We went to Uncle Steve's 50th birthday party. We don't care for Steve but he's family so we felt obliged to go. Anywho, at some point Steve and grandma Phyllis went into the screened in patio together and Steve bent grandma Phyllis over his knees and pulled Phyllis's hot pink miniskirt up and started spanking her bottom. All grandma Phyllis had on was a sexy Victoria's secret thong and Steve was spanking her like a muthafucka! My wife was appalled and insisted that we leave immediately. What do you guys think about that?

We were at a swinger party. She was getting railed good by two big black dudes. I've never seen her in so much pleasure. But afterwards she was crying a little. How can I make her feel better?

I had to pick up my wife from the airport. Since it wasn't too cold out and I was running a little late, I decided to wear nothing but a t shirt. I was kicking it Winnie the Pooh style, completely naked from the waist down. No shoes or anything but a t-shirt.

Because I was wondering if it's safe to start dating married women again. ...?

My husband is not very affectionate. We are in love, but I need more physical affection than he wants to give. I've always been pansexual. This is nothing new. I've just never really considered going outside of my monogamous relationship before. Would I be out of line to ask my husband to let me try having a girlfriend?

he actually took time out to make you a copy of his key and also gave you his garage door opener guys is this a big deal? I've House sat for him twice when he was away on business trips were planning on going on vacation together next month and I know his whole family he lets me leave my stuff at his house wants me to stay over every weekend could this be going in the marriage direction

To think of another woman while having sex with your wife?

My friend Tommy is a house husband /father he stays home ,does the house husband thing take care of the kids, cook ,do chores etc. His wife makes more money than him ,he married a real career woman in Finance. Two weeks ago when me and the guys were out we poked a little fun at him , and joked and messed around with him a bit. We are all buddies we known each for a long time, we do that and we all just laugh it off and have fun. He is always going "let me check with my wife" "let my ask my wife" when we tell him to come out. but i'm not sure if I went too far ,and offended and hurt his feelings or not. He can be quite sensitive and emotional sometimes. I was drunk and i made a little joke "Hey Tommy! " "What?" "what do you call a man who has his woman provide for him ?" " Oh god , i don't know what do you call such a man ?" "A Male Gold Digger XD !!! ah hah hah hah " then we poked some fun about who wears pants and who's the man in his relationship. I called him a "Male Gold Digger" and a "Feminist Boy Toy" which he didn't like but I was just joking and getting back at him for making fun of my Young Virgin girl fetish the week before that he said i was a Pedophile for marrying an 18 year old and called me names like Dr. Pedophile and Dr.Hymen which sounds like and rhymes with Dr Feynman the famous physicist When i invited him out this weekend he said he is not coming he is busy that is the 2nd time he has bailed on us. I'm not sure if he is mad at me? The guys are saying it's my fault " he is probably mad at you for calling him a male gold digger. and making fun of him for being a house husband," "ya know how Tommy is he can be quite sensitive " "You should pay him a visit and apologize"

my wife s "friend"at every opportunity decides to tell her that Im a "dick head" and she should leave me I could go into more detail of the things she has said but I think you get the point. We have two children together and I am trying to explain to my wife that she is not helping our relationship and simply making it worse, she however will not see this (mainly because she thinks she only has one friend) I can t seem to explain that she is not conductive to our relationship and is only making my wife see the bad in every situation even to the point where she doubts herself and the trust we have together. What should I do/ how should I handle it?

She was shaved when I met her and now three years into our marriage she wants to grow a horrid bush back I asked her why and she said I wouldn't understand Is she seeing someone else maybe? And she is doing it for him?

The man tells the woman that he'll give her plenty of money to buy whatever she wants. The woman stays at home and doesn't have a job. She takes care of cleaning the house and the kids. The woman starts buying lots of stuff and then the man starts to get irritated by it. Eventually the end up fighting everyday over money and they get a divorce. Who's to blame in your opinion?

My husband has entered an alcohol rehab and I will not be able to see or talk to him for 60 days. During this time I want to be able to learn skills or something that will make me as supportive as possible for my husband when I see him again. I feel like I am already very supportive, and I don't drink at all myself so that's not an issue, sometimes he just tells me I stress him out and that I make him want to drink and I don't want to make him feel like that anymore. Any advice on what I should do while he is away?

So I got married to my wife and recently got my dog back from my parents due to being busy etc well my wifes autistic son hates it I even tried showing him how gentle it was.. Honestly I dont know what I signed up with this kid wife said I have to get rid of dog but I cant so should I jut leave ebcause im not leaving my companion of 6 years I know I sound liek an A hole but some people who havnt had had a pet dont understand the bond between you and your dog.I cant give up and abandon him espeically as his Mother was my dog aswell and gave birth to him, he bring such joy I really dont want to leave my dog do yout hink I should try to get my wifes son over this fear possibly by showing him the dog but from distance or something annd over time brining it closer to him

I just found something out, it is stupid to lie about petty crap, we have all had a history

is it normal to fill the urge to have sex with another women besides my wife or im sick of my mine lol I love my wife have sex all the time and its great but still i see another women and want to take her to bed, I don't know to me is like trying different candy's I want them all.

I have been in a tumultuous relationship with the father of my child for 10 years. We have 1 child together. Our marriage only lasted for 3 years and we have been living in separate states ever since. Our daughter was so young when we divorced that the only life she knows is she lives with mom and spends time with dad. The co-parenting relationship has been a mutually respectful one. Last year, I decided that I couldn't keep living with this torture. I finally decided I had to do something to purge myself of this man. I suggested that he get his daughter a phone to communicate directly with her. I limited communication to emails, instead of text, unless it's an emergency. 4 months ago, we reconnected and before I knew it he was living in my house. Sleeping in my bed. He was different in a good way. He was committed to making it work. Then he started asking for little things, bigger things and when I finally said no I wasn't supportive of him anymore. He went on a business trip to his state, but has been cold and unaffectionate towards me, but has demanded I move back to his state with our daughter and work on us there in 3 months, then 1 year. I told him I'm not moving until we get counseling, which he canceled. We work on being a family where I live first and he shows he can be stable and take care of a family. I don't think that was an unreasonable request. He is now accusing me of trying to control him and using our daughter as a pawn to get my! way.

I have been in a long term relationship. We've been together for almost 14 years, been engaged 6 years. We have three children, 7, 3, 7 months old. Lately I have been feeling like I'm not in love with my boyfriend. I care about him, but I don't feel attractive to him anymore. We've had sex only twice since I found I was pregnant with my daughter. He has started to watch porn. At first I thought I was suffering form post partum depression. But I just think I'm just tired. We communicate fine, and we don't really fight but we act more like roommates. Also before anyone says anything, the only reason we had never gotten married is because we had children, and we both wanted a wedding and reception and didn't want a court house wedding. So my question is. What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?

I met my fiancé in my hometown during a time I was single and looking for change. Unfortunately he is from CA and I am from SC. I decided to move to CA to be with him and we have had so many great memories. As 4 years has gone by we have gotten engaged but the near thought of getting married in CA, living away from my family, having my mom not be in my future kid's lives gives me extreme anxiety. I am in tears thinking about my mom and not seeing my new baby nephew grow up. While I love my fiancé, I feel that I am not my complete self bc I do not have my girlfriends and my family close by. While I love the vibe in CA, love my man with all of my heart, and I feel like there is so much more opportunity here…I miss home. When he travels for work I feel lonely and my friendships aren't the ones back home. I'm from a small town and while I work and commute like everyone else in CA, unfortunately I do not make enough to contribute that much to our income. We haven't gotten married bc my family cannot afford a wedding and while his family can…I carry the guilt of letting someone do that for me (esp when the future MIL makes passive aggressive comments about it).We still haven't bought a house bc it is so dang expensive here. I just feel stagnant. If the coin was flipped my fiance would too be so unhappy on the east coast. He doesn't like it there, plus his career is here in CA. I feel so torn and cannot progress in life with this weight on me. Help!

One who keeps pushing you over the edge and when you lash out, she starts crying!!! She's so good at playing the victim.

I have fallen in love with my co worker, I still love my husband as well but have a different love for my friend We have had sex and it was different from my husband Can this work long term because I am so lucky to have two men in my life

Before my marriage, I believed in being single and not cheating in a relationship. This led me to have experiences with polyamory for about a year. I realized it wasnt for me and I got older I matured to where I felt I only had a place in my heart for one and was no longer interested in polyamory or open relationships. Fast forward to my wife, before we get married she says she is totally against open marriages and poloyamorus relationships. But during our anniversary trip, she revealed to me in a drunken state that she fantasizes about threesomes and bringing another woman into our relationship on a regular basis. I feel hookwinked, confused, and heartbroken. She also revealed some heart breaking new regarding her ex and her daughter. But the main thing that hurt me is that I feel that she conned me into believing she only wanted me, and that is not true. I do not want to married to a person who wants to have sex with other people. She claims that she didn't tell me the truth because she didn't want to her my feelings, but now I feel even more hurt. I value monogamy and I don't know how to move on or save my marriage after hearing this news because a lot of trust is lost. This is not the first time she has gotten drunk and revealed information she earlier claimed to not be aware of. I don't want to badger her about it every day, but without the trust I used to have when I believe she was one of the most honest people I knew, I'm so very very lost. I would like to clarify that the she is taking steps to bring the fantasy to fruition. She has arranged several dates for us to go to a strip club so we can look other women and choose. She went and bought my and herself an outfit to wear on these strip clubs outting and when were being intimate in the car, she told me she wished our "3some" friend was in the backseat so she could join in. I can live with it being just a fantasy, but it feels a lot like something she is trying to make happen.

He knows he's in trouble about it. But he chose to play Xbox most of the day instead. I'm a new mom and he's acting like a child.

I will never be able trust him again and will likely file for divorce soon. I over heard the jury while they polled them after verdict and they all thought my husband was guilty but the prosecution didn't prove its case. This must happen a lot..do you think so ?

We got divorced in December 2016 after her request. She has moved on very quickly and she is planning to get married in April. I am at the end of my grieving phase which is acceptance. It makes me wonder how she was able to adapt this quickly while I feel I have long journey before I really move on and start to date again and eventually marry. Is it usually easier on women to adapt after a divorce? Or it is easier on her just because she was the one who requested it and maybe mentally she was prepared for it long time ago so she is already ahead of me in time?

This is just something I'm wondering. My dream is to become a father in the future and I can't imagine being away from my children for so long. It's something I'm going to try my hardest to keep from happening to myself. How do divorced fathers cope with not having their children?

I unfortunately found out that my husband has cheated on me, not once but 3 times with different individuals. I have forgiven him every time, but not forgotten. I have been feeling the urge to be unfaithful...in my brain its not right, in my heart its not right, in my lust-life its everything and more. I have not made any of this known to anyone, including the person who I want to have relations with. I am at a point where if he did not once but 3 times, why can't I?

My wife is 28 and I'm 31. She is completing her Masters Degree and is currently "interning"(i.e. working for free) at a local business in the field she is studying. She also works part time at a grocery store. She still has about 1.5 years left in the program. I'm embarrassed that my wife is 28 working at a grocery store. My family has suggested ending the marriage. They feel at 28 she should be done with college and working a full time professional job. I support her financially (mostly) however, I do not pay her tuition or anything. I'm starting to see my friends buying homes and having children. We still currently rent and she has no savings so we are nowhere near close to being able to afford a home let alone children. I'm starting to rethink my marriage. Anyone have any advice?

My wife is 28 and I'm 31. She is obtaining her masters degree. She Is currently "interning"(i.e. free labor) at a local company in the subject she's getting her Masters Degree in. She's also working part time at a local grocery store. I'm embarrassed of my wife's work situation. My family often makes comments that suggest I should end my marriage with her because she's 28 years old and I'm mostly supporting her. They feel like at 28 she should be done with school and moved on to a professional job. She's very busy she's always either on campus studying, working, or at her internship so we don't see each other all that much. Im starting to become embarrassed of my wife and the life we have. We don't even own a home yet we are still renting a townhouse. Any advice?

then he stopped coming. I heard from somebody that he had gotten married. A year after I had last seen him at the bar I saw in the paper where he had gotten married. Then a year after that he had a picture of him and his new bride and a paragraph about how they were so HAPPILY MARRIED. They have been married 13 years now. And every since facebook started, they have been putting pictures of themselves on there showing how happy they are together. All the pictures show how HAPPY they are together. So guys, what is the trick or secret to having a marriage like this where there is everlasting HAPPINESS? This guy used to go to a bar a lot, so I know he ain't no saint.