My partner & I have been together now for almost 3 years, & we are both 20 years old. We were living in the same state until my mom and sister made the decision to move to CA (from CT)because it has been my moms dream to move there, & honestly it was mine too. After a lot of consideration I decided it made the most sense for me to go with them, not only because it made the most sense for me financially but also because I had no other family in CT, & I knew it would make me happy to move there. I'm from CT so it's literally the opposite side of the country. Although I love & care for my partner, I thought we were going to have to break things off before I moved. You can believe I was pretty shocked (but happy) when he said he wanted to come with me. Right now we (my mom, my sister & I) are staying with my moms friend until we can get an apartment, which will hopefully be by February. He's going to be moving here pretty much as soon as we get the apartment. A part of me is scared that it's not going to work out, but from what I've read a bit online it seems like most people who move in with their partner for the first time also feel this way. I'm not nervous at all about him & I living under the same roof as my mom & sister because they get along well. He'll be moving across the country to be with me, which is exciting but also nerve racking. Does anyone have any tips or advice? About the move/ the nerves/ living together/ anything. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

My sister is my sister. I'm not her dad or her mom. Wtf. Thats not my responsibility.

I have a crush on a guy who works where I do. Everytime he's around I try to look at his beautiful eyes. What does he do? He lowers his eyes and looks forward pretending I dont exist. I think he doesn't like me at all. I wonder why he' so. I know I'm not gorgeous or whatever but I'm an average girl. I wear conservatively and I dont flirt, but Intry to make eye contact with him. He's everything I always wanted (physically and personality). I'm shy and I dont talk a lot, only when it's needed for work. Once happened that we exchanged bottles by mistake. I gave him both so that he could find his. He said 'look' haha! And showed me a symbol he put on his bottle. He laughed, became red and put the bottle in front of my face and came closer with his face close mine. It was weird cause I was so afraid of him (a tall guy lowering to come closer to me). I basically ran away and he was still laughing..since then he never talked to me again (except for when he wanted to help me with s new task) and looks away when I look at him.

So I just had a baby and we would take her over to my in-laws weekly. Just recently, my baby was baptized and we decided to have a small family gathering at my house (keep in mind both me and my boyfriend still live at home separately). My boyfriend is living with us temporarily to help with baby until we both get on our feet to get our own home. Two weeks before the baptism I had invited his family over to celebrate (keep in mind this was only a small gathering) at my house. The day of the baptism she flipped because she wasn't invited "formally" with an invitation card and she wanted to contribute with a "pot-luck." I didn't understand what she was upset about and why she wasn't attending. I called her following the baptism to which she screamed at me and hung up on me on the phone. I feel I didn't deserve this disrespect and asked for an apology to which she says she'll never give. Now, she wants me to take my daughter over to see her or have her dad take her over alone to which I'm not comfortable. Because we are not taking her over they have threatened to kick my boyfriend out. What am I supposed to do?the day of the baptism was so sacred and special to me and my family and I feel she ruined the celebration for us. I feel as her mother she does not respect me.

I told my friends a story on how my coworker (I work at The Cheesecake Factory) text me asking if he could have my Saturday shift and I said no. My coworker then gets in contact with our bakery manager telling him the situation. The bakery manager takes me off the schedule and puts my coworker on (taking my shift away. My friends asked who originally made the schedule and I said the general manager (who is the highest rank in the restaurant). They said how the bakery manager had no right making changes like that to the schedule because he wasn't the one who originally made it and also what he did shows favoritism which shouldn't be tolerated in the workplace. Is this favoritism? Was the bakery manager wrong? What do I do?

Do you think women have more men they're talking to?

So I got hired to a new company, and we're doing secret santa. I just think it's stupid, because I'm wasting my money. And on top of that, it's always something that I don't want. I told my coworkers that I just want a visa gift card, and they won't even let me have that. Because it's not "an actual present." I tried to get out of it, but they won't accept that. On top of that, I'm always going to dinners, and again, it's more money that I could've been saving, but nope, it goes back to the company. And coworkers peer pressure me to spend for birthdays, and other celebrations. I'm serious. It would be different if I got a decent paycheck, but I don't even get paid a lot to begin with. And the job is very demanding. I don't get how saving money is childish? If anything, spending money on useless stuff is childish. Honestly, if you quit your job, do you think those very same people would buy you a gift? No. I never even expect a gift or anything in Christmas, or on my birthday. I think a hug is good enough.

I'm very emotionally attached to my married guy friend. I admit I have had feelings for him for a year and a half, but I'd never do anything to jeopardize our friendship or his marriage/family. I'm on very good terms with his wife, although I'm not sure I'd call her a "friend". She has never seemed to have any problem with the friendship I have with her husband. Sometimes, I can be too clingy or needy and I realize this. It seems every time I get TOO bad, he pulls away or becomes distant for a week or two or three. I've told him before that I'm sorry I'm so annoying all the time and he claims I'm not annoying. Either he's just trying to be nice or he secretly loves the attention, but feels he shouldn't love it. How do I stop being so needy? I don't want to lose him as a friend as he's a very important person to me and a positive influence in my life. I just don't want to push him away completely, but I don't know how to control myself. I guess I have a hard time dealing with the fact that he's so busy all the time (he works 40-60 hours a week, they have 3 kids and 2 of them play sports so there's games and practices, plus church activities) and I hate feeling like he's avoiding me so I tend to blow up his messages. I don't mean to, but sometimes I truly lack self-control.

My girlfriend is 21 and the sweetest girl ever. She is a "good girl" who goes to church a lot, loves kids, wants to be a teacher, and just the sweetest thing ever. She always dresses classy and doesn't drink or party at all. We both lost our virginity to each other, and since that, she has been so wild in bed. She is sweet during the day, but can't wait for night time to let her hair down and go absolutely crazy in the bedroom. She loves sex, loves it hard, and smiles from ear to ear when I call her a "dirty girl." She doesn't ever cuss, but loves to drop F bombs and other cuss words in bed. Why would she be like this?

I'm certainly "in a transition" since my job loss. And while I've been taking charge, I haven't been frantically/aggressively trying to control everything. Perhaps ironically enough, I see this turning into a relocation faster than I'm able to process it. It's like it's there subconsciously, but it hasn't even resonated yet and things keep happening ("falling into place") to facilitate this. Is this normal or should I try to approach this with more control? (note: I'm not "out of control" per se, but because certain things keep happening and pointing me in that direction its starting to feel less like control)

I've been talking to a guy for 4 months, yes we've dated. He expresses so much how much he likes me and yet he ignores me a couple days ago out of the blue. I asked if everything was okay and he said he's going through some things. But I highly doubt it. Upsetting if hes playing games. He could've just told me instead of posting snaps. It's been a week. I don't understand why he's pushing me away. If he wasn't interested why lead me on? I know he's a very insecure guy and often picks on himself

I've been seeing this guy and he says he likes me, posts videos of me on social media, saves my photos and yet after he poured his heart to me once again, he ignored my text. It's been almost a week. What happen..ps he knows that I like him too