My english tutor for 7 years is getting married next Sunday and my mom and I are in an argument for what to get her. My mom insists that a small set of plates and cups from Victorias Basement are perfect but I think a pair of swarvoski earrings or necklace is better. She says that its custom for newlyweds to receive plates but I know that my tutor enjoys accessories and fashion. My mom keeps telling me that it s not right to gift earrings to a bride-to-be but its been over thirty years since her own wedding and especially because she got married to fit south korean culture, not Australian. What do you think? Do you have any better gift ideas?