Id like to hear some advice from married men and women. Im having a hard time understanding what it means to be married.

You did exactly what you're supposed to do like a good boy.

Yesterday I was working a closing shift and I noticed that the guy I liked and I talked more than usual. Usually he only says hi to me but anyway yesterday I accidentally walked in on a costumer peeing because he forgot to locked the doors and I guess he noticed that I was cracking up and when the guy came out he apologized and I was like next time you should locked the door lol he heard the convo and asked if I walked in on him and I said yes, I walked in on him peeing and by the time I had to leave i forgot to clock in so I told my manager I came in at 5:15 and he kept on saying why you lying Cassie, and even when I was looking at the schedule I could still hear him in the back saying why you lying Cassie lol. and that's the most we talked since I started working. Was he teasing me or was just kinda bored and wanted to try and annoy me. This is all new to me, and I don't want to think ahead and it's hard to focus because he's so attractive and I try so hard not to constantly look at him

To be honest people have been draining me for the past good Ole ******* 4 years. I remember I dealt with them less up until 2013 ish. Not that I can't be a person who is built uo and positive and all but I don't want to be around people anymore. I'm lied to, taken advantage of disrespected and people in my family try to always overpower me over nothing. But they fail each and every time. I haven't ever had real friends. I've had a few aquintances is all. I had a girl friend and we had feelings for eachother but we had a fall out and I know Deep down we both still have feelings for eachother but she won't contact me back. Probably the last person I ever felt most close to besides my younger siblings who I wanted to just be cool with and care for because I didn't want to abandon anyone or be too distant with them. Any 'friends' I've ever had have just tried to use me for things and at times did but I still set boundaries. I set boundaries of myself with many people and they dislike it. Not gonna control me, not gonna walk all over me. I'm a kind person but I won't let that happen unless I see a good reason and usually I don't. Not to be so self pitying here but all this is true. And I've been reinventing myself since I've been done with high school past year and a half. Learning about people more than anything and just building myself up. I'm not suicidal. I feel more suicidal around people who give me b.s constantly. I've only felt comfortable with the girl. Tbh...

I want to go to another school , I told them about 2 schools and they think it's too expensive:/ they made me feel bad , and now I told them about another school not expensive and they agreed but they won't let me travel next summer :/ they want me to choose between the school or to travel in summer , I don't know what to do I have to leave my school it's the worst school in the whole world And also I want to travel

I m 18 and nearly finished with my nursing course at a community college. My instructor has been so helpful, and I respect her so much. I was wondering what kind of gift I could give her as a thank you. She knows I like art, so at first I was going to paint her something on a tiny canvas, but that isn t working, and I also don t want her to feel like she HAS to keep it, especially if she doesn t like it. Letters from students can seem wierd, but is a simple thank you card ok? She s just so awesome and I feel like a card doesn t justify how thankful I am of her, but I don t want her to feel like she s obligated to keep something from me. Is a 4x4 painting too much? Any other ideas? Thanks in advance!

I am a girl

Last night I came home and my mom started arguing with me about something small, and throughout the evening it kept getting worse until we were both yelling and calling each other out. At one point she got in my face and was yelling, and then tried to grab my arm when I moved away. That's when I reached my breaking point and I slapped her in the face and shoved her away. I'm fully aware that it was wrong and I do feel bad for hitting a female, however, she made it out to be more dramatic than it was and played the victim after she was the one who got in my face. Today I told her that I was sorry, and she ignored me and never once apologized for what she did. She's still pissed tonight and refuses to speak to me. She called my dad to tell him what I did and completely left out everything that she did, and then threatened to ground me and not let me visit him next week for spring break. I'm not a horrible person but she's making me out to be one. What should I do?

So at my new restaurant, we had to role play pretending to talk to costumers and of my manager pretended to be a costumer and we had to ask them if they were enjoying their meal and when I was up, I felt so weird and awkward about the whole thing so first I said how are you liking your meal sir and my manager said it's good thanks and after that I ran out of things to say so I paused for a bit and then randomly said what do you like about it lol and started cracking up and he kinda looked down and smiled like he was annoyed or was he kind of laughing with me? It's hard to tell. Anyway, after that all ever does is say hi to me every time he sees me, and this one I was cleaning the walls in the back by myself and he randomly said hi Lisa and it startled me for a minute I was like you scared me, and he said it back like I scared you, I'm not that ugly and i really wanted to say something back like are you sure about that but I figured it would've have been professional anyway, I think deep down I annoy him cause even when he says hi Lisa there's no expression on his face lol it's so hard when all you want to do is flirt with someone but you can't cause you're at work

I don't have a reasonable explaination like anxiety or anything like that, I'm just a failure. I've tried everything I can to improve, but nothing works. I can't make friends (I've even tried through social anxiety websites, and they reject me too), I'll never have a boyfriend, and even though I'm currently studying at Uni, I'll probably never get a job due to my social failure. As this is the case, is my best opinion suicide? Also, I'm not fishing for compliments or help, I just want advice about if suicide is my best opinion, or if there's any other way I could get by independently without social skills (maybe take on crappy night shift job?). Thanks

I think because I am shy I am more of a target for this bully boss. this person is so charming and nice with many others but constantly snapping at me, acting like I'm stupid, and getting aggravated with me. today I snapped back a little. I am afraid I will end up cussing the boss out and getting fired. But I also don't want to be weak and let them run all over me. what is the best response every time they behave this way?

I just got home from taking my boyfriend home. Since I did not get out of my car and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

My PTSD bf broke up with me its been about two weeks now. He told me he had It fewer weeks in our relationship. And one day he just stop talking to me and put me on the block list and like he did this time block my number again .To be honest he bipolar and sometimes he can be aggressive and he like to rough playing and he's very biploar and I kinda biploar but i can control myself. So this past Sunday I text him and said I missed him because I did and I still do. So Monday he kinda saw because he have family members live in my subdivision (that's how we met). So Tuesday I accidentally sent him a emoji on Tango. And then a hour later he sent me I miss you boo and blowing me kisses, text message and kik me Facebook trying to get my attention. Saying hey , wyd... So he has been trying to come over my house saying he wants to spend time with me and watch movies. And then yesterday he said am I feeling him tonight do I want him to come over. But I want to but we need to talk big time I just can't deal with it or does he realize what he doing. I know that he wants sex with me. Plus I'm talking to someone's to get my mind. And I like this other guy. I don't want to tell him he probably will snap on on me because the condition he has. One day he was saying I will snap your neck . I dont be scared to go to sleep with him the things he say something not right he has depression he just stop talking to me he was in Iraq and Afghanistan for three years. He will just ignore me then talk to me then stop talking to me. Then try to be with me again

After having a stroke and watching people around me make bad choices or do selfish things, it was all quite unfair. However, sometimes I see these very people get their just desserts. For example, the selfish relatives that spent time on vacations while my family suffered is now experiencing a little of what we went through in having our lives invaded/taken over by bullsh!t health issues. I now wonder if the ex- boyfriend that unceremoniously dumped me after I almost died, will get his just desserts as well. Any thoughts or advice on that? Thanks in advance!(unless you're mean to me)

Id like to hear some advice from married men and women. Im having a hard time understanding what it means to be married.

You did exactly what you're supposed to do like a good boy.

Yesterday I was working a closing shift and I noticed that the guy I liked and I talked more than usual. Usually he only says hi to me but anyway yesterday I accidentally walked in on a costumer peeing because he forgot to locked the doors and I guess he noticed that I was cracking up and when the guy came out he apologized and I was like next time you should locked the door lol he heard the convo and asked if I walked in on him and I said yes, I walked in on him peeing and by the time I had to leave i forgot to clock in so I told my manager I came in at 5:15 and he kept on saying why you lying Cassie, and even when I was looking at the schedule I could still hear him in the back saying why you lying Cassie lol. and that's the most we talked since I started working. Was he teasing me or was just kinda bored and wanted to try and annoy me. This is all new to me, and I don't want to think ahead and it's hard to focus because he's so attractive and I try so hard not to constantly look at him

To be honest people have been draining me for the past good Ole ******* 4 years. I remember I dealt with them less up until 2013 ish. Not that I can't be a person who is built uo and positive and all but I don't want to be around people anymore. I'm lied to, taken advantage of disrespected and people in my family try to always overpower me over nothing. But they fail each and every time. I haven't ever had real friends. I've had a few aquintances is all. I had a girl friend and we had feelings for eachother but we had a fall out and I know Deep down we both still have feelings for eachother but she won't contact me back. Probably the last person I ever felt most close to besides my younger siblings who I wanted to just be cool with and care for because I didn't want to abandon anyone or be too distant with them. Any 'friends' I've ever had have just tried to use me for things and at times did but I still set boundaries. I set boundaries of myself with many people and they dislike it. Not gonna control me, not gonna walk all over me. I'm a kind person but I won't let that happen unless I see a good reason and usually I don't. Not to be so self pitying here but all this is true. And I've been reinventing myself since I've been done with high school past year and a half. Learning about people more than anything and just building myself up. I'm not suicidal. I feel more suicidal around people who give me b.s constantly. I've only felt comfortable with the girl. Tbh...

I want to go to another school , I told them about 2 schools and they think it's too expensive:/ they made me feel bad , and now I told them about another school not expensive and they agreed but they won't let me travel next summer :/ they want me to choose between the school or to travel in summer , I don't know what to do I have to leave my school it's the worst school in the whole world And also I want to travel

I m 18 and nearly finished with my nursing course at a community college. My instructor has been so helpful, and I respect her so much. I was wondering what kind of gift I could give her as a thank you. She knows I like art, so at first I was going to paint her something on a tiny canvas, but that isn t working, and I also don t want her to feel like she HAS to keep it, especially if she doesn t like it. Letters from students can seem wierd, but is a simple thank you card ok? She s just so awesome and I feel like a card doesn t justify how thankful I am of her, but I don t want her to feel like she s obligated to keep something from me. Is a 4x4 painting too much? Any other ideas? Thanks in advance!

I am a girl

Last night I came home and my mom started arguing with me about something small, and throughout the evening it kept getting worse until we were both yelling and calling each other out. At one point she got in my face and was yelling, and then tried to grab my arm when I moved away. That's when I reached my breaking point and I slapped her in the face and shoved her away. I'm fully aware that it was wrong and I do feel bad for hitting a female, however, she made it out to be more dramatic than it was and played the victim after she was the one who got in my face. Today I told her that I was sorry, and she ignored me and never once apologized for what she did. She's still pissed tonight and refuses to speak to me. She called my dad to tell him what I did and completely left out everything that she did, and then threatened to ground me and not let me visit him next week for spring break. I'm not a horrible person but she's making me out to be one. What should I do?

So at my new restaurant, we had to role play pretending to talk to costumers and of my manager pretended to be a costumer and we had to ask them if they were enjoying their meal and when I was up, I felt so weird and awkward about the whole thing so first I said how are you liking your meal sir and my manager said it's good thanks and after that I ran out of things to say so I paused for a bit and then randomly said what do you like about it lol and started cracking up and he kinda looked down and smiled like he was annoyed or was he kind of laughing with me? It's hard to tell. Anyway, after that all ever does is say hi to me every time he sees me, and this one I was cleaning the walls in the back by myself and he randomly said hi Lisa and it startled me for a minute I was like you scared me, and he said it back like I scared you, I'm not that ugly and i really wanted to say something back like are you sure about that but I figured it would've have been professional anyway, I think deep down I annoy him cause even when he says hi Lisa there's no expression on his face lol it's so hard when all you want to do is flirt with someone but you can't cause you're at work

I don't have a reasonable explaination like anxiety or anything like that, I'm just a failure. I've tried everything I can to improve, but nothing works. I can't make friends (I've even tried through social anxiety websites, and they reject me too), I'll never have a boyfriend, and even though I'm currently studying at Uni, I'll probably never get a job due to my social failure. As this is the case, is my best opinion suicide? Also, I'm not fishing for compliments or help, I just want advice about if suicide is my best opinion, or if there's any other way I could get by independently without social skills (maybe take on crappy night shift job?). Thanks

I think because I am shy I am more of a target for this bully boss. this person is so charming and nice with many others but constantly snapping at me, acting like I'm stupid, and getting aggravated with me. today I snapped back a little. I am afraid I will end up cussing the boss out and getting fired. But I also don't want to be weak and let them run all over me. what is the best response every time they behave this way?

I just got home from taking my boyfriend home. Since I did not get out of my car and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

My PTSD bf broke up with me its been about two weeks now. He told me he had It fewer weeks in our relationship. And one day he just stop talking to me and put me on the block list and like he did this time block my number again .To be honest he bipolar and sometimes he can be aggressive and he like to rough playing and he's very biploar and I kinda biploar but i can control myself. So this past Sunday I text him and said I missed him because I did and I still do. So Monday he kinda saw because he have family members live in my subdivision (that's how we met). So Tuesday I accidentally sent him a emoji on Tango. And then a hour later he sent me I miss you boo and blowing me kisses, text message and kik me Facebook trying to get my attention. Saying hey , wyd... So he has been trying to come over my house saying he wants to spend time with me and watch movies. And then yesterday he said am I feeling him tonight do I want him to come over. But I want to but we need to talk big time I just can't deal with it or does he realize what he doing. I know that he wants sex with me. Plus I'm talking to someone's to get my mind. And I like this other guy. I don't want to tell him he probably will snap on on me because the condition he has. One day he was saying I will snap your neck . I dont be scared to go to sleep with him the things he say something not right he has depression he just stop talking to me he was in Iraq and Afghanistan for three years. He will just ignore me then talk to me then stop talking to me. Then try to be with me again

After having a stroke and watching people around me make bad choices or do selfish things, it was all quite unfair. However, sometimes I see these very people get their just desserts. For example, the selfish relatives that spent time on vacations while my family suffered is now experiencing a little of what we went through in having our lives invaded/taken over by bullsh!t health issues. I now wonder if the ex- boyfriend that unceremoniously dumped me after I almost died, will get his just desserts as well. Any thoughts or advice on that? Thanks in advance!(unless you're mean to me)