Hace un año mis padres se separaron después de 36 años de haber estado casados. No se divorciaron por que ninguno vio sentido a hacer los trámites, pero dejaron de vivir juntos y quedó muy claro que su relación se terminaba. Tras su separación mi madre se veía muy contenta, y mi padre se deprimió. Buscando salir de su depresión mi padre se hizo de una nueva pareja (una señora mayor y viuda), la cual le ha venido muy bien para hacerle compañía y salir de su depresión. Mi hermano, mi familia (estoy casado y tengo dos hijos) y yo aprobamos el que mi papá tenga una relación con alguien más por que ya terminó su relación con mi madre y a él le ha venido muy bien tener esa relación. Y hemos convivido con mi papá y su pareja. Desde que se separaron hemos estado muy al pendiente de mi mamá y le hemos dado mucha compañía (más que a mi papá), y la convivencia había sido muy bonita y veíamos a mi mamá mucho mejor que cuando estaba junto a mi papá. Un día ella descubrió todo y a partir de ahí ella se enfureció, me dejo de hablar, me exigele regrese cosas que ella me ha dado, me difama, me acusa de machista, dice que me dejé envenenar por mi padre, me hecha en cara lo que hizo por mi, que ella esta enferma y sola y lo último es que quiere que ponga a su nombre una casa que yo compré y que ella me dio dinero para terminar de pagarla, y me amenazó con demandarme si no lo hago. Que hago? no quiero perder a ninguno de mis padres.

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Every time i go camping with my mother it makes me miserable, just the way she acts and other things. When I told her I don t want to go I would rather stay home she told me i have to go with her and there is no other choice , I tried to tell her it makes miserable but she just screams at me. It s not camping which stresses me out I ve been with my dad a boyfriend and I loved but when I go with her it s horrible. What should I do?

My parents messed up a lot and still do in their adult relationships with us. They are not bad people but they have messed up. Why can't parents be excellent and instead are just good.

Ever since a few years ago, my youngest sister has been a bully to me. I'm the youngest of two older siblings (sisters), and my eldest sister and I have relationship that nobody can compare. Ever since I was a little kid, she's loved and taken care of me as if I was her child. My youngest sister, however, hates me. She gets along with everyone, but me. She often talks to me with attitude when she tells me something, and if I forget something thats in her way, she'll yell at me. If she's sleeping, and hears footsteps, she yells at me assuming its me. She's 25, I'm 19, eldest sister is 28. I've fought back many times. If my mom asks who left a dish on the sink, she'll say "your son did it", I have a name. At parties in front of cousins and relatives, she totally different. She's so sweet towards me and everyone, she dresses up acts like a doll, and everyone compliments her. She'll even call me to dance with her. She's a university grad and works a stable job. Last night, I was using the washroom, and when using the faucet, she woke up at 3am and yells at me to go to my room. This morning, she wake me up early, and forces me out of bed, because I woke her up from the faucet noise. After refusing to, she came to physically attempt to beat me out of bed when my mom held her back. I eventually got up, brushed my teeth, and out of anger, I grabbed my coat, ran out and kicked her car front bumper. My parents have tried to discipline her when she first was aggressive, but it doesn't work. My parents tell me to just let her be. Many of our relatives actually look up to her, because she acts smart and sweet with her "cute and sweet" personality. She talks behind my back to her friends saying im spoiled, lazy, have no friends, my parents get everything i want because they feel bad for me, i have adhd. In fact, my parents blamed me for this morning's fight that I shouldnt be up that late. My parents have tried to discipline her when she first was aggressive, but it doesn't work. My parents tell me to just let her be. Many of our relatives actually look up to her, because she acts smart and sweet with her "cute and sweet" personality. She talks behind my back to her friends saying im spoiled, lazy, have no friends, my parents get everything i want because they feel bad for me, i have adhd. In fact, my parents blamed me for this morning's fight that I shouldnt be up that late.

Well, in case you haven´t figured it out yet, me and my family are on the upper end of poverty. Which really is not bad, the issue is from a change a few months ago. Context: Parents got divorced almost 5 years ago. Following the divorce, I decided to live with my mother during the week, and see my father either on Friday or Saturday to Sunday afternoon. Despite my dad having a much larger place to live, he is an alcoholic, which does not make for the best living conditions, even though he never physically harmed me. Me, my mom, and my brother, moved to an old, seemingly lost in time town, which I lived in at ages 1-3. The time in between this was from ages 3-11. During the summer of 2012, I moved to this old town, as already said. For the first 3 years of living here (ages 11-14), I lived in a fairly roomy two bedroom apartment with my mom and brother. All was well, until this summer (July 2016) I had no choice but to move to a crummy one bed room apartment, mostly being attributed to my mother's little boyfriend, which owns the apartment/lives next door. I hate it. There is hardly any room, you wouldn't believe it. My younger bro has his own room, a pretty good room if I might add, my mother sleeps on the couch, and I sleep in a renovated corner of the house with a broken door designated as a "room". I need good advice, no: "Starving kids in Africa". Living here is very frustrating: no privacy, my mother nags all the time/makes it even worse, etc. BTW, I am age 15 and male.

My parents think I should take sides and turn on the aunt for rejecting her own son. I don't like what she is doing at all but don't think it is my business. She resents her son because he loves his father and lives with him. She is divorced from his father. Her two daughters are loyal to her and hate their father, her ex-husband. So are my parents right that I should turn on the aunt or am I right that it's none of my business? My parents have a long history of wanting to use me for family conflicts.

i m a very private person and i love to lock my bedroom door before i leave the house.. i m not hiding anything bad from anyone i just don t like it when people look around my things and just look through my stuff in general.. now the problem is that my mom is too nosy and when i leave the house she uses the spare key to my room to come in and check if my room is clean even if i clean it all the time she just loves to come in my room and i guess go through my stuff.. and she doesn t only do it for me she does it for my sisters too, and IF she saw anything that she don t like when i come back home she starts shouting at me for it i m a 23 year old girl i know its odd that i still live with her but thats how our culture works if i could move out i would have done it 5 years ago.. i don t know what to do in order to keep her away from my room i told her many times that i like my privacy in my room yet she refuses to listen is there any way i can keep my door locked in a way that she can t go in my room when i m out ?

I found out that my dad is cheating on my mom... What do I do? I have three brothers one that is 14 ( my twin) one that is 19 and one tHat is 21. Should I tell one of them? I saw my Dad s texts, I m completely sure he is doing it. Please help

I am a fat 25 year old transgender, who is currently loosing money to trump care and is in need of fish food. What is the best type of fish food????!?!?!? My wife is 5 months old, and my husband is 95.

While I was still at work, my mom texted ms and asked me to pick up my brother and watch him tonight. Which, I usually don't mind. But I'm so drowning in back logged work that I wanted to just dedicate today to that. And I asked her if someone was at the house that could just stay behind. No one was at the house with my 6 year old brother. He was there alone. So obviously I went and got him. The issue I am now posed with is that he was left. Alone. In the house! At 6! But now also what the hell would she have done if I said no? Just left him there all day alone? How would he have ******* gotten himself food and everything? He could have been hurt, someone could have broken in, he could have left, opened the door and got kidnapped, like ******* hell, we don't live in a great area as is, leaving a child alone for more than 5 minutes is dangerous, let alone for HOURS. I don't entirely know how to ******* handle this, man. If it were anyone else, I would have torn her apart and threatened to not give the kid back, but it's my own mother, who admittedly was a shitty mother to me as well. It might seem like on overreacting but it's happened before, too! I didn't know that, but he's literally been left home like all night alone.

I applied for social services because I had 2 major surgeries and now social services has set up a court date for me to take my ex to court. I explained I didn't want that because he has one child and I have one child ! So why are they making us go?

My grand daughter (my son's child) sent me a thank you card for some money I sent for her birthday and addresses me as Mr. my Last name and she does not call me Grand father or Grandpa or anything like that. Is this disrespectful or normal? I haven't seen her since she was a baby. Should I confront my son about this? The letter was very formal and not very loving but she did say thank you for the gift. She is 20 years old.

Is it not the parents? Here is the situation: I was at my friend's house, and we were playing a game on our 3DSes (3DS's?). Then, his 3-year-old grabbed it out of my hand and threw it across the room. Now, it won't work. At first, it would turn on, and then turn right back off as soon as the screen flashed on, now it won't even do that. My thoughts are, if I had laid it down, knowing he was around, and he got ahold of it, it would have been my fault, but since he grabbed it out of my hands, that makes it different. Am I correct in this? I even said that he could replace it with a 2ds, because it's so much cheaper.

I ve been living here on this earth for 19 years without a clue on who my dad is. My mom literally has no idea and was wondering if anyone knew of a way I could figure it out. It s super important to me to know who he is.

I've been lying about my grades for a few years now. I am a good student, I do all my work, I just don't get things right all the time. My worst grade ever was a D+. The only reason I've lied is because my dad is really strict. He scares me, he can get so mean sometimes. I'm afraid of what he'll do if he finds out. He just asked me for the pasword for my grades. I just don't know what to do. I'm scared to give him the grades. What should I do? Please help.

Few days ago,I went to visit my family my father and mother had an argue and in the heat of the argue my father told accused her that she is a selfish person because she told my father "what is the point of saving the money,it will be inherited by "me and my wife" and they will enjoy it " I did not show that it hurts me.and I left. I can't get this out of my head,I'm their only son.I'm not depending on them financially I work and am living alone .Plus, it is not like i'm sitting on a huge fortune. I need nothing from her,I feel hurt Does she hate me ?why did she said that? ??? @Anonymous : The fought right in front of me you dumb

We filed a report to them.

She treats my mom like **** and my mom doesent do anything to her and she even treats me like **** and I don t do anything to her she is so spoiled she has a I phone 6 or 7 gold and I only have computer that isent really that good. We only been a few road trips but half way into them she has a freak out in the car. Sorry for my grammar

Growing up they've always worried about me alot at every age. I'm 18 now and I'm not legally allowed to move out since I live in a different country than the US where the legal age is 21. So we're still considered kids where I'm from. They don't want me to be with my boyfriend alone because they think he might rape a girl like me, and theyre worried about the dangers of being in a college campus. I went to a K-13 school (the majority of the schools here dont separate specific age groups). They're less worried about my 14 year old brother and he's allowed to date at a younger age than i was. I wasn't allowed to date till now, but he's been allowed to date once he turned 14. I used to have an earlier curfew than him too. Is it because of the legal age thing...? An 18 year old here would have the same freedom as about, a 15 year old from the US?

I really wanted to move to Los Angeles and I have been talking about it for a couple years. My mom didn't like the idea of me moving to LA blindly, so she talked to my aunt and uncle- who live in San Diego- which is not LA, but close enough where I can visit. I have been living with my aunt and uncle for almost a year. I've been working at a restaurant and intern on the side. I want to go into film development, and I'm passionate about finding literary properties and stories to turn into films. I have been going on about this for ages. I always post entertainment news and opinions on my blog and social media, but no one in my family seems to pay attention. I have brought this up multiple times. I have visited and stayed in LA multiple times, and decided I want to move there to continue pursuing my dreams. I have been saving my money since I've been here and will be able to get a transfer from my current restaurant job so I can keep myself afloat while I look for something industry related. However, my family voiced a lot of opposition. They tell me I'm not ready, and there is a difference between what I want to do and can do. On top of that, my parents can't help me financially and I've been doing everything on my own. My parents have even borrowed large sums of money from me- which really pissed me off because they told me I need money to move to LA. I'm not sure what to do. This whole ordeal has caused a strain. It really hurts that I don't have their support.

He was nice until about age 10 and he's been horrible the last five years and needs help or he's going to grow up to be as evil as he is now.

Nobody spoke to them for about five years including me as we all considered them basically condemned to hell. However enough time has past now and we're all nice to her again and I'm even polite to the guy and I occasionally to his store occasionally like twice a year. My parents think this is wrong and obsessive of me. Am I wrong to be polite to the sky that she had the affair with? My aunt is the only other person who's ever spoken to the man other than our hate letters to him 10 years ago. I don't really like him but I want to support the cousin of my mom so I do like.

I work in Japan as an English teacher. One of my students is a 6 year old boy, his father died when he was 4 years old when we have gotten really close. Her mom is single and works as waitress at a restaurant, she works so hard to provide for him and I feel like I'm falling in love with the two. I know she doesn't make much but she keeps on paying for our lesson so his son's English would improve. I know she works so hard and if it was up to me, I wouldn't charge her but I have a boss. Anyway, she's a beautiful woman with a beautiful. When I do my lessons I see her budgeting her money or do chores after a hard days work. I already spent 1 year with the kid and I feel that he's already my son and I wouldn't mind being his dad and marrying Noriko (her mom) but I have a girlfriend back home, I can't leave her. Sorry, I feel so emotional right now I can't type well.

I want to help a friend of mine. She's a great mom and sweet person. But she suffers from manic depression and anxiety disorder. I wish to do something to make her happy, feel special and important. But i do have boundaries since she is married - yet she is neglected by her husband - Advice ?

So i had this sort of girlfriend who is older than me i am 18 years old and one day she invited me to her house and we ended up having relations while her little sister was in the other room. Her dad found out about this now he says he is going to accuse me for it or something like that .. did i commit any type of crime ? I never forced enter or nothing the baby never saw anything and of course i didn t do anything she didn t want me to do.

It's like she thinks I'm the other woman in the marriage but I'm actually a 15-year-old son.

Hi, I am 25 years old and a senior in college. I have a job and my own place-I have always been the only one in my family with responsibility and stability so when my 15 year old sister started having trouble with my mom (verbally/sometines physically abusive), it was either me or my dad she had the option to go with. My step mom is pretty mean so she came to live with me and my dog. I laid down the rules for her and for the most part she followed them. However, she is homeschooled via an online setup that starts at 7:10. Every morning I have to wake her up and force her to log in and actually listen instead of falling back asleep, which she does often. Last night I came back home and the whole living room area was a wreck-she claimed my dog did it and I explained to her that if he was such a terror to put him up. Turns out she had never cleaned up like I asked and had spent the day on her phone with her 'girlfriend'. I took the phone from her, and am having her log in to class on my laptop, but she still refuses to get up in time. I don't have any kids, so I'm at loss at to why I have to hound her to get up and attend class, take a shower, clean up after herself and my dog if she want to play with him while I'm at work/school. This isn't just with me, but it's worse when she's with any of my other family members. She's failing homeschool but she and my mom don't want her to be enrolled in public school, which has more structure. Any advice?

I have an older brother who used to torture me every day when we were younger. I'm 16 now and he's 20. When I was like 4, he would just lie and get me in trouble and I can't tell you how many times I had almost everything taken away and got spanked and just had a miserable time from then to like age 12. It was misery. And as I get older, I had NO trust and NO privileges ever, I had like no friends at all, because I wasn't ever allowed to do stuff! He also always used to push me around, hit me, throw stuff at me. The only thing that stopped him doing that was actually beating the **** out of him one time, which caused me to get a violent shoe whacking. That was when we were younger and now, as I'm a teenager, he still causes me trouble. He has lied a thousand times about me doing stuff, like drinking, doing drugs, having sex, stuff I've never done, but when I spend a day doing stuff for fun, he lies and ruins it. I hold such a ******* grudge against him. All he's done has made me so pissed off. I can't stand him. I don't feel like I have a right to be angry, because my parents always get mad at me and tell me I'm being childish and that I need to get over my issues and let him be. I just want some sort of confirmation of either me being right or wrong I don't care, I just want to know. Am I seriously just a raging psychopath? Or am I right for being so pissed off?

She had to many eggnocks and we begged her not to go. When we found her Christmas morning at the scene of the attack, she had footprints over her forehead. I am so devasted, this is the first I've been able to right about it.

I'll start off with recent examples of their outbursts: 1. My dad and I commute to work everyday in the same car. It was icy today. This left the car unable to move, and we were unable to leave the house. He pounded on the steering wheel multiple times, and screamed hoarsely. It was really uncomfortable. 2. My mom, this morning said, "You ate the last breadstick, [my name]? There goes my breakfast! Why did you think I told you you couldn't have it yesterday?!" I said, "I thought there were more, and you had them yesterday..." She then screamed, "NOW I MADE ALL THIS F***ING COFFEE FOR NOTHING! THANKS A LOT, [my name]!" 3. Sometimes they'll bicker and then my dad will storm off into the basement (his work area) and madly cackle and scream in frustration. My mom will berate him and have 0 empathy a lot of the time. My dad will kind of say rude things about her under his breath sometimes. This does not seem healthy. I'm 18 and have noticed this behavior worsening...are anyone else's parents like this?

So my mother has need chatting with this guy on Facebook. He is sending we really pervert and inappropriate messages. Recently I found out she has a wife and a kid. Should I text his wife and tell her? For the past 8 years my mom had a abusive boyfriend. I don't want the same thing to happen again. And this guy is cheating on his wife. I've read the whole conversation and I want to cry. Please someone help me, what do I do?

I asked about how to handle him before. But things have gotten worse. I'm a guy.I turned 17 last week. I don't work where I used to, because my dad forced me to work somewhere else. I'm stuck at a stupid food place that I hate, I used to work with animals and it made me so happy to have a distraction from everything. He used to make me sit on my hands and just yelled at me a lot when i did something he didn't like but last night, I got into an argument with him over my hair and he grabbed my hair and slapped me in the face hard enough my face is still sore today and dragged me upstairs. The first time he actually hit me was a couple weeks ago, like 2 weeks. I'm COMPLETELY deaf in my right ear, and he was talking to me and I couldn't tell. I really couldn't tell, I don't ignore people, I never mean to. And he grabbed my hair and jerked my head back and yelled at me. It felt like he snapped my neck and should have walked away with a fistful of my hair. He still makes me pay him for rent. I still don't get to see my friends a lot. He threatens to hit me now and honestly, I'm terrified so I just do anything he says. I've never been hit by someone like that before. It wasn't discipline, it feels like hate. I'm almost starting to feel suicidal. I'm so miserable. I have nothing left. He takes everything I care about from me. Everything. I don't know what to do now. I don't want to get taken away because I have no one to go to. I'm really terrified. I'm grateful for any advice.