My husband and I took a trip to Vegas (which he hates Vegas) but I have an old family member there he has never met. Either way, I love Vegas but my husband keeps complaining no matter what we do and he keeps trying to bring me down as well. I am so frustrated because he always preaches to not complain and make the best of what you can't change. Well, he needs to take his own medicine. He kept help that I have family in vegas or that we are there but he is trying to start fights. I haven't let him though, I don't play into his complain game. Help me

My co-worker flirted with me last year during our Christmas party. We ended up dancing through the night and even offered to drive me home multiple times. We didn't have a problem until he revealed his feelings. He told me he really liked me but he doesn't wanr to mess up my marriage. Ever since then, I couldn't get him off my head. I avoided him but couldn't do so well... Until that very eventful kiss...that is about to blow out of proportion. I haven't felt the same ever since then. I just want to get away with him and forget that I'm married and have responsibilities. I think I may have fallen inlove with my co-worker.

She uses her old phone to access porn. I didn't have a problem withit before but now, once she's in the bedroom, she doesn't come out. Sex life is good but our house is a mess!

My new boyfriend is honestly the sweetest person ever! He will always pay for my gas if I go down to visit him and will never let me buy food when we go out! He's so funny and such a gentleman and always puts me first! He always is asking to hangout and wanting to see me! But... there is one thing... he is so bad at texting me back! He'll take beyond hours and sometimes will only text me like five times a day! He works until 6 at night so I understand that! But, when he gets off of work... he texts me like once or twice! I don't want to be picky because that is something so minor compared to all of the other amazing things! I don't want to bring it up to him either because I don't want to sound annoying or desperate...but am I acting too crazy? Is this normal behavior? I understand he likes his alone time...but I like talking to him every now and again! Should I just let it go and realize this is part of his personality?

It's just weird. I remembered a father trick or treating with his kids. He looked at me in the eye and I just can't seem to let go of his gaze. I've had one of my bosses look at me that way and I couldn't stop thinking about him. Lately, it's a young man. He's a single Dad who is so put together and has been trying to avoid me because of my marital status. But I sense him watching me and he looks away when I catch him. I just don't get why I have these urges. I love my husband but wouldn't mind being alone with these men. Is this a sign of mid life crisis? I feel like a kid in high school- but I'm in my 40's.

I have seen many women and family members do this.

I have developed terrible headaches and went to my gyno for this issue. She prescribed a new pill but I need to see my regular doctor to be sure my headaches aren't there regardless of being on the pill or not. Well now I've not taken it for a month. One solid month I've been off of it after being on it for 10 years (I'm 32). We haven't had sex. He never is in the mood. We've only been together for 2 years :-( the first 8 months is as far as we got until he was less interested in it. I think he doesn't allow time for it in his day. He's also been laid off for 3 weeks! So he's around. And I work from home. Anyway... I think I might just stop taking it all together. Period symptom permitting. I feel like partly this is out of spite (and yes, we have talked about this! Also the pill. He says whatever I want to do) but I really just want to stop taking it. Why bother? He won't have sex with me. Here's a whole month gone and no sex. It was never needed. Just wanted to hear thoughts. There's only a few perks to staying on it. Light period, choosing when I get it and less acne.

think she will be mad the next time I see her. She thought I didn't​ have a place to stay.

For some reason the divorce has brought me a shame when obviously it was not me that screwed up the marriage. My parents just say they divorced to protect me so that adds to my shame.

It was open and used, she has been working late at the office and has been a bit odd lately wearing new make up high heels to work and not interested in sex with me It must be cheating?

and yet she accuses her son of wanting to have sex with her but she continues to do this!

I'm wondering whether or not I'm over reacting with this. On my husbands computer there are provocative pictures of his ex wife and numerous other women along with things he received from his ex wife while together. Is it justifiable for me to be angry that he still has all these things? Also if a girl who got between our relationship before keeps texting him pictures of them together do I have the right to be angry? He says I shouldn't because we're married but it doesn't make me feel better about it. Just need some advice here.

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Boyfriend, 33, is a papillary thyroid cancer survivor. His brother, 24, was diagnosed with lupus and currently has renal failure in need of a kidney transplant. And his dad, 58, was recently told had a mass on his kidney. In matters of marriage should i be concerned or could all of this be due to chance. I'm worried.

And who created what is age appropriate why do we have all these strict rules. Sexual child abuse is one of the most under punishable offenses out there and married men are f'ing eachother left and right on craigslist and everyone is worried about a 30 -50 year old women who likes to dress like a "teenager". Who makes these rules and why should us women have to oblige by them? There are heavy people every where so if old age skin is the reason than heavy people with cellulite shouldnt dress how they want/ By trendy i mean clothes that are advertised for 20 year olds. Or maybe goth or hippy style clothes.I overheard this women in her 40s or 50s saying i love those shorts only ifi were 20 years younger i would buy them. They were daisy dukes. I think she should have bought them. As for the people who will say I dont want to see 40 and 50 year olds wearing daisy dukes than dont look.

My brother was married for 10 years, and his wife declared several months ago that she wanted a divorce. Her reason? He got out of shape, started losing hair, and she's no longer attracted to him. Nevermind that she's declined in the looks department much more.... Now let's take a look at WHY he gained weight. He used to be in great shape, but after they had kids, his wife started getting on his case for spending an hour at the gym every day (hmm, maybe that's how he stayed in shape??). So he went only occasionally, and succumbed to having a "dadbod". Add to that, he worked 40-45 hours per week to feed the family, made decent money, while the wife didn't work (she didn't make much money even before then anyway), so she got a better house and better quality of life than she could have afforded otherwise. So let's sum up. My brother worked hard to support his family, blew off the gym at his wife's request, and now his wife is leaving him because....he blew off the gym! Now she wants to take his money so she can be lazy and not work. The system is horribly rigged against men. What can my brother do? He can't let this gold-digging, selfish, shallow c*nt win.

After how long into a relationship or after what stage its considered appropriate to ask ? Can asking too soon risk getting a no ? In my case, i did meet a wonderful woman, and im obviously eager to ask her but we havent dated or know each other that much. We met in church and talked on a few occassions. She doesnt date or dated anyone; marriage only. I know she comes from a very good family and i used to work with her older sister and she was an awesome person but back then she was married. How should i proceed ? Im 42 and she is 36 ( both never married ). She takes care of her parents all day at home alone.

My husband maintained a hooking up relationship with his ex for 6 years... He wanted to move on and change his life. When we met he didnt tell me his ex was still trying to reach out to him because even though she left him and marry another guy who she cheated on him with she still wanted him to be her lover. last year we got married and pregnant, and in the begenning when we started dating he cheated on me with her because she didn't want him to be with me, that was one time. he was with me and he would still meet up with her for lunch because he wanted closure" according to the old feelings, he confessed that he kept contact with her and had lunch a couple of times but at the end of last year he Cheated on me again two weeks after our daughter was born....... I knew something was going on and i made him confess and tell me the truth, he said he knew he made a mistake and asked me not to divorce him... he changed his phone number and all other information so she wouldn't contact him again... He said he regrets what he did and he doesn't want to loose his family... i left home and asked for a divorce, I do love him and i cant think of my family breaking, But it is hard to trust him again when He lied to me the whole time we were together.... I don t know what to do... I love him but at the same time i hate him and makes me furious.. I was happy and dedicated now I don t feel the same way...

My husband maintained a hooking up relationship with his ex for 6 years... the last one he was with me and he would still meet up with her and cheated on me when we first got together and Cheated on me again two weeks after our daughter was born....... I knew something was going on and i made him confes and tell me the truth, he said he knew he made a mistake and asked me not to divorce him... he changed his phone number and all other information so she wouldn't contact him again... He said he regrets what he did and he doesn't want to loose his family... i left home and asked for a divorce, I do love him and i cant think of my family breaking, But it is hard to trust him again when He lied to me the whole time we were together.... I don't know what to do... I love him but at the same time i hate him and makes me furious.. I was happy and dedicated now I don't feel the same way...

Anyway I ended up sqandering my plans and had one of the kids left with me in the process. You think my wife would be appreciative but she has actually been an *** to me since I did her this favor. So my trying to be helpful was percieved as weak? How do I know when to be helpful and when to say No. Is this some elaborate game shes playing? Note- I am the only one who works(first day off in 2 weeks) and she knew I had the morning off to get a haircut and meet with a financial planner.

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My girlfriend got angry with me because she saw that my ex wife had messaged me on Facebook and I did not mention it to her. Granted I did not hide it from her either, I had my phone out in front of her and let my gf see and use my phone and Facebook whenever she wants. I have nothing to hide I just thought it was irrelevant. My ex wife is remarried and was messaging me about a guy we both once knew who was on the news and we were discussing him and his issues. That was all. Also my ex wife lives in another country. My gf got very upset with me over this but I dont think its fair because she messages men she doesnt even know on Facebook without telling me and she initiates it. She also went out of town and stayed with a single male friend of hers at his place for several days without inviting me but I trust her and trust she wont do anything so not worth making a huge deal out of it even though I dont like it and wish she wouldn't do those things. Also my gfs ex husband and father of her kids also comes over to her place and hangs out with his kids while she is there and I have said nothing about that either even though I don't like it and I think the guy is a sleaze bag I trust her and I get he needs to see his kids and its hard for her to have him take his kids sometimes because he is so irresponsible. But I don't get why she is giving me such a hard time over something so meaningless such as Facebook messages that weren't inappropriate. Is it hypocritical of her?

My husband and I have been married, going on 8 years. We have 4 amazing children and a wonderful relationship. We also have a phenomenal sex life (hence the 4 kids...). This being said, we have been together 8 years, so I'm pretty much out of tricks and surprises in the bedroom. We are going to have some "us time" tonight, and I'd love to blow him away (pun intended). Any kinky, fun tips?- Preferably from men, but if any women know of something that their man loved, I'll take all the advice I can get! Thanks! <3

My wife and I have been married for 2 years. I am the primary breadwinner and pay 90 percent of the bills. We each have our own car. I have a minivan and she drives a sedan. We both have kids from a previous marriage. We each have a daughter that are only months apart in age. They are both about to be 16 and my daughter wants to get her permit. I think learning to drive in the car occasionally is better than a van. My wife my a huge deal about my daughter using her car. She said they have a mother and father for that. I asked if her daughter would be able to drive it and she said she would take a chance on her driving it. Let me say I treat her daughter like my own and always have. Because of this argument she left. And now she keeps saying I get mad over little stuff like the car. Am I wrong in this? I think step kids should be treated like biological kids. I also think that when you are married your stuff is each other. I would let her or her daughter drive my van anytime they wanted to.

I was using my husband s cell phone last night to look up something (Android) I used the chrome app...When I opened the app about 8 pages were open already, 1 happen to be a porn site. We were stand beside each other and as soon as I opened and he saw the page open, he gently grabbed the phone and started deleting history. I began to walk off and he said "What is it?" I said...Nothing, I will use my phone. He wouldn t say anything thing else wouldnt even look at me and went and sat on the couch for like an hour doing something with his phone. I went to bed, then he texts my phone and said..."my phone has a virus, I wasn t searching porn." And then the next morning, the first words he said to me were..." My conscience is clear, I wasn t searching porn." I don t want to be lied to, but don t want to jump to conclusions. I m unsure if a virus can actually pull the site up and leave the actual page open in the chrome history? I ve never had my phone leave a page open that I didn t pull up to look at. Answers would be appreciated. I understand some people don't view porn as bad, but we have discussed the subject and I have made my view of not appreciating my husband viewing porn. I know he viewed it when he was single and that was his own business then.

My husband and I are having a discussion right now and I wanted everyone's take on it. Our niece is an hour and a half away at college and she's a member of her school's gospel choir. He was texting with her about a concert they were having tomorrow and he floated the idea of us driving up to hear their performance. I asked him if he was going to drive cause he has the road vehicle. He told me that he didn't see any reason why we couldn't take my car. I told him I was worried about gas cause I've gotta get back and forth to and from work next week and his reply was "what car doesn't run on gas?" I just feel like my car wouldn't make the trip. Yes, this is the same vehicle I bought last summer against his wishes and due to the mechanical issues with it I don't feel confident on putting it on the highway. He said you never know what it will do unless you put it on the road. The farthest I've driven it was about 22 miles to church. Work is only about 17 miles from my house. He said it's not like it's breaking down every other week. I took it yesterday to get it inspected and surprisingly, it passed. He said to just fill up the tank and put a bottle of fuel additive in it. I told him that I had already filled up and I wish he would have told me about the fuel additive earlier. He then tells me that you put fuel additive in on a full tank. My reply was, "Well why don't you just let me know these things anyway or buy the bottle and put the bottle in my car for me to put in the tank? Yes, that is what husbands do." His reply was that he's so tired of hearing women use that blanket statement, "that's what husbands do" until it makes him sick. He then goes on to say that I can tell him every time I think I hear a noise or squeak. I hound him when I think I need brakes or smell something funny in my car. My reply was, "Well why don't you just let me know these things anyway or buy the bottle and put the bottle in my car for me to put in the tank? Yes, that is what husbands do." His reply was that he's so tired of hearing women use that blanket statement, "that's what husbands do" until it makes him sick. He then goes on to say that I can tell him every time I think I hear a noise or squeak. I hound him when I think I need brakes or smell something funny in my car. He said that I did my research on that car without any input from him but refused to take his advice on not buying it. However, I can't stop by Walmart or an auto parts store and buy a $8 or $9 bottle of additive and pour it in the tank. He said that if that's the case then he shouldn't be cooking or cleaning cause that's what wives do. He said this is 2017 not 1950 where men took care of stuff like that. He said he knows girls who can tear down a transmission but I can't seem to figure out how to buy a bottle of fuel additive and pour it in my tank without being told. Do gender roles still exist in 2017 or am I just saying that to get out of doing work? According to him he says women use the line of "that's just what men do" to get out of certain tasks. He hates to even wash my car. He said that it's my car so I should want to keep it clean. Is there something wrong with a woman washing her own car when she's got a boyfriend or a husband? I think there is!

So for the last year my wife and mother don't speak. This is due to years of conflict culminating in a big argument. They did send eah other a text a few weeks ago waving a white flag. . Today is my mothers birthday and so I sent flowers and told my wife. She freaked out on me and hung up the phone saying the only reason I told her is to remind her it was my mothers birthday and I was manipulating her to get her to to call my my mother. This is totally untrue I only told her so that if my mother thanked her she would know what she was talking about- sheeesh!!!!!!!!! Did I do the wrong thing here.

So my wife had an affair, mostly emotional, no sex, over a year and a half ago. It is a coworker and she recently went to their annual convention which was out of town. She says she loves me and that it is all in the past, but she did hang out with him at the convention (in a group of friends), as she states it. She says she was primarily hanging out with two other co-workers most of the time. I did not think her going to convention, while I watched the kids, was a big deal, but it brought up a lot of anxiety and questions. I began to worry that she may be hanging out with him and the opportunity was there to do much more. I brought these feelings up to my wife and she assured me that nothing happened and that they only.hung out in a group setting and that he was too drunk half the time to even talk (he is an alcoholic). So my question is how would handle this as I am not getting over my anxiety? Counseling? Am I being too naieve in believing my wife? Out of respect for me, should she never have gone or hang out with him at all, even in a group?

Nearly everyone I know has had this happen in their marriage, it seems they all do it, why?

Not my heart. He's very immature and depends on me for everything he is un capable of taking care of the kids. I'm really tired of him but I really love him but I think it's time to let him go and wish him the best in life. He also depends on me for money also I have to pay for the living cost. All I can say is I'm tired

Just broke up. He got upset over something very insignificant as usual but he left me at the mall with my child and went home by himself. I looked and called for him and called a few times and texted because when I saw him I thought he didn t see me. He never answered my calls. When I got home he was home and we weren t speaking to each other. I approached him and asked him what happened and he said he was looking for me and I had ignored him so he left. I told him I didn t see him until he was heading down an escalator and it wouldn t make sense to wait for him just to ignore him. And he starts saying that he doesn t know why I do the things I do, which in my opinion aren t significant. I.e. getting a little defensive when he snaps at me and it s not a big deal to me. I believe it s human nature to defend yourself. But I m never nasty. But he thinks I ignored him which I didn t. I continued to explain that I didn t see him at all until he was heading towards the escalator and he didn t believe me. I asked what was his reasoning behind not even answering the phone after numerous times calling him and he said it was because I ignored him. He wasn t apologetic at all and didn t seem to repent anything he did. He felt justified so I told him he had to leave the house and he just said "ok". I m not sure how someone who loves me can act this way. He s usually the most amazing man apart from this repetitive behavior. I made this choice not using my heart and I m so hurt now. Hurt

Im a newly wed and maybe this is normal?? My husband always treats me different infront of his friends and honestly it's annoying. I can make a simple joke that normally he would find hilarious but infront of them he criticizes it and tells me that it makes no since and has to bring so much logic into it that its ridiculous. Just to make me look stupid and then he just laughs it off and doesn't understand later after his friends leave why I'm giving him the cold shoulder. Why does he have to do it when its honestly so embarrassing??

I know for a fact that she's not cheating because I have access to her phone and her social media accounts. Also, I can check in on her anytime at the gym. She's a gym rat and her hard work pays off because she looks great. But she revealed she has a crush on a much younger guy (27 yo) and sometimes talk about the men who hit on her. It turns me on but I'm also frustrates. This new crush is 14 years younger than her. Her ex lover who cost us our first marriage was also very young. How can I trust her again? That's what makes sense now because that's all that I have? To love and to trust her.