mom many times that i did not like him bc he purposely made us lose our house(s), doing drugs, and him talking bad about my real father. My mom has told me that i was in the wrong for sticking up for myself and that i should apologise for being a "spoiled brat". I do not ask anything of my mom and her boyfriend, except to stay at one school, and a ride when i cant ride the bus My boyfriend is one of my best friends whos been there to support me through all of my issues. I can talk to him freely and unlike my mom he wont tell me i need to be like someone else bc im "falling behind" or am a "failure in the making". But now she isnt allowing that I see him bc she sometimes has to pick me up when his parents cant drive me. My mon was the one who prevented me from driving by refusing to give me my legal documents and now tells me I am a coward. I love my mom but since court she has made me feel more pathetic of a person |
Question: What is the better deal? Help i can't decide? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 09:44 PM PDT Basement apartments: 900$::: 2 rooms. 1 nice bath. -Close to town, bike lanes to town and trolley. Kitchen. Nice stove, and fridge. Utilities included, not internet or cable. All home utilities (water heater, breaker box, furnace/ac unit with filter, sub pump, radon mitigation unit) -No separating entrance from upstairs (just open door, walk down stairs) -Not as well insulated (some noise upstairs) -Small windows, limited sunlight -large closets, and extra storage space -No washer/dryer (can @girlfriends) $1000 -One bedroom, One bath (a little nicer) -Tile, easy to clean -Washer/Dryer/Dishwasher -Top of line everything, including fridge -Clean -Regular windows, plenty of sunlight, in country -Taller ceilings, very well insulated, no noise issues, and a door that separates apartment from rest of house with lock. -Fireplace -Not as much storage space, but can store tools, ladder, and mower under deck, in my bin -Free cable, Utilities, and supplemental heat throughout. -100$ more, and 11 minutes from town. This is kind of my pros and cons list and I know it's my decision, but I just can't decide right now. I like the idea of being close to town, but the other place is so nice out in the country, and 3x nicer and 100$ more. What do I do??!? Close to town, easy access, or a little further off, for the niceness. I get 30mpg so....? Help me decide |
Posted: 27 Jul 2018 09:21 PM PDT They work at the same place, well she's on an internship and he's one of the top people in HR. He's 55, she's 20! How goes that even work? She's a hot blonde btw. He's been talking about retiring at 60 because of health issues. He's got quite a few....diabetes, high blood pressure, prostate bph, diverticulitis and passed his 5th kidney stone. How does having a baby at his age, help his cause? Someone told me it might make him rethink his health and want to live longer to be a dad and raise a kid again. |
Question: Parents fighting now? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 09:00 PM PDT my parents are fighting right now, they have been, never tried to hide it, for many many years and are saying horrible thing i never want to hear. they fought with my older sister today and she is anorexic and she said she said she wanted to kill herself. my dad thinks it's a joke and my mom doesnt go easy on her. she cuts herself when these things happen.here's some stuff my dad has been saying "****** snake" he has been repeating right now "backstabbing snake" "drop dead, you ******* hear" "nonloving **** face...**** you" he just slammed the door shut and started banging on it. i think he has a mental problem and refuses to get help he threatens my sister saying she's going to bbash her face in when she gives him the finger. he blames us and says that my mom turned us against him when honestly i cant deal with any of them right ow. i want to sleep it's nevermind my sister is telling em to call the cops. my dad is insane really please i can't take this anymore he wont stop yelling and complaining i just want so sleep. why is my life so difficult. if i go downstairs with my mom she is telling em to now he will say she is trying to turn us s against hima nd fight more. what do i do i want it all to end |
Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:38 PM PDT She is 22 with the maturity of a little kid. By she I mean my toxic sister. |
Question: My father is an alcoholic. How do I get him to seek treatment? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:37 PM PDT |
Question: My family is going to make me kill myself help? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:30 PM PDT Im not a kid crying for help I'm actually 28. Here's the story, my grandmother died in April. All of her four grandkids were beneficiaries on her will. But instead of the money going straight to me at all one time my grandma wanted my uncle to give me certain amount each month so i don't spend it 2 quickly. To get to the messed up part... My uncle and aunt flew down to nc today from Florida to meet w me and my sister about the money. We were both told by our aunt that the money would prob be ready in august. But today he said these words " the money is not here yet Buut it SHOULD b hear by the end of the year!" So why did he fly down here to say that? On fop of this deciet, my aunt had told me that my uncle had a car he wanted to sale to me a prius. I asked him today about his prius and if he still wanted to "sale it". He responded "that's my baby I love it and drive it so much " he looked at me like i was crazy asking how much for his car. My aunt just sat there shifting in her seat and blushed w tears in her eyes... What are theu doing this for and why? Why lead me on and tease me? Legally I deserve my money. Mainly why sl cruel? Help this makes me so sad |
Question: Have you ever felt like this? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:27 PM PDT Have you ever felt like you wanted to leave from your house and never look back? This is how i've felt tonight. I've felt this way a lot of other times before too. I have been trapped in my house for almost a week because i've been highly contagious with hand, foot, mouth disease and tonight I went crazy. I just didn't want to be here anymore. I just wanted to disappear and I got so angry tonight. Is this bad? And going to a therapist about this won't help because they don't help me |
Question: Is this okay for brother and sister? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:16 PM PDT When I was a kid I was 11 I was in the pool with my sister who was 17 we were showing some pool or underwater moves something like that I'm not sure and when I was doing it to her I kept touching her butt I wasn't being sexual I just was touching it. is it okay since we're brother and sister? are brothers and sisters supposed to be that close? |
Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:13 PM PDT When young, my child innocence kept me from my father's true nature. As I grew, I started to notice how my father isolated himself, didn't care about being with us, was always in his world, money his focus. My mother began to break, their arguments more frequent. He drinks, lies to our faces, even left on secret vacations. He never takes responsibility for his actions. He's emotionally abused my mom more than I can count, then denies it. He's physically hurt her too; he denies it. He blames her for not having a relationship with us. She's his scapegoat. He doesn't care about the consequences of his actions. He's always been a conformist, pretender, and porn addict. I resent my father, wish he didn't exist so my mom could be happy. Talking about things with him in "family discussions" only makes things worse. It's gotten to where I feel I hate him. I can't think about him without getting enraged. This constant anger has made me think very lowly of myself. He matters so little to me that I can't imagine myself being sad at his funeral. I don't remember the last time I told him "I love you." If I said it, I'd be lying. I need help on how to forgive him. I hate what he's done, will continue to do. People like him don't change. If you're religious, could you give me insight? I know that it will take a very long time to get to forgiveness, but I want to try. If you're not religious, how do you forgive? With what he's done, forgetting is never going to happen. Thank you. |
Question: I hate myself? Help? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 08:10 PM PDT I'm so fat and ugly with so much acne because of my pcos and I have diabetes because of it . And I'm always getting bullied and cutting myself and always in mental hospitals my life sucks and my family isn't the family a kid wishes for my mom dosent even come see me she left when I was 4 i have no women figure in my life only my dad and he's always working so I stay isolated at home so no one can catch a glimpse of me and feel bad for there eyes. I really hate being isolated I wish I was like other kids |
Question: I'm being forced to move in with my dad? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:57 PM PDT Recently my whole family (my mom, me, my brother, and my stepdad) was talking about moving to a new house since our current one has problems, we found one that was fairly close to where we already live and it looked like a great place. I was excited. Today, my mom came into my room and told me we were switching up the plans a little. She got a job offer in another state and she is planning to take it, it will only be for three months but during that time my brother and I will be moving in with my dad, in ANOTHER state. My mom will stay in the state her job is in, and my stepdad will stay at our house to get ready to sell it so we can move into the other house we were looking at. My problem with this is school is about to start, meaning I will have to go to school there and then come back here three months later and start it again. This also means I will have limited privacy since I don't have my own room or anything. All my stuff will be back here and I won't be able to do any of my normal activities. I love it where I live, plus my best friends live here. She didn't tell me anything while she was planning it all, just that we were doing it and my brother and I were leaving on Monday. Is it selfish for me to try to explain to her why I don't want to leave? What should I do? |
Question: Can you reverse human gene inheritants back to how they were ? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:56 PM PDT i look so much like my dad now ever since i was like 13 i miss looking like my mom and want that back (if it's possible) maybe in the future ? will i be able to get those looks back naturally maybe like 10 years from now or even now that would be even better |
Question: Family abusing me help? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:51 PM PDT So my GMA died in april and i was a beneficiary and she requested that my uncle be in control of my money so i wouldn't blow it. My Aunt said that she knew it would be august when i was getting my inheritance. Well I had a meeting w my uncle today (he flew down from florida to talk to me about her will.) He said that he "THouGHT the money would be here at the END OF THE YEAR! Hmm okay. Another fun fact is that my aunt has been telling me that my uncle has a prius car that he wants to sale to me.. I ask him about it today and he said "yep that's my baby." He had no intention on as long me this car he looked at me like i was crazy when i asked him about it. I glanced at my aunt and she starts shifting around in her chair and blushes. Why would she tell me i had a car waiting for me and why did she say she knew the money was in august. I feel like i am being spammed but i do not understand why she has led me on i am in serious depression over this money. Help what steps to take to make sure i get the amount I need? Why |
Question: Is it possible to have no maternal desire? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:50 PM PDT I've never once felt the desire to start a family. I've pondered wanting children, but never personally desired it from my heart. I would rather have a fur baby than a human baby. I just don't care for kids all that much, to be honest. I mean they are cute I guess, but I feel like I fake liking kids in fear of what people will think. I can't fake one thing, though. I'm inept. Not even kidding. I don't know what to do with the little sh*ts! Not trying to sound heartless just saying it like it is. Was I just born without maternal desire and instincts? Or what? |
Question: How can I spend time with my dad without spending too much money? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:28 PM PDT So every other weekend I stay at my dad's house for 3 days until I go back to my mom's house. His place is a small apartment with 2 rooms, a kitchen and a bathroom. My dad doesn't have a lot of money because he's under disability due to his kidney illness and can barely work. So without money, there's nothing we can do TOGETHER except watch TV and talk sometimes. So now that you understand my situation, I was wondering if there's ANYWAY for us to spend time together besides watching TV and without spending money (well at the very least, not TOO MUCH money). |
Question: How do I get my Dad interested in having a relationship with me.? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:15 PM PDT He abandoned the family when I was 8 and I have only seen him three times since. I am 16 now. |
Question: Should you ever try to convince someone of something? Or is that wrong? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 07:07 PM PDT I have tried to be very supportive of a family member's dream to live at a place that was in his family for years and that did not get passed to him, but to another sibling who wants nothing to do with it except to rent it out. I have given up a lot of great work for this dream, a lot of time, a lot of health, and more. We could be putting all this into a place we could actually OWN that is closer to where he works, but he is deaf to this now, because he "might" get the chance to live in this broken house and pay a lot of money to someone who abused him as a kid. I mean come on. Can we just cut our ties or what are we supposed to be doing. he thinks God wants him to be there right now. He thinks that about a lot of stuff though, and doesn't actually lead us into anything but more debt. Should I keep being supportive, or start to consider I might be enabling? Or am I just tired and need to be still and see how things go. Ideas. The person he is dealing with promised to let him buy it with a land contract, then texted, "Would you rather rent?" It's been a lot of things like this for a long time, and it sickened me how each family member fought over it in the first place when anyone can just go buy their own land and start a business! |
Question: Is it illegal for a teenage girl to share a bed with her dad? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 06:04 PM PDT My boyfriend s roommate has a 13 yr old daughter who shares his room and sleeps in his bed with him, she is not offered her own bed at all. She is also homeschooled via internet but does not complete her coursework so she is behind. She does not have any social outlets with anyone her age and rarely leaves the room she shares with her dad. I dont think anything sexual is going on but I think the situation is highly inappropriate and I dont think its healthy to keep her isolated like that. Is there any legal obligation to offer her her own room or bed? |
Question: How can a frustrated parent deal with her 11 year old daughter’s desire to be popular? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 05:52 PM PDT The "popular kids" are apparently children who wear revealing clothes and hang out with older crowds. Whenever I ask why she wants to buy something, for example, she responds that "everyone" has it. I stopped looking forward to shopping because she wants sexualized, inappropriate clothes - and since I put my foot down and say "Absolutely Not!", there will be crying and arguments. These girls whom she wants to fit in with aren't the best influence. My daughter tells me that they have unsupervised social media accounts (she is not allowed). They are hanging out with strange 18 year old girls who are exposing them to adult material. As a parent, it's my job to keep my kids safe. But as my daughter starts middle school in a few weeks and desperately wants to fit in, what can I do? |
Question: Is this okay for brother and sister? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 05:37 PM PDT When I was a kid I was 11 and my sister and I were in the pool she was 17 we were showing pool or underwater moves something like that I'm not sure and when I was doing it to her I kept touching her butt I wasn't being sexual I just was touching and she didn't' say anything about it. is it okay since we're brother and sister? is it normal for us? |
Posted: 27 Jul 2018 04:35 PM PDT She is a mean and narcissistic lady. By she I mean my Mom's estranged sister. We call her "the enemy". |
Question: How does it feel to be the oldest child? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 03:24 PM PDT I'm the oldest of three girls and I want to know how others feel. Do you ever feel pressured or anxious about the future because you don't have anyone close to learn from? I love being the oldest but it has its cons too. Let me know what you feel and if I can relate. :) |
Question: Does this make me a sick son? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 02:31 PM PDT I am a high school guy who has a step mother that is just 6 years older than me. She is a world class beautiful woman with a figure to die for. Dad must like trophy wives. She is the greatest mom any guy can have. I adore her and want to help her any way I can. She recently had surgery and her right hand is in a cast. Now when she get dressed to go to work in the morning, she ask me to put her bra on her as she can not do that for herself with her hand in a cast. I always help her put her bra on but I am ashamed to admit it but I get a b0ner ever time I do this. I always try to hide it from her as it is so embarrassing. Does this make me a very sick son? Any hints on how I can not get a b0ner in this situation? |
Question: How to gain ultimate vengeance? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 02:24 PM PDT My dad told me a lie. I need to avenge myself from the chains of that liars ***. What's the easiest way I can beat him? Thx. |
Question: I hate my father. Is this okay since he is a bad man and hurtful to others? Posted: 27 Jul 2018 01:07 PM PDT |
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