My wife of 25 years and mother of my child spent 3 years prior to this one in love with a guy who worked with her and what seemed to be a mid life crisis. She says that nothing happen among them except talking and kissing him on the mouth 3 times (no tongue and no sex). Now she had tried to be a great wife for the last year.....I do not the same love for her (even when I think that is very erotic what happened). I am thinking on leaving her.....my son is already a grown up man. What do you think (I fell in love with another woman now)

My husband keeps telling me I'm stupid if I don't understand that he will be making more money (enough where I don't have to work anymore) and I'm not sucking his d***. He wants me to quit and stay home have babies, cook and suck his d***. My problem is I don't love him nomore so why would I quit my job to depend on a piece of shyt like him. He treats me like shyt. Constantly puts me down. Why would I even want to be with him anymore. I'm trying for a divorce thats taking a freaking year. I can't even pretend to like him because just him touching me makes me want to pull my eyes out. I honestly hate this guy.

Long story that goes into this. He has been arrested. My boyfriend and I had been living together and had a baby together(and a second one on the way). He was slightly mentally ill and had an anger issue. He managed to keep it until control for the most part up until we moved in together then he started getting verbal and physical. And it was worse and worse each time. Eventually he knocked me out and broke my arm so badly that I need surgery to put the bones back together. The time before that he broke my nose and I fainted from blood lose. For whatever reason, after he broke my amr - he started treating me TERRIBLE. Mainly verbally. There was 6 days between the time he broke my arm to the time he was arrested. During that six days I was bossed around, told I was an inconvience, told I was ugly, a c**t, w**re,needed surgery on my body, needed to dye my hair, he wanted to have sex with other women, threaten to force me to miscarry, told me he wanted me to move out but then wouldnt let me leave. He would ignore me whenever he wasnt being verbally abusive unless he wanted sex. Then he'd tell me I'm only good for sex and Im just a hole. I know he was afraid of getting reported. Which he did and is facing prison time because he was already on probation for something else. I want to know why he treated me WORSE than ever after breaking my arm. I do not know why he was so aggressive in the first place. I was never violent towards him. Thats just how he handled himself. Reckless. I have left. My child and I where he cant find us. There are restraining orders. He has supervised visits.

I'm sorry John. I handled things very badly. I shouldn't have expected you to just leave, or hit you, or negotiated with Abdul. I was just so scared that something very bad will happen to you. The soon after I was in shock, in constant terror. But it's over now, I know how it felt for him when he was a kid and some more, yay they all won that one, they got us.... Nice battle for them, but the war belongs to us, cos I'm over it... I forgive you, if you forgive me, please come back, today. I need to be naughty in your lap.

So I have full custody of my son for 3 years now. My ex wife was ordered to pay child support and has not in the whole time. So six months ago we messed around and she got pregnant. She says it's mine but she likes to keep several warm beds. Just to add some fact she has also been busted for drugs jailed been in rehab and lost a child because of drug use while pregnant. So my question is she just threatened me with asking for child support from me. But she is also behind on child suppor to me $13,000. What would happen in a situation like this?

I've been with this guy for three years and he has never bought be a single present, I never wanted one but recently I found out he always bought his ex presents all the time and planned so many special surprises for her. I have however bought him countless presents and he always asks me for money £500 here, £200 there and it adds up. But I've only been beaten black and blue and verbally abused. Not only me but my entire family has been verbally abused by this idiot. I don't even work, I'm still in education and my parents finance me so he is swearing at the man who he takes money from - how bloody shameless. Why do I find it so hard to hate him even though I know he's a cow? He treated me worse than an animal. He made me stay in dirty parks up to 4am and didn't let me go home and I have to pay for EVERYTHING from hotels to restaurants to cinemas. Why would he do this to me? All I've ever done is give him everything I could, I always cook for him, buy him presents, send him sweet messages, I listen to everything he tells me to do and this is what I get? Why?

its just my daughter and I after wife passed away from drug addiction(s) I guess I have to tell her to be quiet? or leave a note?

Could I find latina in mexico for love and marriage and what would happen if I happen to leave $ 1,000 and she uses money to come across the border will she she considered traveler coming to see new husband ?

Hear me out. Because overtime a woman tries to say most men are jerks or men are this or that. So many are so quick to say that's not true! I'm 20 years old and in college. Both of my best friends had boyfriends that cheated on them and then those same two girls had guys who tried to cheat (like pursuing another girl, sending messages, etc.). I had a guy who I had a relationship with tell me he would sleep with my friend because I didn't want to have sex with him because I had my period. I had another guy I was seeing for 3 months tell me I was annoying because I didn't want to masturbate with him via Skype. These aren't guys that we met on the street. These are guys that I knew well for years and outside of these incidents were really nice. (One a volunteer firefighter, an honor student, one of them taught my little brother how to ride a bike. One lunged across the street when he saw an old lady drop something to give it to her.) They did really hurtful things and I wouldn't have expected it from any of them. I had a guy who hurt my feelings after I recently had a breakup which he knew about and he chose to sleep with me and then blow me off. I told him he hurt my feelings and he apologized. 2 weeks later, he asks to sleep with me. When I asked him if he'd ignore me again after he said, "I don't know." These are all blatant stories of people being awful. And my point is the majority of adult men I know seem like good people. So I don't understand if they change with time. I don't know what the issue is but my friend just broke up with her boyfriend for cheating and that story about the guy that blew me off, apologized, then wanted to do the same thing again happened last month. I haven't been willing to go out with anyone else. Because I was already hurt and I don't know when I'm willing to risk someone hurting me like that again.

One minute he's fine and the next he flips out over nothing. He stays up for days,doesn't eat, very irritable,and stays in the bathroom a lot.

A man told me he is sexless. Does that mean he has no gender or he has no penis?

Me and my wife got married yesterday were on our honeymoon right now. What do we do ?

My fiancee and I have really hit a wall. Long story short I asked her about therapy together because we go to individual therapy but she says "i dont know, I will think about it." And she says she has her doubts because she saw her parents do therapy and it didn't work. The reason we hit a wall is because she is unsure of things and really doesn't know what she wants out of life or whether she really wants marriage or kids anymore. Thanks!

We're 5 months together and recently had one of our most largest fights/argument. It got heated up last Thursday night. The next day, she acted like a ***** and kept shifting our timing/date to meetup to resolve what we have not resolve that night. So I got more angry and can't believe she's being such a *****. She knew I had to do my work that day, but kept making false promises to talk about our quarrel and fix it. In the end, after I waited for her the entire day, she told me one more time that she wants to change our 'meetup' timing for resolving our problems to another day, because she 'needs space' I know she was using 'space' as an excuse because earlier that day she said we could talk about it in the afternoon, then she shifted it to evening, then night, then 'I need space' came and she wanted 3 days of 'space', pushing BACK our unresolved and ongoing argument! wtf I told her how much her actions hurt me because she doesn't seem to care about my feelings and the relationship.(in a relationship I'm pretty sure a girl shouldn't purposely want to hurt her man either, gotta let it known) After a few days of her 'space', (which was a bad idea btw, always best to solve things asap, imo at least). We finally got to resolve it last night. But because I was actually so hurt by how she just didn't care about how I felt last week, I felt a loss of connection between her and I. I felt a lost of trust and reliability. How should I go about handling this?

Once I tried to talk to him about his ex/baby mama that he had been off and on with for 17 years.He always seems to bring her up a lot and too much.And by the way, he continued to talk to his baby mama(as friends I think)while we're dating and even after we got married.I did know he talked to her but she didn't know he was talking to me.He told her that Christmas after we got married that we were married.I was glad she finally knew.So now my husband keeps Saying I act like her, same moles, same attitude, talk,I love on him the same, same personality, and pretty much the same everything!It's driving me crazy and today he said he got my picture I sent him.He said the picture looked like Jenny(which is his ex/baby mama).I said what picture, I didn't send you a picture-especially not of Jenny!?I asked him how he got it.But he wouldn't say.He says I need to quit switching out with my twin sister.And said I need to quit asking questions or I'll ruin the surprise.I do not understand at all- I want to know if I've possibly been set up by my husband and his baby mama, or if he's ******* with me, or if he's purposely trying to just **** with my head and get me to leave. But get me to leave? Hell I have tried that and he says why divorce? So our marriage can be for nothing? I do not understand!!

I have a friend. She s been with her husband for 7 years now, 3 of them have been married. All of a sudden, like two days ago, he leaves in the middle of the night and tells her he isn t ready for a relationship. What I don t get is, why would a man marry someone if he s not ready for that kind of commitment?? Am I missing something here???

I am talking about stuff like food for the kids clothing cleaning products ect. Is this normal? It is all about his needs. I work longer hours than he does and I run the house while he plays on his computer or hangs out with friends. He will never do anything with the kids to help out.

I once bought underwear it was a secret game organised for New Year, and she said that it was me who bought. Should i go and hit her ? I once bought underwear it was a secret game organised for New Year, and she said that it was me who bought. Should i go and "hit" her , flirt back

I have OCD. Not the type where I wash my hands a lot....OCD centering around obsessive thoughts. I have social anxiety because I feel the need to tell EVERYONE about mistakes my husband or I have made in the past. I am an open book. I feel like when I make new friends, they need to know EVERYTHING bad we have ever done. Then that way they can make a TRUE decision on whether they want to be friends with us or not. Almost like, if we don't tell EVERYTHING we are lying, or holding something back. And if they knew stupid things we had done, they wouldn't want to be around us. My husband did some stupid things when he was 20/21. He made stupid financial decisions with the people that he doesn't really associate anymore. Those people still live in our town. I always feel the need to ask people if they know the guy, if he has mental problems, if he is a good guy or not, etc. The guy is weird, and I think that could mean he has a problem. I get mad at my husband for being involved with him in the first place 14 years ago. I always feel the need to tell people the story and hear their opinions. My husband is a good man and is loved by many. He is not the person he was back then. He is caring and treats me so well. What do I do??

He said its between 27 to 35. Is it a normal number for 27 year old man? Why does he still keep them on FB? Every time I find out its a woman he had sex with in the past I get really upset, sometimes even start crying.. He did mention about the number of women before we got married, but I still feel hurt, dont know why.Maybe I feel insecure and think that he moves from one girl to another really fast and that it will happen with me aswell? I always want to know if they are prettier, if he enjoyed sex.. I am 24 years old and so far had just 3 partners. Whats wrong with me? Or there is something wrong with him? Why do I keep the anger because of that? I feel really bad I cant control my feelings about that.. Maybe I get upset because I wanted someone who would appreciate intimacy as much as me? Please, help me understand why it is like that and how can I fix it?

i have been in love but not with someone who i felt was longterm potential OR who i wanted to cohabit with. i don't have commitment issues, i just naturally view the opposite sex in terms of "coworker" "sex provider" and not "future mate". maybe i've had too many relationships that didn't work out so i don't expect much. why do people choose monogamy?

we were having kissing and taking off each others clothes. i told him jokingly what if i stop you now, he replied he'll r*pe me. I was really hurt and taken aback. be apologized many times and said he didn't mean it and it was a bad joke. he's a really nice guy otherwise. gets me things, cares about my feelings, respects my family, loves me, never screams at me etc but this thing i can't forget. Am i right?he said how sorry he was and it was bad judgment and he'd never hurt me i was sexually abused in the past and he knows this that's why im so hurt.

jim sent the picture of this women me-Who is that lol Why you send it to me jim-She hot huh me-who is she jim-Her name is kim me-Why did you send this to me lol. Kim?. Do you or me knows her jim-I no her What you don't like me-Just wanted to know why you sent it to me lol. I bet you like it lol. jim-I got her topples too me-Ok lol You got her topless also. Why jim-Why not I like boob's I'm a GUY me-Don't you have a girlfriend lol Where did you meet Kim at jim-I got 99problems but a ***** ant one me-What jim-Nice talk How's wife me-Im happy with my wife that's the only women I want. But hey have fun lol. she good jim- Good for you Bye me-Are okay your acting weird today?. jim-Lol me okay thats nice me-Yea is everything okay with you. Lol. Your being wired today lol jim-She's cool haven't seen her in a long time just asking how she was if that's being wired I'm sorry IL just delete you me-No I was saying about the picture not about my wife lol The picture you sent me that's what im talking about. Saying if your okay jim-Yes I'm a guy I like women I thought you would like to see it to just because you look didn't mean u want her Geez don't worry I won't send you anything else I deleted you have a good night me-It was nice to see lol. Never said it wasn't Have a good night your getting mad over Notting. Bye jim-You called me wired bro **** that **** me-i never called you wired i said you was acting wired thats different then calling you it i was seeing if your okay because you never send me things like this