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I'm enagaged and about to get married. We have had a lot of ups and downs in this relationship but we managed to still be together. Now we are planning wedding but his parents are back home in a country. I was planning to sacrifice having wedding here for them but things are getting dangerous down there. So he said he will try bringing them. Now it's a long process to do that and if they come they will probably have to stay with my family who already don't get along because his parents don't treat me well and I don't want to pressure them into that. He's not finding a solution and isn't working with me. I'm already getting stressed as it. Is this meant to be with all of these complications? I'm beyond stressed and not feeling excited about wedding get near.

I have autism my girlfriend is mentally handicapped, we want to be married in April and our parents telling us a year which I disagree, I got her parents blessings but they told her not to have kids I wanted kids she wants kids too, and all of a sudden, she told me no kids which is very confusing she told her parents it s her body and she could do whatever she wanted to do we are currently engaged until we decide a wedding date I put a lot of effort in this question make your comment courteous.

I'm scared of losing my virginity and I'm about to marry this guy in 1 1/2 months. I told him I wanted a virgin marriage and then he got pissed. What should I do? I'm so scared of having sex it's one of my biggest phobias. I want to stay a virgin for life I'm 25 years old. Sex scares me to death. I cry at the thought of having sex. The wedding is so close and I'm so scared of the sex. I don't know how people had sex for thousands of years without feeling scared.

A week from now i am going to Toronto, Canada to propose to my girlfriend and i am bringin engagement ring with me. My question now is, do i have declare the ring to Canadian customs? Or just toss the ring in my carry-on bag and call it a day? Im thinking like putting it in a ring box then wrap it with my socks and just leave on my carry on. Is that gonna be a problem?

When I got married, I asked a acquaintance who had just gotten engaged if she wanted to attend my wedding. It was an informal invitation, over Facebook, as a nicety. When I got engaged, all I wanted to do was go to weddings, and I didn't know a single person getting married. I thought maybe she felt the same way, so I invited her. She came, but honestly, I kind of regreted inviting her because we're not close and it was weird seeing her there. Now we're approaching her wedding. I received a save-the-date and was invited to the bridal shower.... I'm assuming because she feels obligated. I would be happy to go, eat, drink,and have a night out... but my husband and I won't really know anyone who would be there. Would it be rude to not go? Or should I do her the service of not having a near-stranger at her wedding? Maybe I should go to the bridal shower and not the wedding?

I am getting married in less than a month and I am having second thoughts. Firstly, my fiancé and I and his mother are living in a two apartment building situation. She lives in one apartment and we live in the other one(they are side by side). She has done tremendous things for us and has been helping out a lot since our apartment is not furnished. While I know she's trying to help, she's been doing some things that I find really offensive and highly annoying. Every week on a particular day she could sit us down and lecture us about various things. And every week it's the same thing she tells us over and over. Recently she's made some comments about how dusty our apartment is and what needs to be cleaned. She has also told us how she wants our furniture to be arranged and how she wants us to dress, in particular....me. She often makes comments about me changing my look to one that is socially acceptable (modern and not old fashioned) and changes to my hairstyle. I also mentioned in her presence that my fiancé and I need to cut back on meat to save more to which she replied *No, my son needs his beef*. Every week is the same routine with stuff she says and the lectures and I'm getting annoyed. I've discussed it with my fiancé but he is now understanding and seeing things from my perspective bit by bit, but I'm afraid he's a mommas boy who will always let his mother rule him and now I am having second thoughts about marrying him. ( we are both in our 20's)