Say for instance you get married to someone. Your wife sleeps with someone else and gets pregnant. The baby is born and since you had sex with her, you think the baby is yours. So your name goes on her birth certificate as father and later you get to know the baby is not yours through DNA testing. Are you still obligated to pay for child support? Is that fair?

I'm 23 and I've been dating my bf for almost two years and he's my first serious boyfriend. Im very close to my grandma and she's still very overprotective of me though I am grown. Anyway, she's told me that my boyfriend is only using me for money which isn't true because I don't give him my hard earned money. She says he doesn't love me and other crazy claims. It's stressing me out because I feel like I'm stuck in between the two of them. How do I handle this situation??

Ever since we had our son, 12 weeks ago, I have this fear I'm going to lose him. I get so paranoid when he's not texting back fast enough, or his drive home takes a little longer. My mind seems to jump to the worst possible conclusion every time. Is this a postpartum thing?

My neighbor's husband is literally keeping her prisoner. No car (can't drive "his); lives with mother-in-law; not working (holding out for "management" (for three years)); keeps the money, etc. She was finally "allowed" to go to lunch with me the other day. We have literally moved some of her things out while he is in the shower in preparation for her to leave, soon. We went to a bank (different than their's) and opened an account. She used a different email address (Yahoo) than their usual (Gmail). She got a text from the bank giving her the option to download the app for online banking. I told not to do that. If she needed to move money, let me know, I would do it. She didn't do it, but I guess he might have been able to. However, he wouldn't have had the password (set up at the bank). She used an address out of state. She hadn't been home 20 minutes before he asked her about her new "Chase" bank account and why does it look like she changed her address! She does everything from her phone - but "has" been on the computer. She does quite a bit on Facebook, but had he been on that . . . he would have already killed her. :/ Any of you computer geniuses out there tell me what to look for to see if she is being tracked - or how this could have happened?? He is pretty computer savvy, she is not. Thanks for your help!

My partner and I have been together for almost 10 years. We have our ups and downs, but we are still together. He lives off a small inheritance with a low paying job. I, on the other hand, do not have hand downs, have a great career making 3 to 4 times more than his. I think because I have a good regular pay check, I tend to be easier on spending. At the same time I put away investment and savings. It has become more often that my partner wants me to buy him things. I really dislike men wanting women to buy them things. It just comes off so not manly, no backbone, plus other things. I would not have dated him the first place if he were that way. He was really generous, in presents and romantic expenses. It is just over time, I have grown from make just a little more than his to now several times more. Even though he tries to get me to buy him things, I only did a couple of hundreds here and there, no more than 10 times, which he isn't lack of. But each time I got really irritated. I would like that to stop. Please any advice on how to talk to him without hurting feelings. I chose the category for mature answers.

It seems annoying and mean and selfish of that individual! Where is the commitment?! Is it because of abuse?.. Like why would you even abuse anyone?! Especially a person who gave birth to your first child?! I'm curious...

Shouldn't you marry someone because you're in love with them? Shouldn't nothing else matter? Would you fall in love with someone, but not marry them because he's/she's not sexually compatible with you? I'm genuinely curious about why sex has risen up to the most important part of most people's relationships.

I have a feeling she likes me a lot. I'm attracted to her. Should I pass?

My ex broke up with me suddenly a week or so ago. It was kind of unexpected, but as I process things, it was probably for the best. The relationship started out with him liking other girls cleavage photos on Facebook, him flirting with another woman on Facebook and then his friend texting him nude pics of other women his friend was dating. So, it was rocky, but I talked to him about things, and each time he listened, stopped and we moved forward. He even deleted his Facebook. All was good and well, but I did still harbor some resentment about this, which carried on into our relationship. However, fast forward months after that, he breaks up with me, and suddenly he's back on Facebook and had befriended all of those women back plus his ex. I feel so betrayed, like our relationship didn't even matter. I don't have my Facebook up and hadn't for a long time, but I stupidly logged on to check to see if his was up, and boom, it was...and friends with those other woman. Do you think he broke up with me just so he can go screw around?? I just don't get it!

I am not attracted to my husband. Physically he was never the most handsome (short/skinny) I didn't care because we had words. He and I used to spend hours talking.. nothing of deep meaning but now we're married I want to get inside his brain. He doesnt ever talk abt important things. Money and clothes is all he thinks matter. He and I share nothing in common. He buys me w.e I want and thinks thats enough. Ex: I want to talk about religion, he doesnt want to get deep into it. How are we supposed to raise our kids. He has more cons than pros: unattractive, not funny, doesnt satisfy my mental need as far as conversation. Should I give up and get a divorce or keep trying? 5years lost. We're both 24.

Will the wife still get half property if he divorces due to this reason, Will he be punished with child support cruelly or will the wife be punished bh law? What will be the probable outcome of the couple? According to Indian law .

Been happily married for 35 years she has become a born again Christian and had to confess any secrets to me. She sat me down and told me she had a two month affair 30 years ago, with a work colleague. it has devestated me it feels like it happened yesterday. Therapy hasn't worked I can't get over it.... thinking of divorce.

Has your husband/wife ever went into deep detail about their past sexual encounters? My wife recently talked to me about her past sexual experience prior to us meeting. It was a bit "much." for me. She went into a lot of details including that one of her ex's from college had a small....and that she and another ex were very kinky. Are these normal discussions between husband and wife? I don't really want to think of my wife in this manner.

I would like you guys to help me figure out the real reason why my ex husband divorced me ! I Still torn and in shock that I'm divorced it all began by him deploying a lot so I would get bitchy because during deployment I know he had access to phone but he never often called so I would say mean things but he knows I was just mad at the moment later on in our relationship he was being really distant n cold sex was a lot less then before then I noticed him being secretive with his phone he would never leave it out of his sight after few years we had our son he would always complain how I spoil my son that I'm not a good mom n how I'm lazy when I had dinner always ready for him after work n clean the dish feed the kid long story short he's telling my family that main reason he divorced me was because I'm lazy which I don't think that's the reason I felt like he'd been cheating n fel out of love with me long ago would do you guys think oh right after our divorce he hooked up with more then ten girls n also during the final stages of our divorce he got with my good friend I just don't know what to think anymore and the reason he wanted to divorce me I'm pretty decent looking and I try my best he knows I love him I'm still in the torn stage of the divorce help me

There was a 25 year age difference between me and my wife. I always thought I would go way before she did. I m up losing her to cancer she was the love of my life I met her when she was 18 and then we were married about a year later. When eight years together I don t know if I can go on anymore?

I separated from my husband after too many fights and moved in with my mother. We tried to work it out and thought we were close until 3 months ago he said to get all my stuff out of the house or he's donating or leaving it behind and moving. So I got what I could but I told him the house is in both of our names he can't sell it without me and half that money is mine. He said whatever and he told me to file for divorce and it's not his problem. Then I find out on Facebook he moved to Florida and changed his status from separated to married! I went by our house and some other people live there! I never got around yet to filing for a divorce, it's kind of hard when he's not involved and trying to do it myself and I have 2 jobs! He changed his phone number also. Can I have him arrested for polygamy and ripping me off. How the hell did he sell the house without me?

Why would she block me from facebook just to unblock me just to block me again? She told me she didn't want to be married anymore via text BTW. So far she has been the one to try to break nc but would block me when my response wasn't to her liking

my ex wife texted me photos and she titled them that guy from florida it was pictures of her naked she was maked but she titled the bottom of the picture that guy from florida i question her about the pictures and she wwent mad saying she wanted my help in seeing what she had a yeast infection My ex wife sent an picture of her naked self and tittled it that guy from florida and then she asked if i like then i question her about it she went mad saying all she wanted was my help in an yeast infection? My ex wife sent an picture of her naked self and tittled it that guy from florida and then she asked if i like then i question her about it she went mad saying all she wanted was my help in an yeast infection?

My husband is a gamer, and that's fine by me. I've played video games with him at times, too. We've enjoyed doing that together. However, it's not something I can sit there and do for hours upon hours, but he certainly can. I feel that he enjoys video games more than me. He can stay up late chatting with his friends and playing video games with them but when it comes down to being intimate with each other, it's an argument. I've told him how that makes me feel. We finally have some kid free time. The kids left yesterday and won't be back until Sunday. I thought that having that time to ourselves would help, but he's just taken it upon himself to play even more video games. Video games while I work and video games while I'm not working. It's really frustrating and it hurts my feelings. From the perspective of a guy, what is the deal with the video game obsession over a woman??

Last time we talked she asked me out for closure 3 months after I left. I stood her up we got into an altercation via facebook messenger. She ended up blocking me. Fast forward until today which was our wedding anniversary I noticed she unblocked me. I miss her honestly and I miss the physical as well

I ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We ve been engaged for 5 months. Were ready, so don t say **** about waiting.. We still live with our parents and everything. Want to get legally married soon. We plan on moving out in May, but want to get married sooner than that, but still live with our parents. Does the clerk s office send stuff in the mail? And what s the best way to tell our parents we got married? Should we just sit down with them and tell them or what? Honest advice please.

She talked to me about s web site called meet me and we thought it was for finding friends. It turned out to be more of a dating site. She met a guy that she said is just her friend. She was up front and honest about it all no problem. One day i looked at her phone and a meetme notification came up from him and it said something about kiss emoji. So i looked at there messages to eachother and saw that he was hitting on her and luckily she kept sort of deflecting it. I feel like she wouldn't be talking to him except for the fact that she is desperately wanting friends around here. Now she changed the password on her phone so i don't know it. She keeps saying that she just wants him as a friend. Any advice?