I don't know which side to choose

Love my wife very much, but I like other women as well. I've always been faithful and would continue to do so, but at times, the feeling is that people should be allowed to love, in whatever way they need or desire, other people too.

A few years ago my husband pronounced talaq but we reconciled the relationship. Months later I told him I wanted a khula and he said "okay, I divorce you". It was just the two of us at home when this happened. I want to know if we are actually divorced being that we had no one to witness the divorce. A family member says that we are still married but I'm not sure.

and how would u rate this older mans looks from 1-10? do u think he is attractive enough to be an older male model? Thanks for the honesty and will choose best answer

My boyfriend told me his ex invited him for coffee. He said he immediately felt hurt after seeing her. But he didn't disclose the fact if he's gonna see her or not. Should I ask if he's going to see her?

I have 2 kids w my ex husband. My fiance and I have 1 together. My fiance and I have fought several times because he feels like I shouldn't be friendly w my ex bc he hasn't paid child support in 4 yrs. He also doesn't really think the ex should be able to see the kids. I disagree. I dont think either have any relation. I wish he paid support to help provide for our kids but holding the kids from him bc of non payment is ridiculous. Time cant be replaced. If I prevent him from seeing them it hurts them too. I cant seem to get my current to understand this. Thoughts?

goofy pictures?

when the girls aren't looking then they go home and masturbate. what kind of husband material is this>? 99 percent of married men do this. ---its obvious im right, otherwise I wouldn't have upset the men. sorry, I win

I know they are married, and I KNOW they are not happy at home, so it feels like playing with fire with married men at the office. I know I could get any of them whenever I want to. I see their wives at the company get togethers, most sloppy looking, overweight and no personality like me. why the heck do men stay in marriages?

he was older than me, he's about 25 , i'm 23. I was wiping and looked at toilet paper, that's when he said I was disgusting. what would you do?

woman I met on Facebook over a year ago. We live in different states and she's married. She's been unhappy in her marriage for some time. I've given her a lot of advice but nothing seems to be working. She said her husband is selfish and neglects her. I mentioned marriage counseling to her but he didn't seem interested based on what she told me. She had mentioned counseling to her husband and it didn't go over. So last night we were talking and she told me that I'm a very sweet guy and that I'm easy to talk to. She asked me about masturbation too and we talk about sex sometimes. I told her that she's gorgeous and that she has a lot going for her. She's a hardworking mother who takes good care of her family and she's smart. Her and I are very open, we talk about pretty much anything. She said that if I get my life together, we could be together in the future. She's been really good to me in the past. She has given me a lot of life advice too in regards to being comfortable in my own skin and bettering myself. I went to college and got good grades and graduated, I'm just a homebody.

She has childhood trauma, a fragile ego, low libido, low self-esteem, she's unwilling to compete, she overstimulates herself and then passes out because she doesn't understand her limbic system at all, she has OCD, she's a control freak, she is antisocial, she refuses to do things outside your comfort zone, she refuses to do things that she can't be perfect at, she refuses to practice things that she's not good at unless they are things that she can't compare yourself to other people on like playing an instrument, she is unable to make a compromise, she only cares about her dreams and she doesn't really care about other people's dreams, she has double standards whenever she deals with people like holding me to sexist ideas but not being able to be held to the same ones herself, she can't be motivated by Rewards or punishment, she has temper tantrums but shows no other emotions, she picks at her face when she's under stress, she's a masochist and likes Nails dug in her back to relieve stress, she's isolated and reclusive, and a whole slew of other things that I'm going to run out of space typing here. She's a walking talking mental case but she keeps to herself on a laptop or a phone so she doesn't have to deal with anybody, but in reality she's doing everyone a favor by them not having to deal with her

If any of you who are answering have experience with Asperger syndrome please let me know how to overcome their insecurities so they can adjust and transition into a capitalist mindset of competition so they can succeed in their lives because that's my biggest struggle right now with two people in my life

So I've had numerous posts over the past about my husband having issues. HE has bad anxiety, parents were divorced and he had to live in the attic of his step dads house while his mom had her new life with his three Half brothers. so he has some issues. We are only married a year..but lately he is becoming emotionally abusive. Everything is basically his way or the high way..and if I bother him and ask him to do something with me that he isn't in the mood to do, he will turn it into a fight of how annoying and needy I am ( meanwhile ill do everything to please him). So I don't even want to ask him anymore. We went to counseling but that doesn't seem to work... On the other hand, I have an old male coworker who we always had a close friendship. He always reached out to me to keep in touch. I never would even think about cheating, but lately I find myself wanting to talk to him more because I enjoy the conversation more and his kindness. I know If I was single we would probbaly explore dating. He basically told me I'm his dream girl and my husband should worship the ground I walk on. One concern though is this guy has never had a serious relationship . He's 28, been in the army, came back went to college and started working. He's dated, but nothing serious. Is that odd also? Im just so confused right now with everything. Im religious and pray for clarity.

This morning I did some reflection on my life with my wife and I'm noticing a pattern. When we argue she will stop at nothing to get her way and she pulls out all the stops. If she really wants to win a fight she will threaten divorce or give me an ultimatum to change. The things that she's not passionate about she concedes without any resistance as long as it doesn't involve her. If it does involve her then she will fight pretty much to the death to make sure nothing she does is being controlled or scrutinized. Because she's afraid of losing an argument with me she never comes to me with her problems with me, instead she uses stereotypes and roles and norms and other structures to control me so she doesn't have to debate with me and lose. Her favorite one to use is that trash is a man's job and she doesn't have to do it, but when I tell her that cooking is a woman's job I can't tell her that. Everything is a double standard with her because her manipulation only serves to benefit her and it cannot be used as a weapon against her. As a matter of fact, any information that I know about her cannot be used in an argument with her because she hates to lose that badly. Yes, my wife is prone to temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way and she also is a sore loser instead of a good loser like I am. She's also not afraid of cheating to get her way either like using my mom as a weapon to control shame me. How do I teach her to respect my feelings and to treat me like an equal?

Don't they realize how important honest communication is in a relationship? It's almost ridiculous how they can complain when they literally havent even told their husband one time that they want something

Once again, my romantic advances shot down by my wife. She's 59, I'm 58. I don't ask all the time. Just now and then. But my batting average sucks. She actually says "it's more important to you than to me." Jeez, that makes me feel great. I'm to the point of just giving up. Or finding a woman who likes to spend time in bed. Any thoughts on how to change things?

Each of us had to give a brief presentation of our individual topics and at the end of the presentations, the professor said "thank you A, B, C, D....and thank you G" while looking at me. Also, why specifically thank me?