So I started drinking wine 9 years ago after I had my son.Now I can drink a bottle or two but always feel like crap the next morning.I don't crave it everyday and go days without having a drink,.Its just don't I can drink a large amount in one setting.What is my problem?

I recently found out that my brother in law has a foot fetish. In fact, the whole family just found out through a rather shocking situation. Now I can t help but think about it every time I think of him or his name is brought up. I have become incredibly self-conscious being around him, and cannot bear the thought of wearing sandals or being barefoot around him. I also find myself constantly agonizing over the past to try and remember if/when I wore sandals around him (even though I know I have many times over the last several years). I know that foot fetishes are a normal thing, and I m not seeking advice on how to change him. But I want to become comfortable around him again. I want the relationship we had before when I wasn t constantly wondering if he has been fantasizing over my feet. How do I get to the point that I can see him as a person and not just see the fetish?

Sometimes I worry about her too much, it makes me so sensitive and crazy. I have never felt like this for anyone else it's the first time it happens. So it all started a few years ago: she was 13 and I 17. We were never together because she was too young and I did want to mess up with children..we tried to be friends and got really close, to the point where she physically put herself between her cousins and me to protect me from her crazy jealous cousins who threatened to beat me up if she just talked to me. Later on, we git separated because I loved. After 8 years we met again and she told me she missed me so much and said I was everything she wanted. To be honest, we helped each other when we were at our worst. Btw, sometimes what I feel about her it's not exactly love, it's also fear and constant anxiety about her wellbeing, about what she went through when I was not there and I did not know, sometimes I have nightmares about her asking me to help her and I find her in a deserted road in the dark, covered with blood. I wake up feeling like screaming and all sweaty. I constantly worry if people at work or college treat her right, if not I want to beat them up. I know I shouldn't but her past makes me so uspet (she was bullied and hit as a teenager) and I want to be there for here by now, and for the time I was not there. Can someone please tell me why am I so afraid right now although I never was before and why am I having these dreams involving her?

About 8 years ago my daughter was involved with this same guy. He introduced her to hard drugs. They then got involved in robberies around town, robbed my house as well. My daughter's 1st child (a baby at the time) was taken away and put into our custody, because the child tested positive for methamphedamine Eventually both my daughter and boyfriend were arrested on shop lifting charges and they parted ways and my daughter started doing good, got her daughter back. She has now, after 8 years, reconciled with this same guy, is now pregnant and claims that they are both straight. He has been out of prison for about a year now. My grand daughter (11 now) tells me that her mom and this guy fight all the time. She's caught him texting other girls and other issues as well. My daughter comes to me and my husband, telling us that she's pregnant and is begging is to accept this guy. We told her that we just can't. Now she's pouting and pointing out the faults of everyone in the family to justify her boyfriend's past. What should I do?

Women of my own race come off as bitchy. Black and white girls are cute but there's something about Asian women. My dating history is Latina (my race although I look white), arab, Asian, Asian & Asian

I've come to believe love isn't real and no one has explained why it's real, they just say I'm wrong and leave it at that. I don't feel love whatsoever and I just want to know what everyone thinks it actually feels like because I don't understand how people believe it or feel it.

Italian women are very enticing, and it is easy for any guy to fall when they run into one. Italian women just knows the ways to cause a man to fall non any other ways a man could ever. Italian women are highly experts at getting men into traps. They can lead men anywhere

My ex-boyfriend, who is originally from Japan, pounced me, punched me in my face, stomach, jaw, etc. and repeatedly landed blow after blow until I fell into a coma. I slapped and kicked him because he kept cheating on me with other women, stealing thousands upon thousands of dollars from me and even slapped me once when I tried holding him accountable. He was too strong--6'3", 195 lbs, muscular--I stood no chance in HELL against him physically. He threw me around like a ragdoll. He almost killed me. He's still serving a full 15-year term in prison and is charged with a $100,000 fine. He has five more years to go before he's released.

I take public transportation, this one bus driver I thank maybe is a girl but really kind of boyish looking so it is hard to tell sometimes they make me uncomfortable, but I can't miss that one bus so I get on and they call me Babe and then they stare at me. It feels odd but I can't report them as I don't ever see her name tag! Also after I get off the bus, the driver would watch me walk all the way down the street then leave. She only does that with me. I am a girl and I thank the driver is a girl but kinda of manly looking like a Dyke,I am 23 and they are maybe in their 30's or so?

I live in lousiville ky, on the fringe in the south part of it. I seem to have a hard time finding 'normal' people as it is a long continuous string of bullies and abusers so it seems. I lived here all my life and I am the only one seeing this. Is it Louisville ky?

I have two Job coaches in my department. One is E and the other name is B. So i sit right next to B. And E sits across from us. B has a jar of peppermints on her desk and one day over a month ago she stated that I could get some of the mints whenever I wanted she even set them in between both of us so I could reach and get some whenever I wanted. And she also said its ok if we run out because all she has to do is go back in the storage room and get more mints. So one day E who sits on other side of us was talking to B and I reached over and got a mint out the jar. Then I over hear E talking about me saying you know she likes to sit by you so she can eat up all your candy. So I just look and didnt say anything. I have a reputation for being quiet and shy. E is normally a person that jokes alot but I notice that she wasnt smiling when she said it. Then B responded and said"Oh these are for me and her. Do you want some ? E says No still with a serious face. Then B continues and said All i have to do is go back in the storage room and fill the jar back up its no money coming out of my pocket. Im wondering how I should feel about that. Should I feel offended? How could I have responded? What do yall think about it? I work in a call center and I notice that when I ask her problems if I have issues she looks like im annoying her.

is that sexual or tender

So I always fall for the same kind of boys: they're good hearted guys but they hide it, they hardly smile or say what they have, and feel ashamed about talking about their lives. They always were overprotective about me and Inwas excessively caring with them. Once a guy called me his little one and would hold me tight and caress my cheeks but hold back his hand realizing what was going on and pretending nothing happened. Theae guys I liked were all kind of mistreated and not wantedby family/relatives.

So we were talking about all different topic and suddenly he said, with an upset face that 'once he had a heart and now he doesn't anymore'. I asked him.what he really meant and he replied 'lots of things. Life is not for all' and claimed he had something to do and went away. Maybe he had something to do with his past (he was mistreated by his host relatives and had problems) but I'm not sure if he meant something totally different. He will never tell me I know. I noticed that when he said this his face turned red and his hands shook. What could he be referring to?