An older male neighbor who is also married is always clicking like on my posts or photos. He has PM'd me telling me I look good in so and so outfit and that I am "more attractive than" (some celebrity). Its odd and I mentioned it to my husband, because he knows him and I dont want my husband accusing me of anything. He just chuckled and said "he is harmless, he's old enough to be your dad, plus he has a wife". I am reading into this too much perhaps? What does it mean? He has also PM'd me semi-vulgar stuff but I play dumb and ignore him.

I was going to a ball game a while ago. I was driving by myself and were to meet friends at the ball park. It was getting late and there was a lot of traffic. Then I got a great idea! I picked up a hooked but not for sex! It was so I could drive in the HOV lane. Somehow somebody had a photo of the hooker and me in the car and showed my wife. I told her I didn't do nothing, but she won't believe me? I don't know why I never lied or cheated on her. I even offered to find the hooker so she could explain the truth

So I've been married 2 1/2 years, were not the most successful people in the world but I've never received a gift or present. When it's his birthday or Christmas I break my butt saving up, selling my own stuff to buy him gifts. I sold all kinds of clothes and sunglasses to buy gifts with my own money that I accumulated by selling my personal stuff to show him I care about him. I've never gotten flowers, a stuffed animal, a card. It kind of hurts me but now I just don't expect anything. I just feel like he doesn't care. The only gifts I've gotten is from his mom and dad. Him personally? Nothing. I don't understand. I even sometimes buy him gifts during the year because I was thinking about him. I'm embarrassed and lie to my family when they asked what I got for my birthday.

So I've been talking to this woman for over a year. Her and I live in different states, we met on Facebook. She has been very unhappy in her marriage. She's told me that her husband is really selfish and he ignores her. I've given her all sorts of advice. I've said they should see a marriage counselor because the advice I've given hasn't been working. I told her to talk to him and tell him how she feels and he blows her off. She has told me that I'm a sweet person and very easy to talk to. Her and I discussed masturbation last night.

I'm not sure who to even ask, don't want my friends thinking im lusting for their husbands, lol--sometimes I do. but, when my husbands friends are over for barbecue or to watch football, I see how awesome their bodies are, their smiles and they all stay in shape except my husband, and my husband wonders why we don't have sex. I really cant get aroused with him anymore. why did my husband let himself go so bad? if I had a friend of his as mine, omg, things would be so amazing, his wife isn't as good as me either.

Hello!! I do not believe in soulmates but rather that relationships take work and grow throughout life. Therefore I would love to know your experiences with marriage. Do you believe in soulmates? How did you know you this was the one? How long have you been married for? Are there continuous ups and downs? Just the truth and any other details you think are relevant!!

I told him lets sit together so when the OR Attendant comes he can speak with both of us.I walked to him he looked at me crazy and kept reading.The OR Attendant comes and asks me questions and asks for dad name.I said he is in the back of the waiting room.The OR Attendant say are yall married with quotation fingers pointed in the air.

Okay, I have a real question that needs a real answer; so no this is not a rant. The question is, how do I change the routines of 2 very mentally difficult to deal with people in my life that are making my life chaotic because they both are OCD and refuse to change their routines so everyone in the family can be happy and satisfied with their lives. Basically both of these people take charge and refuse to be cooperative to anyone else in the family unit and I just need a suggestion on how to demand change from these people without being overly disrespectful or having to discuss the changes because both people are really good at debating and preventing any changes in their life through verbal discussion. In other words, they cannot be reasoned with at all and its best to just leave them alone and make them do things without discussion. But how do I do that without coming off like a huge jerk or without being accused of abuse or manipulation or some other thing? Many of you have suggested therapy and counseling but neither person would benefit from that because they are brainiacs who can outwit and out think any argument and get themselves out of it using the power of their mind. The only thing that will make them change is physical Force but I don't know how to do that without being toxic about it. Reverse psychology and encouragement doesn't work on them; they can out argue anyone. They need force and oppression, but how?

First off I'm not the type of person to follow social norms fall to societal /peer pressure and follow the crowd and do what everyone else is doing . I don't care what people think of me or say about me. I'm a very logical thinker Even though I can afford it with my job salary income I would still not blow a large amount of money on something Unless I can justify it By said expenditures value utility use For me I would spend easily over 50-60k on a nice sports car Because a car can be used for transportion daily and for a long time To me it's absurd to spend thousands of dollars on a piece of carbon And absurd to spend thousands of dollars on a single day on a big party celebration that last a few hours If I was to propose the most I would spend on an engagement ring Is a few hundred dollars. If I was to get married I would go to a church have a priest perform the ceremony with my closest friends and family there sign the paperwork get it over with then proceed to go back home and have a backyard BBQ or go to Vegas drive thru or court house We can have the cake and she can wear the white wedding dress but no need to spend thousands on the wedding reception. We can just order food from caterers and have everyone come over to our house. If women think I'm too cheap perhaps it's better to never get married And just cohabitate and keep changing girlfriend cohabitation partners every time the current one brings up the topic of marriage

Should I tell her? I never considered as a young man getting married that women would age so horribly as do most. wish young men had counseling about this before you tie the night

I'll try to keep it short and simple.. STORY: My husband was deployed, so I moved back temporarily to our home state. His best friend sends his wedding invitation to my husband parents house. My husband told me that his mother filled out the reservation for us because she and her husband wanted to go. MY OPINION: I feel annoyed about it She shouldn't have opened our mail. She shouldn't have rsvp anything because the wedding invite was just for my husband and I ! And she shouldn't have invited herself to the wedding. This would be my husbands and I first formal event and our last Saturday in town.. I wanted to spend it with just my husband because we don't get much time to ourselves, we have A baby and a toddler that we raise with no family around. I explained to my husband all this and he goes "well I can't really uninvite them" EXTRA INFO The wedding is about a month away and we will be back in town for Christmas leave, MY parents offered to watch the kids for us because they wanted to spend more time with them. My husbands best friend didn't know my parents address to send it to me while he was deployed so that's why he sent it to his parents address I would like to hear yalls opinion over this situation please

Last year my husband asked me to quit my job and help him with his business (remodeling company) he needed a secretary and my work hours changed and i was always exhausted. I was always afraid of working for the company because I kept thinking that I wouldnt be financially independent, all the money goes to the business account and he had the company before we got married. We started working together in March 2018 he had $23,000 in the account, today he has over $100,000. With my help he is able to do more appointments, I handle all the payment and make sure we get paid and the crews don't charge us twice and all that. We were looking at houses online today and he was saying things like " I will be able to buy this one with a good mortgage" "all I have to do is change these floors" " I need to get pre-approved" "I can look at designs only and pick a good color for the shutters" etc etc... every time I said something related to the house, he said me or I. Not once did he mentioned we or even asked me what I thought. I feel like because he started the company and had it before I came along, that he doesn't feel that this year we made the money together, he still has the mentality that is his company so is his money. Sometimes I feel like he will buy the house by himself and not with me. Should I just go back to work on my own? To actually have something mine, since right now it feels like I worked and entire year and I have nothing since I may not even be involved in the house?