Hi! This is a super long story, so i'm going to try to keep it as short as possible. I've been married to my husband for almost 2 years (this year). We got married when I was 21 and he was 20 years old. Now that I'm looking back on it, that was stupid as hell of me. But I was madly in love with him and I thought that there was no one who could treat me better than he could and there was no one that could be more amazing than him. He's in the military and on deployment right now on a ship and this is our first big deployment as a couple (so far he's been gone 5 months). He should be back in 2 months. But here is where my problem begins. The night he deployed I was devastated. I cried for days on end and I was just so sad without him beside me. Nevertheless, I moved into our new apt, continued going to school (im a senior in college), and i've been trying to go out with my friends. Now we're months into his deployment and I started feeling REALLY weird. Somethin hit me like a ton of bricks: all my friends out here are single and i'm literally the only one married. I'm from the south where like everyone is married haha and now on the west coast its not like that. That made me start thinking about how maybe i shouldve listened to my parents and dated for awhile longer. My husband and I were only dating a few months before getting married. Honestly, I don't know what to do because I don't really miss him. I know that sounds terrible. I love him dearly like the thought of hurting him kills me... but I can't help but think that I made a big mistake getting married TOO young. He doesn't think we did. He's 100% okay with it and I just feel so trapped. I don't want to disappoint him or my family. They love him. I just don't know what to do. Should I still stay with him? I'm 23 and I feel like I've retired my life for someone too soon. He's been calling and texting me about him coming home and I just cringe at thought of him coming back and me not feeling 100% in love with him. Is what I'm feeling normal? Or is it just FOMO (fear of missing out)?

and while they are flirting, some poor sap is paying all the bills, lovely

I don't know if I'm being too heartless but my husband's grandmother died and he wants to attend the funeral. The problem is, flights are really expensive and this isn't the best time for us to be spending money. I don't mind him going but we really can't afford for him to spend anything to just get there. He is looking for deals but the cheapest flights are about $400 and he would have to rent a car and still drive a couple hours to get there. So ultimately he will still end up paying that $600 or so if he had flown into the closest airport and not rented a car. That doesn't account for hotel stay or any other expenses while there either. This is starting to look like a $800-1000 trip and we have some money in savings but not much and it's certainly not in the budget. I could see stretching the budget if he had been close to this grandmother, but he wasn't really even that close to her. Am I just heartless? What would you do? Two of you said he might be going to support someone at the funeral who is alive, and that makes sense to me. I would understand him attending if that's why. I'll talk to him. Thanks!

I can't believe it. She looks 60 and she's barely 40. She used to be so beautiful in the past. What happened?

Without further ado Im just going to put it all out there.... I married who I thought was the man of my dreams, but discovered he had a large hairy mole on his penis upon intimacy. I was not disappointed by his penis size, just the size of the mole that takes over the majority of his penis. I knew with my decision I was taking a leap of faith, but this went well beyond my thoughts of potential disappointments. On my wedding night, I secluded myself in the bathroom and wept for hours. And, its not getting easier....he is so horny, and wants sex multiple times a day. My last vision during sex was me spontaniously combusting because that mole produced so much friction. I mean, am I going to blow up?? I have vomited a few times all thanks to this mole that actually has hair growing out of it. Is this grounds for divorce? I cant even look at his face without his penis mole taking over. It might be in my head, but I swear it smells like cheese... Has anyone else out there had to deal with such a predicament? If so, what did you do to block out the awful brown stain?

I been sad about it because i feel all my friends are giving birth by 30.I dont feel ready to be a parent right now, maybe in 3 more years (marriage/kids) and im scared that will be too late.

What would make a man at a job move his car from across the property (office) to park next to an attractive girl every day? The guy even acts as if he does not know that the car he parks next to is the attractive woman's, although he has talked to her at her car and came out and looked at her when she is in her car. What does this mean? The parking lot has plenty of spaces, but he has to have that spot next to this person.

I am nineteen years old, we have been married for more than one year and less than two years. We do not own a house or have kids. Not financially intertwined.

OK so I put my husband younger than me as my slave for three months. He had to dress in chains naked. And he did all the work around the house and he escaoed yesterday and now he wants to divorce me. He got his stuff and left I want him to come back to keep working for me. How do I convince him that I'm not a bad woman. PLease serious answers please! ASAP Oh yeah and I made him quit his job to be my slave.

My fiance had a messed up childhood. Messy divorce..his mom remarried and he has 3 step brothers- when he turned 18 move out on his own.. any way- I Found out there is a couple ( husband and wife)that he used to work for at an after school program ( when he was 15-20.) That was almost like a second family to him. He was very involved with them. Would help take care of their kids etc.. I saw him texting the wife ( who apprently is like his female best friend and who also happens to be a very attractive 45 year old). asking if she got the invite to our wedding. But he messages her saying hi my love i miss you! And she laughed miss you too!! me and paul ( her husband) were just saying how we miss you!..and he went on to saying how i guess my dream isnt going to come through that you and paul will get a divorce and i get to marry you .. and he put LOL and funny faces.. and she just laughed youre nuts!! He also messages her husband too so its not a secret..but there seems to be some sort of inside joke that he likes her..bc the husband wrote to him when he heard we were getting married..guess youre not going to come get my wife huh? And my fiance would say with hearts..shes my favorite. and they laugh..but i just find the whole relationship odd? also, he deleted the message so I wouldnt see it. When i asked him he said we have a funny relationship how we act..but i was so close to them for hard part of my life. I havent met them yet...he said soon.

I am a married 35yo man. Before married both me and my wife (who already had a kid from a previous marriage who was 7 at the time we met) said we wanted a baby with me. Now (5 years later) she says she changed her mind because she is in med school and "would not be able to study while pregnant" according to her (even though she already did, since she already has a degree in engineering) We're both 35. Our relationship has never been stable, but I do love her. So, would it be unfair to divorce her just for the fact that I do want a baby? would that make me a horrible person? I know that I could give in and accept to have no kids but I feel I'd end up hating myself for it and quite possibly even her. I don't want that. And I also feel if she does end up accepting to have a baby, it would be just to avoid the divorce. So honestly, I see no solution here. Update: Me and my wife did reach a point in our relationship where things are if not stable, looking up. But the whole baby thing is a problem. Also, I even adopted my step kid and is now my legitimate son. He's 15. We get along great. Update 2: By the time she's done with med school and hoping she won't flunk any more courses, she'd be almost, if not 40, which is obviously risky. And nothing guarantees she'd want a baby then, I guess

Ok so I like this girl. She's 16 and I'm 15 (It's ok if this question gets disregarded because of this.) And I think she's really hot. She was in my band class but then she moved up a band. So that makes it harder. I've never talked to her before. I'm nervous around girls, so I don't know what to say to her. And how can I prevent myself from stuttering when talking to her. I need advice please thanks! Oh yeah and there's this one kid who plays the same instrument as her and we hate each other. I don't want him to find out or make fun of me. What should I do about him. Even though I don't think they talk to each other. I'm puttin this under marriage for amture answers. And nobody ever answers answers in singles and dating.

We met in our local gym and she initiated contact with me. We were just talking until she asked for my number. The flirting started and we ended up being intimate. She lives a few blocks from me so the affair has been pretty easy. Her husband is at work all day and her kids are in school. I recently saw her in a car with another guy and I got really jealous. I followed them to his apartment but didn't let her know. She also talk to this guy quite a bit in the gym. I have no doubt she's also sleeping with maybe one more guy but I didn't bother proving it because I just know she's a liar. Should I just completely walk away or talk to her husband (anonymously)? We've been sleeping together for 3 months. I like her but I'm not inlove with her. Sex was fun and it's even better because she's a MILF who is just pretty. She's 42 and I'm 28. The other guys seem to be my age. Advise? Yeah- hypocrite me.

She's 25 and dating a 36 year old man that makes 200,000/year. She is in law school and is so pretty.